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Well, according to the media this administration has made so much gain in terms of defeating the terrorist organization. All the best to the gallant men and women of the nigerian armed forces.

In my humble submission, I will advise you put a hold to your union. I know age isn't quite on your side and probably coupled with family and friends pressure but you have to address this issue (your sterility and her unfaithfulness). This is very serious and worrying.

As a matter of conviction, this issue has the potential to snowball into something very ugly in the near future, if you both eventually get married. In addition, there's no trust in this relationship. It's built on a lie and falsehood. This relationship will be tested very soon and it how you have lay your bed, so shall you lie on it.

I wish you the very best. God bless and give you the needed wisdom.

Mbaka will not see or prophesy on this one. RIP my dear seminarian. May our good God grant you eternal life

Prettynpink your attention is needed here, Ma.

I read about this shortly after the Harry saga. The throne would never have been passed to Queen Elizabeth's father had this King not abdicate his throne.

Read more about his history here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_VIII

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tysamuel:
Morning Bro,

I nice issue. I will advice based on the fact that this kind of matter had once happen to me...though not similar in it's entirety.

To move ahead in life without curses stopping your destiny and marriage, try every possible means to get to that *Lola and let her know that you will be responsible for the pregnancy and the child when he's around.

Then, get your Mum, and a respected Uncle of yours to beg your real woman - because the earlier you told her, the safer you will be.

And importantly, learn your lesson bro and keep to God alone. #OneWomanIsEnough.

#Peace and respect

This is a very good advice.

Jeffmonti please let me know how you're handling this situation. Reason being that a close buddy of mine is in a very similar situation as yours. Only difference is that the girl is not based in naija and the other girl that is pregnant, her whole family is seriously threatening this my friend to get married to her.

Thanks!

Hello.

Madam, this issue is very easy. Why are you crying? Wipe those tears and roll up your sleeve. I will advise, send her back to Nigeria for like a month (but tell her she'll spend the whole year until you've noticed changes in her behavior). When she's back with you, she must get a job to earn some money. You have to be very prudent in handling her and the other girl. This is about the application of wisdom. I learnt a hard lesson last year I am yet to recover.

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Lenadiva:
YES!. Most people lend with evil intentions, not that they need the money but they do so in other to thwart the good plans one had 4 him/herself.

Baby girl you looking sharp. Permission to slide into your pm?

izospindle:
A Friend Wanted Me To Lend Him Money I Told Him This. Am I Wrong?

So a friend of mine told me that his girlfriend is about to lose her admission, because school fee deadline is tomorrow. He asked me to lend him 70k.

I know how he loves this girl so I asked him to fill a form before I give him the money. Am I wrong for doing that?

He started saying a whole lot of things and has not spoken to me since. Note this is half of all my savings and I have a purpose for this particular fund just that the time has not come.

Advice is needed please

Bro I don't know you but in the name of God don't lend him that money. He won't pay you back! Don't trust people. That was my biggest mistake last year and it has cost me something very important. Don't lend him, I repeat, DONT LEND HIM!

Baba must feed his family! No time to be angry. Permanent interest no permanent enemy.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5GXnM_TxSQ

For those judging and claiming to be christians (followers of Jesus Christ teachings and principles)

Kingsean:
when you told her to rest and she declined, you should have just left her. sometimes caring too much can put u in trouble. she knew what her madam brought her to do. your madam never trusted you and u gave her the perfect chance to sack u. she could be a deep feminist i suspect. it's a pity u fell victim to false accusation. next time, watch before u leap. when u speak to someone and the person is not interested, just stop to avoid embarrassment

Very true to the bolded! Being a politician as well, they live and die by trust. In fact, their (politicians) lives depend on it and how far they'll go and hurdles they'll overcome.

Openbusiness:
Too many dumb people live on this forum. You think his boss was stupid? No, she wasn't and being a lawyer too, you could see her legal wisdom in play. She gave him 2 options:
A) I invite the police (in other words, call for a police investigation)
B) I fire you
This guy chose B straight up. Because he knows he's not innocent, he knows a police investigation would find him guilty, so he jumps ship before things get too messy for him.

Very true. If he was confident in his argument he wouldn't have chosen to resign.

First, do not trust anyone! I cannot overemphasize this point. Secondly, there is a reasonable argument that you might have wanted to caress her at the moment even though your intention to have sex might not be immediate. Quit the bullshit talk. We're not kids here man.

Yahoo+ or Nairaland+

Who asked you if you're in naija or not?

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The source is not credible. Fake news

I still don't trust Buhari. One step forward, one hundred backwards

This is just a cheap blackmail. Nevertheless, the people from the south west should expect more to come.

Coldie:
From the moment uche Nwosu stepped down he transferred all his votes to Hope Uzodinma.

That's one of the reasons for APC winning

Haha. What nonsense. Please reason like an educated fellow.

The rigging no be here. However, the person that is annoying me the most is Mbaka. This man is a fraud and he is being used to con and steal the mandate of the people. The man is a brazen thief I tell you.

Blackking98:
Lol. You're extremely bitter
Ok o. Our conversation ends here

Bitter? Nah!

Lol ... We'll all enjoy this government together.

payperpost:
the idiot was busy chasing Okorocha family around

As in ehh, very annoying and irritating.