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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:06am On Apr 13
DAY 103, REDPILL 2021

Looking for perfection in women is the reason men still sacrifices their heads to the guillotine of outrageous gynocentric laws. They think this woman is not like that; that woman is different. They're blinded by the Disney happily ever. They think love is for better or worst from an equal angle, not knowing that women only settle for better when they can no longer get the best. When things slide to the worst horizon, they prepare their wings and perched on another.

Though both sexes are complementary, but as it is in our contemporary days, one is a predator and the other a prey; men the later and women the former. The only way men can be able to manage themselves and at least win big in this risk of gambling is to have an abundance mindset and understand the feminine nature.

With an abundance mindset he won't be bothered by the damage of one plate. And with an understanding of feminine nature he will be able to mitigate loses and compound gains without falling for all manipulations.

AWALT!

Authority: Elevate.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:34am On Apr 12
DAY 102, REDPILL 2021

IMITATE THE DIVINITY:

Your absence must carry much weight as your presence and vice versa.

Your presence must be like a newly found treasure bag to be highly valued.

Your absence must make the heart beats and causes a retrospection of good old memories.

She doesn't need to know what you're doing at the moment. Your actions and results must be louder.


She doesn't need to know your whereabouts round the clock, sometimes, take a step out for introspection or retrospection without notifying her.

You don't allow yourself to be carried away by her henpecking attitude. To her histrionics, stay mute!

Let her wonder about what you're going to do every minute. Be unpredictable and appear either fast like a German machine or slow like a snail.


For her sins, let her wonder if you're going to (easily) forgive her or not.

For her good deeds, let her wonder what type of reward you've for her.

Like a sweet dream, she must yearn for you.

Don't be an open book.

Authority: Imitate the divinity.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:24am On Apr 11
patoski39:
Xup guys, been a while. Kudos to everybody keeping the thread alive..

Have y'all noticed how women have been walking on the streets this days almost naked. Wearing tight(s) fitted shorts/shirts and most times with no bra..


DAY 101, REDPILL 2021


In auld lang syne, fathers or uncles or brothers or any other reputable male figures full of virility were majorly the ones at the forefront in selecting other men like themselves for their daughters or females: some betrothed their daughters to a reputable family to mend political alignment; some to ensure the good well-being of their daughters; some to gain support and promotion from a high value family; some to upheave the family name. Patriarchs of old instinctively knew about the prerogative feminine chaos, but never acted on it based on a studied knowledge---they acted on their gains and the gains of their daughters, and yet indirectly tamed this internal chaos. For whatever reasons, women weren't given the privilege to select men for themselves.

However, women faced a dilemma: Either to congeal to men they were betrothed to or the men they choose for themselves? The later happens neurologically while the former by patriarchal consensus.

Now the---partriarchy--curtain that shielded women has been torn from top to bottom, patriarchs deposed, the hoisting of useless gynocentric laws, and women granted leeway to act from a neurological level---though, not bad in itself. However, since women are ruled by the dictates of their emotions, having little to no capacity for logical thinking considering the pros and cons of their actions, no space to see the unintended consequences of their actions, they choose men---bad guys or jerks--- that will favour them destructively for a transient time but will never become the man that will commit to them in the long run.

Women claim not to be sex objects, but as generally known: women actions never match with their words. They prefer to be sex objects to status, power, wealth than objectified by simps. The high display of nudity and shamelessness among modern day women is to choose men occupying the totem pole of the society---Hypergamy in play! Men are lured by what they see, and women has mastered the act of seduction but has taken it to another level by a sheer act of stupidity.

In our contemporary days, hypergamy has been operating at the peak using the porn industry, social media and peer pressure in manifesting itself. Women going naked is to simply accrue the creme de la creme among men. Women's sexuality is their first and last tool in line of action---the reason they go naked.

If young women can forecast into the future and realize that none of their juvenile debauchery, hedonism will yield them no return of investment, they will properly calibrate their lifestyle to positivity and productivity. But if they choose to remain myopic, they will continually seek deeper in the quagmire. The family structure has been broken, and the only way to bring back order and minimize the corollary effect of youthful hedonism, perfunctoriness, social vices etc. is to seriously revamp the extended family and nuclear family as an entity part of civilization. Charity begins at home, and if the fundamentals of good behaviour and healthy living isn't learnt at home, it will be difficult learning it outside.


As for you, don't be a dayouth: a man who allows his sisters or daughters to live recklessly. Use other girls and your gleanings from the redpill to lecture your sisters, talk to them and point out females who never became a penny worthy of a loaf of bread because of their unhealthy living. By all means, don't allow the females in your family sullen the family name. Your sisters or daughters must not be numbered among the degenerates. This is your duty as a man, understand the redpill and utilize it for your well-being and that of your loved ones. You can't save all; save the ones you can.

A rich man feeds his family with food but a wise man feeds the world with his wisdom.

Authority: Be a dominant man.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:54am On Apr 10
DAY 100, REDPILL 2021

Extra mile is needed to achieve that goal.

Extra mile is needed to finish that important work.

Extra mile is needed to get that cash.

Extra mile is needed to get that knowledge.

Extra mile is needed to convert imaginations into reality.

Extra mile is needed to step up the hierarchy.

But an extra mile is not needed to hit that coochie.

Authority: Extra miles are for valuables.

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Romance / Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by CaveAdullam: 6:50am On Apr 09
Yoighaman:


Absolutely untrue. How can you say this? That a man and woman cannot be friends, what kind of thinking is that?

What you have written are your opinions, please stick to them and do not generalize.

I have a very close beautiful female friend and it never crossed my mind to sleep with her.

Infact, I played a very big role in her choice of a marriage partner.

The husband knows we are good friends and have not attempted to dissolve our friendship which spans over 10 years. Someone I didn't sleep with when she was single and available, is it after her marriage I will commit such an atrocity?

Keep healthy friendships be it with a male or female. They can positively impact your life.

...and lest I forget, we lived few houses away from each other, worked in the same organization, rode to work together everyday, hung out a lot and attended official functions in the company of each other.

I only reduced the closeness out of respect for her marriage.



So, >10 years "platonic friendship", neither you nor her develop feelings for each other, and with all the physical bonding and proximity? Congratulations!

@First bolded, you were blinded by the illusion of the friend zone. Yeah! That's women greatest game: To receive without giving or the "scope insensitivity".

@ Seconded bolded, you proved my point.

No time to shalaye, I would have decipher such plausible comment of yours.

Like it or not, the bestie union is a scam!

Once again, congratulations for a successful platonic relationship.

Thanks.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:41am On Apr 09
DAY 99, REDPILL 2021

Your achievements should not revolve around your d!ck. Make good cash. Read quality books. Make quality friends. Buy good assets. Be confident. Educate yourself with the right knowledge. Surround yourself with the pundits. Train to be well developed.

Authority: Elevate!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:13pm On Apr 08
Benee1000:


I have said it before, and I will gladly repeat;
As a man, you must perform!
To be successful, to get the girl, to live a good life, men must do. Whether it’s riding down the street to get that cute girl’s attention or to get a doctorate degree to ensure your personal success and your family’s future, Men must perform. Women’s arousal, attraction, desire and love are rooted in that conditional performance. The degree to which that performance meets or exceeds expectations is certainly subjective, and the ease with which you can perform is also an issue, but perform you must.
“In our contemporary world, women no longer seek out comfort or stability in men as they used to, they now seek entertainment. They seek distraction. They seek hedonistic pleasure. This is why provider men (beta males) are so hopelessly failing today to secure the commitment of beautiful women in their prime (they're seen as boring), and this is why even lesser alpha males loose their woman over time.
Once the entertainment or novelty you provide her declines—and it inevitably will—she moves on to something or someone else (she says 'you're no longer the man you used to be). In essence, the only way you can keep a girl is if you adopt the mentality of a soap opera writer, by adding a cliffhanger to the end of each episode that keeps a woman interested when being a good man no longer does.
Right about now I’m sure various male readers are thinking, “f*ck this, I’m gonna be who I am and any girl who can’t appreciate me for me is low quality anyway.” This will probably piss you off, but this is exactly the Blue Pill mentality most ‘just be yourself’ Betas adopt for themselves.
It’s actually a law of power to despise what you can’t have, and deductively it makes sense, but the fact still remains, as a man you will always be evaluated by your performance.
So even with a ‘f*ck it, I’ll just be me’ mindset you’re still being evaluated on how well ‘you are just you’.
Looks, talent, tangible benefits and other core prerequisites may change depending on the individual woman, but to be a man is to perform. Even if you’re a self-defined man going his own way who enjoys escorts to fulfill his sexual needs, you still need to perform in order to earn the money to enjoy them.
It Doesn’t Get Easier, You Get Better.
The concept of men’s idealistic love, the love that makes him the true romantic, begins with a want of freedom from his burden of performance. It’s not founded in an absolute like unconditional love, but rather a love that isn’t dependent upon his performing well enough to meet up with a woman’s Hypergamous concept of love.

If I'm not mistaken, this quote is from the rationale male volume 2 by Rollo Tomassi. And it's absolutely true! Man must perform whether for himself or women. No rationalizations can erase this fact.
Benee1000:

I guess you didn't really understand the write-up, so let me clarify.
The idea about men's performance is the concept behind the phrase "women are born, while men are made".
A woman, simply by being born with a pair of boobs, a vagina, and a womb, already posseses most of what is required of her to survive and even thrive on earth.
Required by who? men.
Man is instinctively wired to provide, cater and protect any woman, if she can simply be available to satisfy his sexual cravings.
A female, simply by existing, already posseses an intrinsic sexual value.
All females posses sexual value; not to every man, but can be to any man. After puberty, a woman tries to package her self (make-up, push-up bra, plastic surgery etc.) to increase her sexual value. the higher her sexual value, the higher the resources she commands.
A man has to pay a certain price if he desires this sexual value. There's no free sex anywhere. you pay one way or the other, directly or indirectly.
A female easily transitions from being a child taken care of by her mother to a lady being taken care of by any man, simply because her existence commands it.
This is not so for a man.
A man has little, to no sexual value. he Posseses no intrinsic value.
He has to do something of value to someone or himself to be rewarded with resources to survive, because his value is extrinsic. He has to be useful to someone or at least, himself.
A man has to earn to survive. He gets little or nothing free. if he can't do anything valuable, he gets nothing.
A man's value is a function of what he can do, and the resources his skills commands.
A man who cannot do anything for himself to survive is a useless man. He has no value to anyone, including himself.
A male transitions from a boy to a man based on his capacity to do. A female transitions from a girl to a woman based on her sexual capacity, which comes at puberty.
A female has to be something to get something, but a male has to do something to get something.
A man having to do something to get something is what is meant by performance.
now, why and how a man performs to get the sexual value of a woman is what distinguishes an alpha from the beta.
An alpha performs solely for his best interest. He has to perform to well enough to afford what he wants and the freedom to do as he pleases. Women are not his goal for performance, they are side benefits as reward for his performance. women are attracted to a man's performance. It is based on his performance that he get options to choose from amongst women who desires him. No performance, no options; no options, no Alpha. An alpha doesn't pay any additional price for sex, his performance as an alpha is enough.
The beta performs to get women. women are the reason for his performance, hence he has to exchange his resources gotten from his performance to get a woman's sexual value.
This my friend, is the origin of simping.
Read the initial write-up again, and you'ld get the hang of it.

Seconded!

I have an article on this topic on my desk for weeks now, to type is just my problem.

Understand: men loses with every interaction with women whether it is a sexual or platonic relationship. The difference is in the amount each man loses. Some lose what they can easily discard, while some lose their hard earned resources falling back to penury and regret and shame. Loses can be indirect: airtime, data, attention, time, or direct: money, gifts, food. Each of these things can be used to achieve other things if not utilized on women or better still can be saved.

Whether "Natural Alpha" or "natural beta" you must lose as far as your libido and women are involved. Alphas don't pay for sex but what about the time it takes for them in seducing women; the sweet talks and complements? What about their physique, intellect and outlook---Is it not part of the seduction? For this reason, when men are dealing with women they should adhere to the Pareto principle: 80/20, where the highest ration goes for their well-being and productivity and the lesser ration for fun and pleasures.

Dealing with women is a game of gambling, if a man can't remain unfazed with whatever outcome with them, it's good he observe from the balcony.

Thanks.

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Romance / Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by CaveAdullam: 6:36pm On Apr 08
Happiboispot:
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well your write up isn't making any sense here. no all bestie situation always end up the way you preview it. besides I have a bestie shes has never demand anything from me neither have I demand anything from her.

No exception to this case because both are matured adults and none is clinically disordered.

However, in your case, know this: men don't f^ck their male friends and women don't f^ck their female friends. Therefore, you're either a woman or she's a man.

On the other hand, she doesn't deem it fit to f^ck you because you're not what tingles the strings and causes waves of vibration in her p^ssy; other men are doing the work; no essence bothering you. Secondly, if both of you always meet almost every day there will be physical attachment leading to emotional bonding. So, if yours is over the internet: whatsapp, facebook, phone calls, definitely nothing really tangible will occur and of which your objection to my post becomes pointless!

Like it or not, bestie is a sham!

Thanks.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:54pm On Apr 08
Junnior:

Why? What if I do not find her sexually attractive at all? Should I then avoid talking to her entirely?

This topic has for a while now been of keen interest to me, as I wish to learn more about this in order to be able to handle my interpersonal relationships with the female folks appropriately.

For example, there is this course mate of mine that is quite nerdy. I do not find her attractive, but I kinda try maintaining a platonic relationship with her mainly because of her academic ability (comes in handy especially during exam period).
There is another that isn't nerdy, but I'm just keeping things simple with her. And there's a reason I'm kinda friends with her as well, and it's nothing sexual.

What do you think?

No way! As far there's proximity between both of you, you will one day find her attractive when she starts wearing sexy skirts, gowns, trousers, tops, alongside good hairstyles and makeup. Or, when other guys begin to hit on her. Or, when she begins to portray her greenlights to a particular guy. Whichever way, you will soon fall for her! No need trying to exude different rationales here, it is what it is!

If you find her academic prowess beautiful, go hard into studying. If she reads for 8hours, you must read for at least 12hours. You don't follow her up and down to help you academically, you become better than her. Ask her what works for her and add it to your repertoire. Once there's proximity for whatever reason, feelings starts developing. So, if you're not interested in her and never will, take an L turn.

For the second lady, whatever you want from her is material resources and not coitus right? You need to be manipulative and emotional towards her---the only way to get women. Dance to her lyrics and carefully snatch what you want from her. However, properly aligning your masculine traits with such tendency, will make women freely give you material resources without you asking them. Women love a dominant and a no nonsense man. When you're able to attain balance you can get from her.

The major problem here is for those religious men that are punctilious to their religious codes and devoted to their religion. They must act sexual to avoid the friend zone. Except they've decided to become eunuchs, they must stay aloof from women in order not to fall into temptation. But for those interested in marriage or women, they must act sexual to:

1. Avoid the friend zone and soul mate myth.

2. To test the level of the girl's devotion to her religion or herself. This is to avoid being deceived by her.

3. To avoid wasting your time and resources. The ultimate game for a woman is to receive without opening her legs: The gold digger's game.


But truth be told, it takes a high level of devotion and discipline for a religious man not to flesh out his sexual fantasies especially when he knows the pros and cons of the game. Some seduce women without laying with them, but these men are outliers. In life, there are risks and benefits to every adventures, and one must consider the value of a particular adventure; what it will cost him; and what he will lose: his peace of mind, dignity, reputation, money, time.

The game is what it is and nothing can change it: Men and women are sexually attracted to each other.

Thanks.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:58am On Apr 08
DAY 98, REDPILL 2021

A man and a woman can't be friends. There's no platonic friendship between both of them.

Women use it as a leverage to get what a man can provide. And men, like patient lions waiting behind the woods, will predate on her at the right time. This's simple biology.

To this rule, no exceptions between matured and normal adults. Respite is but for a while, because at the right time, place, ovulation, libido, all dresses will fly out!


However, men are naive, the reason why the friendzone lingers and they are interred inside it. Men think being friends will make women change their mind and offer them sex freely. And if he at the right time, he fails to launch his missile, he will continually sink deeper into the friend zone until the woman finally discard him. The friend zone is beneficial to the women because in most cases they received without opening their legs wide, while the male loses because women keep on with the harangue: bestie, we're just friends, platonic relationship, blah blah blah.

Whichever way, "bestie" is a scam, and both party will leverage upon the ignorance or attitude of the other: Men wants a taste of the cookie; women wants the materials.

Authority: A stitch in time saves nine. As a man, even if you don't want to f^ck her, act sexual! Don't repress your masculinity. Be prudent with your resources of which time and attention are concomitant.

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Romance / Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by CaveAdullam: 8:45pm On Apr 07
A man and a woman can't be friends. There's no platonic friendship between both of them.

Women use it as a leverage to get what a man can provide. And men, like patient lions waiting behind the woods, will predate on her at the right time. This's simple biology.

To this rule, no exceptions between matured and normal adults. Respite is but for a while, because at the right time, place, ovulation, libido, all dresses will fly out!

However, men are naive, the reason why the friendzone lingers and they are interred inside it. Men think being friends will make women change their mind and offer them sex freely. And if he at the right time, he fails to launch his missile, he will continually sink deeper into the friend zone until the woman finally discard him. The friend zone is beneficial to the women because in most cases they received without opening their legs wide, while the male loses because women keep on with the harangue: bestie, we're just friends, platonic relationship, blah blah blah.

Whichever way, "bestie" is a scam, and both party will leverage upon the ignorance or attitude of the other: Men wants a taste of the cookie; women wants the materials.

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Romance / Re: Can You Allow Your MAN/WOMAN To Go On A Date With Bestie Like This? (pictures) by CaveAdullam: 7:53pm On Apr 07
cyndylove64:
u are wrong.i have a male friend as a best friend and let me tell u.we ain't doing shit.he even has a gf and we are not into sex or stuff.we have boundaries but can take pics hug and stuff.a man and a woman can be friends without sex or stuff.not every guy or girl that are besties have had sex with each other


Men and women can't be friends doesn't in anyway means that a man will f^ck every woman that passes him on a daily basis. It means that a man will f^ck any woman he finds attractive or the woman that tends to form an emotional bond with him. And of which platonic relationship is being used as a disguise.

Platonic relationship only favours the female, as the man serves as a prop to the woman's need: emotional, financial and physical. While the man loses! Sex is the woman's highest form of investment in any relationship, that's what she can offer in exchange for what a man's provide. This take us back to: meat for sex in our hunter gatherer days whereby the best hunters gets the most women.

Once proximity and emotional attachment has been cemented between a man and a woman, biology begins to finagle different ways to manifest itself: since women wants what a man can provide, it will definitely arouse the man's libido, that's, to procreate and satisfy his sexual desires. (Exceptions to this: Close family ties, fetishes like pedophilia, abuse of the clinically disordered etc.)

The fact that your bestie hasn't f^cked you doesn't mean the thought of it isn't vacillating in his mind or invincible to the temptation of sexual lust. It is because the right time has not come when something leads to something and boom---sex takes place!

It might also be that:

1. Your bestie is punctilious to his religion and will not like to go against it.

2. He's a gay. And even at that, p^ssy aren't irritating to gays, just that they prefer it less than their norm.

3. He's in a relationship and doesn't want to cheat, but if chance, he will ask for mercy after f^cking the hell outta you.

4. You're ugly! A tomboy! A weirdo!

5. Scared to approach you and will not like to break the friendship but still desires an ounce of your flesh.

6. Still devising various media to add you to his notch counts and has been failing consistently but will succeed soonest.

7. Still blind by the illusion of the friend zone.

The aforementioned factors can only be false if you've tried seducing him but to no avail. But if not, you're still being observed on the radar.

Thanks.

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Romance / Re: Can You Allow Your MAN/WOMAN To Go On A Date With Bestie Like This? (pictures) by CaveAdullam: 1:18pm On Apr 07
A man and a woman can't be friends! And for that reason, both genders have their place of play. Migration from one camp to another calls for mating or sexual escapades. No matter how both try in maintaining a cordial or platonic relationship, their hormones will definitely run amok to do the contrary or tends to do the contrary. Biology doesn't care; it simply want to explore.

The woman wants some cucumber but the male is so bent on dethroning other men in order to elevate and become the king of the friend zone---her dress code is a simple revelation of this phenomenon. (Is that ring she's wearing for real? I pity her fiance/husband if there be, because his spouse is on a rollercoaster which is not ending soon.)

Anyways, left and right, both are gonna fry themselves in the bedroom. But the male will definitely lose at the end!

Gracias.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:36am On Apr 07
DAY 97, REDPILL 2021

Is it not absurd that many a man will rather chase things like women, hedonism, vices which are only empheral and that will not sustain him till old age, than things like wisdom, knowledge, virtues, sound character, frugality and prudence which are perfect pillars that will not abandon him even on his death bed?

Authority: Positive masculinity.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:51am On Apr 06
DAY 96, REDPILL 2021

Everyone should only be entitled to what they worked for. Women should know this especially.

Even if she lacks the all round temerity or necessary factors to help a man achieve a particular goal, she must at least be a good catalyst or act as one in achieving that particular goal. Ergo, she becomes an indirect, unnoticeable effect that made that goal realisable.

Men want women that have sense and will not destabilized their peace.

Authority: Both genders are complements to each other.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:35am On Apr 05
koms:
Check this out


DAY 95, REDPILL 2021


A euphemistic word for:
1. I'm a big girl, and as a big girl I want to have fun, be liberal, have a man who understands my exorbitant nature and will not question me about it.

2. I want a man who will not find any nuance when I flirt with other men. I'm an adult, not a kid and entitled to my actions and opinions.

3. I want a man who will not hold me accountable for any of my reckless attitude. He should always be my bodyguard who cleanses my mess.


4. I want a man that will not dump me but still desire me after my sexual escapades and debauchery.

5. I love a lewd life, I want fun and all men should not deprived their women for desiring such a life.

6. It's good women act liberal with impunity, society is mad and crazy for not allowing women such leeway. Anyway, "women suffer violence like the kingdom of God and only the violent women take what they want by force".

7. It shouldn't seem as if I'm the only one strolling down this road, I solicit with other women that they should come out, voice their opinions and do as they like. I don't want to go down the drain alone.


8. Men should be totally committed to a spouse who has wh0ring tendency. And men should not see this as wrong but as a way of helping a woman discover herself and ensure that the relationship thrives.

9. I want to sit my lazy a$$ doing nothing, my man should be able to cater for my exorbitant lifestyle without complaining. After all, I'm a rare gem.

If she doesn't want to remain underneath your canopy and seek total independence and at the same time want to hold you to your responsibility as per the necessities of the relationship, dump her.

Authority: Dump nonsense!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:12am On Apr 04
DAY 94, REDPILL 2021

Profoundness or depth in knowledge should be as a result of experience, observable patterns, logical exploration and results. Depth isn't born out of experiencing different emotional bandwidths. Emotions are subjective and cannot be use to ascertain quality results. Women are products of the later which made them usually give inappropriate advice---relationship advise most especially.

Hence, men are deemed fit to handle tough and critical issues because they've been sullen by experience in the open field and bears the scars of each struggle. Their experience are wild and objective because like their ancestors they stepped into the wild to fight ferocious beasts while women stayed at home.

Men fight war to victory; women ease the pain of the war after victory. If there's an anachronism of this order, there will be chaos. Therefore, don't expect women to lead.

Authority: Men must take the lead.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:43am On Apr 03
DAY 93, REDPILL 2021

There're two places you can find the perfect women----Heaven: where they've not been created and Hell: where they've repented.

On earth, as kings makes queens, so you must forge a woman into the kind you want. Only potters can make clay pots become beautiful and useful.

Authority: AWALT

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:31am On Apr 02
SOZINN:
Guys dis Lilo gyal go sweet to fúck ooo
Men!!!!

Na to just chop wetin other men don chop
Clean mouth commot
But she go dey form classy bitch now
With that hole
Mtcheeeew

DAY 92, REDPILL 2021.

1. Not that men don't love good girls but that men love good girls that can play the perfect role of a b!tch under his nose and only in his bedroom.

2. Many good girls cannot perfect these dualistic role, and for this reason men retain them for commitment purpose but chase b!tches in order to gratify their sexual lusts.

3. Good girls are the most preferable even if they lack sexual escapades because in faithfulness, bonding capacity, marriage stability, marital happiness they rank very high in comparison to b!tches. And in sexually transmitted infections or diseases, they rank low.


4. B!tches grants men sexual fantasies and fed them with different sexual excitements. A b!tch can secure a man's commitment depending on her level of game and manipulation. But only foolish men are b!tches' treasure bags. No true man can ever entrust his resources to a b!tch.

5. All b!tches were once good girls, but not all good girls can become b!tches. However, wh0ring is entombed in all women, and only the right men can exhume it.

6. But giving women a leeway and liberality to rule over themselves, they will ostensively unleash their internal sodomy---though innate, however, when not under the jurisdiction of reputable patriarchs, culture, religion, they will definitely run amok with it. Don't look to far, a day on instagram or facebook can confirm this fact.


7. A man cannot stay with a good girl for long and same with a b!tch, however, if he can exhume her innate sodomy, she will be the b!tch that satisfies his sexual desires and fantasies and the good mother of his home.

8. Where a man can't find the woman above, he should search for at least a good girl. B!tches are but for a moment and if he continues to chase the satisfaction of his sexual lust, the more he gradually debilitate.

9. B!tches are for short term purposes while good girls are for the long term. A wise woman should be involved in both terms with only one man.


10.Many men can make a woman become a b!tch and only one man can also perfect that role.

A woman should not retract sexual chastity and chose debauchery. She must find a high value man to unleash the dualistic role: the good girl and the wh0re.

Men love b!tches but still prefer good girls.

Authority: Pure masculinity must dovetail with pure femininity.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:53am On Apr 01
DAY 91, REDPILL 2021

MAXIMS


V. You set the boundaries and placed necessary restrictions where due. You inform her about the pros and cons of your territory, so that ignorance will not become her excuse.

VI. You don't monitor her phone or keep close watch over her, you're the prize and need not bother because prize are chased not the other way round.


VII. You don't track her on social media, eavesdrop or place calls every moment; common sense ought to make her aware of the prize she's handling. Meanwhile, continuing demonstrating an abundant mindset.

VIII. You don't tell her to stay away from male friends, bad girls or former relationships, her common sense should help you in doing this.


IX. You give her a long rope to draw, and allow her nibble it to the point where your hand is holding it at the other end. Now you know what to do; send her to the place she belongs: the street.

Authority: Maximize the maxims. And have an abundance mindset.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:13am On Mar 31
DAY 90, REDPILL 2021

No equality anywhere! In fact, nature rejects equality as everything has their own order: bigger and smaller; brighter and duller; beautiful and ugly; tall and short.

There's no bridging of the gap. Those that try in doing this lacks a rudimentary knowledge about the differences existing in the male and female species; and other things.

Men rank higher, women comes next, then children.

You're a man; take the lead.

Authority: Men lead, women follow.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:27am On Mar 30
DAY 89, REDPILL 2021

A simp wrestle with other salmagundi of simps to catch the attention of a woman. These are the orbiters that increases a woman's sense of worth by leveraging on the multifarious attentions she receives from different cardinal positions.

A woman wrestle with other salmagundi of women to catch the attention of a high value man. They get their sense of worth by affixing themselves to him, as how dead virus become living cells in healthy animals.

But high value men are either satisfied with their position, or wrestle with their current position to elevate higher or contend with another high value man to become dominant.

High value men got both men and women orbiting around them. They stretch for higher goals and purpose.

Therefore, as simps becomes spectacular objects to women, so women are to high value men.

Authority: Elevate.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:30am On Mar 29
DAY 88, REDPILL 2021

Nothing tingles and excites her than when she finds herself in the presence of simps who got a lot to pay and spend.

It's blasphemous for her to preach prudence and frugality when she senses a leaking pocket.

Authority: Don't be a simp.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:47am On Mar 28
nwaezeemmanuel:
Hope you don't find your name here.


MY POST IN THAT THREAD ( https://www.nairaland.com/6479602/men-prison-waiting-reply/7)

There are always rationalizations at the palms of any man to defend his cause whether good or bad. Simply put: all men got a reason for doing a particular thing.

Simps/manginas/betas will always have a quantifiable reason to justify their actions and come upon those mano a mano that has been trying to set them aloof from the blue pill matrix. Idiots are screaming shitty about redpill or the meaning of the word: simp. And yet if you asked them how it correlates with the purpose of the thread, off they will run back into their shitty hole. I say this regardless of whether you subscribe to the tenets of the redpill or not.


The op is very high on narcissism, narcissist can't maintain decorum or temporal reclusivness, they fed on drama. Her series of topics and posts can easily confirm to this. Narcissists are also liars, they must do whatever thing to remain visible and acknowledged because they always want to rank higher in the status game.

What you don't know is that many are playing a psychological game on you: Gaslighting! You enabled this by your continuous defence and series of explanations. The best you would have done like others is paying total obliviousness. This is not a time for defence but to expose the stupidity of the op and those coming after you who lack simple rationale. Anyways, since you're going legal I want you to end at the last lap. Scorn narcissists, beat them to their game and they will gradually creep back to their coarse and ugly shell.

Sending a lady a DM is not simping: you're a man, you see a woman you like, you approach her and game her(don't give a fork about anyone's interpretation.) If she flows with your vibes, you paddle her to your desired destination.

What makes you a simp is your continuous chasing, persuading and pleading for her to reason and accept you after she must have ignored you. When you've definitely created a niche on her DM, looking for a day for her to accept you, then, that makes you a simp!


Following a woman's social media handle is not simping. Why will a man deprived himself of relevant information coming from a woman? However, women have nothing to offer! A woman that reasons along the pathway of a man is atypical! It's what women are not predisposed to, rather, they will like to dwell on drama and their feelings.
But if a woman, can caparison herself with beautiful masculine traits like ability for logic, remain calm in turbulent situation, then, she's a woman worth possessing.

You sending a DM is no different from physically approaching a lady, and both redpillers, pick up artists, seducers do it. Or do you want to say Casanova was a simp?
This behavior of the op, her harangue of posts and topics continues to prove that the average woman is a narcissist---an important tenet of the redpill.
You've done nothing wrong from this circumstantial evidence except otherwise.


Over to the simps; haters and mockers of the redpill; and (awon) feminists.

I draw the curtain here.

Thanks.

God bless.

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Romance / Re: Your Men Are In My Prison Waiting For A Reply by CaveAdullam: 10:35am On Mar 28
Mhimi007:
make out time to check out my profile sir and I think I revealed the reason i followed her.I have lots of female friends and that doesn't mean i make friends with them because of sex.once again sire I'll advice you make out time to visit my profile and the reason I follow her was because of a post she created about her been a victim of rape it was shared to me I thought she was like an NGO or a public attorney or something

There are always rationalizations at the palms of any man to defend his cause whether good or bad. Simply put: all men got a reason for doing a particular thing.

Simps/manginas/betas will always have a quantifiable reason to justify their actions and come upon those mano a mano that has been trying to set them aloof from the blue pill matrix. Idiots are screaming shitty about redpill or the meaning of the word: simp. And yet if you asked them how it correlates with the purpose of the thread, off they will run back into their shitty hole. I say this regardless of whether you subscribe to the tenets of the redpill or not.


The op is very high on narcissism, narcissist can't maintain decorum or temporal reclusivness, they fed on drama. Her series of topics and posts can easily confirm to this. Narcissists are also liars, they must do whatever thing to remain visible and acknowledged because they always want to rank higher in the status game.

What you don't know is that many are playing a psychological game on you: Gaslighting! You enabled this by your continuous defence and series of explanations. The best you would have done like others is paying total obliviousness. This is not a time for defence but to expose the stupidity of the op and those coming after you who lack simple rationale. Anyways, since you're going legal I want you to end at the last lap. Scorn narcissists, beat them to their game and they will gradually creep back to their coarse and ugly shell.

Sending a lady a DM is not simping: you're a man, you see a woman you like, you approach her and game her(don't give a fork about anyone's interpretation.) If she flows with your vibes, you paddle her to your desired destination.

What makes you a simp is your continuous chasing, persuading and pleading for her to reason and accept you after she must have ignored you. When you've definitely created a niche on her DM, looking for a day for her to accept you, then, that makes you a simp!


Following a woman's social media handle is not simping. Why will a man deprived himself of relevant information coming from a woman? However, women have nothing to offer! A woman that reasons along the pathway of a man is atypical! It's what women are not predisposed to, rather, they will like to dwell on drama and their feelings.
But if a woman, can caparison herself with beautiful masculine traits like ability for logic, remain calm in turbulent situation, then, she's a woman worth possessing.

You sending a DM is no different from physically approaching a lady, and both redpillers, pick up artists, seducers do it. Or do you want to say Casanova was a simp?
This behavior of the op, her harangue of posts and topics continues to prove that the average woman is a narcissist---an important tenet of the redpill.
You've done nothing wrong from this circumstantial evidence except otherwise.


Over to the simps; haters and mockers of the redpill; and (awon) feminists.

I draw the curtain here.

Thanks.

God bless.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:57am On Mar 28
DAY 87, REDPILL 2021

Don't allow your mission intertwine with a woman. Your mission first, her not by the side but comes last.

Lucky a man who finds a woman who can accompany him to his mission.

Mission accomplished equals women accomplished.

Don't stop on the way looking for who to accompany you to your destination. You're better than tree seeds that step into darkness on their own volition and came out large with thick barks.

The time says: start now!

Authority: You first.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:38am On Mar 27
DAY 86, REDPILL 2021

The reason women lose interest in you is because you lose interest in yourself. You decided to become a spectator rather than a player who is accorded praises and rewards. You neglected yourself and made them your centre of gravity.

Authority: Be spectacular!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:35pm On Mar 26
BLOODYSPERM:





But CaveAdullam these marital crisis is faced by men solely in western and Progressivive Societies, in more conservative Societies like Africa and Arab nations which are religious and traditional ,marriage still remains an asset so long our laws don't change and become gynocentric , I want you to explain to me why marriage might become a liability in Africa , I want you to predict the foreseeable future in Africa as globalization spread gynocentrism , what are we to hope for, Skepticus and Martinez39s your inputs are also required

The future is happening now!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:34am On Mar 26
danielous:
Guys, you might want to see this!..


https://twitter.com/sonofokere/status/1374670453944516611?s=19

The wife kept a lot from the husband..



DAY 85, REDPILL 2021


The two major institutions that has held civilization for long: The marriage and Educational institution. However, as it seems, either both are dead or at the precipice, and ready to get engulfed by the wide mouth of the ocean.

This is what happens when a wholly system is pandered to suit individualism rather than the collective whole. Educational curriculum is now very porous as schools don't teach what's important to real life situation, alongside, useless departments keep springing up on a daily basis with degrees of no importance. Scientists, Professors, Academia, no longer carryout research in search of truthfulness but on the basis of political peanuts, favours and positions. They're now sycophants, they choose avarice thinking it all ends there. But no, you can't hide pollution, when it's time to spread it does and destroys.

On the other hand, women were not allowed to graze many fields in the past, and we thought the patriarchy was wicked, uncompassionate, egoistic, not knowing that they thoroughly understood female nature to the brim. Women were not allowed to graze these fields because nature didn't programmed them for such and culture only allowed men because men were much suitable for it. For example, the corporate world. Also when both graze same field it breds contempt, hence, male and female had their specific play ground. If that woman in that story was a housewife, or her line of business is under the scrutiny and jurisdiction of her husband, she wouldn't have acted in such unscrupulous manner. As tough as things was for the man, he still tried his best in pushing and leading the family forward, yet never knew that a knife of betrayal is about to pierce his soul, a knife not from an enemy but an ally: his lovely precious wife. This's solipsism at its peak. She cares only about herself and has seriously drafted and aligned various means of sustenance waiting for the day her husband will finally slip. You see, she was very pragmatic in such a selfish way. After all, that's what betrayals do!

As earlier said, the marriage institution is in a decline because:

1. Society wants men to take responsibility over women and children but without authority. No, it cannot work. Employees must be courteous and obedient towards their bosses. Ditto for stewards and wives.



2. No incentive for men in marriage: Men of the medieval age never bothered about this, all they wanted was a submissive woman who cooks, clean, play her conjugal duties, and takes good care of the children. They were never bothered of working tenuously because they know that if they don't live to reap the benefits of their labour, their blood line---children---will. Men wanted children at all costs because children is the joy of fatherhood.

However, the marriage system has been vitiated by a motley of pollutants. Since women are acting full blown on their solipsistic nature, it is wise and beneficial for men to watch over themselves by also putting themselves first and foremost.

3. The divorce or family court: men got no incentives in marriage and yet idiotic and unsympathetic judges still decides to strip men of the little they've garnered before, during and after marriage.

You don't expect such a contract to hold. It's a zero sum game with blood spillage everywhere.

4. Aside reproduction and coitus, men don't need women for anything. In fact, women need men a billion times than men need women. Even the chores women boast of are now carried out perfectly by men in the complete absence of women e.g cooking, cleaning, fashion designing etc. So, the marriage institution is no longer a means to these things for men.

5. Society will rather blame men for women's trouble rather than hold both to equal standard of justice. Women exploit men in marriage psychologically, emotionally, financially, physically and yet receives pardon when she misbehaves while her husband gets punished.


6. Since everyone is now entitled to their particular opinion, the gap between degeneracy and discipline is becoming oblivious as both is almost intertwining. Everyone is free to do whatever he or she deems fit without accountability, competency, discipline, criticism, shaming, reproofs.


7. The degenerates after wasting their lives will enter marriage, which of course will be a destructive affair. Marriage cannot hold when both or one partner is a degenerate! If any lacks virtue, knowledge and discipline, that union will definitely suffer. Now, men of today will not marry in order not to jeopardize their worth and inner peace through Marriage.

Marriage of today for the man is high risk and no benefits! And totally vice versa for women.


If marriage will continue to last, men must be given complete authority, women must be held accountable for every of their foibles, the family law must be reviewed to favour both husbands and wives and men given incentives. But simps will never let this happen, they will rather metamorphose to feminine demands, thereby bolstering women's entitlement mentality, support their misdemeanors and watch the decline of civilization as they wait in hordes for some p^ssy juice.

Marriage is no small thing for a man, however, a single man is greater than a married man!

Authority: Men must develop an abundance mindset and put themselves first. They must be aware that a woman can flake at anytime, respond to emotions and does things based on sentiments. They must prepare for the journey ahead should they choose to engage with women.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:08pm On Mar 25
SOZINN:
One girl annoyed me this evening I swear, I just saw her as I was coming back and I decided to approach her. Her appearance was just simple, she wasn't even wearing make up. So I thought maybe she is not one of those girls that dress to impress big men, I decide to converse with her, men you needed to see the way this girl lashed out on me. At first I was so confused, I didn't even say anything, just hello and how are you. And she was yelling at me. I just kept on walking, I could still hear her behind me though.

Honestly just this afternoon I helped my guy get a nice chick, well dressed, I was even a bit scared to approach her but I just did it cos my guy was just standing there, unwilling to make a move. She was so cool, she was even a 700 level student studying medicine and it was her project that brought her to my neighborhood.
But she was well behaved even with her packaging. When she found out that I was just doing it for my guy, she seemed a little disappointed but she still gave my nigga her number.
Then this classless slowpoke that I approached because l like her shape, just trouser, shirt and one old wig. Tried to disgrace me.
FÛCK!!!!!!!

I'm so angry

How can that babe nice to me and this girl will be so mean. Like even if you are not interested can't you just put it in a nice way. The dude you are talking to has feelings for fûck sake.
SMFH

Same lightening hit both of us on one spot. Loooool.

When coming from the gym this evening, I saw her from afar, tried to get closer, highlighted from where I was standing, she feigned not hearing, called the second time, she turned and told me she was late for where she was heading to. I aborted mission and turned 180° to my destination.

A young lady (together with her friend) highlighted me when I was coming from the mission aborted, talked for few minutes, though I didn't collect her number neither did I gave her mine because it was a dangerous mission.

We move!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:28pm On Mar 25
Silence or maintaining composure is another way of exhuming underlying intentions. TRP is a boss, he has a way of baiting idiots to reveal their stupidity.

Definitely, the sheeps will have no way to bivouac even for a short time with the teeming packs of wolves. They will be eaten for supper.

Martinez39s, Ubunja has got a new customer: the idiot above and below.

Let the whining continue as we pay silence to the cheap clout chaser.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:30am On Mar 25
DAY 84, REDPILL 2021

She finds joy in her exes sorrows. Now, she got a good reason for dumping them.

Don't wish for her to come back, rather, continue fishing.

Don't think she's better than every other fishes, but let your net go deeper.

Don't analyse what went wrong, forget about every previous deal and focus on the ocean.

Don't try to correct your mistakes to bring her back. Every corrections should be used in handling other fishes.

Your best revenge is neither apologising nor hurting her; it's becoming a better man. Demonstrate reasons by actions towards her for ignoring a raw gold mine.

If she wants to go, let her go!

Authority: Elevate.

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