Hannysmilez:
Lol. You represent yourself alone. Her appearance tells who she is,of course. Your refusal to greet her tells who you are as well.
Respect is a personal thing,when you understand this, you'd treat even newborn babies respectfully.
#YouAreResponsibleForWhatYouDo

Btw,why are you so interested in what others wear? Is minding your business too hard these days

chayoski:
This person didn't answer your question. But op, why re they trying force your write up to a religious view? Have you had issue with them before now?

Ezionye:


Stale

Display a different kind of mental stewpidity next time for d sake of variety k?

Angel196:


Don't mind them jare, it just something they want to use in satisfying their conscience. They support people walking around half naked and try to twist my words into religious view but the truth is that not even pastors support women walking around half naked. But I never even mentioned hijab or religious views.

sarutobie:

You can smell a thirsty, politically correct wannabe dude from afar.. who formed the words 'appropriate, decent, modest,comely etc' ..these words were formed by the caucasians you worship..

kayjee101:

honestly, you made a valid point, but like the bro above me said, it is there problem and not yours...actually, an incident happened right in front of me at iyana-aboru, close pleasure bus-stop today. Some men nearly beat a girl just because she was in a very short bumper shorts or what-the-heck-it-is-called and a piece of t-shirt which hem she raised above her waist making every sh!t visible. 'Inu awe,' one of the man shouted as he nearly pounced on this girl only to be stopped by some wise men. You won't believe it, she wasn't relentless. She was charging at them to do their worst. When it dawned on her that she has lost out was when an army pickup van pulled up, and an officer was like, 'why did you not beat her very well well.'
Mind you, i was all eyes observing because it is her life not mine. Subsequently, non of those men knew if she had eaten that morning, they were all about her dress code.

Vorpal:



Yes Mr western mentality, how has such dated for them? Increasing rates of divorces, kids of single parents, baby mamas all over the place, homosexuality, bestiality every thing is just going fine on the other side cause their society is gold standard.

kayjee101:

honestly, you made a valid point, but like the bro above me said, it is there problem and not yours...actually, an incident happened right in front of me at iyana-aboru, close pleasure bus-stop today. Some men nearly beat a girl just because she was in a very short bumper shorts or what-the-heck-it-is-called and a piece of t-shirt which hem she raised above her waist making every sh!t visible. 'Inu awe,' one of the man shouted as he nearly pounced on this girl only to be stopped by some wise men. You won't believe it, she wasn't relentless. She was charging at them to do their worst. When it dawned on her that she has lost out was when an army pickup van pulled up, and an officer was like, 'why did you not beat her very well well.'
Mind you, i was all eyes observing because it is her life not mine. Subsequently, non of those men knew if she had eaten that morning, they were all about her dress code.

Angel196:


Don't mind them jare, it just something they want to use in satisfying their conscience. They support people walking around half naked and try to twist my words into religious view but the truth is that not even pastors support women walking around half naked. But I never even mentioned hijab or religious views.

RevampNairaland:
It is the life they choose.

What is right to you maybe a wrong thing to me

chayoski:
At a point, I almost got lost as to why a simple write up was turning into a religious thing. I feel even if you re a Muslim and your write up is based on that, it was not stated there so people shouldn't force it to that direction. like you rightly said, even pastors preach against it soit is not a thing of one religion being against it. Talking about bikini, I have this cherished friend that I once took to the beach after so much persuasion, and guess what she wore,,,a skirt far below the knee and a sleeve top, she is a Christian not just lip service. So please let us get the message and leave the messenger.

cristianisraeli:


thats what i have been trying to say...the only thing thats wrong everywhere in the world is MURDER..for RAPE..its wrong all over the world..but somepeople still say they have the right to RAPE if the woman dresses badly..

Sweden is the rape capital of the Western world.

Muslim immigrant rapists believe that all non-Muslim and uncovered women can be lawfully taken for sexual use; hence rape and sexual assaults are justified. Appearance, particularly for women, is an important aspect of Sharia Islamic law. Modesty is how women achieve honor and to appear in anything revealing brings shame not only for her but for the entire family. Almost all Muslim governments encourage and even legally obligate women to dress modestly: at a minimum to wear a headscarf, in some countries a veil and in others a full body covering

chayoski:
At a point, I almost got lost as to why a simple write up was turning into a religious thing. I feel even if you re a Muslim and your write up is based on that, it was not stated there so people shouldn't force it to that direction. like you rightly said, even pastors preach against it soit is not a thing of one religion being against it. Talking about bikini, I have this cherished friend that I once took to the beach after so much persuasion, and guess what she wore,,,a skirt far below the knee and a sleeve top, she is a Christian not just lip service. So please let us get the message and leave the messenger.

RevampNairaland:
It is good to dress modest and otherwise if you so wish.

But I don't support Op from her point of view.It shouldn't be a premise for DISRESPECT or taking advantage.

OLAJADON:

ummmm valid point but the problem is even ladies on nairaland here see nothing bad in indecency,they think it doesn't portray who they are, that what the society is turning into very soon pure nudity will be the norm of the day and like they have always said it doesn't portray inner self.

SirMichael1:


I am not defending indecent dressing. All I'm saying is that a girl dressed indecently shouldn't be disrespected for a common attire. Ask Estharfabian, she dresses indecently but has a fine character. That's gives no one a right to disrespect another person. A person can be nice in heart but indecent in dressing. Some decent girls are bad too so be objective in your article or writeup.

Congrats on passing jamb 2-3 years ago. What do you study? 'Women' affairs?

Angel196:


Thank you oo my bro. But nothing you say will make them see the simple write up as non religious, its that complicated for them. They'll stop whenever they're tired.

Estharfabian:

Lol.

may I ask... WTF is Indecent dressing? Who gives these rules? What's the Yardstick for measuring Indecency? why do a bunch of Busy-Bodiez feel the need to tell Grownups How and how not to Dress?

All these Oversabiz tho!
lol. and Thank you... lol. I dress Very INDECENTLY.

cristianisraeli:


exactly..no man have the right to disrespect any woman..you have no right to disrespect a prostitute or a hooker...i would never disrespect a woman because or the way shes dressed or harass her..never..i would rather mind my own business..because its her life and not mine..all men love sexy and hot women if you like come online and pretend..continue..i would never be a hypocrite

Angel196:


Thank you oo my bro. But nothing you say will make them see the simple write up as non religious, its that complicated for them. They'll stop whenever they're tired.

cristianisraeli:



LOL..i support your right to dress however you please and for your questions...angel196 will answer you..LOL

Estharfabian:
well, what can I say?

I'm an Unrepentant Nudist! I Acknowledge my flaws, embrace them, and own them.

RevampNairaland:
at the bolded what defines it

Religion
Culture
or Personal conviction
I can't remember the name of a certain tribe in South Africa, you need to check their outfit including the King

OLAJADON:

my point of decency is you covering delicate part of your body, do you know that this indecency you are talking about is what promote pormiscuomity among the men.
when a girl wears just bum short and spaghetti top passes beside me how do you expect me not to look at her twice when I have blood running through my vein, after stairing at her I would either forget about her if am well disciplined or lust after her, then 2 years later this same girl will come on nairaland and label all men as dogs.
hope you get my point

OLAJADON:

my point of decency is you covering delicate part of your body, do you know that this indecency you are talking about is what promote pormiscuomity among the men.
when a girl wears just bum short and spaghetti top passes beside me how do you expect me not to look at her twice when I have blood running through my vein, after stairing at her I would either forget about her if am well disciplined or lust after her, then 2 years later this same girl will come on nairaland and label all men as dogs.
hope you get my point

Ezionye:


Looooooolz

U had to come here crying again? Stop crying foul.i made sure I addressed u in d same way u addressed d Op.

People just dish out wat they cannot take

cristianisraeli:


nobody says dont look..but do not touch or harass or disrespect her..thats all we are saying...look..this is not saudi arabia where you are not allowed to look..she is free to wear bum shorts..in asia 95% of women wear bum shorts..that means your blood go come outside your veins..lol..no woman would ever label you as dogs just for looking..dont whistle dont call her and dont harass her..just LOOOOOOK

cristianisraeli:


nobody says dont look..but do not touch or harass or disrespect her..thats all we are saying...look..this is not saudi arabia where you are not allowed to look..she is free to wear bum shorts..in asia 95% of women wear bum shorts..that means your blood go come outside your veins..lol..no woman would ever label you as dogs just for looking..dont whistle dont call her and dont harass her..just LOOOOOOK

RevampNairaland:
I am coming back

Estharfabian:

Lol.

may I ask... WTF is Indecent dressing? Who gives these rules? What's the Yardstick for measuring Indecency? why do a bunch of Busy-Bodiez feel the need to tell Grownups How and how not to Dress?

All these Oversabiz tho!
lol. and Thank you... lol. I dress Very INDECENTLY.