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A woman that truly loves and respect you will behave well. Enjoy your dividend of opueh and stop complaining as if you don't know where the problem lies. |
SpencerForbes:Agree. We're all still testing the depth of love and romance. As intelligent beings, our aim is to traverse our animalistic instinct and operate in higher realms. For now, the apex of romance is Devotion. A man and woman totally committed to each other in all its shapes and colours. That's what is most important right now. So, whether through cold approaching or genuine desire, the goal is Devotion. However, genuine desire is closer to it. Thanks. |
ElasmoBranchii:1. We've had this discourse several times in the past over the years. So, no need trying to awaken it; only as form of remembrance. 2. When we are talking about cold approaching, it's not about you. We are talking about the average Joe - their predispositions and results. What happens on average is what's relevant here, not what happens with one or two pickup artists. Your position is right. There's trueness in what you've stated. However, the problem is that you haven't considered what happens at scale when billions of men are being considered. 3. I have been at both sides of the fence and I can speak confidently about both positions. Nothing compares to Genuine Desire. Money is important. Looks is vital. Status is relevant. But genuine desire don't give a Bleep about these things when it wants the man she wants. These other things becomes an icing on the cake when she has completely devoted herself to you. 4. You need to see a godly woman in the truest sense, breaking her rules and principles and adjusting herself to fit you. This is a card she can't play very well when you've cold approached prior. And when it comes to cold approaching women, you care about your notch counts than actually seducing her and owning her soul. While she cares more about you pleasing her than actually devoting herself to you. 5. I'm not interested in hundreds and thousands of women. Not king Solomon. Neither do I have the time or life span to waste my years and time cold approaching hundreds of women because I'm trying to build a skill. I'm concerned about those few women who will completely devote their souls to me, not out of persuasion but out of a desire to stay attached to me. Meanwhile, it's not cold approaching that helps you build whatever relevant skill that makes you a man, be it sexual or nonsexual skill. 6. Won't lie at all - the biggest advantage of cold approaching is meeting lots of women and giving you the opportunity to increase your notch counts. Biologically speaking, this is a relevant skill as more women means more of your genes in the genetic pool. 7. Cold approaching or Genuine desire, a man still needs to put himself outside. Then, leverage his particular kind of sexual or seductive game. However, there's a difference between a beautiful flower that attracts insects and a lion that chases a deer. The ultimate sexual win is Devotion and not notch counts. As well as quality offsprings. Thanks. |
Cold Approaching or Genuine Desire The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this. How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you. The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time. The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar. This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps. Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place. This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡. Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men. It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over. The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire. Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men. Stop shooting aimlessly. Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance. |
The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this. How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you. The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time. The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar. This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps. Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place. This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡. Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men. It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over. The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire. Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men. Stop shooting aimlessly. Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance. |
Him. Yes, Him. The God of Israel. The one who is, who was, and who is to come. But the wall of Jericho falling down flat is more of a metaphor than a literal occurrence. |
JESHAL007:Your legacy, invention, creation, technology and all still needs a human population to span across decades and centuries. If there are no hands and brains to carry it across generations, you likely spent your years on earth wasting time. It's biologically foolish to hustle hard and leave your gains to charity not your kids ( charity in the realest word, not as a scheming mechanism to evade taxation.) Western and Asian societies ignoring childbirth are doing themselves great disadvantage. Anyways, the children of the poor will soon migrate there by all means and take over, then, replenish their whacked genes. You can't afford to lose at every corners. Nothing wrong if you decide to opt out of the gene pool. After all, life is meaningless at the end. You won't even know about your gene or wealth when you are dead. Thanks. |
JESHAL007:I agree. You are totally on point. However, do you think nature gives a Bleep about your poverty? Who do you think cares about your troubles and challenges? Nobody. I'd espoused everything on that tweet as far as my knowledge carried me. Taking yourself out of the gene peel is nature using poverty as natural selection process. There will always be genes for every next generation, and it's bad if yours is not included. Many men and women lower than us are propagating the earth with both good and bad offsprings. They're nature's channel for multiplying the earth and keep it moving. There's no guarantee you will become as rich as you desired. You can make wealth today and lose it tomorrow. Nothing is guaranteed. So, rather than leave your life to chances while not take advantage of every opportunity right now? This is one problem with intelligent or enlightened people: always rationalising instead of taking the shots. Meanwhile, time waits for no one. We don't have power to change our current situation individually except as a community. But as we await the hands of the community, we won't allow opportunities pass us. If it's impossible to combine your modest income + that of your spouse to run a family, it's fine. You can ignore it. Those that can do it will do it and replenish the earth. The fact that you are disadvantaged doesn't mean others can't leverage their current predicament. Remember: nature doesn't care about your riches or poverty. Only genes for the next generation. Thanks. |
You are the one in love, not the woman. As far as marriage is concerned, the woman should be the one reducing tensions and avoiding frictions. A woman that loves and cherish you will burn down any stronghold that stops her from reaching you. She will construct any bridge no matter how long to reach you. Neither doctrines, nor, religion, nor parents, nor principles can stop a woman from meeting you when she's genuinely interested in you. You've known her for long but she doesn't "recognize" you. And if both of you are already having this brief collision before wedding (over useless religious dogmas and ignorance at both ends), it may be a sign that the universe doesn't want both of you in a marriage union. Probably, both of you still got secret options and are testing for the best one. |
Successfully ended a very very useless relationship. Thank you, Jesus for using me as a vessel to redeem a brother. I'm happy. Bro is smiling. He's happy. Everyone is happy. March will be good. Happy New Month. |
From frying pan to fire. 😂🤣😂🤣😂 |
Family is a double-edge sword. Family is the backbone that holds you when everything is falling. Family out of kinship protectiveness will shield you from engaging in profitable risks or adventures. Parents don't go out consciously to become an hindrance to their children. In their attempts to protect, they paralyze. The reason: parents are now truckloads of experiences - good, bad, and ugly. In an attempt to reconstruct and realign their lives, they begin to live vicariously through their children. They want to achieve that great dream through their children or correct a mistake through their children. That's why all the parental blackmail like "I breastfeed you for 9 months, what an elder sees why sitting down a child can't see it even if he climbs an iroko tree". Children are shaped by their environment and peer interactions than their parents. And that's where problem normally occurs between parents and children - because the new thing the child is learning outside is not what the parents taught that child inside. So, there's a serious collision. Most children can't survive that stage with their parents at all. And these children grow up to become indecisive and weak adults. Parents needs more enlightenment on raising their kids. |
Comments as it has initially followed should be maintained. Let's not ignore the original intent of the thread. Brethrens, let's continue. |
Win today. Win tomorrow. Always have a winning mindset even if you are losing. |
everythingtall3:She feels "one with him" but she's not spending money. She feels "one with him" but she's not reciprocating care and respect. She feels "one with him" but nothing concern her and his financial stand. She feels "one with him" but her only form of love is parasitism. She feels "one with him" but she's entitled to resources she never worked for. No mutuality. No gratitude. No reciprocation. Only full blown entitlement. Because they are having sex I guess. As if the man's body is firewood. The way most of you reason irks me. Mtcheeeew. |
Gerrard59:Very accurate. Women and children are great expenses for a man. It's inevitable once you decide to open the door for them. Giving to women should be borne out of genuine desire and reciprocation at both ends, love, appreciation, and gratitude. That's the only reasonable repayment or sweet pacifier for the "loss". Again, since money is in the domain of men, they can easily use it to put women on their knees or backs. In that same scenario, many men squander their money without seeing the colour of their pants or small love; as the various women they deal with experience a high savings amount annually. Crazy earth. |
JESHAL007:1. The problem is that many men who have come to the reality about female nature allow it to corrode their hearts with hatred or outright disdain for women. As a result of maltreatment in the hands of the woman they thought they loved, ignorance, or naivety. 2. A man and woman are destined by nature to live together. Nothing can change that evolutionary and biological predisposition. It's a must! 3. Knowledge of female nature makes it easier for you when dealing with women. If you still have symptoms of hate or anything related, it means the truth has not settled in your heart. 4. Take note: how you play the game of life is solely dependent on you. But the endgame of life is death. So, in retrospect, there's no wrong or right way in living your life, because at the end of life is death, and after death, nothing. Provided you live a life not detrimental to your existence, legacy, and community at large. 5. The woman you choose or how you relate with women is dependent on you. Your purpose. Your ambition. Your vision. And how you play along the lines of morality and the conventional lens society used to see and judge us. 6. You can be promiscuous, monogamous, polygamous, playboy, and anything in between. Nothing wrong provided nobody is harmed and that's how you love to play your game. 7. However, as a man who's interested in a woman, you have not yet reached that stage of female domination if you have not been able to INSPIRE DEVOTION FROM THE WOMAN YOU ARE DEALING WITH. Whether you are fucking one or multiple women, at a point in your life, you need to experience what GENUINE DESIRE from a woman entails. You need to be in a relationship where a woman is truly CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU AND ADDICTED TO YOU. This is more than you fucking her at will. No. It's more than sex. It's about living rent-free in her psychology, emotions, her soul, and body. While she desires to please you every fucking time and day. Like your existence is her joy and purpose. Unfortunately, the majority of men can never experience this. Damn! 8. Don't allow anybody to tell you otherwise. Such women exist and are in abundance. It depends on the kind of man that you are and the knowledge of female nature you have. And how far you're willing to go or wait to have such a woman. Because the woman you choose is a reflection of you. 9. A woman devoted to you will inspire you to greatness. A woman can't stop you from growing if you know what you are doing + she's a well-refined woman. Women are difficult to deal with for the average man because the average man doesn't know anything about female nature. If you are a good man and will not settle for less, you'll meet a good woman and refine her to your taste. Your ambitions in life still remain intact and keep manifesting. Happy New Year. |
tensazangetsu20:Ah swear. The first paragraph dey kpai me 😂😂😂😂 |
Smartb0y:"Baba think say he be cat with 9 lives" 😂 😂 😂 😂 |
You will have to do a tour around your new school to ascertain this. It's more than having a capital. It involves a lot. You need to settle down to consider other factors too. You can save your money in some fixed interest funds. Thanks. |
KennethIbe59:1. Why don't you pay a visit to her place of residence since you're familiar there and it's unusual for her to act this way? 2. If she always returns missed calls and hasn't done so since then, perhaps, it might be that she has sunk into a hole. Try to pay a visit to be able to ascertain her condition and attitudes. Or, make another call. Thanks. |
musicwriter:Please, confirm again. Thanks. |
musicwriter:Sent. Confirm it. Good day. |
Homies who have a genuine and good heart towards you are rare. They'd expect you to take your life seriously so that everyone in the circle will be buoyant someday. |
Ask yourself this: if she sees a better man than you, will she stay or leave? Ok, let's continue. 1. You have no business being in a relationship with a woman older than you. At this phase of her life, she sees you as her retirement plan or last card since she couldn't bag a man for over 10 decades since she started menstruating. 2. If you're not ready for marriage before 2025 elapses or at most 2026, there's no need to add blocks of chats, feelings, and romance to the relationship. You'll end up making her a villain towards you. 3. You don't need to do too much "shalaye" like I'm doing now. Once your rent expires, make sure you disappear. Tell her you're going far away and don't know where the road will lead you. That you don't want to waste her remaining youthful days with the hope of a happily ever after. Make this known to her with your eyes wide open throughout that day and make sure your bus is ready to move in the next few hours. 4. If you don't see her as a mother for your kids with her current virtues overriding her vices, show no pity. Exit the union asap. 5. However, it is men like you that eventually turn many women into villains by stringing them along with the illusion of a happy marriage while you're just there for sex and cruise when you know from the outset that you just want to "chop and clean mouth". Godforsaken foolish men. Anyway, life is a game. If you don't know how to play, you'll get played. Thanks. |
musicwriter:They are all ready now. Will send a Google link to your email for you to download, cause the second book is almost 50MB. You'll get the link or email before the end of today or tomorrow. Thanks. |
musicwriter:Good evening, boss. I will try. What's the title? |
Yemmyteespeed007:Wawu. Nice one, Chief. I'm interested. I have one of your laptop powerbank though. Thanks. |
Yemmyteespeed007:That's nice. Please, what are the specifications? Can you extend the shipment to Lagos if possible? Good evening. |
Yemmyteespeed007:Do you also have something aside normal electricity for charging? Like solar boards or panels for charging the powerbanks. Good day. |