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MJBOLT:

what about the girl that's pregnant for you?

omo na she i want to wife oh, the thing is no be so I want all this to be, I been just want somebody wey I fit hang with while on training, it's five months already and I have never been intimate with any of them self.

OK Hi guys I been trying to get a job for the past few years but all my effort was fruitless not until now that i was able to get one. Before I can start the job fully I will have to go through a six month intensive training, during training I met this lady from katsina state she is hausa, very nice to me although she was older than me but I liked her and we became very close it got to and extent that I started developing feelings for her and I told her, she then asked me series of questions about why I choose her, do I know she is older? She went further and told me her life story how she had been married once, how she struggled with her marriage, how she suffered from her now ex husband's infidelity, she also told me that she has a child and he is four years old. She said she is currently dating a guy who is also unfaithful and had caused her emotional trauma, she asked me if I had someone and I said no which was a lie infact my girl is giving birth next month. She finally accepted and we started dating it was a smooth ride until someone came into the picture another trainee who came to me and confessed that she loves me, this other trainee is from same state with me, same tribe very young the problem is the first lady said we should keep it on a low that she doesn't want anyone to know and this new one calls her mother because we are all in the same squad. I told her no that I have somebody already so she went to the Hausa lady to plead with her to talk to me because she saw we were close infact she even asked her if she knew the girl I was dating maybe I might have told her but she said no and that she will talk to me on her behalf. now she is jealous and feels like I gave this new girl the opportunity to come close to me. Because of this we have had series of problems and its just so frustrating knowing that I dont intend to even settle with any of them and this was not how i wanted all this to be now I told her that the person she has been calling mother is the person I was dating because the older lady requested that I should tell her. she said she couldnt bear the jealousy any longer. Now everything is out and they both sick and are not on talking terms even though they must sleep in the same dormitory all because of me" I know I messed up but how can I make this right please matured advise please.

partnerbizn5:
What is sin?

How many books have read on religion, philosophy and science?

Don't provoke me oo..

Mr free thinker what does reading books on philosophy, religion and science have to do with this one, guy your brains needs a complete overhaul because you are completely lacking in reasoning common sense should tell between right and wrong. But I forgot common sense ain't common no more.

SincereBigot:
your Dog is suffering from what we call foot and mouth disease and this disease is heterogenous and could spread to other parts of the body like the stomach and this may result to gastro-entiritis.. foot and mouth disease originated from east columbia where dogs were subjected to inhumane treatment and then their DNA metamorphosed and tried to adapt to these changes





























once again, if you like believe what i wrote up there, you are on your own

Nigga you is full of shit

Hi am Cassidy and i have been dating this girl for quite a while now, she seems good and really loves me but there are things about her that i really don't like, she finds it hard to say sorry when she is at fault, she can argue with me and just hurl words at me without fear. when ever we have a fight she can look at me straight in the eyes and say mean and hurtful things to me and when i make her see how hurt i am and i initiate apologies that's when she responds and maybe say sorry. she likes to check my phone all the time and gets angry when i receive calls from female even when i have noting to do with them. she on the other hand receives tons of call from guys and she expects me to be cool with it. she says no one can tell her what to do and that is true because to an extent she only does what she feel like doing, she drinks and i don't drink sometimes she comes home drunk and throws up on the bed and i always end up cleaning it. please i need candid opinion on this and the way forward. thanks

fuckerstard:
She's ur friend abi?

Yes she is

This happened to me last week Sunday, a female friend of mine said she wanted me to put her through computer, wanted me to help her with some aspect she forgot. I agreed and we decided to meet up in church after service go to my house and put her through, when we go home I made lunch we ate and started lectures" just then a friend of mine called me and asked if I was at home he said he was coming over with his babe, so i said ok "they could come" immediately she turned and looked at me she asked me where would they stay and will all of us be in the same room? I said yes and she said okoo. For my mind i was like wetin this babe mean e be like say she get plans for me ooh But before that she said she wanted to go and pee so I got her some water and took it to the rest room. When my friend with his babe came, they were busy loving up while we also busy with the computer" sadly the laptop's battery was low and it hibernated she then said she wanted leaving, she bid my friend goodbye and I escorted her to get a bike and she left. When I returned from seeing her off I was pressed and I wanted to pee when I entered the toilet I saw something strange in the toilet, I looked like a jazz or something hmmm and no one used the toilet after she did and before I kept the water for her to pee I had checked it my self and saw it was clean. Men then it occurred to me that the girl wanted me to lash her and maybe that thing came out of her private part may be if I had lashed her I would have been hooked for life. She was not happy when she left ooh, me that am trying to stop lashing anyhow and God is helping me hmm who knows what would have happened if I had lashed her maybe I will become like remote control" she go say do this and i go do hmmm guys be careful when a girl visits you and before anything tells you she wants to pee, my guy go and check the toilet girls are desperate nowadays.......hmmm that's my own God don save me.

DarkMagic:
I can't believe ma eyes
U cried like a child because a girl left u...haba bros
Well..u deserve it..
U should a been straight with her from onset
Man up and move on

yes i guess so

ofonike:
not because u lied.

but because what?

Young03:
ihu na okwalagi



She left because your not ready for marriage yet and if she continue staying in the relationship it will waste her time n opportunity


so next time be careful

guy you might be right but it is not a matter of time and wasting of opportunity she just has her preferences thats all

Hey nairalanders i have been in a relationship with this girl for almost two years now, it has been a wonderful experience with all the ups and down of a relationship y'all know how it is. seriously speaking i love her from the depths of my heart and i was willing to do anything to make her happy, the problem is she is four years older than i am and she does not know it because i lied to her about my real age although she told me of her intentions to settle down and how time was not on her side, i assured her of my intentions and God knows i really meant them even she herself knows that i mean business with her. so when she discovered that i lied to her about my age she became angry i said she was disappointed in me. i invited her over and explained things to her and she still broke up with me. i felt embarrassed after i cried before her like a child and she just stood up asked for a hug and left. this has left me confused i know it was wrong for me to lie but i apologized to her and am not expecting her to forgive me so easily but is age enough reasons to break up with someone you claim you love? is age a barrier ? cuz i have seen a lot of people with much age difference then we get married and live happily ever after. i mean doesn't true love sees through the walls of wrong and overcomes the most grievous of offense. thanks contributions will be appreciated.

This ya story sounds abiit akward i mean are you for real. But if this is true then congratulation you just married a demon.

rebirthforgoody:
Hmmm dear I don't know the right word to use right now but I don't think accepting her back is the right choice now.because I believe if she truly love you she shouldn't think about what the pastor said right from the start.thanks.

thanks dear.

dingbang:
First of all, I don't roll with people who can't make up their minds


Second, did you have sex with her all these while cuz to me it seems her ex was fvcking her while you were doing lovinus.


Third... Don't let love turn you into a stupid human being next time. If I were you, even before she got sick, I would have started looking for another woman.. 7 billion people in the world bro

yes I have made love to her on several occasions, but I dint think that's the problem.

Oyindidi:
Sorry I can't

bro its true weather you believe or not, it happened so fast just like that. well I can't force you to believe but it happened to me and just want to pour out my heart

eezeribe:
Religion is the opium of the Masses,and na women carry am for head...
Just see how a useless pastor and his gullible follower have screwed things up.
OP,just forget about that fish brain.once she gets her divorce,she will forever be regarded as someone's Ex-wife and I wouldn't want you to get stuck with such a woman for the remaining part of your life.
She can as well go and marry her pastor.

lalasticlala,Mynd44

thanks men, I really appreciate

Hello nairalanders I want to share a story with you guys that I have kept within me and I want to know if what I did is wrong or right. I met this girl in January 2016 when I went for a youth program. It was love at first sight when I laid eyes on her I walked up to her after the program and introduced my self to her, we exchanged numbers and became friends. As our friendship grew she saw how I was ready to do any thing for her and that my feelings for her was beyond just been friends. I later told her about my feelings, at first she declined and told me that she had a guy and that the relationship was not all that stable, today they will be on and tomorrow off, she later accepted and we loved each other. I did all I could to make her happy and she showed me love, I introduced her to my family she also did the same, she paid them frequent visits to the extent she was been called our wife because she did alot of house chores. She cooked, and cleaned and even went to market for my mother everyone loved her until she started acting strange She hardly calls and when I call her after talking when I say I love you she hardly respond even if she does all she says is me too or thank you, she reduced her commitments to our relationship. Later I discovered that she has been making calls with her previous guy when I confronted her about it she said he has been disturbing her asking that they get back together, so I asked her about what she wanted and she said its like she still loves him. I acted maturely and told her she was free to choose thinking that she would choose to be with me after all we've been through. But I thought wrong she reduced calling me and eventually broke up with me but I would still call her and ask how she was. One day I called and it was her mum that picked and told me that she was seriously sick and had been admitted in the hospital, quickly I got the address and rushed down to see her. On getting there I saw how she was changed she looked thin and was very weak; when she saw me she just kept crying and crying and could not utter a word, I spoke to her mum who told me that she neeeded blood transfusion and that they are yet to find a suitable donor and can't afford the one the hospital made available. I consoled her and told her all will be well, immediately I went to see the doctor and discussed if I could be a suitable donor. He ran some test and I was a match the whole thing just happened before me like a movie I never thought something like that could happen to me. The doctor told me they would require some deposit before they commenced, quickly I rushed to a nearby ATM and withdrew some money" her mum just kept thanking me. The transfusion was successful and we were both discharged after they observed us and her especially and her health improved, I was so proud of my self that now my blood is flowing in her body I gave her mum some money for her upkeep and called regularly to check on her. A week after I went to check on her only to find her with another guy gisting and laughing she stood up and introduced us and told me that this is her husband to be and he was the guy she had earlier told me about I just congratulated them, asked her to greet her mum and I walked out. Days later she called me and said she wanted to thank me for saving her life and that she understood how much I love her and the reason why she changed towards me was that her pastor told her that we were not meant to be and that the other guy is whom the Lord had chosen for her I took it in good fate and wished her well and that I had noting against her. Eight months after the wedding I got a call from her saying that she wanted us back and that she dint no that she got married to the devil and her pastor had ruined her life by making her leave me. That she knows am the only one for her and that she is getting a divorce before he kills her. I told her she made her choice and I have made mine as well and that we should all stick to the choice we made, but she keeps calling wanting to know where I am so that she could come show me how much she loves me and wants me to forgive her. Pls guys advise needed cuz am still in love with her what should I do? Should I maintain my stance and move on or should i forgive her. Mature advise pls.

A wooden straw airplane construction, made by a northerner right here in Kaduna the crock city. I believe if empowered he will go far.

Nature8:
He's a Chelsea fan because he wear Chelsea jersey abi?

abi Op help me ooh, mean say anybody wey wear Jersey na fan e b

IHate9jerians:
Dont mind the OP.He is a confam loser.He cant attract the christian ladies to fucck him and he also cant attract the moslem ladies to fucck him.Who really gives a fucck what religion,ethnicity or creed a pussy is?LOSERS!!

going by your name self, no wonder. Anyway a prayer for you: receive sense in Jesus name

misterV:
Op let's start with you
When last did you go out for one on one evangelism?

bros even this thread na evangelism. Ka ji ko

jusRadical:
The question is, who is a christian?

U are looking at christianity as a religion which it is not.

Islam is a religion but christianity is not.

bros and your point is?

Its sad and annoying how our Christian girls throw themselves cheaply at hausa muslim men all in the name of been social, I am not trying to start any religious conflict of any sort but the truth is that most Muslim men thou not all, but most of them regard Christian girls as noting but sex objects or intimacy gadgets meant to satisfy their earthly sexual fantacies, fantacies they dare not practice with thier Muslim women because they are regarded as unique creatures of Allah who are not to be exploited sexually. Severally I had to put up with Hausa Muslim men in my office talk about thier sexual excapeed with christian girls who come to apply for e-passport. Christian girls stop misbehaving around with them, stop opening your legs for them, its soo annoying. Muslims girls would not even let themselves be seen with a christian boy/man let alone touch them or open their legs for them. Its happening everyday everywhere, in schools and work places. God will help you people change. Am not asking you to start opening your legs for Christian boys but be wise and use your head, stop misrepresenting christ ,instead draw them to Christ, let them see a reason through you to convert and follow Christ. God bless you.

Bros what does that mean?

I dated this girl for quite a long time and I kept my hands off her pants not that I dint want to but I wanted her to know I love her for real, although on several occasion she had wanted to come to my house but I know when she comes we will surely do it so onetime she traveled to kano and when we spoke on phone she told me that was dulling her and that she will just go haywire. Pls guys does that mean she is cheating on me because she started acting strangely.

Ok thanks for your contributions

hi my name is Abel Joshua and am in my early twenties my girl whom i adore just recently broke up with me, thou at first it was a hard pill to swallow but as time went on little by little i am having a different perspective of the whole thing ok. before the break up there was this girl i knew but we dint talk much she stays around my place not to far from my house, we became friends as a result of her frequent visit to my neighbors wife who she claimed was her friend. during Christmas she came to visit my neighbor's wife and as Christmas was in the air i offered her Christmas food which she declined at first but accepted after much persuasion from me, she complimented my cooking skills and of course i am a good cook. So one time she came to my house in the evening and met me cooking' i invited her in and i notice she was not feeling too well so i asked her to lay down a bit while i cook or get her something to eat,. long story short after that day as a result of the care i showed her she came and payed me more frequent visits and even confessed that she loved me and i told her she should really think about it that may be she dint love me and she was confused although i dint say to her i love her in return cuz i dint love her, and that she should be sure of what she feels because i was still trying to get over my girlfriend, so we kissed and things got a bit out of hand we had sex and she enjoyed every bit of it without even protesting, she held on tight to me and kissed me all over, she was even pushing it hard on me after we were done she just laid quite for some seconds and left claiming i took advantage of her and raped her she said she trusted me and i broke the trust she had towards me, that she loved me and i did this to her. i begged her and apologized to her'' i told her i never meant for it to happen this way. so guys please help me is this rape cuz i feel bad since then i even feel like i cheated on my girlfriend that broke up with me even thou we are not together. pls your honest and matured contributions will be appreciated thanks. forgive my wrong punctuation i was in a haste when i typed this.

hi my name is Abel Joshua and am in my early twenties my girl whom i adore just recently broke up with me, thou at first it was a hard peel to swallow but as time went on little by little i am having a different perspective of the whole thing ok. before the break up there was this girl i knew but we dint talk much she stays around my place not to far from my house, we became friends as a result of her frequent visit to my neighbors wife who she claimed was her friend. during Christmas she came to visit my neighbor's wife and as Christmas was in the air i gave offered her Christmas food which she declined at fast but accepted after much persuasion from me, she completed my cooking skills and of course i am a good cook. So one time she came to my house in the evening and met me cooking' i invited her in and i notice she was not too well so i asked her to lay down a bit while i cook or get her something to eat,. long story short after that day as a result of the care i showed her she came and payed me more frequent visits and even confessed that she loved me and told her she should really think about it that may be she dint love me and she was confused although i dint say to her i love her in return cuz i dint love her and she should be sure of what she feels because i was still trying to get over my girlfriend, so we kissed and things got a bit out of hand we had sex and she anjoyed every bit of it without even protesting, she held on tight to me and kissed me all over, she was even pushing it hard on me after we were done she just laid quite for some seconds and left claiming i took advantage of her and raped her she said she trusted me and i broke her trust, that she loved me and i did this to her. i begged her and apologized to her'' i told her i never meant for it to happen this way. so guys please help me is this rape cuz i feel bad since the i even feel like i cheated on my girlfriend that broke up with me even thou we are not together. pls your honest and matured contributions will be appreciated thanks. forgive my wrong punctuation i was in a haste when i typed this.

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