Me too. I avoid social functions.....


Finding it difficult too

Dande55:
Your fiancèe is exactly my type maybe, a little worse.

I don't even know how I'm gonna meet my husby family if I get married.

I dont like crowd, and i dont like meeting people.

You should try as much as possible to draw her closer to you and don't let what others say about her affect your marriage.

She's the kinda woman most men want to have as a wife.

Abeg leave them o.. Celebrate with those who are celebrating .....


Lambooooooo baby! Ride on gurl.

I pay my siblings anytime they do specific house chores.

It settles a lot of issues among them

In summary,
Men are attracted to your physical appearance.

1.Hair, ( 90% prefer long hairs)
2.Body shape (Slim, curvy, or thick)
3.Neatness.
4.Your carriage.

That's bullshit!

I know her, she is beautiful when u see her physically.

She did a seminar in Area 11 @ Efab mall, her approach was legit but you've to be street smart not to fall for her tricks and charms.

Lolz! First thing first, look within!


If you are finding faults with every girl you meet, then you are the problem not them....

#change your thinking about them change your life!

If you have that mentality of them coming to suck you dry, those are the type you will attract.

I really do not know why you see it as a problem anyways?
#justmy2scent

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Oh dear God! These guys are ready to die for this cause!

Don't use violence again! Release their leader so he can talk to them at least.

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EngrHumble:




Oga try shut up! Shut up!! U know nothing. ijaw always want to reap where they didn't sow. the same thing happen in ondo btw Yoruba and ijaw.

so just shut up and sleep! I say mk u sleep o!!

Lolz

Believe this, then u can believe that Buhari will resign

OgaBuhari:
hi dear. I really need to talk to you but my email is having issues. Can I drop my WhatsApp?

Sure...

LuciferRedeemed:
This was one of the pioneers of the aggressive & frustrated feminists you see in Nigeria today.

I once sneaked into that evil group & witnessed first-hand, how she brainwashed fish-brained females to hate men.
All they do in that group is to gather, one of them brings up a juicy tale about The Evil That Men Do and BOOM! hatred unleashed.
They even advise the married ones on how to deal with their husbands, kill him, deprive of something, tackle his mother & siblings etc.

Some of those bitter women eventually spilled into Nairaland.
Needless to say, none of them was married and the few that were had very dirty marriages.

I can't waste precious RIPs on this hell-bound idiot.



*spits

?Ewu! You are a blatant liar

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BBNaija reality star, Alex has deactivated her Instagram account and this might be connected to the backlash she received after it was revealed that she had sex with ex-housemate Tobi Bakre.

Her decision to deactivate the Instagram account comes after she attained 1 million followers on the social media platform.

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Why na Alex?

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#I thing I detest so much is those old men that looks like, they are going to drop dead tomorrow still chasing girls.


Many single guys here live fake lives.....

Them nor get o, dem go dey claim big boys

DateMynd44:
I hope Cathyblinks sees this and learn from hardworking women.
Lazy Slay queen

What? Dude, you woke up early enough with me in your mind... Why are you taking this personal? Why he dey pain you na?


Listen dude, not every girl can do crude jobs! I am a techie, I prefer to work online, that is my area of strength... If you see it as being lazy, oh well! It's not my business!

What I make a day, is your monthly salary if not more.
Everyone is gifted in different areas, we have got our strengths, so don't compare me with anybody...
[b]I am my own competition..[\b].

I seek to improve myself every day... So do me a favour, GET ME OFF YOUR MIND!

DateMynd44:
My sis graduated at an early age and got a good federal government job but still didn't see marriage as a top priority cos she wasn't given to mediocrity as u are.
She wanted to compete with the likes of folorunsho alakija, ophrah Winfrey, ngozi okonjo iweala and the likes.
She wanted being an independent woman so she could earned the maximum respect from her would be husband. So after she achieved all these, she finally settled down at 26.
You too can do the same unfortunately age isn't by ur side anymore and I'm quite sure the 29 u put up there isn't the truth.
Sorry you look like an old hoe to me that have wasted ur years.
probably you should be in ur late 30's.
YOU ARE FINISHED

Lolz.... What's her name please so she can mentor me.. Low-life

DateMynd44:
when u said you met a nairalander and u dated him and gave him sex it shows how cheap you are.
You must be a free giver

Oga thank you.

If its so easy tell your sister to do same.
#self righteous low life punk

@Michelle55, please ignore that bitter fellow, for him to have time to be exchanging words with us shows how jobless he is. He is probably a sissy.


Real men don't go about demeaning ladies on social media.
That broke ass is just being bitter.

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DateMynd44:
while your thread title says "I'm 29 without a steady job"
That nairaland fraudster must have dealt u a huge blow chai guys wicked oh.
An advice for u, freelance web design isn't a skill, it's for jobless mofos like u.
go get a career or get a capital and start selling in the market or u go for farming, I think the former suits u better cos from my observation you're a low life.
You're not better than those village girls hustling at traffic lights.
Stop looking for a man to pour it misery on,

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DateMynd44:
shut up there my friend and go get a career and work towards being an independent woman before talking of setting down.
No man wants to settle down with a liability that's why the nairalander u met saw u as a sex object with nothing tangible to offer and he used that to gain undue advantage of u.

Cc apelike apelike1

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[quote author=Michelle55 post=75845057]Relax babe.. Your kinda man will definitely waltz into your life sooner than you expect but before then try to go out and enjoy bliss and peace of mind by yourself. Getting a job should top your list now, your destined man will come along.
NOTE: there's no manual in keeping a man. Just love yourself and keep a neutral mind when it comes to relationships[/quote

Thanks so much @michelle55 I really do appreciate your kind words.

unity004:
that she is 29 and she is desperate to marry this year... am begining to think that is her football age, (u knw this ladies hiding there age, that is how i end up dating some one old enough to be my aunt)

What is wrong in being desperate to be married @ 29. You don't know how it feels to see your immediate younger sister get married before u.

[quote author=PMBuhariGCFR post=75841570]Vote for me on Saturday or you die single. Thankyou.[/quote
Dude get sense na!

Nyerhovwo101:
Sincere guys are hard to come by and if u restrict ur choice of men to just tech gurus trust me u may just be complicating issues. I will advise if a cool guy comes around who does not necessarily have to be a tech guru come by u should give him the chance.
Being an introvert sometimes has disadvantages....get urself loosed from this shackles....join unit in ur church preferably ushering (trust me this unit puts u in a hot-spot) n take Time to mingle with friends. As for what u do as a freelancer I have seen people that earn very well with the kind of skill u got... Just keep developing on urself n promoting ur gigs

Thanks for the advice. I really do appreciate.

Slynation:

What kinda personality is that, it's possible to change a man to suit your personality....
Anyway i don't know your mindset, but something tells me u already gat the notion all men are coming to you just for sex, I might be wrong tho, A man that will stay will stay, whether sex or not, Buh while considering advances from men, consider only those that are ready to settle down, u may know this from the kinda conservation u always had.....

Honestly, I do have that mindset. This is because 98% of them if not all of them who have approached me drive towards that direction.

I had an experience here on nairaland. A few years ago, I just wanted to mingle and got connected with a nairalander here. We got talking and I really thought he was serious only for him to vanish into thing air after we had sex... Cos he is not based here. No calls, nothing at all after 3 years, he surfaced again, saying I was special and all that pep talk. He wanted to see me and I agreed to see him. Guess what? He wanted another sex romp. 3 consecutive times and I refused him. The funniest act he displayed was, anytime I leave his place to my house, he doesn't bother to call to know if I arrived safely or not..

Now he has returned and communication has stopped. Can u imagine that. I knew it wasn't real but was just giving him benefits of doubt.


Now I am becoming more and more withdrawn than ever.