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Foolish sets of idiots.

When they informed them that the election had consequences, they thought that Tinubu would literally exempt them and the Yoruba race from any woes that would befall the country.

Even GEJ and PMB didn't have an effect in Bayelsa and Katsina, respectively. Politics is more than the eyes can see. It doesn't care about any race, just a heated rush for coins stacking.

What these sets of idiots don't understand is that it's the market that sets its price. You don't impose prices on goods at will. That's only possible in a monopolistic market. And that's why free market and competition is a key to improving the economy.

The more the government tries to impose prices, the more unwilling sellers will want to sell their goods, causing a drop in supply and increasing the prices as a result. Because the price will skyrocket when demand is high, and supply is low - the joy of every seller or producer.

Protest against insecurity. No.
Protest against bad roads. No.
Protest against custom malfeasance and corruption. No.
Protest against unnecessary tax hikes. No.

But this set of mumu traditional chiefs want to regulate the prices of goods. Something that no country on earth has ever done or done but prove to her how stupid they are + further plummet the state of their nation.

There are too many goods in the market to start imposing prices. Millions and millions of goods. It's a futile journey. And a stupid one at that.

Solve the problem of insecurity.
Reduce custom duties to the barest minimum.
Fix bad roads.
Allow the ease of doing business.
Stop printing more money.
Reduce tax fees.
Pay civil servants and pensioners their dues.
Provide stable electricity.

Do this, and the price will drop automatically.

Until then, let's continue to wallow and paddle in the cesspool of bad governance and corruption.

Thanks.

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Short and simple answer:

Invite her to a public place.

Tell her you are disgusted by her actions and consistent pestering.

Tell her if she doesn't stop stalking you, you will file her case at a police station.

After that, order a bottle of your favorite drink and drink it to her face while she looks with an expectation of what she should also be ordered. Don't buy her any drink, bro. Drink it and belch the carbon oxide to her face.

Don't think of accepting her, then, to use and later dump her. It may not end up well with you. She will do worse than before.

Then, leave her there.

Ignore her for life.

Focus on a more beautiful and wholesome woman to spend your time with.

Thanks.

We talk too much about heartbreaks. Yet, never have we had a heart of love.

You that can't love. So, how can you say "someone broke your heart?"

You have never truly loved someone. Perhaps you have never really experienced genuine love from someone.

What of those whose hearts were truly broken despite the length and magnitude of their love?

Well, it's unfortunate that their pearls found their way with pigs. Or, they'd expect pigs to appreciate their pearls; however, became disappointed because the true nature of pigs is to dwell among things that are shallow, watery, and muddy.

Your genuine heart has drawn you to a place where you can hardly love. Or, perhaps, your naivety has made you retract into a shell. You don't want to hear anything about love again or even come close to it.

You are now afraid to love because your heart is broken.

Or, the kind of love you expect isn't what you can dispense but want another person to dispense to you. The problem is you want to be loved in a way you can't love. You demand so much love from someone, yet your supply is low and almost non-existent.

Our experiences have created different ways we see love. Love is love. But the drawing tools of our experiences have drawn many shapes of love for us to the extent that we don't even have a correct knowledge of what true love is.

Our perception of love is identical to our experiences of love, which, of course, is an incorrect definition of love because love has its specific meaning and can't be redefined based on our experiences.

We now live with restrictions. Meanwhile, love has no restraint. Love ought to be eternal, like the love of God. But the flaws of humans can't make it so - individual ambitions creep in and vitiate it to satisfy us and gratify our feelings rather than for a lovely coexistence between pairs or groups.

Love is the most used, misused, and abused word. The sound of it thrills us, but the work necessary for it to create lovely music and leave traces of a nostalgic comeback isn't present.

We love the talk of love but can't do the work of love. Because anything relating to work is tedious and requires the best part of us - time, attention, sweat, blood, and resources.

To many of us, our love is periodic - we are only loving when the settings are comfortable. When situations skew to the dangerous angle, like the fickleness of a breeze we quickly disappear with no traces any longer.

True love borders on many terrains that the average human can't marathon across. We always think we understand love because we have finished the first lap. This is where many of us construct our perception of love, being ignorant that the race doesn't come to an end.

To love is work.
To love is to be loyal.
To love is to be permanent.
To love is to be present and strong.

Love takes great effort and consistency.

Love is kind.
Love is endurance.
Love is companionship.

Love is "no matter the condition or situation, I will always be by your side...for better or worse; in riches or poverty; in health or sickness; in peace or chaos; in foolishness or greatness; in beauty or ashes...till death do us apart. And even in death, within the belly of the ground, we will continue from where we stop".

You can call this "crazy love". But it is a love borne out of passion and purity of the heart. A heart that wants to love genuinely without rules.

Love is beautiful.

But to many of us, "I love you" is mere words.

It is the action that follows that shows how much we understand love.

EreluRoz:
But you be Churchill na 😂

Lol.

I'm not.

But I like it that way though.

How's you?

Faith is the ability to conquer fear.

Fear can take different forms: anxiety, negative thoughts, bad dreams, hallucinations, doubts, worries, etc.

The religious bodies have codified this as Satan and his demons at work, where deliverance can only be gotten through faith in a superior being - God.

However, it's fear taking form in immaterial forms, capitalizing on the wide ranges of our emotions and imaginations.

Everything is happening within your head. All that's needed is for you to be weak, afraid, and ignorant.

Fear in the natural form takes its metaphysical or spiritual form as Lucifer or demons. The one that torments brings anguish, and pain.

While Faith takes its metaphysical or spiritual form as God or angels. The one that saves and delivers.

Because of the weak and ignorant state of man, when he can't find faith by becoming courageous and knowledgeable, he thinks he's under spiritual attack and oppression and starts running around looking for a spiritual solution called - Deliverance from demonic attack or possession.

Every form of demonic possession, as termed in the religious circle, is the different forms fear takes. Strange manifestations or demonic manifestations are the power of fear taking a stronghold of its victim.

There will always be strange demonic manifestations or melodrama when fear meets total ignorance. The possessed need to reach this state before the power of fear can make a theatre out of them.

Remember: everything is happening within your head. However, if you become too weak to gain control of your imagination and emotions, fear will metastasize and gain both psychological and physical domination over you.

Fear is similar to the effects of hard drugs: too little, you are safe; too much, you become intoxicated and manifest strangely. Fear needs you to be free, that's, weak, to gain control over you.

Your inability to meet your challenges and difficulties is due to fear. Fear is at work.

Fear will stop you from climbing because of tall heights.

Fear will stop you from using the bridge because of the large body of water flowing underneath.

Fear will stop you from mining the cave because it's dark and hard.

Fear has no other plans in your life than to keep you subjugated and damned.

Deliverance over fear comes from erasing your ignorance, which is only possible by filling yourself with knowledge. Knowledge must be active and not dormant; dormancy leads to doubts which is a retrogressive route to the place of fear.

So you must back up your knowledge with faith. Faith is alive and active. Faith must always work. You must put your knowledge into practice. When fear comes up in your heart, replace it immediately with the power of the knowledge you've gathered and act based on it. It's a continuous process you must abide by because fear is like the wind.

Faith is the confidence that the knowledge you have gained is your power and victory over fear.

Deliverance involves taking a bold step into darkness and challenging your fears. Don't start looking for lamps; enter therein, and the light of your eyes will illuminate your path.

Fear also manifests in excuses and procrastination. Avoid them at all costs.

Don't be afraid to fail or fall. Because stagnancy is consistent with a particular result you don't like. But if you fail, you'll learn how to pass. If you fall you'll learn how to stand firm.

Bullying and ridicule are another form of fear that takes effect on other people. You must begin to understand the operating system of fear for you to be able to conquer it.

Fail. Fall. Make mistakes. Don't be afraid of mockery.

Your predicaments and sufferings are fuels you need to propel you to stand your ground and claim your victory. So don't dwell too much on regrets and lamentations.

Do not be afraid.

tensazangetsu20:
Some Nigerian men in the abroad haven't haven't had a haircut in two years and they want to Bleep Oyinbo . Look like shit, smell like shit. Behave like shit and still come online to write nonsense.

It's the arrogance of the Nigerian human species - male and female.

You'll think that a population that makes so much noise and blab all day have something of good worth that ranks above other nations. Nothing bro. Nothing.

Stupid, arrogant, and poor - a combination that is on par with the black color for justifying everything that is wrong. Rather than enhancing the black beauty. A clear definition of the average Nigerian.

Black advancement will start with men. Men leaving their jobs and pock-nosing in women's affairs when they haven't done their homework reeks of foolishness. Women will continue to plummet until men stand up. It definitely must start from a point.

Black men need to step up. Because that's the only way the black race can be restored to glory. And this is beyond the sexual stratosphere.

Thanks.

All she needs a good deep d!ck digging.

tensazangetsu20:
What many men don't realize is that dating, just like other things, takes effort. Even how to talk and chat with women has strategies. You can get a lot of women interested in you, but if you don't know how to talk to them and get them to bed, you will lose them. Everything is strategically.

People put their best effort to get a job and all but don't wanna do the same thing to find a quality woman to enjoy life with.

True words, bro.

There's this program on YouTube, Hunt Show by Nons Miraj, that I stumbled on last week. A dating show.

You need to see how many of the men carry themselves so low when coming for a date. Imagine wearing palm slippers to a date. Something that will be televised across nations and continents. I nearly slapped many of them through the TV. Like what the fvck do these men think they are doing?

And trust my Nigerian girls, their mouths were active like analog clocks, ridiculing the men to their satisfaction.

Money is essential for dating and marriage. However, a man who knows how to carry himself with pride and elegance will have a handful of women who will choose and love him.

It's only money that is external and takes a hard time to get. Other ones, like good wear, good haircuts, good conversation skills, good emotional skills, and good storytelling skills, take less effort.

You don't need the most expensive perfume.
You don't need the most expensive shoes and clothes.
You don't need the most expensive gadgets.

Use your 1k or 2k to experiment with the best perfumes in that range, the best haircut in that range, the best clothes in that range, and the best shoes in that range. Simple.

Nobody will ask you how much you purchase them. If you wear them with elegance and a good fit, they will admire and complement you.

Women know this game and are leveraging it. Even an ugly woman knows that she needs to apply makeup + wig. Everything is to get the men hooked. They know what to do next.

There's a woman for every man everywhere he finds himself. He needs to understand how women's psyche works and get them hooked.

What I've come to understand is that as a man, if nobody respects you, you won't bother to build yourself. Because the higher the respect and accolades, the higher the ego, and the faster you want to refine yourself to maintain that level of acknowledgment.

Young men need a foundation of fatherhood + brotherhood to become reputable, strong, and admirable men. However, what we have are confraternities whose sole aim is to steal, k!ll, and destroy. Add to it: smoke and drink their lungs and kidneys till it gets black.

Thanks.

Gerrard59:
For you to take the time to write this post using standard English means you are well-experienced. Looking forward to trying your tips.

Always loyal to your gofment🙌🏿

He really hammered the nail on the head.

The best and easiest way to get women is to put yourself where women are in abundance. One woman must definitely choose you by the end of the day. Provided you speak well, dress well, and are smart - they will improve your cuteness and looks even if you score low.

However, many men want to just remain as they are without making any effort but expect a woman to fall in love with them - big tummy, rough clothes, baggy trousers, unkept hair and nails, malnourished looks et al.

Women are moved by what they see and hear. A man must capitalize on this to game women. It is not fake till you make it. It's presenting yourself with a unique style and tone. Women will complete the rest of the equation.

Thanks.

The good thing about such people as the OP/author is that you don't see them in real life to counter them squarely and rub their faces with their ridiculous ideologies.

Despite his useless take, he did make some reasonable and good points: savings and living within your means. However, we must be careful not to swallow the gibberish because of this.

The return on investment in marriage is nothing. Especially for the man. Reproduction as a result of human biological imperative and quality parental investment in raising kids is the point marriage has good leverage. Aside from that, it is nothing but a useless burden.

The OP failed to factor in inflation and poor economic turnout in his post, which affects purchasing power gravely.

The OP said living in a 60k annual rent residence. 5k/month.
However, he failed to consider the utter state of such residences and the poor neighborhoods that define such places of inhabitation. He wants to live by faith.

What should fear you mostly as an individual is your inability to achieve something tangible and meaningful with your life as you become older. Not marriage.

You should be thinking of not accomplishing your purpose in life rather than the thoughts of marriage because you want a steady supply of sex - for the men or security - for the women.

You all just believe that marriage is a blissful union that comes with a special kind of treasure box that will fill the whole house once you say "I do". Rubbish!

Before you get married, make sure your tentacles are large and strong.

Make sure you are closer to your goals in life.

Make sure you have the ways and means to feed yourself and 5 other persons as a single man in the next 20 years without flinching.

Make sure you are fully rooted in your skill and career pursuit.

The world is tougher for you because your parents never cared about their children. Just reproduce like rabbits and inshallah. Jehovah will take the wheel.

Make sure you are emotionally, psychologically, and financially buoyant.

Don't pick marriage in January and start complaining about how the economy is unfavorable to you, your wife, and 4½ kids.

The same applies to women.

Be career-oriented + endeavor to protect your feminity. The economy is performing poorly, and a whole lot is happening concurrently. It is not an easy thing but you must carry your cross too.

Marriage will not give you any blessings. No blessings. It will be enjoyable when you have set the path to follow for yourself.

Don't allow your kids to suffer the same fate you are suffering as a result of your parent's faults and mistakes.

How do you even want to help a child achieve his dreams when you, as the father or mother, aren't able to do so for yourself?

According to your explanation, she's not a good woman for you.

A woman who wants a successful relationship has ONE IMPORTANT QUALITY: IMMEDIATE CONFLICT RESOLUTION.

A woman who respects you will never allow her ego to raise an obstacle between you and her.

Even when you are the one on the wrong side, she will apologize. (Of course, many men do take advantage of this Innocent quality and abuse it).

A so-called religious woman who doesn't know how to grease her relationship for peace and unity neither have God at heart and will therefore not see you as the head.

Such women are loyal to themselves and clergymen.

Please, avoid her.

Else, you'll keep begging to sustain the relationship.

Thanks.

cococandy:
Or maybe they really like each other and want to be together without sharing themselves with other people. It can be that simple

This is just by the wayside.

Happily ever after is not the sole basis of marriage. The aim is to reproduce, survive, and persist in the gene pool. It's just a subconscious desire, built into the animal framework. You don't think or deliberate on it. It just happens.

However, your point is the starting line for such to occur.

They love themselves. Want to live together.

But underneath, nature and biology is running its course.

Well done.

The average man and woman want a happy family.

Forget all these social media braggadocio.

Underneath such complaints and rationalizations are young men and women who want to have a lovely spouse to call their own and enjoy all the beautiful sides of love and romance.

It's simply a biological imperative across the animal kingdom. The goal is to reproduce a generation of offspring that can sustain their lineage in the genetic pool.

Women love marriage because of the security it brings - shelter and food; protection and provision. Because they are the weaker sex.

Men love marriage because their bloodline will continue in the line of their dominance, power, and control.

A woman who's unable to secure a quality male before she hits the wall is a "failure in the sexual and dating market". Because her early maturity is a preparation for her to quickly scout for that male who will be her angel as she ages. That's why women are more beautiful than men. Nature is simply preparing them for the future.

Her inability to get that quality male also means she will struggle alone through this cruel world without any form of masculine support outside the home. Again, this is another reason that the foundation of a woman is strong and masculine. Else, she will get consumed and damaged by the demands of the cruel world.

Where the demands of the world refine men, even though many still get consumed, women, on the other hand, hardly come out of the furnace without smelling like black ugly burnt offerings.

Men without marriage are simply working for strangers. Because through marriage a dynasty or an empire is built and sustained.

Pragmatically, marriage doesn't make sense if you consider the end of life - death. And so with every other activity and event in life.

However, for the culture and human biological disposition, love and marriage make sense.

With that, the most powerful force pushing humans is not even our intellect. Do you know what it is?

Sex.

Sex is womanly leverage to get a man's commitment and lock him in marriage.

The thirst for sex pushes men to become bigger and better because they want to secure the best of women.

Women are happy when they are married because they can get the best of a man.

Men are happy when married because they know that even in immortality, their control and dominance continue.

Thanks.

[quote author=qtguru post=131619669][/quote]Started reading the book as a result of your previous recommendation.

Unfortunately, just have to stop reading because of its verbosity.

Important information is lost in clusters of "unimportant details."

Nevertheless, the book encompasses all that's needed for a solid foundation in JavaScript. No wonder it's called "JavaScript for professionals".

"Na W3 schools I use take dey hold body now".

Well done, chief.

EreluRoz:
I'm good

I'm fine thank you

That's fine.

The weather is cold.

No need for fighting tonight.

Winks.

EreluRoz:
You write so well when you are not doing your redpill whatever. You are now in the first position of my ratings.

How are you?

Hope you are fine.

Waithood is a serious case in Africa.

Our counterparts in developed world faces same issues as us. That's work and pay bills. However, for them, they are not totally disadvantaged by poor economic policies, erratic power supply, high rates of crime, bad roads, chaos, disorderliness, and every other negative things you can think of.

They still live in a good geography.
Still have good passports.
Can still travel to third world countries and live a life of royalty.

The problem in Africa is that we lack a foundational support. The men that occupy societal totem pole today had solid family background. Successful generations of today have a long line of existing supports.

You ought to build on top what's on ground as a young adult. Not to start looking for bricks to build when you approach adult reality. Because after you rally around to get things done, time is far spent.

That's why we waste much time and at the end we have little to nothing to show for it. Because we are starting from point zero - scratch bottom level.

Again we lack a community of support. If there are stable network of people acting as a therapeutic conduit, the shock and stress of adulthood will be minimized. However, that's not the case. Our individualistic approach to life, a single line ambition in order to accrue all the benefits is a serious drawback to communal and national progress.

Community presence and network ought to be a shock absorber. But we lack it.

It's nobody's fault. You can only do the best you can.

Don't relent.
Keep thinking.
Keep planing.
Keep scheming.
Keep looking for positive leverage
Get in touch with reality.
Seek light, beauty, wisdom, and understanding.

If you follow this way, you may not get all that you desire. Definitely, you will get something better than your previous state.

Keep marching forward.

Thanks.

Gerrard59:
Even though he blocked me on Twitter for yet-to-be-known reason, I agree with this quoted part:



I don't believe in the mumbo-jumbo term "climate change". My interest is for Africa to develop, and if it means the earth will burn, then let it burn! It also helps that David has never been a fan of Dangote, but so far, the refinery must exist and be protected.

This is just part of the truth.

Another part is that Africa will develop if there are strong forces to counter sabotages. Because they will always exist. In every 12, Judas Iscariot is present.

European disastrous influence in Africa isn't solely the work of white hands. There are both black and white fingers involved. The white man will do nothing when he finds no black man that will help him in the process.

From slavery to neo-colo*****, the black man has always been involved. There's no place in the history of the Europeans in Africa where the white men have acted alone to their result. Together with fellow black men, they were able to achieve all they could.

The thing here is that the white man is interested in business and profit. That's the end goal of all their devices. The other thing there is that though the black man is interested in business and profits, however, he's foolish in his dealings with the white man. Life is a chessboard, only the smartest wins. It is a game of dominance; a game of power and control. The black man only settles for profits; the white man wants all.

This expose won't stop anything. It will only cause the white man to become extremely clandestine in his dealings. By the way, there's a black waiting to hop on this betrayal prize for half or a quarter of the money offered.

The first step for Africa to see the light is pure education. We need solid, massive, and aggressive education on the history of Africa, our culture, and our drawbacks. The essence of this education is to reduce the number of black pawns on the chessboard and upgrade them to Rookies, Bishops, Knights, Queens, and Kings.

Then, the black man can be able to negotiate without fear in the headquarters of IMF, UN, WTO, etc.

It will be an advantage, too, if black leaders will concatenate their hands and offer themselves as forerunners of this mission. They know what's going on but are too scared to talk about it because they've broken skulls and bones in their cupboards. If they can open their mouth and talk, the black masses will support them. Yes, regardless of their crimes and nemesis. All we want is a developed African continent.

This is possible. But the greed and improvident tendency of the black man will delay the process for yet another century or more. Sigh.

The key to a better Africa is EDUCATION.

The white man stands invincible. But our education will grant us a solid chance to rub shoulders with other giants and call the shots or even shut up the bullshits.

Thanks.

Lack of abundance mentality.

This is the problem of the average Joe and Kate in a romantic relationship.

They always settle for less because they are restricted by their socioeconomic and geographical boundaries.

There's no special person made for another person. Stable relationships happen because the two people involved decide to make it work through thick and thin.

Loyalty is established once a friendship is sealed. So if a friend or lover sabotages or betrays you, that loyalty has been cast into the dungeon. No matter their apology, you shouldn't never see them in the same light you used to.

People who value relationships will go to the extreme of sacrificing themselves to jeopardize the bond of love and friendship. Those that monkey swing themselves from one branch to another are green snakes under green grass.

Reputation matters in every affair of life. Those who can't remain consistent in core principles and values are unserious people.

That friend of yours will get himself whipped in the future in the hands of that woman. It is not that the woman is smart, however, she capitalizes on his foolishness and now is smarter than him. (Except he wants to play games with her.)

Women are capitalizing on the sexual thirstiness of men, testosterone is a GOAT. A man blinded by love and romance wouldn't see the light of day.

Relationship is all about trust. And once it's broken, it is broken.

Apology is a lie. If they did it before without considering your well-being, they will do it again when the bid gets higher.

Thanks.

Selfkontrol:
thanks a lot.. my mind it’s a bit relax and I’m ready to take the next step in my life and face is squarely.. It’s just abit overwhelming sometimes trying to learn a new skill.. for a sec I thought I already got my life figured out.. I still have memory flashes sometimes and I just smh.. many people in my circle didn’t even know the kind of money i amassed cos im quite secretive..

You need to face this new phase squarely.

Let bygone be bygone. Continuous grieving will only turn pores into deep holes. Take the remaining part of you and mend it.

See it as a seed that fell from the mother tree. But as you know, seeds have life, they will grow to become mature and giant trees someday.

Learning a skill is not easy. Difficult when you're trying to max everything in a few hours. You'll end up bamboozling yourself with a lot of info.

For your learning, calm down and break it into tiny fragments. Allocate time to each fragment and walk gently in solving it. Do avoid rush. It's a step-by-step process. It is not magic.

You need good friends at this time. You need someone to rely on. However, if you don't find a trustworthy person, you can take a day or two off to a secret place to undergo real catharsis. A place far away from home.

Ensure that your mind is clear before kickstarting this new journey. Free your mind, man.

It's not easy. But do it for your mental health and your family. Do it for your future.

You'll be fine at the end.

Stay well.

Thanks.

You've pinpointed your mistakes but you have not done so completely. You're still trying to push blame subtly.

Acknowledge your mistakes squarely. Allow your spirit, soul, and body to undergo proper catharsis. If possible look for a secluded place to cry out. Yes, you need it.

The thing about life is that it's unpredictable. However, our decisions of today will determine how that unpredictability will affect us.

Life is crazy. You must be crazy too in your decisions and actions. That's how you escape drastic turn of events.

Now you've learned the importance of income diversification. Learn more about finance and investment.

Since you're good at researching good crypto projects focus your attention there.

Except it's a matter of life and death, like extremely a matter of life and death, don't sell your properties. Except you want to turn it into a profitable investment or it is a liability.

Now to your wife: You both need the warmth and the love that greases relationship friction. Nothing is happening now that's a result of her fault (from your explanation).

Don't give 1 cent fvck about those spiritual nonsense. It's a lie. A very big fat lie.

You don't see it as lies because you've fallen for the confirmation bias - your mother's dreams, and your financial wreckage.

That woman has nothing to do with it in any way. Don't start raising suspicious eyebrows and go further in punching holes in sealed bags.

Your mother will be definitely justified now because of your current financial status. But don't fall for it. You were the one who made those financial mistakes. Your wife one time tried to persuade you not to but it fell on deaf ears.

Please, please, and please, focus on your family right now. You and your wife need each other now. Don't swim in troubled waters.

All your decisions now are solid. But I still believe you need to pass through a proper catharsis to clear your mind and head. A good wise friend, sibling, or counselor would be better to walk with you through this stage.

Henceforth, no more regrets of past mistakes. The past is the past. Let it go.

Focus on the present and future.

Learn the tech skills.
Focus on only good crypto projects.
Minimize spending.
Meditate.
Pray if you wish (not religious-wise).
Love your wife and teach her how to improve on her feminity and ways to help the family in these tough times.

The days of grieving shouldn't weigh you down.

It is time to put an end to your mourning. Because it is dawn, and joy comes in the morning.

I wish you well, man.

Thanks.

Cc.
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This is front page material o.

Do your thing.

Thanks.

I have never watched a movie with such an instant chaotic opening scene.

Why should the dead be troubled? The deceased body of the eldest Betran brother wasn't even allowed to enjoy his "rest in peace".

Pastor Clarence, the officiating funeral minister was giving the corpse a back-to-back scolding. He couldn't do that enough when the body was alive, he had to pour out all his anger and use it as an admonishment to the younger Betran brothers.

Pastor Clarence was very emotional in that funeral speech. Who would have wondered that a corpse would be lifted out of the casket inside the church, and rode flat on the truck booth to go get dumped, sorry, buried in his Mama's backyard?

The house of God was the starting point of this chaos.

The Betran brothers were raised in a dysfunctional home. Where the mother and father were constantly in a vendetta show against each other. They lost their father along the way and were raised by their single mother, who couldn't place a rail of love and guidance around them. They failed their children.

A home where the father and mother antagonized themselves is a home that will breed serpents and monsters. And those ugly creatures were the Betran brothers who were a complete menace to themselves and the community.

Dallas Betran was the last child. He tried not to be like his elder brothers, however, his experience as a child at home polluted his psychological and emotional well-being to the extent that he couldn't even appreciate genuine love from his wife, Ava Clarence - the pastor's daughter.

Ava Clarence's upbringing was the opposite of the Betran brothers. Her parents love each other till old age and was raised to understand that such love is what's important for a sustainable romantic relationship. Ava was everything a father and mother could be proud of in a child. She is intelligent. She is modest. She is humble. She's kind. She's lovely. She's wholesome. She's beautiful.

However, the union between the duo Dallas Betran + Ava Clarence was something unimaginable. Truly love is blind. Chaos started properly in the church when she was still wearing her wedding gown.

The Betrans didn't like the Clarences. Because the latter was a light trying to erase the darkness of the former. This was what made Ava fall deeply in love with Dallas because she wanted to change him from bad to good. Meanwhile, Dallas proved he was irreparable. His faulty foundation made his life unstable in love and relationships.

The feminine is always attracted to mystery. Ava was fascinated by the Betrans even though they were as dark as black. She thought she could refine Dallas from the goodness of her heart. But she failed. Dallas never wanted to be constantly harangued about his life. He wanted to live the way he liked. Their friends Jim and Rona tried to salvage the conflicts between the couples but they always met a wall with Dallas. Dallas was rotten to the core.

Love is reciprocal. It's foolish to persuade someone to love you. It won't work. Fall in love with someone who understands what it means to be in love. If you don't get much love, remain single.

Heartbreaks will teach you a lesson but those lessons won't mend your heart. You are broken. You'll still have to carry a heart in pieces for a long time. And if the lesson didn't sink well into those broken edges, you'll never enjoy love, not even an angelic love.

Ava wanted Dallas to change for the better. She tried her best to make the light shine in her home. But Dallas was never ready for that even till death.

The couple - Jim and Rona proved to be good friends. They tried their best for Ava and Dallas. Good friends are vital anytime or day. If you must have a friend, have someone who won't melt or run away when the chaos starts. Rona had to write down all the sufferings and maltreatment of Ava, her best friend, in the hands of her husband, Dallas. It was that letter, that became a turning point for Ava; a baptism of bravery and self-awareness, the scale fell off her eyes and she became confident once more to fight back.

This was the same baptism, Benji, Ava's crush from teenage hood had to undergo to become a big muscular man because of his travails in the hands of the bullying Betran brothers and a good man because of his divorce.

Having good family support can never be underestimated. Family is the backbone. Family is the one that will not reject you when the world rejects you.

Ava's parents - Clarence and Gene were a true definition of family. They were ever ready to give their daughter all the necessary support that pushed her to the "Finish line" where she got her baptism.

Clarence is a preacher of the gospel, but he is ready to pull the trigger when anyone crosses his territory. A balanced definition of a good man: be good to good people and cruel to evil people.
Of course, situations must be weighed before actions are taken, because his rashness when he defended his territory almost ended his life.

Anyways, that's the price you pay for defending what's yours.

It is never advisable for a man to stay lurking behind a woman who doesn't love. Vice versa.

What Dallas was to Ava, was what Ava was to Benji even though she never acted rashly. Benji desired and wanted Ava. Although they both had a little chemistry when they were young. However, Ava had a genuine love for Dallas.

Don't wait for someone to come love you after some time. Love happens simultaneously from both ends. And when it goes south without any party trying to make quick amends, leave that relationship.

The red flags were there from the beginning. But Ava was lost in love.

Never ignore red flags.

Love is pure. Love is good. Love is giving value and taking value. Love is peace and encouragement. Love is hope and companionship.

Anything aside this is not love. You are dealing with a mad person all in the name of love.

Beware.

Ava ended Dallas's life in the most holy way. You get rid of cancer before it gets rid of you even though it doesn't make you bleed.

In the end, Benji still got engaged to Ava. They both understood love. After almost a decade, pure organic chemistry happened between the duo.

ThinkSmarter:
In summary: the rules of men in a particular society determines women's character.
Example: the Western liberal culture that grants women freedom to live to their true nature which can lead to chaos and Arabic conservative culture that checkmates women behaviour.

Western liberal culture and Arabic conservative culture are on the extreme, especially the former.

The former as a result of its freedom pursuit, grants it to everyone (now a teenager can say he or she is genderless or not fit to be a particular sex and will be encouraged to take a puberty/hormone blocker).

The West doesn't set guard rails for freedom, that's why there are a whole lots of cultural and social craziness there.

The later placed a large restrictions on freedom. To some extent it is cool but acting as a dictator will limit the ambition and potentials of people. If you subjugate women to slave deals they will hate you with passion + will harm you in the long run. But these men don't even care, just have plenty wives to fvck, inshallah.

Freedom and conservativeness have their pros and cons. With good balance both sides can be enjoyed.

From observation the Asians are sitting in the middle.

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CyrusVI:
U spit fact

Sometimes I wonder what the future holds for us all. if its this bad in 2024, then by 2070, the most masculine figure around might even be a woman

Combined with the fact that aside Tech and Engineering sector, Women tend to dominate every other high paying sector. This, coupled with the continuous feminization of the society, if men dont save themselves and act on time, the future looks blurry for them

There's nothing to fear.

The problem has always been effeminate men who want to pleasure the feminine ego with some boring sex as commission.

These men are dangerous once they find their place to the throne of power and justice. In their hands everything is skewed and perverted, obliterating traditional values that have been tested and trustworthy because of the flimsy excuses of women.

If you observe very well, the average woman isn't bothered by the affairs of this world. All she wants is safety in the circle of her family or the hands of a strong man. Whatever hidden ambition she might have is unveiled under the tutelage of a good family and husband.

All those feminist bullcraps online are not what the average woman desires instinctually. However, times are fast changing and even the average woman is being harangued with a lot of feminist lectures that have crept and corrupted their holy grail - feminity.

There's no way the most masculine figure will be a woman. And vice versa. Because men and women exist in different corners of the world and will act according to their evolutionary and biological imperative.

This is supported by the point you raise about men being dominant in the technological and engineering sectors. And it is these sectors that define a nation. Whoever controls these sectors controls a nation regardless of who is in power. Since men have a natural tendency towards that field than women, men will always be on top.

This is not a competitive show between men and women. But a showcasing of gender imperatives and where each shines best with their respective gold medals. An imbalance in this equation will cause chaos.

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Part 2

The rise of good women must always have men in the equation.

Women must need men.

Everything starts with men and ends with men.

https://x.com/baba_cave/status/1813111441664213254?s=19

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Sorry I didn't get back to you on time. Had to convert from ePub to PDF to be able to read on my laptop.

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Well done, sir.