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NwaAmaikpe:




Just like that fan in question.
I too have concerns over this apparently doomed union.
Aside Teddy's financial readiness to cater to a family, he is so domineering and BamBam has no sense of selfworth. She'd end up doing all of his biddings and debasing herself as long as it will earn her his validation.

The only closure will be that their kids will know their mom still married the man who shagged her in the toilet.

Teddy should know that marriage is totally different from just being a deadbeat babydaddy.

But why girls rush men who have been declared worthless by their former partners still eludes me.
Maybe they want to have a taste of the agony those ladies felt.

Anyways,
I'm happy I was there from the beginning and witneseed the takeoff of this ill-fated union.
Good-luck to them.

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gentlesmithugo:
That's very true.though man u have agreed his contract with inter Milan. Lukaku beta pass rashford 100 times.useless racist club

How? but their both black

tunary:
So if them buy Alex for £30 million does it mean that he own the whole cash alone or what

Lol

No..he won't get one kobo from the sale

Arsenal owns him, like a property..so they sell him as they deem fit..however some top players can negotiate with a club before signing a contract to have some small percentage in sales deals...its all about your manager, his negotiation skills,player value (ronaldo, messi,nemar)..thesr are players who because of thier status have an upper hand to negotiate contract...its all business

As for our darling iwobi, most likely one kobo wont enter his pocket (depends on his contract signed)..but i doubt he would get a penny..

Hes on 60k per week at arsrnal
What everton will do for him is increase his salary ....also he can scatter every thing, ie even if arsenal accept to sell him, and hea refuses to go...nothing arsenal can do..clear?


All of you saying iwboi shouldn't move...i dont understand you loot
Since last year many foreign arsenal fans have grown to hate iwobi ( which is stupid by the way)

He moving will make perfect sense for him, at least he will have peace of mind and be played centrally not as a winger..also with the arrival of pepe hus game time will be limited...so it makes sense, he will play more at Everton and improve there..am for him moving biko...nothing beats peace of mind and more money

Kylekent59:


As I expected, Many will believe and start criticising the maid. I don't reason or comment like many nairalanders.

That your CCTV caught her doesn't mean I should believe the news.

What if it she was subdued?

What if the madam planned it so as not to settle the maid for her services?


It's circumstancia at this moment. ( the evidence you have doesn't actually proved that the maid is guilty, we still need to look into the matter)


Some Madam can be very wicked than the devil himself.

Not sure what to say to you...your reasoning shows your a villager just like the witchcraft girl...your in the same boat

gbosaa:
It’s general practice to have ‘maids and servants’ in many Nigerian homes. It’s a bad culture and most of the crimes against this group of people are under reported. Having underaged kids as maids and servants is evil.

Can you send out your teenage child to live with a family that you didn’t know? Would you allow a middle man to send out your kids to other families to live as maids?

There should be a law regulating this sort of business and it must be strict.
People who do nanny work must be adults and well trained in supporting children and they should be held accountable for their actions.

Shut tha Bleep up...
What will you have the girl do rather? Sell pure water on the streets?

Cant you read there the woman was aslo helping her and putting her through school

How many employers school their employess...are you too narrow minded to see its a help help situation?

That house help is of the devil, she must be taken to juvenile prison, idiooot and buhari

superlanny:
i refuse to be tribalistic, crime dosent pay, honesty pays, do the crime and dance to the music, make person just wake up and its crime that motivates them, i hope an improved economy will reduce all this evil.

Yawns..

Criminals yes and should be dealt with...at least ther better than the heartless souls that throw people out , while the car is moving or the animals who kill humans in the name of ritual and sacrifice

AverageAnnie:
Diane is definitely my kinda girl... fair guys are kinda girly to me,we love them dark...

It's all in your mind

Omo if person think or worry about all these signs and symptoms doctors talk about, then every one is sick then..if if your not sick, the worry and fear of these things will make you sick..because what you think within is what will be manifested without..

Anyways for those of us in the know by. HIS STRIPS I WAS HEALED 2000k years ago..

So we cant be sick

God..in as much as this was wad a possibility .

This announcement shocked me to the core..what type of country and people are we? Sincerely wer not far from demons...

blackpanda:
Wailers food have set

Oya over to una

Animal may this be your portion next week

Hmm

Well..thank God he isn't a black man..black Americans are experts in being stupid sometimes..

The white devil did again to get back into prsion..he used to priso life and cant adjust outside. He wants to return and die there simple..rip to the dead though

Ndi aboki how market?

Its dre on the beat!

ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.



I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet for over 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect trust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.

One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work, a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.

I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.

She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.

Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business. I cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.

To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.

These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She doesn't ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship.

There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not believe her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave.

On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart. I could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. So I called her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.

I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.

She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. I asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.

To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.

While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly THE same way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.

I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.

She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to ask her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move?

Nice

Since the feeling is mutual and she's a good girl marry her..

All these people saying take time to study her etc...even yourself you'll continue to learn about. Your self till death what more another human...

Since there's love mixed with good character..guy no waste time

Lialia keep fighting the devil's fight for few clicks and some small naira ok?

What the man said is Bible based..go and fight God if you don't agree..

Even nature teaches and shows God's silent hand... nature will also show you that man has a lot of things over the woman..

God is interested in love that's all..during bible times slaves existed and their master were warned by the apostle to love them not treat them as slaves....

The Bible tells men to LOVe their wives as themselves and tells wives to RESPECT their husbands..this shows one fact..which is that one is greater than the other.. but it's love God is interested in ie loving your neighbours as yourself..that why man is told to love his wife and a woman respect her spouse...it's a symbiotic relationship..interwined.

Devil's warriors like Lia etc won't highlight all the wonderful works this man is doing world wide...all the incurable diseases God has used him to heal...anyways it's a sign of the times.. people like Lia Lia will reject scriptural truth for woke truth...people beware.

My admiration for this man just soared why? It's evident the message was directed at his wife...,because devil's were saying the committed adultery.. certainly he didn't..

For those of you his wife supporters, yes she complained on her blog the man loves control...why would you as a woman after I marry you want to control an organisation ( Chris embassy) I built before I met you?

Why would you as Wife even of you don't agree with your husband publicly antagonise him Soo much?

God bless pastor Chris

Proffdada:
you have akamu for brain. The same reason why Chukwuma Kaduna Nzeogwu destroyed the goodwill bright future Nigeria

Don't go and hustle to better your future...

Sorry is your case..your not even blaming your father's your blaming your father's father's..

Keep wailing and waiting. 50 will meet you on nairaland looking for job if you don't help yourself

cescky:
You never fail to disappoint with your off point opinions

Mynd44:
I hope when women say they can't work with men and refuse to employ men to work with then, men don't complain. This issue goes both way and as much as it is for safety, it also has a larger impact on society



But this part is crap. It is not sexist; he just does not think he is safe in close quarters with you and wants a "bodyguard".

On a separate note sha, if a white man says he is not comfortable being around black people alone so he needs a chaperone, it will come off as racist.

Weird world

You never fail to disappoint with your off point bland opinions

To the senator too much sense

helphelp:
Thats the problem with our mindset. You confess only when you've committed an offense

Confession: a formal statement admitting that one is guilty of a crime.

OP could be naive of the usage of the word, to proclaim being a virgin a crime.

Your wrong

Confession is two words what you mentioned

It also means saying something. You believe..

Ishilove:
A bold spirit that refuses to be broken is one to be admired and coveted. Make peace with your uncle and keep your head down going forward.

Also go in your knees and commit the entire situation into the hands of God for with God on your side, you shall not be afraid of tens of thousands who rise up against you. He is already on your side because He went ahead of you to the Executive Director and caused the man to favour you, so continue in faith, wisdom and prayer.

Your a goodly and mighty spirit

Me77:
Hi to everyone reading this, I have gotten a big problem with my uncle

He recently helped me to get a job in a foreign owned company. He introduced me to most of his colleagues and Co-workers as he is nephew and in the process I get to meet one of his senior manager who said he would take me under his unit once I resume for duty.
The problem is that the senior manager is never in good terms with my uncle and my uncle never told me this. Not until I started working with him and he began to show me hell under his unit.

He always insult me and embarrassed me in front of everyone, he even go as far as harassing me by hitting me with a book on my head.

To him I am not good enough at my job and he pile up the job of 4 people for me all alone to do on daily basis. I have no single day off since I resumed working with him including weekends.

I let my uncle know about my situation, since it is because of him I am going through all this (Note, he later told me that he was never in good terms with him)
I was 100% about quitting the job when I called home and told them that I can't take this punishment anymore, the punishment I never bargained for .
But he persuade my mom to talk me into staying and that the situation is not as bad as I am portraying it to be. He assured my mom that everything will get better in the future if I show endurance and keep working every single day of the week.

My people is this fair? What kinda job is this without a single day of rest? The terrible man they placed me under wouldn't even allow me to do my work properly, everyday he kept threatening me with sack and insult.

THE POINT OF BETRAYAL
With all my situation worsening and no help in sight and my mum threatening me never to return home if I leave the job, what should I do?
I have no choice but to head straight into the office of the executive director to lay down my complaint. And so I did.
I went straight into the executive director office with heavy fear in my heart because he's a person that you can't get easy access to, but in my situation I have to do what I have to do. Luckily for me, he listened to me and provided help by changing my department and taking me out from the terrible manager I am working with.

NOW THE PROBLEM
My uncle have a good working relationship with the executive director and the news spreading around the company is that it is because of my uncle influence that I have the guts to barge into the director office to demand a change of department.
My name has been on everyone lips for the past week. They don't believe that I went all alone in to the office, they are also accusing my uncle of having a hand in it. They also said that I have done what no one has ever done in the company.

Now this whole thing is affecting my uncle negatively, he said all the top management have now set their attention on him. He said that for me a newbie to gain direct access to meet the executive director, while some of the top managers can't even try it shows how arrogant he has become. And they are Saying that I can cause problems for them once any of them make me angry.

MY CONFESSION
To God who made me, I have never had any intention to hurt my uncle negatively at his work place. I only want a safe place to work in peace and free from constant threats and harassment.
My uncle said his job is no longer safe because of my desperate act and that all his colleagues has ganged up on him right now. He said that he regretted employing me.

Please nairaland family help me where did I go wrong, I only want a safe place from my terrible manager and now everything has spiral out of control. Everyone is talking about me and my uncle, even in my new department.

Should I finally quit this job and damned the consequences or should I stay and mind my business with no one talking to me. Please advise.

Guy you did nothing wrong.
From this tale,like someone said your uncle wants to feel important..as you didn't tell him before meeting the MD.

It's not your fault if his colleagues decide to act like small boys and petty..

All in all just face your job..I love when a man is on his right and goes what his mind tells him..

See people on your office including your bosses envy you.. but they will show you as hate.. but inside their envy and admire your boldness..

Your MD will be impressed as well, though he may not show it..it takes balls to build,own or head a company..and people with balls admire people with balls.

In all all I. Like your spirit.. your bold..it takes this boldness to be a success in life..don't dill your light for anybody..I believe you will thrive most especially as an entrepreneur
.....the righteous are as bold as lions

pocohantas:
I always wonder how men have so much to write and say about women,

With so much certainty, you will think they are women themselves.

Yet in another breathe, they say they don't understand women.

How can you speak so much of something you do not understand? How?

In fact, local woman is confused.

Sister confused or not.that guy made very solid points..not solid i mean factual points

Jobac:
Innoson did not sponsor research and development in Engineering, but he has money to waste on big brother that will not help his business, nawa for Innoson o.

Its marketing and publicity oo
And its very effective, because it creates brand awareness...and increases demand for the product resulting in more profit

Officialgarri:
Sirleaf. She has no choice than to belief in Africa. The women in her country didn't grumble over the social media. The women actually went to the streets in protest, and Sirleaf was made their president.

This is unusual of the chest beaters. I thought the biafra thing was a serious movement not until I got to see things for myself in the east.
The agitation is only on Facebook, no one here has time for protests.
Their girls are busy displaying their nudes on Instagram and the guys are busy liking what they see

People are having intellectual discourse and this is what you have to say? This your hatred breeds cancer..sorry in advance

Regina nwoko ti take over her position..

Oluwa burna, back to back seat where you belong

vizkiz:
Fear the media. Don't always be too quick to judge any incident based on a one sided story

The guy deserves to be stabbed multiple times for doing this to his 7 months old wife.

************

Women sef. Them go see mature and sane man whey love them but no... Na that bad man whey go beat them na him them go follow.

Calm down small boy..
Your accusing the media and doing the same thing you advised against with one side of your mouth..did you hear the late mans side of the story?

Ive observed that these angelic looking hausa brides can be silent killers..not saying she did or didnt do it, all am saying is you will think she will take bullcrap lying down.fortunately no

FunTonic:
I do not understand this gross hypocricy.
Are the shops and goods that were destroyed by Ghanians few days ago, not legitimate bussinesses?
They are destroying your people, innocents and guilty and this fools are saying rubbish.
when have the all giant of Africa become this weak and a subject of mockery even in Africa?
I know that there are bad Nigerians that are not representing us properly in Ghana but that is the work of the Ghanian police and inteligence to fish out the bad ones and not rob innocent Nigerians into this mess.

If ever a single shop of a NIGERIAN is attacked then Ghana is looking for war with Nigeria, all relationship between Ghana and Nigeria should be abolished.
What NONSENSE.

Calm down oga..those doing legit business are bearing the brunt of jobless miscreants.

It's natural that an idle man is the devil's workshop...Ghana is closest to Nigeria ( english nation) and quite easy to travel too.. a lot of things are better in Ghana as well.but trust Nigerians and their criminal naira Marley attitude,they must mess things up..go to the malls in Accra you would see all sorts of lay abouts just sitting idly doing nothing,nigerians O,..why will devil not use them. The traders are enjoying good business it's these jobless ones that are spoiling things for them...if United kingdom was close to Nigeria the way Ghana is close,. Nigerians will still be a nuisance.. spits.. unfortunately is somewhat in Nigeria DNA.

Don't expect the goods ones that have seen a land flowing with milk and honey to be chased out by a bunch of jobless,. And no hope filled generation.

I feel for Ghana because of ECOWAS etc there's not much that can be done...the way to prevent such dirty elements Spoiling their calm waters is to raise the bar for those entering , unfortunately they can't, I believe Nigerians with their evil spirits which has been made harder under Buhari will be a menace to Ghana for a while..bad news for the idiots is that to some extent ghana police don't sleep.

GOFRONT:
KIRIKIRI PRISON AWAITS HIM...

I doubt this
He will be taken behind their station and shot dead

Parablesonmarble:
What do I know. I've lived in Nigeria all my life so I don't know much about what obtains out there. I only responded based on reports and my obviously limited knowledge. However, I still maintain that Nigerians in other African countries may be living too loudly based on daily reports and checking their ways may be in order. That is my point. If you have any other suggestion, just state it because it may help somebody and if you want to educate me, I'm open to learning. Bashing me won't help anyoone. That fact I know too well.

Well said and no insult meant

For your question best way I can summerise is Nigeria is rich at least compared to other African nations.. but if you see what other nations with limited resources have done..and. How they act (contentment) Bros you will believe something is very wrong with Nigeria..ask people that have stayed out and stepped in again..once you step in even the air is different,

searchlight:
pls how do you quote two persons at a time plzzzzz

Simple just quote the two one after the other...the farther your comment is to a page, the most unlikely you'll be a able to quote.

If your on page 3 of a thread it's easy to quote a page two than one

Gorillacrew:
This is always coming. A friend of mine that lives in Russia told me that nationals from most black African countries are always beefing Nigerians in diaspora. The reason for other black persons beefing Nigerians, home and abroad, may be as a result of jealousy or insecurity on the part of these people but if we don't give them [quote author=Gorillacrew post=79463597]This is always coming. A friend of mine that lives in Russia told me that nationals from most black African countries are always beefing Nigerians in diaspora. The reason for other black persons beefing Nigerians, home and abroad, may be as a result of jealousy or insecurity on the part of these people but if we don't give them any chance to show it, they likely won't be able to. Going to your neighbour's house and acting like his landiord definitely won't earn you much accolades. Maybe Nigerians in other African countries need to tone things down so they can get along without much troubles.

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Gorillacrew:
This is always coming. A friend of mine that lives in Russia told me that nationals from most black African countries are always beefing Nigerians in diaspora. The reason for other black persons beefing Nigerians, home and abroad, may be as a result of jealousy or insecurity on the part of these people but if we don't give them any chance to show it, they likely won't be able to. Going to your neighbour's house and acting like his landiord definitely won't earn you much accolades. Maybe Nigerians in other African countries need to tone things down so they can get along without much troubles.

ny chance to show it, they likely won't be able to. Going to your neighbour's house and acting like his landiord definitely won't earn you much accolades. Maybe Nigerians in other African countries need to tone things down so they can get along without much troubles.[/quote]

Gorillacrew:
This is always coming. A friend of mine that lives in Russia told me that nationals from most black African countries are always beefing Nigerians in diaspora. The reason for other black persons beefing Nigerians, home and abroad, may be as a result of jealousy or insecurity on the part of these people but if we don't give them any chance to show it, they likely won't be able to. Going to your neighbour's house and acting like his landiord definitely won't earn you much accolades. Maybe Nigerians in other African countries need to tone things down so they can get along without much troubles.

[quote author=Gorillacrew post=79463597]You and your Russian friend are clueless if you have ever visited other African nations, you'd hate this desolate land called Nigeria.

Envious? Am not sure you two know where MMA is located

caprini1:
The truth is there is serious poverty in West Africa at the moment,and most of our neighboring countries pretend as if all is well..The truth is every where is about to implode,but some countries like Nigeria knows things are bad ,but can get better,unlike Ghana that loves living in pretence...why cant Ghanaians just tell themselves the truth and live in reality.

My work takes me all over West Africa,and yes ,some Nigerians are terrible,but not compared to the number of legit ones doing their things peacefully.

The poverty in west Africa is increasing everyday,and the earlier the citizens hold their various governments accountable and stop hating on one another ,things might get worse.


How do you explain that we call ourselves ECOWAS ,and you with a Nigerian passport gets to the Togo Ghana border at Aflao....and both the ghana and togo immigration officers push and shove you ,until you part with almost 10k naira equivalent if its your first time of passing there,or about 4k naira if you are a frequent traveller,Whereas Togolese and Ghanaians walk through freely.

Nigeria is so bad ,bla bla bla ...but it is only Nigerian banks in Ghana UBA ,Access ,Zenith ,GTB and co .that have capitalised and can actually do voluminous businesses?

There is no way a country of close to 200m people will all be saints. Nigeria is not even in the top 20 countries with high cyber crimes,Armed Robberies ,kidnapping etc. The south American countries are hell on earth,but you dont see Brazilians fighting Columbians

The earlier all this nonsense against Nigeria stops,the better.Everybody looses if they create tension between Nigeria and Ecowas ,because of a few bad elements.

Shut up there

Bla bla bla gt ,zenith etc do you think its exclusively owned by nigerians? Am not sure you do real business, cos ud know how this works.

Yes thheres poverty in africa, there are certain crimes ghanians wont touch..kidnapping being one of them...but lousy nigerians have reared their ugly heads there..ghanina immigration taks you?

Guy tell tour self the truth your a shady business man and your one of the problems of Nigeria and like the less sensed proffesoor is talking trash...


Nigeria has a problem and you sir are one of them...how about the Nigerians all over the world causing problems..truth is thers a curse or something of that nature operating in the atmosphere called Nigeria and people resident with in

One day bush meat go catch the hunter 2×

If you thifi thifi today tomorrow you nogo fit thief no more...

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