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Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you


and let others live theirs.

All you said is true. Also, you should understand that there are men that are interested in the virginity of their ladies plus the other godly qualities and virtues. Would you pick just a house when you have the option of both a house and 5million dollars?¿

Just to add this, the op isn't forcing anyone to live another person's life. It is just a solidarity call for those who love and live the chaste life

Petersamuel8:
100% right, it will be difficult for you to even find a 16year old virgin both male and female

Yea, difficult but not impossible. One thing I've realised is that virgins don't announce themselves, they don't go about talking about it due to the dangers of today's world.

I feel real good seeing this post. It shows there are still souls burning for Christ.

Just to add, instead of worrying about who laughs last and what not, we should pray for others who see sexual immorality as the new 'normal', that their hearts be turned away from evil and that they stop making Satan happy.

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NothingDoMe:
I don't think codeine is being sold over the counter. Drugs with codeine are now controlled.

It is still being sold

tonyimadu:
in arguments like this no one convinces the other. These kind of debates are so unnecessary. The Internet is now the battleground. I have followed this trend only to find out that we all stick to our views. no one is changing the other. we are contending. It is the devil that brings contention among brethren

You are making lots of sense.

imstrong1:
two ladies from jw came to my house for evengelism.. I wasn't in the mood for argument so I simply asked them to start with a word of prayer, what I know they hardly do, they left with style with a promise of coming back. They never came back I think they will avoid my room

I know that chases them off but I really do not use it because I like the study.

They pray with you when you agree for a personal study from their book "what does the bible really teach?"

alBHAGDADI:
The JW owe us an explanation when they pride and boast in saying they are the ones who carry out Christ's assignment of preaching to people. How can make such a boast when the people you are preaching to are already Christians? If you think you have the right to boast about preaching to Christians, then what do you expect those missionaries who went through hell to convert those people to Christianity to do?

I wonder where I said I do not like JW. Why are you suddenly taking the victim or the persecuted position? You spend all your money publishing watchtower and awake magazines to discredit the Catholic Church and other Pentecostal Churches, but when they expose your falsehood, you claim they don't like you and are persecuting you.

I can assure you that if the few missionaries facing persecution in Saudi Arabia successfully convert the country to a Christian country, you JW will immediately go there and start trying to convert the Christians to JW. You will start boasting of how you are the only ones preaching from door to door in Saudi Arabia, but you were never there when conditions were harsh and hostile.

Before I got admitted into school, I spent years at home trying... Then one day, a witness came and was welcomed(an elderly man), I listened to him and as JWs always do, he offered to come by some other time and I obliged. He came twice every week and spent an hour(minimum) on each day. I was enjoying our time together 'cos I became more active in studying God's word( from the bible and "what does the bible really teach?", credit to them.

So this day came, where I was asked to choose a topic from the book as always, and I selected a topic that concerns heaven and hell, that was the genesis of our 'unhappy' encounters. He gave me quotations and I also gave him those that support my stance and we separated without a resolve. He came again and we still didn't agree, then he decided we move on which we did.


Then a day came when he asked if I was God's witness, then I affirmed. He asked whether I go to to preach God's words, I was sincere enough to tell him Yes, but not as active as they are. I remember mentioning to him also, that my belief is, it is not enough to go and preach and end there, but that our lifestyle should be able to convert a sinner or make positive impacts.


Well, after all of that conversation, he invited me to their hall and I agreed but couldn't make it for their fellowship, the next time he came, he was livid saying he had told his brethren that I was coming over, I sincerely apologised with plans to make it the next meeting. But then, I thought to myself, this man must be serious with me to have told his brothers, so I asked him why, then the main purpose of every precious time we had had together came up. He wants me to get converted from a Christian to another Christian, I should become a member of Jehovah witness. I bluntly refused and could not imagine why he would even imagine such. I questioned him as to why they pass by 'ogogoro spot', some brothels around without preaching to them and he picked offense and found a cunning way out. I cannot use the action of one dear man to extrapolate to other members, I want to ask a question though: to the witnesses in the house, please what do you think is the reason for that man's action?

P.S- He stopped coming after that, tried to resume again after a while but I was admitted shortly after.


Now in school, I met another member, a guy. This guy is the most open-minded witness I have ever encountered. Whenever he comes around, I leave every other thing to discuss God's word with him, even when I was sick(lol, remember a friend saying na wa o). I so much enjoyed our time together and I miss him. Well, on this very Sunday, he came with another member (female) and we discussed and at a point, I didn't quite agree with him; on explaining my point with him, he saw reasons and that was it. I noticed the lady's countenance though and I expected something to happen. Behold it did happen, the next Sunday, he wasn't the one at my door but two other ladies and when I asked after him, I was told he has been assigned to something else in the Kingdom hall. To the witnesses in the house, please can I from this one action, infer that you guys don't listen to other's opinion but yours'?


I just recalled something that elderly man once said, that if I go to some countries facing natural disasters, I will find JWs there catering for the needs of their members. Then I asked him, why their members only, got no response. The other very painful one was that if only I was their member, he would contacted someone to help with my admission. It was at that point I ended it all, because despite him being rigid with his views and not tolerating mine, I was patient with him because of his age.

Happy Sunday everyone. #do unto others what you want done unto you

pocohantas:
LOL. Once the thread na by Toks, babes dey on the defence.
He made some sense on this thread, but I won't rush into that conclusion because of one guy. If it keeps happening, then the lady concerned should check herself. That's just the truth...

Every broken relationship should teach us something about ourselves, be you the breaker or the breakee

#word

Netfilix:
Op, you're actually right, even though the ladies won't agree this because you sound bias, but you're very valid from my own experience, my current girlfriend is not as physically and facially attractive as my ex, but there is one thing my current girl posses that would make me love her forever, it is her understanding and utmost care, Infact I respect her patapata, Whenever my ex comes to mind, na her self centeredness and lack of respect I go dey remember. Lol...

And I wasn't really thinking marrying her but now I don mean to Marry her... Like she completes me...

Ladies this is my own advice, bad guys are out there plenty but there are some guys that are not really bad but thinks all the ladies are also bad, if you are lucky to meet this kind of guys ehn... And you prove him wrong, Mehn you finally gotten what you're looking for be that...


Pardon my grammar

Abeg type these in block letters make them see. When they see a thread from Toks2008, they refuse to read, understand and comment sensibly. The first reaction is 'defensive mechanism'.

I wonder why

AZeD1:
Nice question.

@Toks

What happens if she dumps the guy after a year?

The guy also, should check himself.

I see no reason why persons are evening turning this into something else. For instance, a guy has been in a relationship with a girl for a 'good' period of time, and afterwards instead of marriage, they separate without "cogent" reasons like genotype you mentioned. The partner that was 'dumped' as well as the person who 'dumped' should both check themselves.

Na two way thing!

Toks2008:
I agree to a quick extablishment of a logic institution cos you will be the first enrollee.

Dumping a lady is different from parting ways based on genotypic factor or relocation.

Lol... wahala.

Please oh please, disagree with the content of the write up with points, not going about insulting the op na...

People sef, talking shit about Toks, are you guys perfect? He has written what he thinks which I think makes sense, why not create a thread which supports your opinion.

Mbok, let us try na. Try to be peaceful with all men. I have read lots of comments, to the point that I'm now trying to address all of them at a time.

Peace!

ariketalks:
Bad body odour? Is there ever good "body odour"?

odour can be good or bad, just as smell. Bad body odour/smell or good body odour/smell.

Hakeem12:
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Thank you so much. The third movie I meant to type is "La Patrona"

cool stuff you're doing. Please I need the link to 1. Beauty and the Beast. Not the animation, the very first one. 2. Game of thrones. Seasons 1- the latest. 3 La patrons

wildimagination:
Since u follow the bible...we are gonna come at u with the bible

Rom1v26-27 and 1st cor 6v9..its clearly there that homo( lesbian or gay) is a sin just like adultery, stealing, greed....you are not extra evil for letting a woman like you give u pleasure...its a sin like every other sin, though we straight pple find it wierd and see it like one big sin...

If u are indeed a Christian, and u truely have a relationship with God and the holyspirit..I know it's hard fleeing a sin you enjoy...ask God to forgiv, exercise self control and pray about it, u'll be surprised how far prayer can help with this kinda stuff....and stop seeing this bisexual lady....

Hi lady, kindly follow this advice.

Odunharry:
That's not the issue. The list is large that's why. I pointed it out the way you see a mention is if you click mention

Okay, thanks.

Odunharry:
Check it, it's correct. Richiez has posted

Please Odunharry, the name is chayoski not Chayoski, it is a lower case c. I didn't get a mention and had to go through the list manually to find my name. Please effect the correction. Then for the sample test, I haven't gotten any mail yet, don't know whether they have been sent already. Thanks

Samleen:
I am the original writer but presently, I have no ambition to run for any political post and at now, I am not in support of any candidate.

Alright.

Even without having seen the movie yet, I laughed really hard at most of the memes,,, I couldn't really relate but the facial/body expressions plus the captions were super hilarious. Thumbs up @ the op.

Samleen:
Good but

to every presidential aspirant, here is our requirement checklist if you actually want us to cast our votes for you in the coming 2019 election.

We don't care about what political party you belong to anymore -whether old party or new party, popular or unpopular; we don't care about what religion anymore; we don't care about what tribe or region anymore but
You

1. Must attend not less than 3 presidential debates: how do we know you're mentally stable and not a slowpoke if you cannot give reasonable responses to simple debate questioning?

2. Must undergo medical qualification tests: both the psychiatricals and others. The result must be verified by a notable medical panel and must be made availale to the general public.
People do medical tests even for secondary school admission, so why not for presidency aspiration.

3. Must have of governing plan (just like a business plan or a master plan) and make it available to the general public through the all the social media channels.
Bank cannot commit their cash to people without a good business plan with clearly written goals and objectives, figures, strategies and a guarantor, so how much more should we commit the life, future and properties of more than 150millions Nigerians to you without a plan.
In the plan must also be indicated your personer track records of successes.

4. Must have more than secondary school education. (There's nothing new about this)

5. Must have at least one of your children educated in a public university in Nigeria (not private): by this we will surely know that you believe in the future of Nigeria and that you will work towards her betterment.
This is a price not too much to pay if you realy love us.
We are tired of insensitivity of government towards the development of standards of educational setup in Nigeria, the strikes and industrial actions.

6. Must be a patronage of Nigerian made products and services and you must believe in capacity building of Nigerian indigenous businesses to provide exportable products and services to neighbouring countries, Africa and the world at large.

7. Must be wide reader and self development enthusiast: If you don't constantly feed your mind with transformative, educative and informative ideas through books, you don't have a business doing with presidency in Nigeria.
We are tired of archaic approaches to human governing. We need mordern, liberated and future oriented leaders to lead us in Nigeria, not power mongers, who just want to be in government for power, fame and monetary gain.

8. Must be within the working age range (younger than 60 years): "what's good for the goose is good for the gander".
Towards old age, people become less and less physically, socially, mentally and psychologically fit to cope with occupational demands, not to talk of rulling a nation of more than150million citizens, so retirement is compulsory.
The retirement age in Nigeria civil service guided by decree No. 102 of 1979 that dealt with pension and gratuity pegged the statutory age of retirement for public officers at 60 years, while it is 65 years for judiciary officers and 70 for academic staff of universities. However with reform of civil service decree No. 43 of 1988, retirement age has been put at 60 years or 35 years in service.

9. Must have no public record of hate speech, tribalism, nepotism, crime against humanity, pending corruption charges or history, and or affiliation with any millitant group or religion fundamentalist group or terrorist group :
We will never ever think again that people will change. Ascenssion to power only gives people the chance to express their true self.

10. Must have done something contributary to the development of your immediate environment: this is simple, is'nt it?

11. Must be well educated about the constitution of Nigeria. We are tired of reminding the government what to do and what's not to do. We are tired of reminding the government about what's in the costitution they swear to uphold. This is 21st century.
The INEC in collaoration with the National Assembly and the Judiciary Counsel of Nigeria should create an online platform where common citizen can get proper education about the Nigerian constitution. They should maku use of shot animated videos and other training material. Certificates should also be awarded.

Please tell me you're already vying for the position of the president. If you are the original writer of what I see here, then I see little or no reason why you shouldn't be involved in the governance of this country. You speak complete Sense!

Thank you.

Institution: Delta State University, Abraka.
Course: Human Physiology
Level: 400

internationalman:
The fact that y'all are still saying it can be contracted through other means other than sex makes it more unbelieving to me.

I will try to briefly explain from my little knowledge. HIV is a virus, and virus needs a receptor in the system of the host, that it binds to to become activated. Virus do not survive for long outside of a living host. HIV gets transmitted via body fluids which includes blood. If for instance, an infected needle that wan't sterilized and still has the virus in life state, is used in piercing one, there's a likelihood for that person to contract the virus if he has the receptor. The thing is, no matter how much explanation is made, you still have the choice to make. Have a beautiful Saturday!

tiswell:
Very well bro.Peace!

Thumbs up! Have a beautiful Saturday.

liberalsinnerx:
Typical Afonja. Looking at his screen name. Very vile, foul people by nature.

who be this? Ogbeni stop the mockery. At least we all re humans and should respect one another

tiswell:
These are successful afonjas and not the skull miners and ra pists

I was almost rejoicing that I successfully read a page of comments without any racist comment just for yours to spoil things. Please let us repent of this attitude. Olamide and Phyno keep releasing collabo songs and most of you racists dance to. Let us use yge senses we have. Even when someone else does it, you don't have to respond to it in same manner because you re just going down to their level and I believe you re bigger and better than that. Preach and Practise Peace, Unity and Love. Thanks.

internationalman:
So u mean to say it's only in those region they have sex or have sex without protection.

You will be amazed by the statistics of people living with HIV. Try and check it out. That is excluding those that re still unaware of their positive status and those who are, but have decided to hide it for whatever their reasons are. HIV like is said, is not a death sentence. It kills just as someone can just slip, fall and die. Let me answer the op's question. HIV is real and if it is not managed properly, it can lead to AIDS.

internationalman:
Everyone preaches abstinence but how many practices it?

Firstly, I will like to add that HIV transmission is not strictly related to only sex. I cannot tell how many persons practise it, but when one person takes the resolve to live responsibly, and another and another, it will just keep spreading. It is just like the case of Who is a virgin or not? You don't expect a sane human to come out to announce that he or she is, but they exist. My point is, be responsible to yourself. Do the right thing whether or not anyone is watching or ready to appraise you.

internationalman:
I never for once believed it's real.
Unless 90% of d population are immuned to it. If not I don't see d reason why almost everyone is not infected with it considering d way sex flows in circulation from one person to another just like money.

go to ART centres and see the number is persons attending health talks and taking ARVs. How do you know the number of persons infected? Or is it now obvious like Chicken Pox? One had better try abstinence or try get infected to know whether it is false or fact.

where is BMS na?

Angel196:
Don't mind them jare, it just something they want to use in satisfying their conscience. They support people walking around half naked and try to twist my words into religious view but the truth is that not even pastors support women walking around half naked. But I never even mentioned hijab or religious views.

At a point, I almost got lost as to why a simple write up was turning into a religious thing. I feel even if you re a Muslim and your write up is based on that, it was not stated there so people shouldn't force it to that direction. like you rightly said, even pastors preach against it soit is not a thing of one religion being against it. Talking about bikini, I have this cherished friend that I once took to the beach after so much persuasion, and guess what she wore,,,a skirt far below the knee and a sleeve top, she is a Christian not just lip service. So please let us get the message and leave the messenger.