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VeryWickedMan:
Show us the agbado.

I haven't planted Agbado yet

Around the month of March 2023,i got some cassava stems from my neighbor. I decided to add it to some crops in my garden as i still have some unused space on my plot of land.

Lo and below, i harvested it January 2024 and i got some reasonable tubers which i processed into 'Lafun'.

Upon milling it, i got about 4 painter of flour.

I used a very big tuber to make 'abacha' which i and my family enjoyed with coconut.

The interesting part about this process was the experience for my young kids. Funny enough they were seeing cassava for the first time. My son said he thought garri was made from cassava leaves😄.

The crops in my garden include:
* Cassava
* Plantain
* Beans (the ones Igbos call fiofio)
* Bitter guard ( i substitute it for fresh tomatoes)
* Okra
*Scent pepper

Leafy vegetables are not left out:
* Water leaves
* Spinach
* Bitter leave
* Fluted pumpkin (Ugu)
* Scent leaves

Among the fruit planted are:
* Pawpaw
* Mango
* Native pear
* Pineapple
* Banana
* Coconut
* Sugar cane
*Soursop

Most of the fruits have not reached maturity except the pawpaw and sugar cane.
The fruits were planted in a way that they would not obstruct future development of the land.

Note:
The cassava only took a very small portion of the land, but the harvest was impressive compared to my expectations and effort put in.
This time around,with the economic 'balablu', i have expanded the space i will be using as i will be planting more cassava. The cassava stems are already prepared from the previous harvest and ready to be planted.

Just plant something,no matter how small!

berry1999:
good day my fellow NL i have a little issue troubling me for quite sometime now, and i will like your advice on this .. which will be highly appreciated.
i am a 24 year old female still living with my parents (single parent, dad) and i will say he is one of the best , but their is this problem i have being having with him for years and it is about, how he talks to me especially when a mistake is being made and when he wants to correct me ... he is so abusive in his words and sometimes he may even try to hit me in the process, and sometime he makes an issue in every little thing ..most times i try to tolerate and ignore but .. it feels like when i do.. the situation gets worst ..so this time around i try not to tolerate anymore because its affecting me mentally and emotionally , it seem like this wants to bring an issue between me and my dad, and i have being a good daughter to him.. pls NL i need advice on what to do, how do i cope with a difficult parent, what can i do to stop this. i will really appreciate your answers ..thanks.

Communication between the two of you is the major challenge. Try and have a herty discussion with him. Do that when he is in a good and playful mood.

The job has no link

mariahAngel:


Here you go:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnBV6X1_Ph0?si=XqygGu4LQGEcGAPJ



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbc1rnEfbcM?si=aUfeJbNXS66qPBbY

Thanks

mariahAngel:


WoW! How interesting and exciting!😀

I am becoming more interested in agriculture (as I love everything about food), so there's this man I follow on YouTube, and I'm learning quite a lot from him.
He's Australian.
I can share his YouTube channel with you if you want.

As for Nigerians, I think want they need is awareness.

Please do share his YouTube channel. Thanks

The only thougth that comes to my mind early in the morning is to do school runs and meet up with my daily appointment. If you live in Lagos, the 'rush' messes up your mind.

nnatobryno:
Handheld portable steam iron
₦7500
For nation wide delivery

How is the iron powered?

Scholace:
I think you should help OP out on that. Then he can give us the outcome here

He has not responded to my question

Scholace:
I know it's lack of money majorly but family curse maybe part of it.

If you are based in Lagos i will like to direct you to a prophet of God. It will be your last bus stop trust me.

KingMack:
All I know is that if crayfish no enter my Indomiie e no dey complete 💯 ✅ ✅

What is indomie without crayfish and scent leaves?

There are some nice medical personnels and also some nasty to ones. I remember in 2015 when I was admitted in EKO hospital after I was refferd there from another facility. The female doctor that admitted me never showed up to check on me. After so many days, she came for ward round and I jokingly told her that I was surprised she didn't even check on me knowing how critical my condition was. She replied and and said " do you think my life revolves round the hospital?". That statement affected me for a long time.

aremubabs:




In the audio where Emeka cursed him, Emeka hinted that the boy was allowing himself to be manipulated, hence the curse.




The mother has a hand in the matter. Except he wasn't properly raised, the mother will still have a huge influence on him. If she had told him to mind his business, I am sure he would listen.

If he grew up with his mother there is every probability that he would take sides with his mother. These things happen, especially when the father is not in the children's life. The resentment lingers and not everyone is matured enough to manage it. The worse thing to happen to any family is a broken home! May it not happen to anyone!

The boy in question is an adult. Why blame his mother for the decision his son took. They prolly don't live in the same house. I don't think he sort his mother's consent before coming out public.

Still available

tobiyclassy:
Attach pictures pls

Pictures attached

Binatone digital stabilizer DVS 2000 watts
For sale
2 set
Price: 25k each
Location: ibeju lekki.
Call 08022748970.

Bucket of rice= 5k
1 kg of fish= 2k
Bucket of garri= 1,500
Tomato+pepper+ orders= 1,500.
Christmas don set.
Thanks in anticipation.

I will buy one bucket of rice 5k
I kg of fish 2k
Garri 1,500
Tomato & pepper+ orders, 1,500.
Christmas don set finish.
Thank you in advance and God bless.

Matix222:
Draw soup and drinking garri it always makes me throw up so I do not ever try such again

Bros please anything for me this season. 22nd is my son's birthday,and 24th is mine. Even if it is to buy snacks for him. Anything to celebrate this season would be appreciated. Nothing dey and it is looking like the worst Christmas. God bless you richly 🙏

8022748970
Palmpay
O.I. Lawrence

Akano5:
@ Matix222
i'm sad about the situation, I really need the money

I can't wait for you to get back online sir

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happney65:


Aha, Tokunbo Ajayi. Rumours had it that she died due to a robbery attack and that she was sexually molested and that she committed suicide or something. She was in her 30's or so

Can't remember Frank olize but can remember Tokunbo Ajayi vividly. Watching NTA was our favourite pasttime everyday and everynight. We all watched the News when it's 9PM

Frank Olize was known for ' Newsline ' that was anchored every Sunday after 9pm News

clefstone:
Fine woman with round face that year known for changing her surname every other year. Was amazed to find out that she hails Paiko in Niger State. She will be missed

She was once married to one General in the Nigerian Army. I think she remarried when he died and she changed her name.

Vinnie2000:


Hmm, This is called Egusi peppersoup..

U be Isoko person?

Egusi pepper soup is different from white soup.

atrix4g:
It is closed already. Till next year. However, the Commonwealth shared award is on now. Quite good and easy to get too. You ca apply for that.

Please post the link ifyou have it

riches4me:
I've been managing this digestion disorder (popularly known as diabetes) now for more than twenty years. Not really using any drugs to control it.
Let me share what I found out or discovered abt it
1. There was a particular food you ate a long time ago that a didn't obey d law of peristalsis. That means, you didn't vomit it neither did it go inside your stomach for digestion. That was d beginning of diabetes.
Subsequently, little by little other food portions fall there and it grows gradually narrowing ur the path in ur esophagus that obeys normal peristalsis. As some parts in ur esophagus get block with food d nerves connected to those parts gradually dies. As undigested food in ur esophagus increases the sugar that goes to bloodstream increases, so also other complications.
When it sets in, don't ever put this food items in ur mouth again.
1 Anything made with flour.
2 Any fried, baked, smoked food. Or any food that water as been taken out of.
3. Red meat in fact any kind of meat except boiled fish.
Adhere to these rules and you'll be fine.
When I run into crisis after eating any of d above food I have a secret weapon to get back on my feet. I'll discuss that later.

Please discuss it now,you may be saving a life.

mariahAngel:
Ways it can be cooked.

So, what do you think people?
Can you replace this with rice for the mean time?
Would you be willing to give it a try? I sure would.

Is it same as couscous?

LeoDeKing:

Who is this one talking to?

They know themselves 😜

Jewessgratitud3:
It's amazing how I was contemplating making this post before a member here requested or should I say started asking me questions in that line and being a very free and open person, I promised I was going to post about it.

Well... Let me start from my background and up bringing which also contributed indirectly to my nonregrettable actions that has left me in this wonderful marital status.

I grew up in a Catholic christian home where good virtues moral values were instilled in us by engaging us in christian children activities from an early age. The Most social part of my childhood ( apart from school) was around the church then back home with close monitoring. So there was no room for nonsense even up to our secondary and tertiary level. the monitoring was topnotch. So we didn't really get to do shit like our mates who got exposed early to certain lifestyle,; dating number one.

We were overprotected and shaped with these guidelines that a mindset was formed that boy and girl relationship is a taboo ( and it's true). So we knew better than to toll that part.

In the long run, after I have come off age, it became very difficult to date. This was at age 21. Whenever I manage to give a man a listening ear and he mentions sex, I'll run without looking back because that was a danger sign we were taught to look out for. So i was always running away from men because of premarital sex. It got to a point, after looking like that's the only way to get a husband and I was already in my mid twenties, a time when a girl should be getting ready to settle down, I said ok, let me see if I can bend the rules a bit for this one. This man was a chronic responsible bachelor. So I felt it could work out since he's ready to settle down. He was in his mid 30s the and never married. We were in the same compound. So I gave in and we started dating. Mind you there was no pressure from both parents to get married. My parents will never pressure you to get a suitor.

Being a novice in the game, I never knew men could double date or even knew how to handle one when it happens. So, on this fateful day the randy goat came home with another girl. It was our last born that came and told me some girl came to look for him because everyone in the compound knows us together. I was heartbroken and right there I broke up with him without even finding out who or if what they both have is serious. Though I made him cry cos I started entertaining other boys that have been chyking me and bringing them to the compound but I never had anything with them or knew any of their houses. I was just using the to pepper him. Once they say hi, I'll drag them to the compound and we will sit on top of his car sometimes until he now confided in one of our neighbors who now told me to stop that the man is always crying. E never cry. I showed him two can play that game. He tried coming back but I bulshit him.

After that I locked up and never trusted any man. I began to see why my dad was being overprotective. I didn't date again for almost five years and then men were coming but that was when my own shakara increased. I mean responsible well to do men o. That was when men had good jobs from banking, investment and oil companies in ikoyi and vi both staff from five star hotel like Eko hotels and suites, federal palace cos those were the places I worked so I had many suitors and friends but the moment they mention relationship, Ill take off.

Part 2

It continued like that and I was enjoying my life with peace of mind that I forgot about time or didn't bother about it cos I don't care.

When I entered mid thirties, I said let me loosen up a bit but because Ive gotten used and enjoyed single life with peace of mind to that age, I found it difficult to commit again because anytime I tried, I'll start having anxiety. The thought of him cheating on me or even as little as admiring another woman will just make me unsettled and I'll think of aborting mission before it's too late.

So I said to give one man a chance, he too brought another girl in my absence. I found out from the sister and that was it. I called it off he begged and begged that the lady was forcing herself on him and sending him money bla bla.. he made a conference call with his family begging, my mind was made up I dumped him and moved on to a Choir boy Ive been admiring who was also trying to talk me into a relationship. I truly loved this guy and I think I was older than him in age . Though he refused to tell me his age but I was able to deduce from his Facebook profile cos he wrote class of 2006 while I finished 1999 but because I don't look my age, we just looked like age mate and we loved each other.

I met him when he just finished serving and was squatting. I was out of job then but one thing that made me stick with him was, even though he was not working, he shared whatever little he had with me. We were together when a very rich young pastor came asking for my hands in marriage. I told him about it and he started feeling sad that because he doesn't have a bearing now some guy wants to take me away from him. I on the other hand don't really fancy the pastor but wanted to force myself and see if it will work but it wasn't working because I didn't have feelings for him. To now make matters worse, he started showing stinginess. In the three months we courted, we didn't get to sit together because he's a pastor so we only see in church, stand and talk very briefly and disperse and each time he kept posting me about money I asked for to enable me travel for Xmas and the day was fast approaching. It was my Choir boyfriend that wen to borrow money from one girl selling recharge card to give me to travel. Now coupled with the fact that I don't even like him, i just texted him to look for another sister. The highest he ever bought me was two two hundred naira recharge card a stinkingly rich ajebota pastor for that matter ( 2014) but he would always call me.

Lastly, in 2016, my bobo got a job in Chevron with a nice apartment in lekki. Before then we had a small quarrel and we're not in talking terms because I requested for money for hair to attend my twins introduction and he told me no money but he didn't tell me he was saving for an apartment. Even then, how much? So, after months of not talking, he called and invited me over to see his new place. A surprise I guess. I got there and we had a nice time. He tried to make it up to me. He gave me his short and polo to wear that day and took me to a pepper soup joint. **Smiling**
later we got back and ad I was about to shower, I saw a used shower cap in his bathroom. He now handed me a new one from his wardrobe where there were many more. I asked him who used the one in the bathroom, he said baby don't start again. I held my peace.
The following morning he did something that I can't say for sure what really happened.

I slept over because there was no way I could go back from lekki to the mainland that day. That night he came to disturb me and I told him you know we can't be doing this. Please let wait till everything is formalized. When he wouldn't let me be, I left him and went to sleep on the floor. In the morning he woke up and was saying you, you, I was just looking at you as we were talking someone knocked on the door. It was a ladies voice. My ex went to meet her and they were together for almost 30mins before he came back inside. Me i didn't talk. I suspected he went to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left only to come back and it has come down.

We prepared and left together that morning for work. When I got home, I called and told him off. Na small thing dey vex me. He didn't believe it. So many things on my mind that made me take that huge decision. Men are not worth my type.

Since then till date, I stopped anything relationship especially if it's not a born again and I must like him. I faced my God ever since and decided to give myself peace. I can't stand a cheating partner. Disease dey town and I don't want to end up a baby mama.

Now, with the way things are, no jobs, the few decent men can hardly fend for themselves let alone catering for a family, I just decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Make person no come enter from fry pan to fire. Some family men now are dumping their family and running away from their responsibilities leaving the women to carry all the burden. So tell me what will make marriage enticing to me again? Abi na domestic violence? Biko Biko.

My dear, live your life! You owe no one any explanation. Try and keep your personal issues off the social space. You post a lot of personal and family stuffs online and that is not healthy. People will misunderstand it as a way of killing boredom by you.

Still very much available for prospertive buyers.
Please DM me for more information and details.

Emperormartin:
Alaba rago is even the dirtiest market in Lagos...

They ought to be the first market to be sealed

Fear of Aboki will not let them seal it. Na Omo Ibo body them they get power.