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Spherical77:
I beg to disagree @bolded

My course mate and also a friend in school told me how she met a man immediately after her secondary School. This man was in his mid 30s while she was just 18. This man spoilt her silly. The love the man had for her was pretty much. She was also in love with this man. This man gave her life that her parents couldn't afford because she was from a poor home. This man washes her panties with her monthly flow. This man spoilt not only her but her friends and people around her. He proposed to marry her and she gladly accepted. She's from Abia while the guy is from Imo state. He wanted to come and meet her people for marriage and other neccesities. This my friend was also in love with this guy also. Her family stood their ground that she would never get married at this young age without education. Though the guy promised to see her through school. To cut

Walkee:
boys of 12 would gladly get married if they could find a wife. Which woman would marry a 12 years old boy?
You online people like to pretend as if women don't only marry a man who can slave his life away to an early grave in order to provide for them. If this 44 years old man didn't have money and probably a good car and respectable house and financial stability you think the 17 years old would be dying to marry him?
What ethics are you even talking about?
What's the difference between a 17 years old girl and an 18 years old girl? Most 16 years old girls already know everything about sex, abortion etc. A 16 years old girl is the equivalent of a 26 years old boy when it comes to sex. If she gets pregnant for the man, is the omniscient elder brother going to rip the foetus out of her womb?

Tzar:
You are partially wrong.
1. Generally, all women are physically & physiologically ready for marriage at 16yrs.
2. They are legally ready at 18yrs.
3. Finally, mentally they are ready at different ages between 18yrs and infinity
You could be 40yrs and be mentally immature for marriage and be 18yrs and mentally ready for marriage.

The difference in age counts for nothing. There are many 18+ who married and had a lifelong of a great marriage and 40yrs + whose marriage did not last 48hrs.

BRATISLAVA:
Even in 2-3 years she will not be mature for marriage. Marriage was not made for teenagers and people barely out of their teens.

All the old men predating on teenage girls know why they do so. It is never for her. Selfishness in men didn't begin today.

Walkee:
that's a lie. Some states in Nigeria accept 16 years old as adults. All the northerners publicly marrying 12 years olds what has anyone done about it? Majority of married women married below 17 years of age. Girls below 17 gets pregnant everyday and give birth there's nothing anyone can do about it. You think I'm emotional like you? I don't even like children to begin with, if she gets pregnant at 16 am I going to kill her?

Amotolongbo:
I am not the cause of your parents’ life misfortune

post=109993297:
Fisherman soup from the stable of dem [b][/b]

Creditalerts:
Beans and unripe plantain with fish sauce

Halcyon123:
Good afternoon

saphiere:
I don't have plan B. I know the God I am serving. My plan A must work for me. He promised me through His words (Bible) that he will grant all my heart desires. I desire to have a decent home and raise wonderful kids to His glory.

Once you think of plan B, you have limited your God.



How many people in the Bible did God make a Rev Sister?

My God is not like Nigerian men who have double mouth. My God will never say a thing and then do the opposite. My God has already told me that I will leave my father's house and join with my soulmate and the two shall become one.

So tell me who God will plan for me not to get married when He has said that I will leave my father's house to my husband's house.

everythinggirly:
Lol. Not for me tho

Amotolongbo:
Hello!
17year old girl is old enough to be handed out in marriage.
What does a 17year old girl know about a relationship and life? Please who has the manual to a relationship or life?
If knowledge about relationship is by age, why do women who married or get engaged in their 30s have failed marriage or relationship?

The OP here is a brother and not a father or mother. So what else can a brother do when the father and mother are in support of handling out the girl in marriage after registering his displeasure?

@your question if it was my daughter, I will not allow it. The right of a parent is far higher than that of a brother in the family.
But if I am a brother what else can I do than register my displeasure and leave them if the parents and the sister are adamant?

ShenTeh:
Our people say that when your roommate chooses to have a troublesome meal, your warning is often the loudest because you know that the troubles of his guts would hinder your peaceful sleep at night.

I had a very similar issue. In my case it was with my immediate elder sister and a man 21 years older. As the eldest son in the family, I kicked and kicked and kept saying our dad would never approve were he alive. Our uncles and everyone kept attacking my young post-teenage mind and I saw it as an excuse to discharge the burden of poverty. My sister would cry and cry that that was what she wanted and our mum was thoroughly blackmailed and eventually gave in.

Keep shouting like the prophets of old, they won't listen. Today, I am the one taking care of the orphans from that union.

Let her.

Oyiboman69:
she can still go to school even in the marriage or after given birth...that guy is just being unreasonable and selfish at the same time. Does he think he is more experience than all the older ones who has not be siding him?

BRATISLAVA:
The chicken has come home to roost.

Could this be the same forum where all the males say they want to make money and that men don't grow old, and that they will marry a teenager when they want to get married as old men with some change?

Could it be the same forum that whenever underage sex and marriage comes up, the red pill congregation come out to say there is nothing against it in Nigerian law? The same forum that old men who preach polygamy come out to advocate child marriage because there's nothing wrong with it when their libido is doing the thinking?

Could this be the same forum where males abuse and curse females endlessly, yet they have sisters in worse situations?

Why is what is happening suddenly unacceptable when it is the general fantasy to find a young virgin girl who is barely out of her teens for marriage and a show rs at

princewarri1985:
your sister happiness is the number one priority here, if they are both happy then let them be as long he can take care of her, stop being a stumbing block, and dont you know that matured men are more responsible and they also take good care of their women! If the guy is rich are you not happy that he is going to die quick so that your sister can inherit everything? Wow! What a time to be alive and also a man! Because once a girl don cross 30 years he own don finish, but a 65 years old man can marry an 18 year old girl. Am 40 now and i non dey rush for marriage because i can even marry a hot 16 year old girl when am ready, right now i even have a very hot 18 year old girl am even dating now and some couple of others.

ufotty2001:
The man will really enjoy the girl because her puss.y is still fresh and sweet not all these fairly used puss.y we have today.

Iretii0511:
Of course. If that’s what she chose. I only won’t stop supporting her despite being married.

See, early marriage is great. It doesn’t stop anyone who has the right background to succeed. It only become a problem if neither the parent nor the spouse has the financial capability to support the marrying teenager.

With a good plan, @ 25 she’s done with child bearing and can focus on building a career without the burden of pregnancy.

otherway:
Why can't he wait till she is 18?

Guy Once she is 18 and she still wants him, please let her be. Age is only a number.

wallymore:
she is better than ladies doing series of fornication and adulterous. in the eyes of God. what matters is that they should love their self. that's what God want.

Mercychen:
Let her be! Or do you have a husband for her?

Like your Mom said, if it makes her happy, so be it.

The ones that Married their age mate/grade, are they any happier or fufilled?

She's the one going there. Not you. Whatever she encounters there is not going to affect you ( directly), so look away or you too go and marry a smally .

Mercychen:
Let her be! Or do you have a husband for her?

Like your Mom said, if it makes her happy, so be it.

The ones that Married their age mate/grade, are they any happier or fufilled?

She's the one going there. Not you. Whatever she encounters there is not going to affect you ( directly), so look away or you too go and marry a smally .

Tokskob2008:
17 to 44, the difference is way too much but then if they are both ok with each other I see no issue there since no one is forcing her to marry the man.

It's her life, let her make her choice and live with whatever the outcome is no be you go marry her abi so let her be!!

folake4u:
Oga Sam, them nor fit try am oh.

Allisgud:
See wetin dat idiot Mr eazy dey nack daily, chai the thing just vex me

phemmyfour:
Cuppy is talentless She no Sabi sing.... She no Sabi do DJ

Sermwell:
You go just come here dey find trouble! Dem go beat you for here one day!

KingDash:
useless simp

uunwanaobong3:
Personally, I prefer male children.........

1) Female children are usually very costly and highly demanding and sensitive to maintain,,, but a male child can easily be maintained even without food.
2) female children are highly troublesome, they usually bring problem outside to their parents...... They also attract uninvited guest and bring undue attention and problems to their parents.
3) after suffering to trained a stubborn female child, ..one useless motherfucker will just come and bounce into your compound, and boldly demand that you give her away in marriage with the sum of 500k, and if you refused, the bad girl will just run away from the house and live with the man for free and then you lose everything.......... Female children are bad market because most times, they are not profitable.
4) after marriage, they will completely changed their name away from the family name and then the family linage is gone.


These are the reasons why male children are better than female children.

Enemyofpeace:
I like doggie style

Michelle55:
A boy and a girl! One is cooking in the oven already!

saphiere:
Girls