₦airaland Forum

Benevento:
Let's start from the 58% and 79% poor people in Enugu and Ebonyi respectively.

The highest in Southern Nigeria.

Benevento:
Those Awawa boys and one million boys can feed your family for the next 30years.

An average cultists is rich., just like the Niger deltan militants.

Nah big boys dey do cultism, some see cultism as fun.

Benevento:
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HarunaWest:
Those ones are the accursed ones.
They are political jobbermans.
They are all these Tinubus BMC. You know they are actually fed up too, but guilt and shame wouldn't let them concede.

bukatyne:
It is not about solving it from the top? .

Let's imagine she is a single mother with the primary custody of the child:

How does the father know that she is going for a week long party without the mother telling him?

How do we know he has not applied severally for custody and he was denied because the girl was a toddler?

Now, if they were married, we can very well blame the father because even if he traveled, he ought to communicate everyday.

Then he will find out the daughter is not where the mother is.

bukatyne:
If the father is not present as per married to the mother, you can't blame him.

What if it was the mother's week to have the girl?

Or she has full custody?

The father can only be aware if she let him in.

Even her mother didn't know.

bukatyne:
The better question is 'was she married'?

Eyeness:
70% of Nigerians are poor, and a number of them are broke men holding on to the pipe dream that they will be rich tomorrow.

It's 2020, we are still waiting for all of you to blow since 2008. But asking women to jeopardize their futures on your dream is pure selfishness.

oluwadabira111:
Who made tinubu the jagaban of africa!!?? and this topic is just useless

CHoccolaTE:
I keep saying it that women should never fall for the cheap scam of "marry a broke man and build him, grow with him"

Its Absolute crap, men are very egotistical even when it makes no sense, you will see them being arrogant and full of themselves. Feeling like kings and superstars on top nothing. This egotistical behaviour is pronounced when they are dealing with women because religions and African society tells them that women are inferior to them.

Ladies, never marry a broke or stingy man, you dont live in western societies where marrying a broke man can still benefit you because while you bring money for running the house the man will cover the home front and will not boss you around. In Nigeria even when a man is broke he wants to be treated like a king, infact his feeling of entitlement increases and he starts demanding more respect.

Of course this isn't a general thing but majority of them are like that, marry a broke man and still carry 100% house chores on your head and have to deal with stress of pregnancy and raising children and increase your humility to him even while feeding him and providing for him because he is busy having ego issues. Ask him to assist with housework or attempt to make decisions at home that's when he will start claiming you are rude and disrespectful and you are insulting him because he is poor.

Better marry a rich man. Or comfortable man at least. One thing I like about men is that they are not afraid to demand their rights and even extra on top of what they deserve. Women are scared to demand what they are entitled to, the same bible and Quran that made men leaders and heads of families also mandated them to provide for their families but that part of the religions is hardly focused on or discussed because it deals with what benefits women