patoski39:
Xup guys, been a while. Kudos to everybody keeping the thread alive..

Have y'all noticed how women have been walking on the streets this days almost naked. Wearing tight(s) fitted shorts/shirts and most times with no bra..

Yoighaman:


Absolutely untrue. How can you say this? That a man and woman cannot be friends, what kind of thinking is that?

What you have written are your opinions, please stick to them and do not generalize.

I have a very close beautiful female friend and it never crossed my mind to sleep with her.

Infact, I played a very big role in her choice of a marriage partner.

The husband knows we are good friends and have not attempted to dissolve our friendship which spans over 10 years. Someone I didn't sleep with when she was single and available, is it after her marriage I will commit such an atrocity?

Keep healthy friendships be it with a male or female. They can positively impact your life.

...and lest I forget, we lived few houses away from each other, worked in the same organization, rode to work together everyday, hung out a lot and attended official functions in the company of each other.

I only reduced the closeness out of respect for her marriage.

Benee1000:


I have said it before, and I will gladly repeat;
As a man, you must perform!
To be successful, to get the girl, to live a good life, men must do. Whether it’s riding down the street to get that cute girl’s attention or to get a doctorate degree to ensure your personal success and your family’s future, Men must perform. Women’s arousal, attraction, desire and love are rooted in that conditional performance. The degree to which that performance meets or exceeds expectations is certainly subjective, and the ease with which you can perform is also an issue, but perform you must.
“In our contemporary world, women no longer seek out comfort or stability in men as they used to, they now seek entertainment. They seek distraction. They seek hedonistic pleasure. This is why provider men (beta males) are so hopelessly failing today to secure the commitment of beautiful women in their prime (they're seen as boring), and this is why even lesser alpha males loose their woman over time.
Once the entertainment or novelty you provide her declines—and it inevitably will—she moves on to something or someone else (she says 'you're no longer the man you used to be). In essence, the only way you can keep a girl is if you adopt the mentality of a soap opera writer, by adding a cliffhanger to the end of each episode that keeps a woman interested when being a good man no longer does.
Right about now I’m sure various male readers are thinking, “f*ck this, I’m gonna be who I am and any girl who can’t appreciate me for me is low quality anyway.” This will probably piss you off, but this is exactly the Blue Pill mentality most ‘just be yourself’ Betas adopt for themselves.
It’s actually a law of power to despise what you can’t have, and deductively it makes sense, but the fact still remains, as a man you will always be evaluated by your performance.
So even with a ‘f*ck it, I’ll just be me’ mindset you’re still being evaluated on how well ‘you are just you’.
Looks, talent, tangible benefits and other core prerequisites may change depending on the individual woman, but to be a man is to perform. Even if you’re a self-defined man going his own way who enjoys escorts to fulfill his sexual needs, you still need to perform in order to earn the money to enjoy them.
It Doesn’t Get Easier, You Get Better.
The concept of men’s idealistic love, the love that makes him the true romantic, begins with a want of freedom from his burden of performance. It’s not founded in an absolute like unconditional love, but rather a love that isn’t dependent upon his performing well enough to meet up with a woman’s Hypergamous concept of love.

Benee1000:

I guess you didn't really understand the write-up, so let me clarify.
The idea about men's performance is the concept behind the phrase "women are born, while men are made".
A woman, simply by being born with a pair of boobs, a vagina, and a womb, already posseses most of what is required of her to survive and even thrive on earth.
Required by who? men.
Man is instinctively wired to provide, cater and protect any woman, if she can simply be available to satisfy his sexual cravings.
A female, simply by existing, already posseses an intrinsic sexual value.
All females posses sexual value; not to every man, but can be to any man. After puberty, a woman tries to package her self (make-up, push-up bra, plastic surgery etc.) to increase her sexual value. the higher her sexual value, the higher the resources she commands.
A man has to pay a certain price if he desires this sexual value. There's no free sex anywhere. you pay one way or the other, directly or indirectly.
A female easily transitions from being a child taken care of by her mother to a lady being taken care of by any man, simply because her existence commands it.
This is not so for a man.
A man has little, to no sexual value. he Posseses no intrinsic value.
He has to do something of value to someone or himself to be rewarded with resources to survive, because his value is extrinsic. He has to be useful to someone or at least, himself.
A man has to earn to survive. He gets little or nothing free. if he can't do anything valuable, he gets nothing.
A man's value is a function of what he can do, and the resources his skills commands.
A man who cannot do anything for himself to survive is a useless man. He has no value to anyone, including himself.
A male transitions from a boy to a man based on his capacity to do. A female transitions from a girl to a woman based on her sexual capacity, which comes at puberty.
A female has to be something to get something, but a male has to do something to get something.
A man having to do something to get something is what is meant by performance.
now, why and how a man performs to get the sexual value of a woman is what distinguishes an alpha from the beta.
An alpha performs solely for his best interest. He has to perform to well enough to afford what he wants and the freedom to do as he pleases. Women are not his goal for performance, they are side benefits as reward for his performance. women are attracted to a man's performance. It is based on his performance that he get options to choose from amongst women who desires him. No performance, no options; no options, no Alpha. An alpha doesn't pay any additional price for sex, his performance as an alpha is enough.
The beta performs to get women. women are the reason for his performance, hence he has to exchange his resources gotten from his performance to get a woman's sexual value.
This my friend, is the origin of simping.
Read the initial write-up again, and you'ld get the hang of it.

Happiboispot:
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well your write up isn't making any sense here. no all bestie situation always end up the way you preview it. besides I have a bestie shes has never demand anything from me neither have I demand anything from her.

Junnior:

Why? What if I do not find her sexually attractive at all? Should I then avoid talking to her entirely?

This topic has for a while now been of keen interest to me, as I wish to learn more about this in order to be able to handle my interpersonal relationships with the female folks appropriately.

For example, there is this course mate of mine that is quite nerdy. I do not find her attractive, but I kinda try maintaining a platonic relationship with her mainly because of her academic ability (comes in handy especially during exam period).
There is another that isn't nerdy, but I'm just keeping things simple with her. And there's a reason I'm kinda friends with her as well, and it's nothing sexual.

What do you think?

cyndylove64:
u are wrong.i have a male friend as a best friend and let me tell u.we ain't doing shit.he even has a gf and we are not into sex or stuff.we have boundaries but can take pics hug and stuff.a man and a woman can be friends without sex or stuff.not every guy or girl that are besties have had sex with each other

koms:
Check this out

SOZINN:
Guys dis Lilo gyal go sweet to fúck ooo
Men!!!!

Na to just chop wetin other men don chop
Clean mouth commot
But she go dey form classy bitch now
With that hole
Mtcheeeew

nwaezeemmanuel:
Hope you don't find your name here.

Mhimi007:
make out time to check out my profile sir and I think I revealed the reason i followed her.I have lots of female friends and that doesn't mean i make friends with them because of sex.once again sire I'll advice you make out time to visit my profile and the reason I follow her was because of a post she created about her been a victim of rape it was shared to me I thought she was like an NGO or a public attorney or something

BLOODYSPERM:





But CaveAdullam these marital crisis is faced by men solely in western and Progressivive Societies, in more conservative Societies like Africa and Arab nations which are religious and traditional ,marriage still remains an asset so long our laws don't change and become gynocentric , I want you to explain to me why marriage might become a liability in Africa , I want you to predict the foreseeable future in Africa as globalization spread gynocentrism , what are we to hope for, Skepticus and Martinez39s your inputs are also required

danielous:
Guys, you might want to see this!..


https://twitter.com/sonofokere/status/1374670453944516611?s=19

The wife kept a lot from the husband..

SOZINN:
One girl annoyed me this evening I swear, I just saw her as I was coming back and I decided to approach her. Her appearance was just simple, she wasn't even wearing make up. So I thought maybe she is not one of those girls that dress to impress big men, I decide to converse with her, men you needed to see the way this girl lashed out on me. At first I was so confused, I didn't even say anything, just hello and how are you. And she was yelling at me. I just kept on walking, I could still hear her behind me though.

Honestly just this afternoon I helped my guy get a nice chick, well dressed, I was even a bit scared to approach her but I just did it cos my guy was just standing there, unwilling to make a move. She was so cool, she was even a 700 level student studying medicine and it was her project that brought her to my neighborhood.
But she was well behaved even with her packaging. When she found out that I was just doing it for my guy, she seemed a little disappointed but she still gave my nigga her number.
Then this classless slowpoke that I approached because l like her shape, just trouser, shirt and one old wig. Tried to disgrace me.
FÛCK!!!!!!!

I'm so angry

How can that babe nice to me and this girl will be so mean. Like even if you are not interested can't you just put it in a nice way. The dude you are talking to has feelings for fûck sake.
SMFH