In need of a Tipper Truck to convey Rubbles from Chevron to Ajah Lagos. Up to 5 trips.

Please contact on: 08141279508

In need of a Tipper Truck to convey Rubbles from Chevron to Ajah Lagos. Up to 5 trips.

Please contact on: 08141279508

Dundalk:
I still dey wonder how person go kill himself because of hardship...


I for don die or kill myself tey...

As our physical strength differs,so does our emotional strength too. Most people can't withstand half of what you can withstand. May God help us not to get to that breaking point 🙏

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
Pls mods should help me run this on FP

She may have a low libido. Some women are like that. Work more on pre-intimacy. Try and see a sex therapist. Work on your marriage! You both can go on a vacation and try and see how you will iron issues out.

dilini:
This is how much I have made so far

Can you withdraw into your local account?

Lagos na your mate?

Mustiboy:
Hi, everyone,

I'm in dire need of advice.

We had prepaid issues in the house where I'm a tenant. There are accumulated bills on the prepaid, which the landlord has failed to sort out for months. This caused some sort of altercation between he and another tenant over the phone(Mr X).

The landlord told him to move out and refunded his remaining rent.

Now the Landlord and his father came for a meeting with the rest of us today and accused Mr X, who has already moved out last week, of taking things from the house, things such as breaker box and some minor things.

It happened to be the time when Mr X himself came to pick up one of his properties left in the house – a cupboard.

He overhead everything and tried to clarify that he didn't. Just then, the landlord's father started insulting Mr X, who didn't even retaliate or say anything.

The landlord jumped on board and said Mr X must pay for everything. He ordered a guy that came with him to lock the gate of the compound, saying Mr X is not leaving.

Mr X has myopia and is always wearing glasses. The landlord seized Mr X's clothes and threatened to beat him up, even dragging him around and tearing his clothes in the process. He literally rough-handled him like a kid.

His father also charged forward and punched Mr X in the eye, kicking and wanting to beat him even more. Mr X fell on the floor in tears. All this while, I was recording. The landlord even took up a piece of wood at some point, threatening to deal with Mr X with it.

They seized his glasses, denying him proper eyesight and even tried to seize his phone as well.

Mr X was not allowed to go out until external intervention, which came as a plea from neighbors, further massaging the landlord's ego. The Landlord and his dad literally beat Mr X up and shamed him out of the compound and the area at large, hurling insults at him and also cursing his dead father.


I really feel bad for Mr X. I've sent videos of everything that transpired to him. He doesn't know what to do and feels the landlord used his power and position to beat him when he has done no wrong.


The landlord has also boasted that he'll use his power to ensure Mr X is sacked from his place of work.

I'm also bereft of ideas on what to do. How do we press charges going forward?

This matter must not be swept under the carpet.

The landlord is in his 50s, while his father looks 80. I'm not sure of Mr X's age, but he should he in his mid – late 30s

I don't know if this is the right section for this. Mods please move to frontpage

Photo used for illustration

He should go to wazobia fm office at Victoria Island with proof of everything that transpired.

afroman23:


Hi, I sent you 7k. Please confirm you received it.

Please help! I have been indisposed since Sunday with 2 little kids to feed. I exhausted the little funds at home buying drugs. They are yet to pay for their textbooks upon resumption. Anything you can help with on feeding will be appreciated.
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Guyman01:

She's actually Danish from Denmark

Irrespective of where she hails,she certainly is humane!

Silence is golden most times.

It took a woman from Poland to show us how to cherish human lives. People watching the documentary in Poland will probably think we are still monkeys with tail dangling behind us seeing such barbaric behaviors from us.
We still have a long way to go!

Jozilinn:
he hardly say anything on the phone oh,he feels like he's doing her a favour,then later he would put it on number busy, only for him to start threatening her that nobody in this life can advise him because he knows what he's doing. How can a man leave the training of the children to his wife,school fees,heath bills everything highest he brings out is 1k and tells her he doesn't have,her tears are really tearing me apart I have asked her to record him talking so I would know the kind of person I am dealing with,gosh the words he was saying was so hurtful all because she has female kids, like they aren't kids what is now the expense of her stay there,he won't deny what he said but will say she's not wise it's her fault, this and that....is better she comes home maybe we can remove some things from one side of the house and give it for rent so there would be money to care for her, she's wasting her life there because whatever she earns is for the children and the last time I did video call with her she was looking so sick as well. Yes he does beat her and tries to choke her when they are asleep, this is the 4th time he's strangled her like that. But I will still be on the lookout for more suggestions on the comments section.

If he is trying to strangle her then he is sick. Please help her escape that marriage. All she needs is empowerment.. if you are in Lagos,report him to the gender and domestic violence agency. Look it up on Google! I no want hear story o?

How is this news Worthy? We eat pizza and Burger too?

Mrfeel:

HIV positive

Why are you announcing it everywhere like HIV is a crime or a death sentence? The truth is with his status he is well able to manage it reasonably. The world has gone beyond seeing HIV as life threatening.
Just wish him well and let it slide. Don't be quick to announce other peoples misfortune!

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Oga you are your problem. 'tamed', as in you bought a pet dog or what? That is someones daughter you are referring to. A woman who went under the knife to bear you a child. Who groomed these kind of men?

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

She is insecure. Run!

NwaAmaikpe:



I will pick this over Ewedu soup any day.
It is better I die from eating a fashionista worm than I die from eating hydraulic soup stirred with toilet brooms.

Welcome back!

omooba969:


But remember you're some bloke's spec.

Are you one of them? You have been jumping on people's comments defending them. Just come open with it!

ontolegit:
Thanks @ceeceeuwa.

You are welcome!

ontolegit:
Im not staying close. I hope this furniture should be meant to be sold to people far and near here on Nairaland and asking for a better picture from the supposed owner shouldnt be a problem if middlemen are not involved.

The pictures have been updated.

Emeskhalifa:


How do non virgin Ladies hold their Urine? Are they always on pampers?

It is obvious you do not understand the female anatomy.

westlius:

Turn ur fone/Lappy upside down for proper view

The pictures have been updated

illicit:
Why everything come dey upside down

The pictures have been updated

Klass99:


Please can you share pictures of the flat here? A childhood friend needs accommodation and this is within her budget.

The pictures will help us to quickly determine is she likes or wants it, before a physical viewing/inspection. Photos will save everyone time and energy too, or speed up the tenancy process.

Clear pictures of every room and amenities in the flat, please.

She should reach me on WhatsApp on this contact quoting her request: 08038632308

ontolegit:
Better pics

It is in good condition. You can come for inspection if you stay close. It was moved to the store to make room for new one.

To Let

Mini flat- Stand alone (upstairs)
-All round pop
-Well Equiped kitchen
-Well Secured Environment
-Water Supply

Location: Harmony Estate Gbarada, Abule Panu bus stop Ibeju lekki.
Rent- 350k per Annum
Total package- 400k

Contact: 08038632308

To Let

Mini flat- Stand alone (upstairs)
-All round pop
-Well Equiped kitchen
-Well Secured Environment
-Water Supply

Location: Harmony Estate Gbarada, Abule Panu bus stop Ibeju lekki.
Rent- 350k per Annum
Total package- 400k

Contact: 08038632308

To Let

Mini flat- Stand alone (upstairs)
-All round pop
-Well Equiped kitchen
-Well Secured Environment
-Water Supply

Location: Harmony Estate Gbarada, Abule Panu bus stop Ibeju lekki.
Rent- 350k per Annum
Total package- 400k

Contact: 08038632308