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Tallesty1:
Linda couldn't marry when she doesn't have a child e come be now that she is a single mom. Genevieve is a single mom and she is single with all her wealth and achievements, Tiwa too and the best she could get with all her money is fvcking a boy.


Guy, you're just trying to blackmail other guys without making sense.

Apart from the fact that most single mothers(who aren't unfortunate widows) are promiscuous, there are a million and one other reasons to stay away from them.


But before I go down to one or maybe two of these reason, I will like to point out something to some of you. You especially.


Single mothers should stop this always failing attempt to blackmail men to marry them.
For every single mother out there, there's at least 20 ladies that have not had a child who are still single.

If your being single is a result of having a child then explain these other ladies who are also single even though they have never had a child? You go online to claim that being a single parent is bliss and the only way and then come offline to wail that you can't find a husband? Who takes such an unstable person serious.

You make it seem like they're single because they're single mothers but truth is they're single because they have issues just like other single ladies out there. Women generally have issues, matter of fact, anything that has tire, engine or boobs have issues but boobs that have fed a child have complicated issues.


Now down to the reasons.

Which you have not experienced.


Women have undying love for things that give them pain.

High heels give them pain but they wear it anyways. Skimpy dresses makes them uncomfortable, but they can't do without it. You see them cling to shitholes that treat them like trash and then make you their best friend so you can console them when they are treated like thrash. It's illogical to us but they seem to understand it.

A lot of the guys that put these ladies in the family way are assholes so your woman, because of this their inexplicable love for things that give them pain will once in a while go back to this guy.

Women who suffered terribly in the hands of an ex lover see their child as a consolation price. For this reason, this child will come first before the one she will have for you.

I know you don't understand this because you've not experienced anything like that.



Picture this family.


A single father married a single mother.

By your logic, they're birds of the same feather and similar experience so they are going make a one happy family.

But that's not the case.

The union produced a kid but these kid was starved of her parents love. The father gives 70% of his love to the other child and the mother gives 90% of her love to the other child. The child they have together manage whatever is left.


Single mothers of today cling on the child without any reasonable source of income, so the moment you marry them, the child becomes your responsibility.

So before you jump on marrying a single lady just to prove a useless point, answer this question.


How will you feel seeing your wife give most of her love and attention to a kid she had for another man and you helped her to raise while your own kids get just whatever is left of her love? If you are okay with it then please by all means, marry a single mother and leave us to our choice.

I can't do it and neither you nor any single mom can blackmail me to do it.

And finally, blaming everything that happens in Africa on religion is becoming very lame.


Please note that all single mothers are not the same. There are many many good single mothers who are just unfortunate with men but finding a wife is difficult and I am not going to make it more difficult by including single mothers.

lyndaway:
No woman choose to be a single mother if I get you clearly you are saying that she should have had abortion it a pity the way some people think but one should always remember no one knows tomorrow

lyndaway:
The last time I checked single mother is not a disease if you love her and you are sure she loves you too why not go ahead she didn't choose to be a single mother she just find her self in situation that is beyond her control if you love her go ahead

Alexgeneration:
No man in his right senses will waste his resources to marry a second-hand woman (single mother) when he can use same resources to get a better wife.




Only losers and men with low self esteem will end up with single mothers because they can't attract better females to themselves and if you ask them why,they will mask their inferiority with love,then you begin to ask "you no see virgin love abi you no see woman wey dem never useless love"?



Single mothers are the dregs of the female species and only few inches above mad women.


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dfrost:
Sis, the past is the past. Forgive and move on. It's not easy, I know. Just give him whatever he wants.

Always remember you are YOU because he mated with your mum, his wife.

Please, I beg of you.

MedicH:
he abandoned u guys when u needed him most and now he's coming back to reap where he sowed nada but some sperm cells. i'm sure u will be thinking differently if you were mexican or colombian. I hate such men with deadly passion. My dad still give me money each time we meet and he has no idea how much i'm worth. you will be ok sha.

abuuthmaan:
you haven't still been paid?

EvilPOTATO:
Love is sweet
Most especially when you marry early

kalu61:
Please Bleep it, nobody. l repeat nobody can rule Nigeria on 3 terms.


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