₦airaland Forum

mu2sa2:
The 4m naira is just about 11k dollars. That is
small change in Western countries. Why not invest the money here and over time it grows. You can then afford to travel to Canada, Dubai or anywhere else for leisure, rather than to be just menial worker or even a criminal with all the risks involved. Someone told me that on his first trip abroad to London he saw a security guard in front of a shop and upon a closer look he discovered he was a lecturer he knew at a nigerian university, who left his job to seek so- called greener pastures abroad like OP is planning!

Erediauwa:
....If you think that Baba Lifeless is ready to take Nigeria to enviable heights with his lopsided appointments and delay, then you're not far from being a witless fellow like Orji Uzor Kalu.

Baba Lifeless will continue to check and cross check those who will support the RUGA bullshit before appointing them.

bigl:
Hmmmmmmmmm.... i understand u bro .... its probably stress and the fact that you are living apart ...

If she was like this when u got married; as in u always have to cajole her, etc before u have sex, then there's little chances she will change but if she's not being like that, then you really should address this head on.

But I don't think she's cheating. I still want to believe its the stress of taking care of the kids ... i'm a father and i know how tiresome one can be after chasing all these kids around (especially if u have them plenty).

And it can also be age factors affecting her hormones.
Sometimes, for strange reasons, some people stop having sex cos they just don't have the urges and they too can't explain; so they hide under "stress, tiredness, etc" though that can also be a contributing factor.

Try this: If u have a parents, let your kids go there for the weekend for the next couple of weeks, leaving u and your wife. Then take her out to see the world. Give her some trip/trills out there then come back home and have mind blowing sex.

If these doesn't work then there is need to see a doctor.

Whatever u do, pls pls and pls, don't report her to anybody: its like nailing a half dead man in a coffin.

If there are some more infos to these writeup, buzz me on whatsapp for some more private discussion. Good counsel ..