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[quote author=OsuGanja post=58280990][/quote]stinking LOB

BentSpoon:
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Ducan ??






A nyben??

Na R HL him be. We go bust that him CV.

OsuGanja:
Ki lo sele ?

n.a. who n.a. who?

OsuGanja:
Hmm FINE BOY

Unscrupulous

Sailor! ! !

kennedymonk:
any U Jay aspirant?

They always overlook the centre for excellence in phytomedicine.

As a Pharmacy student, it's sad to see a youngster in the struggle just die like this after the three Years of hardwork. Mayhe find peace with the Lord.

Came to my school in 2008. RPA Jos. Told us to surrender our contraband (provision was illegal in my school) else He'll pray to God to punish us. Two days later Jos crises started and food became scarce. People cursed that man like nothing. He was selling one MRS (can't remember) chart like that for 500 naira where you record the number of hours you've read for in a day and my stupid school made it compulsory for everyone. He said anyone that that can record the highest average number of hours will be given 15 thousand naira but never came back.

Ken Katas. Who remembers him?

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500lvl finally. It's been one hell of the past 4 years.

oscillation55:
Really?
So how many days on a single charge?

Tops 2days

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Jodha:
See guy.. The truth is that..

Lol...Only God knows how long you've waited for an opportunity to upload that meme. Sorry wrong post. Try the next post.

Jodha:
The op is lost.... Too lost to be rescued...

I don't mind and You don't matter.

It is what it is.

So next time you get caught out cheating, simply mile, shrug and walk away. It will either save you a whole deal of pain, or it might just enable you to reestablish the relationship with the right frame and the right balance of male-female domination.

Holarbizzy042:
WHO "FAITHFULNESS" EPP? @OP NICE POST BRO. You are a "LIFE SAVER"

We got to know this. Take my experience for instance a few years ago, I got caught on a whstsapp by an ex-girlfriend. The evidence was cut and dried—she knew that I’d been cheating. Because I was into this girl (she was unknowingly my ‘main girl’ in a soft harem) I apologized profusely for my ‘mistake’ and did everything I could to ‘make things right’—taking her out for nice meals etc. My strategy seemed logical enough—basically I tried to counterbalance the ‘hard takeaway’ (in game vernacular) of my ‘alpha’ cheating behavior by dialing up my softer, more romantic side. You’d think this would work, right? Wrong
At first things were okay, and she seemed to appreciate the increased attention I paid her. But after a while I got caught in a negative cycle. Time and time again she would bring up my infidelity. On each occasion I reacted by doing something nice to try to make her feel secure. Ironically, this achieved nothing more than framing me anew as a beta provider. It was a losing game. In the end, she lost attraction for me and ended the relationship for good.

How much better might things have worked out had I simply walked out without a second glance, or an apology. True, I may never have seen her again—but that would have saved me six months of hellish tantrums and jealous nagging, not to mention all the cash I dropped on her in that period. Alternatively, though, she might have come back to me, having had time to reflect and reassess the situation. Actually, this outcome is more common than you might think. I’ve had girls come back to me after I’ve cheated on them since, because I have learned to develop a frame of ‘my way or the highway.’ And it is a truism that girls are more attracted to men who treat them badly than not.

Dextology:
So much post promoting and in support of cheating nowadays. It goes to show that some individuals don't consider faithfulness as a virtue.



#beware of cheating virus spreading everywhere.

Mr dextology, Just making sure you're aware this post is not telling people to cheat. It is just a 'what to do if you choose to do it and get caught'. Cheating is bad. We know. Your genuine concern is appreciated none the less.

McBrooklyn:

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wha?

ayesco202:
#wehdonsir!

Thank you

Always Deny
The first point, and probably the most important, is that when confronted about an infidelity, real or imagined, you must deny everything. Coming clean simply does no good to anyone. Christian McQueen’s 25th law of pussy states:

#25. If you get caught cheating, always, always, always deny. Deny until death and she will eventually get over it.

This is vital. To do otherwise serves no purpose — she will be hurt and your relationship will not be salvageable. Also, and perhaps more importantly, the true alpha should not be accountable to a woman or compelled to answer her every question. And the irony is, she doesn’t want full disclosure anyway. So deny and give her the choice either to accept your story or to bail: it’s up to her

Don't handicap yourself with women by letting some vague sense of manly virtue stop you from doing what is necessary and best for yourself. Women are playing this game by their own set of rules, which includes lying to you whenever convenient or advantageous for them; with zero sense of remorse, let alone an afterthought.

Women lie. You have to fight fire with fire. Or be a complete sucker and spill your honest, little, predictable heart out to them. Those are your choices. Trust me when I say that few women will appreciate your predictable honesty. Women will of course say otherwise. Remember, they are lying. See how the game is played?

Deceit is masculine.
Being apologetic for deceit is not masculine.
Then again, sometimes in a relationship it's good to show strategic vulnerability. It's not always good to seem too independent or unattainable. You have to read the situation.

kennedymonk. You're a man. It was an honour watching you present your manifesto today. Keep flying. You're destined for great things.

RetroBoy:
Despite your confusion, you already hit the honeypot.
You didn't waste time at all.
You da real MVP.!!!

Believe me it was met with alot of resistance in the beginning. But as an OG.

DaySpringer:
And from this Reply and subsequent replies that you have given, I can say you've not had too much experience with relationships.. Have you?

i can't say I'm a veteran but I'm not a novice either.

Tajbol4splend:
You almost made me believe she compelled you into the relationship but I can boldly tell you wanted it as well

I wanted it yes, but I'm in the relationship because she compelled me.

DaySpringer:
Op, First things first. This girl is not more than 19 years Old. Am I right?

lol.

SuperSuave:
1 advise is all I have for you: hit that kpekus till you get tired cos hoes are never loyal

"Kpekus" unfortunately is not the goal.

AlexCk:
....but op, she get bf nau,

Why did u even think of going after her, u sef,
Well, imagine say na u be the boy when dem dey cheat on like this, how u for feel??

Just forget it bruh,
If she can do this to her current bf, what makes u think she won't do this same thing she did with you, with another guy if u both start dating.

Oh well, hope everything works out fine for u bro, no1 is perfect tho.

I didn't know she had a boyfriend and when I found out, I tried to opt out. She literally begged for a relationship.

Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?