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Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 11:07pm On Apr 07, 2009

ChuckWoody:
Good luck with that, cece.

thanks
I'll let you know the outcome

Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 10:46pm On Apr 07, 2009

ChuckWoody:
@ cece84

What do want to do about it?

I mean, peeps can offer you the world of advice but, at the end of the day it boils down to YOU and what YOU feel YOU are capable of doing.

There's no point listening to 'advice' if you ain't gonna do anything about it is there? That 'advice' becomes redundant and gets relegated to the in-tray of 'opinions'.

Some of the cr*p I read on here either makes me laugh or loathe.

You know what you should do, it's a matter of whether you've got the cahunas to do it.

I don't mean to be aggressive about it but, this is real talk. No sugar coating here luv.

In your heart of hearts, only you know what needs to be done.

i want to make my marriage to work. I'm willing to work on it more than anything. we have been through tougher things in our marriage. I believe in my heart of hearts he is not cheating. He just lies about small things. If you say your gonna do something he should just do it. (i think)
I know were young and we have just started our lives together and i know we can overcome this together.

Your right with the advice thing. it only helps if i put it to work. Which i plan on doing. When i get home we will have a talk bout things (all things)

Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 10:12pm On Apr 07, 2009

@olanajim
Thanks for the advice i will try what crazykidd says, I encourage him everychance I get. I will change up my look a bit,

Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 9:21pm On Apr 07, 2009

by the way I am African American

Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 9:21pm On Apr 07, 2009

Him and i meet over the internet,
we fell in love got married.
I am no nigerian.
the women he talks with mostly are nigerian.
We have had a great relationship until he decided i was the reason he stoped speakin to his female friends. So he made a big deal bout it so i said go ahead, and it has been blown out of mind,
He did not have a green card when we meet. I know that is not why he married me at all, that i'm sure of. It seems like i'm not enough for him in some area, when i try to speak with him about it. i get no answers or the silent treatment,

thanks for all your help everyone.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 8:52pm On Apr 07, 2009

He is from Nigeria. we live in washington state.
He says naked pics came from a friend
2years june
no kids
changed a little bit,
no he has a code on his phone
other women conversation in on phone,text, email. facebook any and every way, lol
Im 24 he is 22

I know God will take care of everything
Insert Quote
I have a couple of questions
When you ask him about the naked pictures what does he say?
How long have you been married?
Are there any children involved?
Has he changed toward you recently?
Do you have access to his cell phone?
Is the communication with the OW via the internet or has it moved to text and phone calls?
Where do you live?
What is the ethnicity of you and your husband?
What are yall ages?

Romance › What Should I Do?Thanks by cece84(op): 7:57pm On Apr 07, 2009

thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

Romance › Re: Making Love With Your Man Friend In Your Matrimonial Bed by cece84(f): 12:49am On Apr 02, 2009

@ poster
your friend is a hoe, her husband should leave her ass. since she doesnt seem like she wants to be married, how dare her cheat, but to bring that man into the home, shame shame

Family › Re: Real 7 Steps Moves That Will Change Your Marriage For Good by cece84(f): 12:24am On Mar 27, 2009

@poster, this is great wisdom.
marriage is a team thing. thanks for sharing, my husband n i have been married two years in june. we have had our hard times. but we have gotten through them.

Family › Re: Wife Has Financial Upperhand Presently by cece84(f): 12:20am On Mar 27, 2009

be proud of her. you guys are a team. were all going through the tough times. be there for her help her out. you guys are in it for the good times n bad times.

Family › Re: What Keeps A Marriage Going by cece84(f): 12:16am On Mar 27, 2009

i think love is a great thing. trust, honor, PATIENCE!!!!!
You have to talk even when ur mad. give them space. laugh with each other.

Romance › Re: To Become A Real Man, You Must Cheat On Your Wife Or Girlfriend by cece84(f): 9:42pm On Mar 23, 2009

@ poster

you are an idiot. real men dont cheat, man u need to grow up.

Pets › Re: Pitbull Or Rottweiler: Which Is More Dangerous? by cece84(f): 9:32pm On Mar 23, 2009

for any dog it depends on how it is trained. my brother ownS two pits. very loving dogs but people are still afraid of them. any dog can attack its in there nature people tend to forget that

Nairaland General › Re: My First Animated Tatoo! "wow" by cece84(f): 9:28pm On Mar 23, 2009

wow is this your first tattoo?

Family › Re: Is It Good To Have Extra-Marital Affairs? by cece84(f): 6:23am On Mar 22, 2009

@POSTER
its always wrong to have extra marital affairs, get out the marriage if its that bad

TV/Movies › Re: The Movie : Seven Pounds by cece84(f): 9:33pm On Mar 19, 2009

good movie

Family › Re: Marriage Is About To End Please Help.for Matured Minds Only by cece84(f): 9:20pm On Mar 17, 2009

this is no reason to end marriage

Romance › Re: Where Did I Go Wrong With My Boyfriend In This Situation? by cece84(f): 9:18pm On Mar 17, 2009

at poster,
he should not have acted like that. he is not worth ur time. he should of talked to you bout how he was feeling. he can't have it all

Family › Re: How Much Money Should A Lady Contribute towards Family Upkeep? by cece84(f): 6:29am On Mar 15, 2009

its a equal partner ship. help were needed, wink

Events › Re: The Happiest Nigerian Wedding Couple by cece84(f): 6:23am On Mar 15, 2009

;d ;d

Family › Re: Sex Before Marraige Is It An Issue? by cece84(f): 6:22am On Mar 15, 2009

hell no, sex is great grin

Family › Re: Father Impreginates Daughter Insists On Marrying Her by cece84(f): 6:21am On Mar 15, 2009

nasty

Romance › Re: Ladies, Do You Play Hard To Get? by cece84(f): 6:16am On Mar 15, 2009

sure

Culture › Re: How Many Languages Do You Know? by cece84(f): 11:34pm On Mar 14, 2009

english

Jokes Etc › Re: This will Make You Smile by cece84(f): 11:10pm On Mar 14, 2009

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