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Politics › Re: Wike How To Make River State Truly A Christian State by Charleys: 9:56am On Aug 30, 2019
Only yorubas in Rivers State practice No.4

They were chased away and beaten once in Rumuchiolu for their practices and will be dealt with again.

You can ask someone if it truly happened.
Politics › Re: President Buhari Attends 7th TICAD Day 3 In Japan by Charleys: 9:49am On Aug 30, 2019
Still no Japanese in the picture. Buhari is an insensitive leader who doesn't care about Nigerians.
Politics › Re: How to identify an IPOB member by Charleys(op): 9:46am On Aug 30, 2019
Hahahaha
Romance › Re: Is Visiting Romance Section A Form Of Cheating For Married Couples by Charleys(op): 9:44am On Aug 30, 2019
1StopRudeness:
U sound like u are blaming married people for your inability to get a girlfriend.... there are 210million people in this country and another 8billion more in the world....no body is blocking or reducing anybody’s opportunity

and very few people come to nairaland to look for relationship except the desperate ones...it’s a faceless forum remember??.. most people just come to insult each other, form what they are not in the real world, catch fun and get “likes” that can’t turn to money
I asked a simple question, is coming to nairaland a form of cheating to married couples. If you were experiencing real romance in your marriage you would not be searching for romance in the section.
Culture › Re: How Did The People Of Bauchi Loose Their Language. by Charleys(op): 6:46am On Aug 30, 2019
labani06:
there are a lot of languages in bauchi jarawa, Fulani hausa and many more ajawa is not the main language In bauchi
But before now it was the main language.
Politics › Re: How to identify an IPOB member by Charleys(op): 6:45am On Aug 30, 2019
Nice one OP
Romance › Is Visiting Romance Section A Form Of Cheating For Married Couples by Charleys(op): 6:43am On Aug 30, 2019
If you are married then why do you visit the romance section of naira land, apart from spicing up your relationship the section was created for single people to meet up and start something new.

Visiting the romance section is a form of cheating because

1. You are here to steal ideas so you can spice up your dying relationship. That's cheating.

2. This place (romance section) is filled with single people so most times the intention is to hook up with someone.

3. Being a married couple reduces the opportunity of single people therefore increasing the competition for them. Competing with someone that is married is a disadvantage.

I've tried to date so many women in the romance section but at the end they keep telling me that they are married, so what were you doing in the romance section?
Romance › Re: Sexual Harrasment By Women With Infertility by Charleys(op): 6:19am On Aug 30, 2019
Write up is good.
Politics › Re: FG To Launch Solar-powered Vehicles – Amaechi by Charleys:
Why me?

Why una dey lie give me
Politics › Re: More Pictures :President Buhari Meets With Nigerians In Japan by Charleys: 8:46pm On Aug 29, 2019
Because IPOB protested last time now them don add one Chinese woman, this government is wicked and not listening to Nigerians.
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy: 90% Of Nigerian Youths Don’t Know About The Real Origins Of Nigeria by Charleys: 4:49pm On Aug 29, 2019
only IPOB knows the origins of Nigeria, I felt that's what Burna Boy is trying to say.

grin
Education › Re: Osun To Peg Secondary School Leaving Age At 18 —speaker by Charleys: 4:43pm On Aug 29, 2019
akinade28:
What will this achieve oo! Is this the next thing to tackle amidst all the problems battling with education in osun state?. Why delay brilliant young ones unnecessarily?.
Are there not adults influenced by peer pressure?.
Misplaced priorities
It still very embrassing to me that this man that was caught doing blood rituals openly in Ilesha became the speaker of the house just because he has political godfathers.
Anyway this is Nigeria, anything goes
They are no brilliant young ones everyone is dumb in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Makes Move To Deport All Ipob Members From European Countries Back To Ni by Charleys: 4:40pm On Aug 29, 2019
H

Politics › Re: Aisha Yesufu Twitter Account Suspended Temporarily by Charleys: 9:34am On Aug 29, 2019
Aisha Yesufu is a biased journalist.

Very bad for Journalism.
Romance › Re: Bbnaija: Reason Why Frodd Is Washing Easter's Underwear. by Charleys: 6:24am On Aug 29, 2019
This has shown that this guy washing the pant of a Afonja girl just to see it's well cleaned before going through.

Hahahaha bleeped up niggi
Politics › Re: Buhari’s Full Speech At The TICAD7 In Japan (read) by Charleys: 6:10am On Aug 29, 2019
still wondering how you have an international conference of Africa in Asia.
Romance › Re: Help: I Just Lost The Only Person Who Ever Really Believed In Me by Charleys: 11:47pm On Aug 28, 2019
Read full story here

I am just made a terrible mistake and I am about to loose the only man who truly loved me. I was in a relationship with my baby daddy for four years. I think I stayed that long because I wanted or hoped he would eventually choose to marry because of our son.

However, my baby daddy never treated me right. He cheated on me with several women,he abused me both physically and emotionally. I tried to make things work,I did everything a woman could possibly do but he only made me more and more miserable.

I lost my self esteem,I even began to believe no one would ever love me…that is what he used to say.He used to say that he is managing to be with me cos I am not smart or attractive and that there are many ladies who are finer than me that he could have.

I left my baby daddy almost two years ago. It was not easy but God sent me a very good man. We became friends for almost five months before we began to date. I never thought I could find a man so nice..I almost couldn’t believe it. This man brought himself down to teach me self love and respect.

When we started dating,he said no sex until we get married. I thought he was joking nut after a year of dating,all we ever did was kiss. I couldn’t count my luck. It also made me very apprehensive. I tried to protect him from other women. If I caught any woman looking at him,I would ask them to back off.

My behavior embarrassed him and he kept telling me I should not bother. Exactly two months ago,he asked us to fast and pray for our future together. I never liked fasting but this man drew me closer to God so I tried a little. After fasting and prayers,he proposed to me. He said he wanted to hear from God clearly if I was the one for him.

I was so happy. My life was about to change. All these while ma,my baby daddy will be sending me messages,begging me,that he loves only me out of all the other women. But I did not listen to him. Until after my engagement,something happened.

It was like after my engagement,me and my man will be arguing so much all the time. Argument about little things. One day,the argument grew out of hand and we said some things to each other. I said the one that hurt most.

I said something like: he is always treating me like he is better than me because of my past,because I have a baby before now. Actually,I always feel that way but he always encourage me. How can a young man of 31 marry a lady like me with a son already? When there are many young girls without children he can chose from?

My self esteem,no matter how much he tried to reassure me,sometimes makes me do or say some things to hurt him. This time,he got annoyed with me and said if I feel I am not good enough,then we should break up. That hurt me. I foolishly said he should get out. He asked me if I was sure….I said to hell with your self righteous…. ****

That was almost 3 weeks ago. I called and called him later,he refused to listen to my begging after. I was heart broken. He actually traveled to Kaduna after our fight so I though he had completely given up on me. I cried and cried.

My baby daddy came and usually I would not speak to him but I was vulnerable and he comforted me. We had sex and I regretted it immediately. I told him to go and I blocked his number. Three days lady,my fiance showed up. He and I made up. I totally see how much patient he has been with me and I am ready to make amends.

He looked at me and said something changed with me. I could not hold back,it was like the guilt was killing me.I told him how I mistakenly slept with my BD….he looked at me like he saw a horror film. He did not say a word…he just took off. I have been begging and calling and asking for forgiveness.

He says he needs to pray to ask God again about me cos all I do is break his heart after all he has done for me. This last three days has been hell for me.I need someone to help me beg him. I have been praying to God to touch his heart. I do not want to loose him..

Please tell me what can I do to get him back?



Rosemary (Not real name)
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Post Nude Pictures Of Themselves On social mediak by Charleys: 11:43pm On Aug 28, 2019
You get more likes.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Haakon: 3 Muslim Women Refused Handshake, Norwegian Mosque Apologizes by Charleys: 11:16pm On Aug 28, 2019
Khaleell001:
They did the normal thing.
Whether Norwagean Muslims or Australian Muslim.
Muslim men and women are not allowed religiously to shake the hands of non relatives including cousins of opposite gender.

This is Islām.
if you are so "liberal" and so "tolerant " you should be liberal enough to allow us act the way we feel best.
After all, not shaking hands harms no one.
What if Norway becomes liberal and tolerant to only christianity
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Nigerians To Protest Against Buhari At UN General Assembly – Frank by Charleys: 10:24pm On Aug 28, 2019
Blacks hhhmm.
Politics › Re: President Buhari Releases The New NDDC Board Members (see Full List) by Charleys: 5:27pm On Aug 28, 2019
Can a Southerners be a board member in NEDC

NorthEastDevelopementCommission
Politics › Re: Sierra Leone Official Sacked After Giving Testimony In TB Joshua's Church by Charleys: 4:29pm On Aug 28, 2019
Them don open office for TB Joshua head.
Politics › Re: Unprofessional Photoshopped Images Of Buhari In Japan by Charleys: 3:52pm On Aug 28, 2019
helinues:
Walahi you people needs to be admitted at psychiatric hospital
But you post pictures of Buhari showing his palms to another man to prove he is Jubril grin
Politics › Re: El-zakzaky Has Iran’s Backing To Create Islamic State In Nigeria – FG by Charleys: 3:08pm On Aug 28, 2019
Release the guy so he can islamise, so that we can Know first to islamise
Politics › Re: Ihedioha Receives Dr. ABC Orjiako And Mr. Austin Avuru Of Seplat Plc by Charleys: 12:44pm On Aug 28, 2019
ABC NWOSU

XYZ NWOSU
Politics › Re: Help Someone Is Using EGG Technology To Demoralise Me For Political Reasons by Charleys: 12:33pm On Aug 28, 2019
You need advice from VRdroid
Politics › Re: The Igbos Are A Minority In Nigeria: Truth. by Charleys: 6:27am On Aug 28, 2019
This is real
Romance › Re: Two Yoruba Demons Married Twin Sister by Charleys: 6:23am On Aug 28, 2019
I like yorubas for one thing.

They can marry early, and have children early not like our fellow sisters from the yeast who expect a man to be rich before they get married, no wonder feminist are many there, and no wonder they are minority in Nigeria with no say.

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