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I give up on Nigeria.

As a parent, I refuse your apology.

What rubbish.

They always use Lagos as reference..but now, they didn't because Lagos itself doesn't have that.

Lol

My only problem with this post na why una go dey use all caps dey type?

Omo

Oluremi, wobi, go and rest. Una don try for Nigerian money

Highways:
I use to think that the only way I can travel is by having money... until fellowship and scholarship drag me go SA, Kenya, Sydney, Denmark and I was even paid stipends on top....

If you believe that 1m will take you outside... Its more than enough.... you just have to change your mindset

Your mentality is good.

She disrespected him. Okay, and so?

Does he respect Nigerians before?

Nonsense and ingredients.

CaveAdullam:
Your sole responsibility is to your child. Full stop.

Don't even allow her "half-sister(s)" not to even talk of two to stay under your roof should in case she comes to her senses to marry you - an advanced method in manipulating you. She got pregnant because she wanted to gain marriage and security for her siblings but got it messed up. She doesn't desire you. She doesn't like you. She's after her selfish gains.

Try sending money again for the upkeep of your child again or thrice and if she repeats the same bad attitude, bounce, bounce, bounce away from her life. You did your best. Don't worry, your child will hear the other side of the story when he/she becomes an adult.

Take care.

Omo,

How you people judge tho!
Yes, one shouldn't marry out of pity, meanwhile, how did she get pregnant by herself!

Even if you've seen a lot in women, first things first, his penis was the one who penetrated. His penis wasn't kidnapped. His penis produced the child.

It's his responsibility now.

tensazangetsu20:
But the girl is an orphan.

Op is in a terrible situation. I wonder why he would be foolish enough to impregnate a woman from such a background. Men just complicate their lives anyhow.

You mean she is not a victim of her circumstances and she should be avoided?

Omo, forget sha. You may not know but many of us share the same degree of hardship. It's was never our fault.

I don't say it's his responsibility but dissuading him at this point isn't the best advice.

It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.


Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.


Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

Ihatebuhariwith:
na so I won EKSU fresher chess champion in 2015 and they give nothing till today..

Omo, sorry about that.

AsomArchitectNG:
Good to have you here my brother Chatinent... Trust you're doing great?...

The building stages requires much though, but it all depends on what the clients wants and the type of structure that's been erected

Gbamsolutely

Nice seeing this.


Omo, these building stages consume a lot of money.

HarlequinLekex:
I laugh in Andexia,do you all know if not careful pidgin english can destroy your normal english?when u cross the border and u are to speak normal english and u end up speaking pidgin what impression are u leaving of the country you came from.

Actually, if it's a lingua franca, it'll be recognised as just another variant of English.

Make I dey watch who go win.

All we need is sb sensible like Yar'Adua.

It can't happen in my house. I can tolerate body pains and tend for the kids and kitchen needs since it's no big deal...but you dare not deprive me of the marriage right.

I support the motion.

We should promote our own.

What a brain box we have here.

Well done, dear.

guru90:
If Abia state people vote that criminal Governor into Senate, then I will know that Abia state indigenous are they most useless indigene in 36 states of Nigeria.....

They stupidly will.

Other people attempt to sell their candidates. Reno takes it personally...and next minute he's shouting his life is at stake.


Few million naira negatively re-orient this man.

The three main candidates aren't messiahs. They have all once ruled and FAILED.

Sell your Judas perfectly. We know Atiku's dollar replaces blood in you already.

That Abia governor is just empty and should be arrested.

But instead of arresting the animal, they'll vote him into the senate.


The kinds of people we live with!

tunjilee003:
2500 last...

Omo. Kuku shoot me.

So sad.

Plenty talks.

I prefer action.

Okrika of this bag dey available for N6k.

IamDietiesGod:
"Most " would have validly fit in instead.

When I said all, I was serious about it.

I wish you captured their faces. They should have been losing theirs jobs any sooner.

ASUU was fighting for her rights. Nigeria is not just a country that values education.

Why should they when all politicians' kids school abroad?

Make una calm down. Nigeria don expire already.

It's not a bad idea. With time, drink companies will supply you with chairs and refrigerators.

Ok o