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reservd:
If truely she doesn't know ur place, what stops u from ghosting her? What stops u from telling the security man never to allow her in henceforth abi ur workplace no get gate? I really don't understand how a lady could be treatening you despite not having any form of intimacy with her yet you can't handle it. She's 25, u didn't tell us ur age, is this situation really that difficult? Are you sure what u narrated is the whole truth

You seemingly act as though you know my story more than me. Do you think I haven't tried all these?

phelonrays:
Simple

She want to blackmail you into marriage!
Such will not last
As it gonna happen against your wish
So oo


Use your head and flee from the glaring devil if you want to live long!

#SayNoToSimphoodism .

Simp? Some of you guys who really do the no-to-simp stuff are really of low-esteem. Sometimes, one has to mature up. What'd you have done in my shoes? Sex? What will it prove? You used her? She used you too, and whatever treatment you give about her, you deserve it too! It's called growing up.

Authoreety:
Guyman, call her at this moment and tell her point blank to start avoiding you. You are not interested.. I wonder why some people can be dis stupid to be forcing themselves on some one... Even men ain't left out.....

Had same experience with some ladies back then... Very annoying psychos

I've done this repeatedly that her refusal started seeming as though a joke.

SweetCunt97:
After when dem beat am enter coma, dem go dey look for sympathy... Mtcheew

I really didn't understand this.

Meekmind:
Na she wan marry u ni or na u wan marry her? : , threatening a man that he MUST marry you, when you guys didn't date or had anything intimate? I guess her brain is paining her...
Another angle is that your SUPPOSED NICE GESTURES & reciprocating her good deeds made her misinterpreted the whole thing & from there she started dating you without your knowledge...

I feel you should just stand your ground & turn her down completely including the meals she gives you(make she no go add otumokpo) so that your message might be sound & firm to her & if possible cut off all communications with her...

She only wants to set herself up for suffering


Stop loving who doesn't love you...
Stop wanting who doesn't want you...

Thanks.

Arrogantbro:
Do not fall for her manipulation. You are not interested in her, Period! Let her look for someone else
Op, beware! Na all this kind girls dey blackmail guys with rape

Thanks.

J111333:
When you lose that girl, you'll seek true love from a woman but may never see it again. Appreciate the unconditional love staring at your face right now, such opportunity comes few times in a lifetime.

As long as a woman has genuine love for you, you can recreate her to be the woman of your dreams.

True love? Love is not sth you swallow out of pity! It shouldn't be selfish. One reason I cannot oblige is she doesn't share my beliefs and I am not ready to settle down.

Arrogantbro:
Do not fall for her manipulation. You are not interested in her, Period! Let her look for someone else
Op, beware! Na all this kind girls dey blackmail guys with rape

Thanks.

majamajic:
Her is not bad , it's up to u man

I don't understand this. How can one claim to love sb who is not interested in you. How can sb who's not interested in you marry you? She got me a new iPhone as gift. I rejected of course. I don't accept gifts anyhow because it could be from Greeks.

Has this ever happened to anyone? How did you overcome this epidemic?

majamajic:
How old is she ?

She's I think about 25.

[color=maroon] Hi friends, I need your opinion on this. There's this (say) friend of mine who I misdeemed as friendly not knowing there was sth more to it.
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First of all, I'm single. Not like I'm searching but I really want to be single till I achieve some few things on my to-do. I have a good job too. Marriage is not sth one should jump into. I've turned some advances down majorly because I wasn't ready to settle down: I believe dating should solely be for marriage and not trivialized. (my religious belief I hold unto dearly).
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Back to my tale. She's this kind who complements me and sometimes chat, call and text-message and I return the favour by checking up on her sometimes too by also calling and sms-ing (I was always civil and careful with my words not to incite unusual feelings).
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Fast forward to last week, she called me and asked where this relationship was heading to. I paused for a moment and hung up. I was so mesmerized. Relationship? What relationship? We didn't have that kind of relationship, I thought. With the most pleasant words, I re-called her and explained things to her, acknowledging she was beautiful and never would I undergrad her but that I was just simply being nice and civil and appreciated it that way (but not for anything intimate or relationship). I didn't know those nice words of mine wouldn't work. This girl started pestering my life from that day. I've literally beseeched her I wasn't ready for a relationship but she wouldn't leave me be. She has tried many things; trying to seduce me the day she invited me with the guise of apologizing for her errs, threatening 'female names' (thinking they are my girlfriends) on my contact to leave me (however she got them!)..latest was she telling my friends I broke her heart. In fact, people she told may rightly think it's true because of how she incessantly tell them to talk to me.. I'd be like going to coma when they do! Not as though she isn't beautiful but I AREN'T READY TO DATE! Even if I were, it wouldn't be her! Worst is she is acting as a wife! Cooking and bringing for me and putting me in a position to reject or take it (with the pity 'accept it na' from my co-staffs around). I don't want to embarrass her there but I've explained it countless time to her I'm not interested. As in, what part of the sentence doesn't she understand! .
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Yeah, I know some people will think I aren't a 'guy man' bla bla to have not 'used her' up till now but f your feelings. This is my life. I don't have to be you.
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Note, I haven't had anything intimate with her. We haven't even discussed about anything intimate! She doesn't even know my apartment. You need to see me hiding when going home so she wouldn't even know there. Oh, I'm getting crazy. The only far I think we went was she asking about my marital status which I firmly said I was single and not searching. I even thought she understood. In all I thought she was joking and repeatedly told her to come off it, but she is damn serious about this shit.
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The bomb came yesterday when she told me she wouldn't let another girl snatch 'what she has worked for for years. That she will not let another girl marry her man, that it is her I must marry.'
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I nearly exploded. My head has overgrown its size.
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I don't chase after girls. I don't flirt. Please explain this life to me. Could this just be a joke because I'm beginning to go bananas.[/color]

Nigeria is an international ghetto -- an irreparable international village.

I hope they haven't politicized the herb too!

Why did he have to indulge then? This world has grown worst.

In fact, one of the very first things I check in a woman is whether or not she's employed. I cannot marry sb who's not working. Two, she must have paper qualifications.

Fourteen years old? When I was fourteen, I was dealing with Further Maths!

E never chi chumchin.

Group ko, Group ni.

One day, it'll be another person, another big people in celebdom.

Bloated.

This dude really got served.

After everything, they'll still be counter-productive. Dem really 'swear' for una.

Ok o.k. But you still look cool. The pandemic is not a death sentence.

1. You must reduce the days you spend on a single make-up. 2. Don't think money first, then you'll make money soon.

I smell some mis-vibration.

Yawns.

I verily understand women could be so annoying sometimes but I don't support beating a wife.

Good one honey.

All politicians are guilty as charged that's why they mince words and soften sentences on their cohorts.

Hmm.