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Romance / Re: Reasons Why Nigerian Are Highly Deluded by CaveAdullam: 12:34pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
AndroidAI: I agree with your submission. Nice point. Plenty of the foods we eat today have been genetically modified. Even most of the fruits we praise. Especially those of the citrus and maize families. Genetical modifications have been going on for centuries when it comes to food. Plants are laboratory toys for genetic engineers. Allergy to food or other products is strongly rooted in the biophysical makeup of the individual. That's why most of us are allergic to foods that cause the growth of others. Africans have been binging on chocolate and carbohydrates for eons, yet, the rate of obesity is still low. Take note: obesity is inheritable. The problem is the infusion of these (toxic) chemicals into different foods that the consumer will love to eat same time. For example, Monosodium glutamate is present in many of the kitchen spices used together to prepare sweet aromatic food. Consumption of these foods over time leads to body ailments. But these chemical compounds are present in tiny amounts in natural foods and cause no harm. However, before these chemicals are added to food in any quantity, they are added in parts per million (ppm) to a neutral point not harmful to consumers. The sachet and table water we drink is purified with chlorine. And chlorine is a dangerous chemical. Whole synthetic food will be a fast killer. But it is not the case, and we don't see people dying every day. Though, many foods have been contaminated with chemicals to improve taste and color which has risen to increase the rate of allergy and predisposition to cancer. The medical and pharmaceutical industries are not free though. Because there is a surge in these allergies and exposure to cancer due to food and drug consumption that would have been managed by encouraging whole foods and using natural remedies to cure ailments. It is business as usual. The masses are laboratory mice. Moderation is key when it comes to these foods, and understanding your biochemical structure. Inorganic or processed foods are more available and cheaper than organic foods, hence, consumers purchase more of them. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:15pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
Thread: Man, Woman, and The Boundary 1. Relationships fail because men first fall in love before drawing and assigning boundaries. When a woman becomes romantically involved with a man, she's simply keying into his outline and frame. 2. Whether she has something to hide or unveil is dependent on that frame. Her respect is equivalent to the way she perceives him. 3. The man might double down on his values and principles to win a woman. However, when he does, he can't pick what he dropped to construct the defense of the union. The woman will find it difficult to absorb that reality because it's strange to her and hinder her agenda - genuine or deceitful. 4. The man must remain open to accepting her the way she is else chaos occurs due to constant friction and arguments about what must be and what shouldn't. 5. A promiscuous woman has the traits of promiscuity. Winning her with extreme kindness and love can't obliterate her desire for different men. Repentance be it religious, guilt, shame, self-improvement or self-discipline is a mere temporary sedation. 6. What she has exposed herself to for long will haunt her like a ghost - more handsome this time. She'll be tempted to create memories as with other humans, and can't hold up to their newly defined principles and will fall for the temptation again. Easier to avoid from the onset; withdrawal symptoms are harsh. 7. Women that grew up in a well-defined patriarchal community, with virile figures who are present and aware of societal changes and how they can affect them define themselves according to the customs. 8. Their tradition is not to keep women as slaves as the liberal society wants the unsuspecting to see it. But to protect these women from the unintended consequences of liberality without caution, guidance, and self-awareness. 9. The men they enter sexual union with within that community don't need to start defining dos and don't. Because the woman is already aware. 10. What the man does is build on this defined boundary and lead her and the family along. She knows what the man desires, and what is demanded of her by the community, hence, will comply. 11. When a woman who was formerly engaged with a jerk is pained, the heartbreak she suffers is because the jerk isn't willing to compromise his stance and gets subdued by her sermons and lectures. So, the relationship split. 12. Relationship is defined by boundaries. Formal and informal interactions are a result of boundaries set. Boundaries don't mean contempt, although, it's a solid response to contempt. 13. Boundary is important because it raises a bulwark around you, directs your movements, and also determines the people you would like to access you. The sight of boundaries already tells people how to behave and notifications of possible outcomes. Thread: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1676608467107192832?t=BoEj1YFYjOpXp6zb0c0Efw&s=19 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Man, Woman, And The Boundary by CaveAdullam: 7:59pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
1. Relationships fail because men first fall in love before drawing and assigning boundaries. When a woman becomes romantically involved with a man, she's simply keying into his outline and frame. 2. Whether she has something to hide or unveil is dependent on that frame. Her respect is equivalent to the way she perceives him. 3. The man might double down on his values and principles to win a woman. However, when he does, he can't pick what he dropped to construct the defense of the union. The woman will find it difficult to absorb that reality because it's strange to her and hinder her agenda - genuine or deceitful. 4. The man must remain open to accepting her the way she is else chaos occurs due to constant friction and arguments about what must be and what shouldn't. 5. A promiscuous woman has the traits of promiscuity. Winning her with extreme kindness and love can't obliterate her desire for different men. Repentance be it religious, guilt, shame, self-improvement or self-discipline is a mere temporary sedation. 6. What she has exposed herself to for long will haunt her like a ghost - more handsome this time. She'll be tempted to create memories as with other humans, and can't hold up to their newly defined principles and will fall for the temptation again. Easier to avoid from the onset; withdrawal symptoms are harsh. 7. Women that grew up in a well-defined patriarchal community, with virile figures who are present and aware of societal changes and how they can affect them define themselves according to the customs. 8. Their tradition is not to keep women as slaves as the liberal society wants the unsuspecting to see it. But to protect these women from the unintended consequences of liberality without caution, guidance, and self-awareness. 9. The men they enter sexual union with within that community don't need to start defining dos and don't. Because the woman is already aware. 10. What the man does is build on this defined boundary and lead her and the family along. She knows what the man desires, and what is demanded of her by the community, hence, will comply. 11. When a woman who was formerly engaged with a jerk is pained, the heartbreak she suffers is because the jerk isn't willing to compromise his stance and gets subdued by her sermons and lectures. So, the relationship split. 12. Relationship is defined by boundaries. Formal and informal interactions are a result of boundaries set. Boundaries don't mean contempt, although, it's a solid response to contempt. 13. Boundary is important because it raises a bulwark around you, directs your movements, and also determines the people you would like to access you. The sight of boundaries already tells people how to behave and notifications of possible outcomes. Thread: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1676608467107192832?t=BoEj1YFYjOpXp6zb0c0Efw&s=19 8 Likes |
Phones / Re: The RAM Scam: How Smartphone Companies Trick You With Big RAM by CaveAdullam: 12:59pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Good content. Nice video. |
Music/Radio / Re: What Is That New Song You Just Can't Get Off Your Head Right Now... by CaveAdullam: 10:59am On Jun 24, 2023 |
Reason by Omah Lay. I had to caution myself. Binging on it back to back since when I first heard of it. The downside of that song is the duration. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: A Friend Of Mine Denied His Mother In Front Of His Friends Cause Of Shame by CaveAdullam: 11:24am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Laird: 1. Yesterday, I saw a woman hawking boiled groundnut with her newly born child. Tightly tied to her back with a rough dirty wrapper. The baby is between 3-4 months old. Meanwhile, the baby is the third of 3 children; the eldest is between 5-7 years, and the second child - is 3 years. Before then, I have seen her struggling between heavy rainfall and scorching sunlight. 2. I love to see these children play. Their innocence when running and hiding from each other is a show of clean conscience. Let me add: these children are physically beautiful. The combination of their voices, when they talk or sing is comparable to hosts of celestial bodies in procession for an angelic being. 3. They are not bothered by the economic status of their parents. Their clothes are worn out, but the joy they have within make them dance with them as if it was new. Their understanding of the world is low and pure. Ignorance of human nature makes them mirthful every moment. 4. But each time the rays of my vision are cast on them, I see children who are lost in a world. This ignorance they enjoy is transient. From the lens of adulthood, they are suffering and deprived. Twenty years from now, they will be challenged by reality. And their parents will be the first victim of their maliciousness due to their poor conditions. 5. The possibility of light at the end of the tunnel is ultra-slim. Because their parents can't even provide them with their basic needs. Their daily living is to find food and water to survive today, to have the strength to find food and water tomorrow. 6. The parents are hopeful, at least as adherents of religious faith, they are waiting upon God for a miracle, signs, and wonders. 7. Their optimism isn't wrong. However, they're not realistic. This is the reason there is a smooth transition of poverty from one generation to another. It is termed the "generational curse". Predecessors didn't set any landmark or foundation for their children; the children still operate with the same technique as their predecessors. This is the cycle of poverty. It lingers until someone in that genetic line, thinks and does things differently. Of course, it becomes a "supernatural miracle". 8. To understand why the poor reproduce, we must go back to evolutionary biology. The goal of every living species is to have a safe environment for survival and reproduction. Myriads of adaptive features and behaviors are predicated on this template. 9. Wealthy people reproduce fewer children because they have ensured a good environment and made provisions for the survival of their children. Children can live for a long and reproduce successfully because they have the prerequisites necessary for survival and the spread of their genes. 10. Should I tell you about poor men? They reproduce a higher number of children because they are not in the right environment and are low in resources expedient to cater for their children to ensure their survival. Should in case one child die or become unable to reproduce, they have other children who can spread their genes. Remember: it's all about survival, reproduction, and the spread of genes. 11. I understand the problem of the black tax. However, life is give and take. Your parents and family helped you from infancy to adulthood until you become firm to survive on your own. This is because they want you to help them when they are weak and old. No parents want evil for their children. It is our declining culture and poor economic conditions that are making us feel bad about our parents. Our parents are guilty of their mistakes. But they also operated based on their knowledge and exposure. Your parents and family will depend on you whether you are poor or rich. It is a cry for survival. And if you fail, it does everyone badly, as the family gene can't spread in the genetic pool. You may say that you didn't choose to be in this world. Nobody does actually. Since you are here, make do with what you can instead of losing yourself to uncorrectable mistakes and wandering thoughts. 12. Sex is sweet. Good for the rich and poor. They will work to have a taste of it and its results - pleasures, and children. If there is development on a national scale, citizens wouldn't want to reproduce many times. Until then, the best is to advise poor people to reproduce the number of children they can cater to. Even though, we know it's a vicious cycle of poverty. Thanks. Cc. Hedgefunds, Emmaodet, Tonnyray, Reminderz, et al., 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: She Rejected My Love Because Of This(photos) by CaveAdullam: 8:56am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Lastly Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, Reminderz, et al.,
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Romance / She Rejected My Love Because Of This(photos) by CaveAdullam: 8:54am On Jun 14, 2023 |
1. The love you refuse to give your daughter inside will destroy her outside. Dear father, do you care for your daughters? Dear mother, what do you teach your little girls? The first place a woman can know and determine both platonic and romantic love is in the home. 2. Her interaction with her siblings and parents gives her a tangible idea of platonic love. This helps her to build and maintain a strong relationship outside. This kind of love is a plane she will stand to interact with most people. 3. Good observation of her father and mother or married siblings helps her determine what kind of treatment and romantic love that is required of the masculine to the feminine and how the feminine can open her portal to access that love. 4. There will be distortion in her idea about romantic love if there is no peace in the home. Homes, where the father and mother are not in love and unity create a great problem for the children. 5. It pushes the children away. Their view of love is tainted. Their search for love makes them enter dark corners filled with predatory companions. A union is formed - the relationship between a farmer and his little chick; when the chick gets fattened, it is consumed by the farmer. 6. They suffer abuse at the hands of people they call friends. A bucket crab association; of wicked smiles and untold pains. It gets to a point they are bamboozled not to rebel against abuse and misconstrue uncompassion as love. 7. Homes standing in a quagmire produce unstable children. This instability takes a negative turn in society. 8. Children from unstable homes don't meet up in education, got damaged emotional states, scattered psychological structures, and have poor social health. Their proclivity for sociopathic behaviors is high. 9. Parents that fall for the henpecking and cajoling of modern gender rhetorics and liberal culture are more dangerous. They expose their sons and daughters and watch them being sacrificed for nothing. 10. Your daughter doesn't need any sexual liberation. Her body is not her choice. Because with that body, she can either bring honor or shame to the home. 11. She must feel your love and understand the deeper meaning. Her liberation is within the boundary of this genuine love. Within, she gets to find the right man that you can pass the baton to continue to guard and lead her. 12. The moment you assume she's an adult and can leave freely, that moment her decline starts. The freer the woman, the higher the attraction of predators to her corridors. She becomes enticed by their appearances, lured by their baits, and wounded by their shining teeth. 13. Stable homes produce stable children. If your daughter is loved and guarded at home, her feminity will be protected from harm. She will become a mother of honor, a home builder, and the bearer of the philosopher and warrior. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1668877382269140992?t=D0n8rhQKjjt02Y7xUGLFgQ&s=19 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:20am On Jun 13, 2023 |
No equality. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / Re: The "Useless" Person I Called A Friend(photos) by CaveAdullam: 6:12pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Part 2 Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, Alhabaze, Reminderz, persephone1 et al., 5 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / The "Useless" Person I Called A Friend(photos) by CaveAdullam: 6:11pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Who's your friend? Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1668301582209888271?t=7lQDGohUKPqium1lnDQmDA&s=19 6 Likes 3 Shares
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Romance / Lessons Learned From The Movie: Prophet Suddenly. "Alias Miokukusheshe". by CaveAdullam: 10:02pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
1. Never pretend over disturbing marital issues. Make your feelings known. Don't hide any hurt. All disturbing matters - sex, love, care, money, and attention must be discussed and solved. 2. Humans are multifaceted in their dealings, relationship, characters, and behavior. The friend that helps you in becoming competent and makes you shine like a newly born twinkling star might be the same friend that may lure you to crime or evil. Know when and where to draw the line. 3. Desperation is dualistic: you need it to uplift yourself from a lower state. Desperate people do desperate things. Being desperate isn't evil. However, with every adventure be able to acquire the right tool and knowledge to reach a worthy end. Your desires can be achieved from either a moral or immoral path. Let your desperation steer you toward the moral path. 4. Whatever you revere controls your heart. Set your mind on virtues and transcendental values. You'll live above money even if you're poor; above lust even if you lack love; above materialism even if you lack goods. 5. Mentors are important in every journey in life. Make acquaintance with a mentor or master that has garnered wisdom through experiences, solitude, hunger, pain, and suffering in the path you're about to move. They will help you thread carefully by refining you with lessons and avoidable errors. 6. Overcoming addiction or weaknesses has to do with a tough decision. You will overcome if you're resolute in your actions. 7. Be diligent in your duties. Let your competence shine. It will make men honor you. Be accountable. Don't engage in activities you can't fathom and perform accurately. 8. Have a goal. Pursue it. Use people that have accomplished such a goal as a benchmark. 9. Pride is the damn of all men. Be open-minded when in contact with what's superior to whatever you hold or believe. It's not an easy feat, especially for men who have reached a great height. Attached to an archaic version after the emergence of a modern, polished, and refined version leads to stagnancy. 10. Be careful of every path you follow in life. Some paths you can't turn your back to retrace your steps. Some paths destroy. Some paths exhort. Be cautious as you move. 11. Focus on your mission. Device means to overcome distractions that are capable of taking you far from your purpose. 12. Secrets are important. Know the person you tell your secrets. Don't tell anyone your deep secrets when you don't know their deep secrets. Your companion must be proven to be loyal. 13. Don't make fun of those you're allocated to render help. Don't pollute them. Leaders must lead effectively. Followers must decipher their leaders before following. 14. Loyal companions are known in times of trouble. Those that abandon you in dark moments are those that are there to share water with you. You share the same blood with the ones that stayed. Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1664375000768315392?t=4ivFqoZYnFDhpJR6zgxZxQ&s=19 9 Likes
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Romance / Re: Guys Wey Sabi Come Talk: How Can You Tell That A Lady Is Promiscuous? by CaveAdullam: 9:48pm On May 28, 2023 |
1. The woman is a born Machiavellian. She can camouflage to protect or defend herself in the least forceful way. 2. Only a few people are skilled in understanding body language and can peep into the nature and character of a person by merely looking at them; making judgments through physique and appearance, looking at their faces and eyes. 3. To avoid wrong judgment when it comes to a skilled manipulative woman, you can know if she's promiscuous by elongating your communication with her. During the discourse, don't act as a saint. Even if you're an angel, pretend to be like the average demon person who doesn't give a fvck about morals and values. This makes her feel relaxed. She will find you comfortable and trustworthy, and open her well of dark secrets for you to see. Make sure you throw jokes, smile, and laugh during the discourse. It eases tension. With good rapport, you'll get to know her better. 4. There are others you can predict their character from their mode of dressing, hair color, tattoos, multiple piercings, and spoken words. However, judgment from this angle has more to do with cultural trends and what's acceptable by society. Notwithstanding, many ladies are guilty on this side of judgment. 5. The best way to discern with higher accuracy is the long form of communication and close contact. Thanks. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:54pm On May 28, 2023 |
Zabiboy: What do you mean by this: Zabiboy: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:06pm On May 27, 2023 |
Zabiboy: Proper discernment is expedient before throwing stones or castigations. Without it, your judgment will always be wrong. Blacks are the least married compared to Hispanic, White, and Asians. Blacks are most likely to divorce when compared to the aforementioned races. Longevity of marriage is higher in Asians, Whites, and Hispanics before Blacks. If poverty is while marriage still strives in Africa, then, how come Blacks' counterparts who are richer than them, more technologically advanced than them, and with more liberal culture still do better than them in marriage and family cohesion? Marriage as an institution has a function and values. Marriage is a tangible contributing factor to family cohesion and societal development. Though the institution has been flooded with a lot of abnormalities, it doesn't change its nature. Gloomy clouds filled with dark horrible smoke don't change the color of the blue sky. Marriage has its problems which is understandable. And it's your decision to get married or stay unmarried. But using the avoidance of marriage as an excuse to avoid loss is ridiculous. Because at the end of the day, your houses, cars, cash, and luxuries will still land in the hands of a man/woman who will use them to further their course after your death. In this life, you can't escape compromises. Pick your poison and move on. Thanks. 16 Likes |
Romance / "How Asake Helped Me ORGANIZED My Life" (photos) by CaveAdullam: 7:16pm On May 26, 2023 |
People lack organizational skills. They give up when they don't meet expectations. Meanwhile, expectations are met when patterns are recognized and followed. They never had things arranged and fixed appropriately. So when they fail, they blame it on the method and judge the system as inefficient. They are myopic to their foibles and the chaos they inhabit. When the mind is littered, there is no way a man can achieve a result or match his opponent on the field. Order must reign within and without. Being organized ensures that terrains are traversed with ease. The journey may be difficult. But if the mind is well aligned, it gets better rather than worst. Even if it gets worst, it is easier to track where the piece fell off and how to attach it to the puzzle. Success might be an offshoot outside what has been planned. If this is the case, good organizational skills must cover the unexpected and must be considered along the margin of the organization. Without organizational skills, the leader can't lead. Knowledge about leadership is not enough. The knowledge must be well organized to lead effectively. This organization enables the followers to see and understand where appraisal and discipline rest, coordinating them to do better and achieve their common goal. For a man to be able to lead his family, he must have an orderly way of handling the neurotic nature of the feminine and the ferocity that lies within her. Within his frame, an organized man is a building with a hearth. And as the leader and owner of the house, rather than chaos, he fans her fire to provide warmth. Things may not go as planned. Opportunity abounds and takes whatever shape, color, and style. However, this doesn't negate the importance of organization. A wise man doesn't bank on chance and rare opportunities. He lay down a systematic way that aligns with his objectives to reach an expected end. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1662158704773300237?s=20 4 Likes 1 Share
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Politics / Re: UK Special Forces Operated Secretly In Nigeria β AOAV by CaveAdullam: 9:37pm On May 23, 2023 |
musicwriter: I was watching a short video (couldn't here the audio clearly) interview of a catholic medical doctor yesterday where he made a revelation that a certain oversea group has bought all the federal government hospitals in Nigeria and has the National Assembly in their pockets. Their sole aim is organ trafficking. During their meeting, the former deputy senate president, Ike Ekweremadu was among the leading official who was in relation with the medical group and other doctors. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Monthly Amazon KDP Income Report For My 7-year Old Son by CaveAdullam: 5:32pm On May 21, 2023 |
byrron: Good evening, Byrron. I sent you an email. I await your response. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:26pm On May 19, 2023 |
Keep your sisters. Protect their mother. Safeguard your daughters. Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659633193807429638?t=pDTRYDATwYfwTOAA_xJs_g&s=19 9 Likes
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Romance / To Fathers, Concerning Their Little Daughters(photos) by CaveAdullam: 8:17pm On May 19, 2023 |
Provide for her. Keep her. Protect her. You must safeguard her from danger. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659633193807429638?t=pDTRYDATwYfwTOAA_xJs_g&s=19 5 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / Gosh! Please Help Me. How Can I Survive This Life Now(photos) by CaveAdullam: 5:17pm On May 18, 2023 |
The difference between "real life" and the "theatre" is that in the former everybody is a participant. Unlike the theatre, spectators are not involved in the play or action, shielding themselves from the direct brutality on stage save for the negative emotions they feel when the actor they cheer is being tormented. In real life, everybody is involved. Some are warriors, the ones who fight and champion change for the betterment of the whole or change predicated on rapacity, egocentrism, and arrogance. You're either a warrior or a casualty. No hiding behind. Real life is a battle for survival, power, money, and control. You don't feel happy because your actor is winning as you witness in the theatre. You feel happy because you're winning in real life. And as your wins are in a crescendo, the more you attract foes whose desires are to overthrow you. Sycophants and saboteurs get closer. You're a reminder of their lowly state. Allies also begin to corral around you for assistance. In real life, the only people that care are your tribes/family, however, which subsides with time as you mature into an adult. In addendum, your ideas, beliefs, and principles make you come in contact with tribes aside from your bloodline; people who share the same beliefs with you - allies. Everybody participates in real life. You can call it a game, war, or race. There is a competition going on within and without. You can't escape it. Comfort can't shield you. It is a web you've been launched into by being human. Strategizing methods to fight and win is utmost as your life depends on it. From an aerial view, no rescue team is in sight approaching your direction. In real life, you feel the direct effects of what actors face on stage + all the negative emotions of the spectators. Fretting only destabilizes. Like the actor or warrior, you must find possible maneuvers to stay afloat to the end. Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659229632728559618?s=20 4 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / Re: How To Reduce Hook-ups In Nigeria by CaveAdullam: 7:59pm On May 14, 2023 |
pansophist: 1. Prostitution is an age-long profession. It can only be limited but can't be eradicated. Prostitutes meet the demands for sex, both for men occupying the totem pole of society and the peasants fighting for crumbs at the bottom. Prostitutes are for the lower men in the real sense since the men can't easily attract women because of their position in the hierarchy. 2. The proliferation of prostitution today is because of the liberal culture comprising people who have no religion and fear no GOD. Religious laws have always helped checkmate human extremities. Whether God exists or doesn't exists is not the debate here. The laws of God matter despite the fairy tales, myths, and allegories. 3. Societal decline takes various shapes. Prostitution is just a part of it. What about cybercrime? What about corrupt leaders? What about sycophants? What about vicious people? What about weak-minded and complacent people? What about the dumb and slug? What about the drug dealers? What about the transgressors? 4. Prostitution has a negative ripple effect in society, however, it poses less of a problem when compared with the aforementioned. To be candid, prostitutes are not the problem of any decayed society; prostitution is a symptom and consequence of that decay, not the cause. 5. There is a moral deficiency in our society today. Immorality is being glorified. Integrity, truthfulness, humility, honesty, and braveness are being disdained. Meanwhile, society shapes itself to what the people applaud and pass the batons to the next generation. 6. You can't tell the buyer not to buy fruit when you're selling fruits. And you sell fruits because you want the buyer's money. Prostitutes want money; men want sex. It is a simple exchange. 7. Sex is a common feature in the kingdom Animalia. No matter the restrictions placed, there will always be one man, one woman, one boy, or one girl that will still maneuver the restriction and have sex outside a defined relationship or marriage. Drug dealers come to mind despite the jail sentences or death penalty if found culpable. 8. Prostitution is prolific in nations with poor economies; sex becomes a game of survival. Prostitutes offer sex because they want money since no man can cater to their needs. Men want to have sex because of their high libido and it correlates with the act of passing their genes had it been they have their spouses they are cuddling by their bedsides. 9. To limit prostitution in underdeveloped nations, the economy of that nation must be improved. Then, men can live up to their standards and cater to their women and practice an agreed polygamous marriage. And women will choose better jobs or have resourceful men that will take care of them rather than opt for prostitution. 10. In developed nations, prostitutes reign because of a lack of morals. If there are more moral individuals who occupy top positions and know the effects of prostitution and promiscuity, especially on women, it will reduce. 11. No man can ban prostitution. The highest is haunting cathouses. And If it happens, trust me, many women will become sellers in the market while men will visit the market more. The church can be used as a place of contact and exchange. Even shopping malls, libraries, and event centers. The business is now stealthy and will become more expensive - compare this with hard drugs. 12. Incessant promiscuity damages both men and women and society at large. Once society gets better by having better people just like Lee Kwan Yew, former prime minister of Singapore, and the people are enlightened about the long-term consequences of promiscuity and promiscuity not tolerated or applauded, prostitution will reduce to the ground. Thanks. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Men Are Ev!l(photos) by CaveAdullam: 7:40am On May 14, 2023 |
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Romance / Men Are Ev!l(photos) by CaveAdullam: 7:40am On May 14, 2023 |
We do expect humans to act civilized and be kind at appropriate times, however, not the case. Humans on Earth are like animals in the jungle. Of course, belong to the same kingdom Animalia. Once you start seeing humans from the lens of wildlife documentary you'll expect less. If you're open-minded, you'll see your deficiencies and foibles, and their replication worldwide. This revelation may cause your change, but not so for others. Here, religion and patriotism enter the scene to harangue national change for peace and cooperation. Sermons and adherence to laws are in contrast with the human nature. Human nature wants to explore different boundaries and get their desires sated even though it means trampling on the mild, young, and innocent. This same behavior is observable and quotidian in the wild. So for sermons to be considered and made effective, eternal punishment and eternal reward come into play. State security is placed on alert to curb crimes and put implacable criminals behind bars. Punitive and applause are tools to get human cooperation. But the problem is that once the seat of power, justice, and mercy is being overthrown and occupied by a vicious being, law and order becomes only applicable to the weak and poor. Those vicious beings at the top leverage their new position to act as wild beasts. This phenomenon is glaring on Earth. The extension of despotic and neurotic leadership leads to national chaos, breeds juvenile predators, and growth of tiny parasites, sycophants, and saboteurs. There's a complete loss of faith. The people are always in a state of chagrin. Truth is relegated to the backseat. Falsehood and vices are lauded. The righteous man doubts his stance. The immoral man is prideful in his ways. There's no order. No peace. There are only shows of pretense and suffering. This is the way of the Earth. The operations of mankind. You don't need to wail, dine, and die on the table of complaints. Like endangered species in the wild, you must develop structures and behaviors to survive, make counterattacks, run fast, and scale through to the end. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1657631841287905282?t=pDd86fgp-jIVe4sXQ_reTQ&s=19 1 Like
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Foreign Affairs / Re: UK Delivers 'storm Shadow' Cruise Missiles To Ukraine Ahead Of Counteroffensive by CaveAdullam: 11:56am On May 12, 2023 |
pansophist: Situations giving pre ww1 vibes. The kinda proxy war looks bae and obvious. |
Romance / See This Poor Man(photos) by CaveAdullam: 6:27pm On May 10, 2023 |
The way of the universe makes a man ponders incessantly. For he sees one man prosperous in all his ways and not forestalled. He sees another man by the corner of the building whom he has known for decades begging daily for alms yet hasn't become rich. One man prospers in his vices and seems justice is nonexistent. Another man though has dedicated his life to virtues and kindness but still struggles to make ends meet. The continuous struggle of one man and the continuous flourishing of the other will make the heart conclude that everything in life is predetermined. One man is born lame and can do nothing. The other is born whole. Because these scenarios are ubiquitous. One is born in a geography capable of bringing him success without too many trials. While the other has his geography decorated with relics of bombs, bullets, and blood. But faith is the obstruction of this movement. The man of faith who's unsatisfied will launch himself into the depths of darkness to set himself free. It is this faith that alternates the conditions in the universe even though the universe is unperturbed and not in love with any human but just going the way it was orchestrated - not sensitive to any emotions or conditions and doesn't care about the humans it houses. With great faith, a man can straighten his crooked path. Or in that path discover a better form of motion. It is great faith that lifts him higher. It is great faith that keeps him moving even though his situation looks unfathomable. It is this faith that fuels his movement and keeps him going. The man that has found rest despite his angst condition is a man that has lost faith. This faith and movement is capable of bringing positive change. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1656348782504681472?s=20 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Romance / The Weakling That Wants To Beat A Wrestler(photos) by CaveAdullam: 3:04pm On May 05, 2023 |
You can invest the same 10,000+ hours & still not meet up with a genius. Surpassing advantage: good environment, IQ, & good socioeconomic status. This will drive you into confusion, depression, or even neglect your dream because you are a bicycle in comparison with a jet. Lacking these advantages doesn't mean you can't reach your destination. However, you must understand that you're limited in great areas and will at least Γ2 the number of the required time + stage good maneuvers when you encounter impediments. Using a genius as a yardstick is good. Aiming to become identical like the genius will end in futility. Both of you can work well & profer quality solutions, but as with everything, nothing is equal. The jungle is home to animals, however, some are weak while others are strong. You need to understand your makeup and the tools available for you to meet up. You may work harder or lesser. Know your league. And play accordingly to get the work done. Use a yardstick but don't get lost in comparison. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1653811897072857110?t=K4XgR8caPObDKUMSakJ_KQ&s=19 2 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / Re: I Don't Think This Marriage Can Work Any Longer(photos) by CaveAdullam: 7:24pm On May 04, 2023 |
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Romance / I Don't Think This Marriage Can Work Any Longer(photos) by CaveAdullam: 7:23pm On May 04, 2023 |
If "people lack common sense", it means that that sense is not common. What is common ought to be easily obtained by many people. It is common sense because you've been able to brood on it over time, which has made it soft like potato inside a hot water. Anytime people fail in performing in what relates to "common sense" know that such sense isn't common. Or they have low intelligence to understand and decipher a problem. Or they lack the wisdom to take action. Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of tradeoffs on the sides of both parties. Many people can't even rule themselves not to talk of brushing, greasing, and maintaining their edges when in close relationship with others or a sexual union. By instinct, a woman knows how to take care of her baby. It's a biological imperative. However, she has seen how other women nurture their kids + she's supported by other women after conception on how to raise her kids. Marriages has been existing and are COMMON, but modern couples are failing because they only see two people in the union but are not cognizant of the tradeoffs, the fights, the quarrels, and the tough decisions made behind the scene. All these make marriage hard. Marriage is not a one-person game. If the man lacks the qualities of a leader, he can't lead. If the woman lacks discernment about the details of leadership she can't follow a leader. For the woman to be submissive and play her role, the husband must be a good leader; for the man to remain firm as a leader, he needs the unrelenting support of his wife. Marriage is not the place to please the sensibilities of anyone. It is an altar - a place of sacrifice. The essence of that sacrifice is to build a long-lasting dynasty that springs from their loins. It hurts to sacrifice a pleasure. It hurts to live disciplined when being liberal is exhilarating. It hurts to lay down your half with the hope of getting one even though you are full of legitimate doubts. These sacrifices made, pains willingly incurred, and pleasures disposed of for the greater gain are the mitochondria of every successful marriage. It is not visible to the eyes of people outside. It is not a COMMON SENSE. What is common is their outings and children, which makes marriage seems easy. But none is cognizant of the secrets in the dark and the prerequisites to celebrate the 10, 20, 30, 40, and 50th marriage anniversaries. The common man and common woman come into marriage for sexual and material opportunities respectively, with the prospect of a happily ever after without considering the long road. They want the satiation of their sensibilities - this is mostly true for the female who expects to be kissed and pampered like a little feminine infant. And when they don't get the supply as expected they become bothered and grieves towards divorce. Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of work. The sense to make it work and last long is UNCOMMON. It is uncommon because the average human is emotional and wants to live in a comforting shell. And it doesn't take to climb great mountains to get this sense. It can't be seen because of the high level of solipsism. If you step out of your shell, the uncommon becomes common. Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1654055555059654657?t=d-eUCVl9gd1plPh6YWoEng&s=19 8 Likes 4 Shares
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Politics / Re: Shehu Sani Knocks Buhari Over Claim That He Has Delivered The Change Promised by CaveAdullam: 2:21pm On May 03, 2023 |
Buhari is the prototype for failure. Buhari is a fleshly example of a monumental disaster. Buhari's series of electoral failures was a true definition of him. One would think he had something in the bank, hence, his ambition to clinch the presidential seat in Aso Rock. But it turned out that he has nothing to offer. He is a consistent failure. His ambitions are empty. He is the proverbial representation of "the empty drum makes the loudest noise". Anything incompetent is Buhari. Anything sluggish is Buhari. Anything myopic is Buhari. Anything dumb is Buhari. Anything hopeless is Buhari. Anything useless is Buhari. Under Buhari, the country became the world's poverty capital. Under Buhari, the economy which was one of the fastest growing became one of the least growing. The economy has hit a series of recessions and inflation as easily as a comb runs through the hair. Before Buhari, we slept with one eye closed, now we don't even sleep. We work tirelessly during the day and became nocturnal vigilantes at night. Under the nostril of Buhari, crime and social vices became a norm. A graduate male not into cyber fraud is term "a dull boy", a graduate female not spreading her legs across the 36 states is mocked and termed "holy Mary". And the same Buhari is about launching his identical self on us: Buhari Pro max alias Bola Ahmed Tinubu. "make we just dey play". Sigh. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Food / Re: He Cooked A Colored Chicken Stew. by CaveAdullam: 11:10am On May 03, 2023 |
Reminderz: Through the Payoneer website. |
Food / Re: He Cooked A Colored Chicken Stew. by CaveAdullam: 8:35pm On May 02, 2023 |
Reminderz: Pardon the late response. I opened a payoneer account. But I think there are other better methods to look out for. Good evening. |
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