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kimon

Sai buhari!

mysticgal:
Hmmm.. Yea

I wouldn't mind meeting you.

I want you to come and use that your mum's method on me.

How about that?

Good!


They should go and defend themselves.



He should tell the court how's he's been hunted simply because he asked the dss to release Kanu.


Idiat!

mysticgal:
Start reading from BESIDES

kimon!



Mysticgal? I think I know this person. A contestant? A bursty one at that?

RadicallyBlunt:
Op be cautious of the way you follow the advises above me o. You just said ur hubby wasn't like this before but now he's showing his color at d slightest provocation. Who knows...you may think taking the above steps will calm him down but turn out to make things worse and these so called advicers would not be there to help your marriage. A man with a child can still remarry o but an after-one woman may find it difficult.

Even if you're young blooded with radicality i still advice you to use a better approach not because ur husband is d head blabla but because you dont want to go thru a long marriage palava so early in life. Because if he takes d matter to his family he will not say he started it first. And your own family have received your total bride price...eaten it sef. So

Calm your anger, talk to him heart-to-heart first, if that doesnt work, you can talk to your pastor or snr in-laws that have good sense of reasoning too...this is essential. Let them know you told them first so that when you take action, it will have deep effect and impression. Don't be deceived with the "no 3rd party" advice for new couples. There are some things you may actually need some one for. what matters is the kinda 3rd person you involve and of course not always.

Besides what you're going thru is normal in the first 1-2yrs of marriage. Both of you will stabilize soon

@thewife306 , listen to this advice. Reacting angrily won't solve it , not even when your husband is like me: when you run mad at me , I keep quiet and make the toughest of decisions.

Like Buddha said, "you can't prevent people from making you angry, what you can control is your reaction".


Who knows? Maybe the problem is coming from you. Check what you were doing pre-marital that you're not doing anymore or correctly( be it nice s3x , hairdo, cleanliness , drrssing etc).

mysticgal:
I know we are not supposed to wash dirty linens outside. But this happened with my mum and she shouted back. Like I remember her saying "orrrr, are you OK? Don't ever shout at me again" and even if my dad is mad, he would never do such.
I don't know if it's the right to do but I'd do the same thing my mum did. Besides you should know your husband and how he takes correction, and It's not right to scold you in public.
All the best....

you think that it works on your dad it will work on any man out there? Sandy thought!

nwabobo:
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we know Reno is on nairaland .

overhypedsteve:
Lol. Wish we have always had men like him that bothered less on their own luxury.

true!

obiageIi:
Been around, Nairaland is boring these days

true! The number of asinines has increased on the forum.

BrainnewsNg:
Good one there

So what is the way forward?

the way forward: my reply below is what I think should be done.

BIDOO:
hmm, still wondering why you reason like this ! You mean by carrying gauge upadan?

does FRSC go around with "speed-regulating" device before they regulate motorists?

I'm talking about enlightenment, a body should be formed through which the authority can reach them and, they must have the license to operate after being certified by an agency under which they fall through presentation of needed equipment to operate and meet the standard.

DonaTee:
so dat they will start arresting n ticketing ignorant n innocent pple?
even d vio n road safety car tyres r pumped to 45/50

Mass public education n jingles is d right n first step in such issues

BIDOO:
hmm, still wondering why you reason like this ! You mean by carrying gauge upadan?

does FRSC go around with "speed-regulating" device before they regulate motorists?

I'm talking about enlightenment, a body should be formed through which the authority can reach them and, they must have the license to operate after being certified by an agency under which they fall through presentation of needed equipment to operate and meet the standard.

Mimienudles:
my thoughts exactly, see as she stand like say person born and happiness dey everywhere

I just tire!

swagifted:
ahhh... Baba my eye open for this area..

that's importance of NYSC.

swagifted:
But mans gat to Street it out.. So i met a couple of talented guys that farmed ginger in ugwa rana.. They had a land..and i invested a whole lot of my savings into the practice, (remember that time fertlizer prices jumped).. I was footing the bills (this agriculture thing no easy oo).
This was THE STAGE they were, when i was posted.

nice one. This is what our country needs right now.



I've never seen ginger farm or its plants before.

Lol @ small Lagos!

That babe in the picture though. she looks too calm to be around that patient.

Hillary Clinton won the popular vote by more than 200,000 votes, but because of the electoral college, she still lost.

Look at this injustice! America is fraudulently the mother of democracy.

Steve and Reince are highly qualified leaders who worked well together on our campaign and led us to a historic victory. Now I will have them both with me in the White House as we work to make America great again.”

unlike our own abba kyari.


this man sure knows where he's going.

crestedaguiyi:
Joker's.

There is a quiet trembling in the arab world. They are about to lose another bet.

Did the foolish Obama even remember it's the college vote that won him the election in 2012 and not the popular vote.

Seems he is an APC member

after the last count , did you check to see where the figure stood? He was in early lead with the electoral college , and romney led with the votes, but after the last count, he had the majority of voters.

America is crumbling gradually.

Donphilopus

Who cares?

“If men of good conscience, especially leading lights in the legal profession refuse to raise their voices against this tyranny, they will all be consumed by the tyrant.”

This is coming from the headless donkey who organized thugs to beat up a judge in his state

He should say something else. We are tired of hearing this.

If you don't do skin-to-skin before, you go know what this means.

No one is regulating them. Isn't there where road safety and VIO should start from?

Why do men find women to indulge in cheating with?

He doesn't sound like he ever appeared like this- so authoritative.