Entanglement:
this one na jjc!
Make Una fvvvck finish first come get two pinkin!
Dopamine go clear comot from your eye

They already have 4. The 5th is on its way. Just wish them well. No be everyone go collect breakfast.

edoncast:
My ex who i was not yet married to came to my house in my absence to pack my things away .

She had a son for me and he will be 5 years next month .She packed on january 10th when i was in the office. That day she packed ,she still called to ask for money to refill gas which i sent. Later in the evenning ,i called her on my way home to inform her i was hungry ,she replied and told me she already left .I rushed home and find out she actually did .I have visited my son more than 6 times after they left on january 10th .

A week after ,she came to carry my wall fan and my stabilizer .I have to let that go because i was careless not to have changed the key .

I have made several attempts to reconcile though i didnt beat her or maltreat her .Her only problem with me was that i neglected her families and sometimes rude to them .This is a lady we have been cohabiting since 2013 when i helped her for admission into my school.

None of her relatives have contributed a dime to her for the ten years we were together .I will only appreciate her mum for her efforts while she was alive .She is the last born with a sister and a brother .

I was once a good boy to their family when i was doing very fine then .Things went bad when i stopped been nice to their families and her brother ,sister husband and her sister ganged up against me .


I called her 2 days ago that i needed to see my son and she said i should wait for her in Pen cinema Agege TFC.While i was waiting ,they were in my house with a car to pack the underlisted items ! Please ,what should i do ?She told my sister was flaunting my new girl on social media including my whatsapp status but she doesnt want to come back to me ..no be juju be that ? This is someone i went to a radio programme for .The presenter even called her to come back to me which she promised the man.My relatives too took so many steps but failed.




Make una help me beg her to bring my documents and flash .Abi make i paste her no here ?

They met my new gf at home and packed all my things .My gf called me but they have left before i could get home .My sister told me to leave everythimg foe her to allow peace reign that she will return the documents and flash later but i dont trust that bitch .Imagine my gf told me her sister was the one shouting CARRY EVERYTHING !HE CANT DO ANYTHING ..They even attempt to remove my TV but my ex told them there was no time again cos i might meet them at home .

These are the things carted away .Those items marked have been replaced that day and yesterday .The one with red mark are yet to be retrieved or gotten back .


My gf power bank ✅
50k ❌
Mattress ✅
Iron✅
Gas ✅
Pots and all kitchen utensils✅
All my certificates ❌ including NYSC .i have the soft copies in the flash she even took
My pictures❌
Foodstuffs ✅
Drugs ❌ like PCM,ampiclox,flagyl and so on
Diaries ❌
Waste baskets ✅
Packer ✅
My son clothes from cradle till 4 years ❌
My baths ✅
Electric blender ✅
Toasting machine❌
My clothes ❌
Stabilizer ❌
Wall fan ❌
Shoe rack ❌
Small android phone ❌
Android charger ✅
My id cards 4 ❌
My company bank statements ❌
Frying pan❌
My company diaries ❌
Wall clock ❌
Flash drive ❌ This is the mmost cherishable items and i am sure you know why

She has settled her self! Just try and retrieve your documents. If she doesn't want to let go,just get the polic involved.

Fryx:


How does this "read" funny?

Honestly, if my experience got worse, I may lose my leg. Of which I know I will rather take my life than live without any part of my body.

Modified

Thanks everyone for contributing.

You guys give me more reason why I must not take sugar any more.

Moreover, I did a glucose test when I started noticing the symptoms and the doctor told me I’m ok. He even told me the signs are merely sleeping posture, that’s why I continued.

I used to do some indoor exercise before, but it’s been a while I did that.

I just resume today, and should keep up with that spirit.

Can you try alternating soda with smoothies instead. Just give it a try! I just checked those pictures and they are scary 😯

superCleanworks:


seems you don't know the difference.

Please enlighten me on the difference

Could be anorexia or bulimia

My cousins wife who got separated from him and moved to her father's house for 5years just returned 2 days ago that she wants her marriage back. Guess what? The family held a meeting and clearly told her that it was too late because my cousin is already remarried with a child. She moved out with her 3 sons and in that 5 years her family kept her with them and made no attempt at reconciliation. Now she has travelled back to go meet her people. The funny thing is that she supervised the building project of my cousin when he was building his house. She foolishly left the house for another woman to occupy because of pride.

You could have spiced this thread up with pictures,not only links. Nice one!

Afamsi:
Remaining for her to add president to her CV ... Am not surprised because people from brown roof republic no dey marry once or twice, them dey marry reach 7 times

She is from Edo state. Cut the tribal sentiment!

Tunagee:


Sad but true. But is this what men go through in marriage? No wonder beer parlour dey full.i keep telling people 'marriage no be by force' Stay alone if it aint working

There are beautiful marriages, it's just that it's not so publicized. You get to hear of the bad ones because the victims come out to seek for advice or public opinion.

Dennisbulkan:


*session*

Thanks

rainlover:

E reach to run

We deserve the kind of leaders we have. An average citizen has that "reap off" mentality at any slightest opportunity. From the POS attendant,to the pump attendant at the filling station,to a school child. It is pathetic! We are a function of our leaders! The leaders are selected from the citizens. Don't even talk about the attitude of the civil servants. Go to their offices and see how they carry themselves as demi-gods. God help you if you are there with a complaint that requires their assistance. You are own your own if you don't know anybody. The list is endless!

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not being fair yourself. Does OP sound like one who is into his wife?

He wants the marriage to work that is why he has come to seek for advice. If he is not into her,he won't be sexually attracted to her and will be looking for a way out of the marriage. He may have some faults himself though. But all i see is a man that is ready to make amends.

tomi4life:
So, I am not new to nairaland, I only created a new account so i can post and remain annonymous.

I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

You can fix a section with a marriage counselor. Maybe she is not into you.

Ijelenwanyioma:

I am pregnant and by special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The problem is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

Just get a help that will help you with chores,while your mother will only bath the baby. This life na sense we dey use live am! Once you are done with child birth you won't have to invite her again for omugwo. Thank God it's your 3rd child....there are some battles you choose wisely. Peace!

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madridguy:
Trump should come to Nigeria instead.

Just simply tell him to "go and die!"

Hatesin:


Am interested in this topic ooo!
Please, share your knowledge.
Thanks in advance!

I'm here to seek knowledge too

I have the intention of setting up a small family poultry in my compound. Please I need suggestions on how to prepare feeds for broilers with readily available agricultural products I can find around.

imagrg:
It may not be fake.
Keep the hope on.

I think the N2m may not be enough as a bribe. Why not give him another N2m to hasten up the process instead of coming here to ask for advice when you have already committed money that would have been enough for your lazy wife to start a POS business with and make good money taking only legitimate charges on withdrawals?

Why call his wife lazy? Not as if you know her in real life.

Sebastine1994:
I used to be a fraudster myself, I use to call myself an evangelist on Facebook, I would offer to pray for strangers on Facebook and ask them to send me recharge card as appreciation. I told them I went to the mountains to pray and God asked me to call them.

My success rate was 90%. People just post their whole life online, it's easy to piece 2 ànd 2 together, now you have a working profile of the target.then I would start prophecy.that is the sweet pot

Remember a sucker is born every 3 second.

There were times I had recharge card of 200k on my phone. People are just dumb. That's in the past. Don't try this at home

You have come with all these your stories! May devil not say amen to your heart wish🤨

dante12412:
Good evening NL'ers, I seriously need your candid advice.

2021, she had 2 miscarriages and
since then, we've been looking forward to another
pregnancy which God just answered that Prayer as she recently announced to me that she's taken in.

I need help as to the necessary precautionary measures to take by nutritional food,and everything Health-wise.,so the foetus can atleast hang on till 3 or 4 months.

Thanks in anticipation.✍️

What was the doctors diagnosis for the cause of the previous miscarriages? Please move this to the health section to get more professional advice.

RichDaniels:
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Where is the location in Lagos?

Money used for election must be recouped! Why the complaints🤷

My only concern is the beans in the mixture. Hope making it just like pap is enough to cook the beans properly before consumption?

EriMma1:
That's their cup of tea. Abstinence still remains the best.

A man should be forced to marry any woman he impregnates first to teach him a lesson. So that in his next life he'll learn to control himself.

Some men don't like to listen to advice when you try to caution them to lead a decent life until they fall into a ditch. Then you see them trying to get off the hook. Na lie. Make e hook them there.

My ex thought he was doing me. We had a little misunderstanding. Not really a misunderstanding like that. We just stopped communicating for a while. You know this issue of "he didn't call me, I won't call. She didn't call, I won't call. It lingered for a while and me as a fine girl wen I be, I just blanked him. No be woman dey find man abeg.

Do you know this zombie started sleeping with anything sexable? To the point of sleeping with an old lady that sells palm oil, Maggie, crayfish and those kinda stuff haha... For someone who claims he's a fine boy with his Americana lifestyle. ** men don't have class when it comes to konji**.

The next thing, nwanyi crayfish don carry belle. Hahahaha...
The mugu wanted to play smart. E hook am. For two good years he didn't go and do anything on the womans head.when the baby boy arrived, he looked so much like my ex. As in.... Chai! I don laugh Taya. Even after the baby was born, aboki still dey zuzu. He didn't want to marry iya elepo.

He now remember fine girl. He came to my place. I was just laughing at him. He was still trying to form Americana. I just dey laugh say see this nwanyi crayfish husband. He was now discussing marriage with me. I just shook my head. Men!!!

After one year of not returning his calls much following his visit to my house ( in fact I told him I moved so he'll stop coming around), uncle finally succumbed and married the woman. Now, he's making life miserable for the woman.

Every time, the lady is posting one sorrowful text or the other about relationship on her Facebook status. The guy is taking out his frustrations on her. The last time I checked my nwunye dim, she was looking two times older than my guys mother. No jokes. Just that I can't post her pics here. Chai...

I'm happy he ended that way. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for his lack of control.

Many men have lost their happiness this way and many will still lose if they continue sleeping around like untamed dogs.

You self move on and stop stalking them by checking their Facebook status .

obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

by mistake bawo? You mean your d!ck mistakenly fell on her agina🤷

mcdokwe:
Like I already told you, I'm doing this not because I have a lot, but because I understand you may have to pay a lot more fiscally and psychologically if you don't meet up and I'm highly indebted myself but decided this is more important and should be sorted out.

I've had a similar instance where I had to involve the security to recover my money, losing valuable time doing so, please do not let this be another of such instance.

This post will stand as witness against you should you fail me, thereby failing humanity.

May God bless you richly and meet you at the point of your needs!🙏. I was in the same situation about 10yrs back when I was trying to raise funds for my M.tech fees . It can be depressing to say the least...I pray God will raise help to enable him meet the deadline!

nannymcphee:


you got yours fairly used or brand new?

I plan to buy 3 or at least 2? else it will be constant arguments so 2 or 3 Fire HD might not be feasible at once

.,.brand new. That was about 3years ago. It still serves till date. And the battery lasts long even with heavy usage. Don't know the current price though! Since you plan getting like 2 or 3, then I think you seek other alternatives. I'm sure you will get better opinions from other people here.