₦airaland Forum

TONYE001:
It is sad when people speak out of ignorance. What do you call "real research"? Oh, you are now insinuating that doctors don't do research.

Really? So, what do you call the life-saving research works carried out by doctors that helped refine health care delivery that you now enjoy? In your thinking, "coming up with drugs" is a yardstick in defining what a research should be? You mentioned neuroscientists. Lolz. Really?

Truth is, until this thread, I never really knew the level of hatred people have for doctors. Most times, I argue with my colleagues that such hatred does not really exist; I've taken my time to read through the posts here and maybe there really is a certain degree of hatred from nonmedics.

What have we not seen here? Now someone comes out boldly to say doctors don't do "real research.." Haba.

See friends, Nigerian doctors do a whole lot. A whooooole lot. People don't really know. People are just ungrateful. After reading about the numerous experiences of doctors, you still came up with this? Doctors work overtime with no extra pay, they work in very harsh conditions, they improvise, they use their resources, their lives are at risk (remember Ebola), they work with passion and love. They put the patient first before their wives, children, friends et al., I haven't seen my wife and kids for over three months!....and you still managed to come up with this....why? Because of a few bad eggs?

Do you imply that there are no bad eggs in your profession? What's your profession, brother?

This whole thing is depressing.

You shouldn't for once feel depressed over these comments. Even if you do, just remind yourself that there are a lot of humans who just come online to type jargons. Some have lost their loved one(s) to death due to some lousy acts by health care workers, so they choose to hold on to sentiments and unleash their bitterness at every opportunity. While others are actually just catching fun by being hateful. A lot has been said on this thread and my summary is, there actually are bad doctors, not talking about them not even knowing their job, but their really poor attitude, likewise there are good doctors. This profession and others are made up of humans. So they are either good or bad. To those who have deceased folks out of the carelessness of doctors, be comforted but please do not generalise. Personally, I have only heard and have never encountered a bad doc, all have been really amazing as against what I hear about them. Doctors reading this, you should be proud seeing all of these criticisms, it shows how relevant you are. Just keep doing your best but abeg it takes you to be alive to "save" lives, so learn to take care of yourselves.

Passionate888:
People of God, na 'long' or 'lawn' tennis? Na freebasic I dey use, I no fit google am... Make una help a temporary broke brother out.

That was an error obviously... The court looks more like Badminton court though

Thank you. I kept coming to check for your update till it seemed like I had quit. Coming here to see this is a good one. Good job!

OladimejiRufai:
Awwn!! Thanks so much!

I salute you!

Ariza:
What's the big deal in sitting separately for just some minutes? You mean at her request he should have gotten down to perch beside her? Come on! Why do some ladies have this mentality of everything revolving around them. She was selfish, rude,and childish. EOD!

Thank you. Same girls will tell you they don't love their men granting all their requests, it makes them look weak. Again, they come with the opposite. Anyone that supports the girl, based on this story told is just being...don't want to insult anyone sha. Few minutes ride to the location that the guy didn't sit beside her is the problem, not that the driver is a lady. Wetin person no go see sef

OladimejiRufai:
OP, what's on your mind about the girl?

Do you want to chop her dodo (or maybe you're already 'chopping' it) and leave her in the name of girlfriend?

If yes, better cut off that thing you call a relationship now if you don't want God to punish you!

Or you want to marry her?

If yes, then I think marriage with such a lady will probably be dangerous or problematic.

Please, we've been hearing news about what women do to men. We've heard the ones too about what men do to women. So I'm not being biased here.

But since we are talking about the former here, let's face it.

We don't want you to join the list and come lament here about how a lady ruined your life.

from what you explained, she appears as rude, insensitive, arrogant, having ego and so on and so forth.

Such a lady, if that is how she truly is, will have no respect for you or your feelings. Will have no regard for your relatives and friends. And she is the type that will be quick to start keeping malice or even pack out of the house after a little misunderstanding judging from her decision to go back home after the taxi trip.

So beware! there are a myriad of ladies out there. I'm not saying you should just break up like that. But try to carefully study her by giving her time to come to her senses, reconciling with her while watching out for any traits that will suggest that she can never change or will hardly change. And if there is such, My guy, run!

women are too much to be begging just one out of them to become your responsibility.

Well, I only gave u that advise that you should try to reconcile because I don't want to sound inconsiderate.

But if it were to be me, we are done!!!!

Modified: And the lady below me has a point that little things like what you refused for your girlfriend, some people take it serious!

But brother, a woman who takes such a thing serious to the extent that she acted the way she acted, has serious Ego issues.

It could be that she's pained because she asks you to come and you refuses the request. Just like how someone who is of higher authority will ask someone of lower rank to do something and will be refused, so the person of higher authority starts feeling ridiculed and disrespected and starts acting up!

If that's the case here, then what do you call that? What does she think of herself for her to start acting to that
extreme because u refused her request?

That's how you identify people with ego issues!

So you could have been wrong with what you did (a little) but for her to react that way.. . abeg, be careful with such a lady

I would grant you all your heart desires if I had the powers to. For me, only for how she spoke to the driver, I'd start thinking of ending the relationship. I can tolerate so many things but lack of respect is one I'm yet to learn to... Yeah, op, some people love romance and PDA and your fiancee happens to be one probably, she's got the right to be offended on that ground, but talking to the driver in that manner is transfer of aggression. If that driver were to be your friend who happens to be wealthier, I bet you, she wouldn't dare. She may likely even join the conversation.

Thank you. I'm really interested in the assisted delivery method. Cs is another I have heard a lot about but still looking forward to reading your post on it. I am positive this will be of immense help to many. Good job!

AroOkigbo:
No, it's got nothing to do with CS.
Epidural is an anaesthesia given at your sinal cord to ease labour pain.
My wife took it during the birth of our second child and it was cool.

Really this is good news. I'm hearing of it for the first time. It will do a lot of women good, assuming the cost is a considerable one. Thank you. Op thanks for your reply as I await your next post...

[quote author=beeijeoma post=83094967]Thank you for enjoying my write up. Yes the thoughts are overwhelming . Fear of labor pain, fear of how to care for the baby , fear of if you will be a good mom. You are not alone it is the same for all FTM. Anytime I start getting scared back then I would just think of all the women that have kids and just be like this person did it, that person did it. Why would my case be different. You just have to push all those thoughts and fear out of your mind.

I am a realist and I don't like sugar coated information just give it to me the way it is. I don't know anything that can ease labor and delivery except epidural . If it is available in your hospital take it. My first two kids was normal delivery while my 3rd was with epidural. The epidural birth was completely pain free in fact I was watching TV till it was time to push. Labor and delivery is painful but it is not unbearable and it only last for some time. Its good to have a family member with you to help rub your back when the contractions come and in your mind just focus on the fact that the baby you have been growing inside you is almost here. As a FTM what surprised me most was not even the labor pain but the pushing part. I just felt the baby would slide out once you get to 10cm cervical dilation. Pushing the baby out is a bit tough as well and you have to get it right. I will do a write up on how to push during labor in a later post. Be strong and yow will be fine

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A very good write - up Ma'am. Yes, I could check it up on google and even still will, but I'd like you to throw more light on Epidural birth you mentioned. Is it synonymous with C.S?

Id97:
So a dumb hoe with fake ass who shamelessly display her bodily assets is now the current face of Bbnaija?
This underlines how useless this show is.Furthermore,it goes to show how Nigerian youths celebrate indecency and mediocrity.I am ashamed that Nigerians will chose a brainless hoe over cerebral and auspicious folks like mike and seyi.In the same vein,that is how Nigerians keep making poor choice of people we call our leaders.

Not that I'm against your stance but I don't think the Nigerian Leadership and Bbnaija are same. The ability to decipher one from the other is paramount. This is so because Bbnaija is for entertainment and they voted for the one who gave them entertainment. Politics on the other hand is a different arena...

GOFRONT:
You must be definitely sick and unbalanced. ......

Now Oga, the bolded above is the main reason why NwaAmaikpe has made himself an Artificial madman that he is today.....He has made a sensible and Hopeful statements in his early days on Nairaland.....Yet, people like you, the Op, and a larger percentage of Nairalanders kept tagging him a Madman simply because his Ugly but truthful statements pricks y'all at the Painful parts of ya bodies....

And now he is here to show you guyz that madness by this particular comment he has made on this Thread...

I keep saying it.....You people are the reason why NwaAmaikpe has Artificially gone mad on Nairaland by giving back what you people gave to him.... He wasn't like that in his early days on Nairaland?... Y'all are the reason why he kept and will forever keep dishing out Comments that reeks of Inhumanness and Heartlessness....

And for those of you that has ever tagged NwaAmaikpe a madman, we will always be here to read your thread about how you will want us to suggest for you the best Psychiatric hospital you or your Relation would want to visit for rehabilitation.....Point a finger at somebody and the other three point back at you...

For this particular post, you're a Massive Fool. You want to support someone's action, it is understood but on a sensitive matter as this, it is only a Fool that will do so. Someone is distressed, another being decides to give his opinion which isn't humane, and you come here to support him? I wish you Sense and Love!

alBHAGDADI:
This is a pure rubbish teaching coming from a Catholic Bishop of gay kingdom.

Where did God order that we should do what this preacher said with our tithe? Nowhere. What God said in Malachai 3:10 is that we should bring the tithe to his house. He didn't say we should branch somewhere else with it.

Yes, the pastor's idea seems like a reasonably brilliant and kind one, but that doesn't make it right in God's eyes. Remember that the way man thinks is different from the way God thinks.

Man thinks it is a good thing to give the tithe to someone in need of it. But where did God say such about tithe? Nowhere. He only said to bring it to his house and from there it is distributed to the needy.

Think of it this way: You are on your way to the hospital with 100k to pay for your child's medical bills. Suddenly you found a needy man. Be honest with yourself, will you give the money to the needy man to the detriment of your child in the hospital?

I can bet you won't. So why do you now think it is right to give your tithe to the needy man? Remember, it is God's money and you have no right to decide how to help God spend it, especially when he gave you no such order.

Look, don't let people bamboozle you weird scenarios like the one given by the preacher. Always stand by God's command. The tithe is his, and the only thing you can do with it is to take it to his house, nowhere else.

They may even use your child as an example, saying what if your child is sick and the money needed for treatment is equivalent to the tithe money you have, which is your last dime.

What will I say in this case? Give that money to God because it is his. At this point many will be kicking against me. Little do they know that they are kicking against Jesus who said...


Mathew 10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Why do you think Abraham is referred to as a friend of God today? Because he obeyed God by proceeding to sacrifice his son Isaac as commanded by God. He didn't think twice. But people who are not worthy of Jesus are the ones who will disobey him by doing the thoughts of their heart instead of his word.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Hey Mr! Stop it. You talking about God's ways not being our ways, what makes you sure that your say on this is God's way. What if it is wrong, or what if both are wrong or correct? Jesus came to fulfil the law not abolish it and He summarised it by asking us to Love God and our neighbours as ourselves. Helping an accident victim is loving God, helping your child instead is loving yourself first for Charity begins at home. Just do what you do and let God be the one to judge who pleases him. The intent of your action is what is basic.

kilisi:
Your last statement is absolutely true and I know a few people around here who will not compromise on their integrity come what may. Some do think I am stupid when I refuse to cut corners, tip or jump queue. But I will never allow the corrupt opinion of others shape my behaviour.

Integrity in our society does not pay in the short term due to corrupt tendencies of Nigerians in general. But in the long run, if you're diligent, it gives you rest of mind. I have excellent academic records right from my primary school through university and I can boldly say it anywhere that I did not cheat, not even once throughout.

We need a complete reorientation as a people.

Thumps up! Keep that spirit glowing. There's dignity in integrity...

kilisi:
Where I served in Osun state, everyone must pass. Non serious set of students who knows nothing more than having sex and riding okada. They only came to school because it was free. You fail students, you enter wahala with principal. Teachers having sex with students anyhow. Even some corpers were not left out.

I was wondering if it wasn't the same public school that I went to, though in another state. Teachers teaching students during WAEC. The list is endless.

But the principal will never forget me. I went toe to toe with her on the issue of passing all students in my subject and I 'won.'

Secondary school education especially in public schools is now trash.

Drops pen.

if it is like this in public schools, then I must tell you, you can not stand that of private where their fees are huge. It pains me really badly when I think of those Children and the danger that's being done to their future already...

MILLERMannn:
The exam malpractice we are talking about started with the officials of the exam bodies themselves. I witnessed Waec and Neco exams that was written this year. I wanted to trace what was happening in the educational sector. I was shocked to find out that the officials of these exam bodies are responsible for exam malpractices. Whenever an official is send to a school, what the school does is to pay him a certain amount of money and students are free to cheat. When an exam bodies like Waec and Neco can not screen who they employed, tell me how will it stopped. Gone are the days when police and other security personnel were sent to schools to monitor exam malpractices. Not only in Secondary School, it also happens in the University. Cheating in Nigeria is called wisdom and you that cannot do it is likened to a fool. Oga, I have seen a lot in this country. I cannot type anymore. I once taught in a private school and due to failure of these lazy students, I was forced by the management to resign. Today, I hate the people of Nigeria. Nigerians are very corrupt. Like Jean Jacques Rousseau said: Leave them the way they are and they will leave you the way you are. God is blessing me little by little today and I will never force education on any student again in my life. If I am chanced again to teach, I will never teach in a school that has S S3 or is Waec and Neco accredited.

I had a similar experience at the school I served. Where no child is allowed to fail, however you want to do it. They later brought a plan for a make - up test abi exam, even with that, some still failed and scores were just fixed for them, reason is that their parents spend a lot of money on their fees to pass and not fail. Walahi things are really bad and getting worse by the day. But please Sir, Nigerians are corrupt but do not generalise it. There are still incorrupt, reputable and disciplined Nigerians.

Amaka52:
Why didn't we give Salah the award last year for the puskas goal against Everton.


How old are you young man?



Give him an award because he is a legend


Do you know why modric won it last year?




Are you okay at all?

I am completely sure you quoted the wrong message. Please the person who talked about that goal should answer me so I can narrow my search...

slawomir:
Whoever came up with this article is young, dumb and broke

Am an ardent fan of Liverpool
But i must confess Messi deserve this award
He is a legend

FIFA determines the best players based on the votes of national team coaches, captains as well as a journalist from each country



See ehnnnn


i thought Ronaldo was far behind Lionel Messi











Untill i watched Lionel Messi's third goal against real betis
And i realize i was hundred percent correct!

You need to see that goal!

Abeg which season and leg? Need to see that goal...

AverageAnnie:
pigs are reared in a sty not pen Madam Toyin.

Pen is a general name for raising domesticated animals, while sty is the specific name of the pen used in raising swine.

omoadeleye:
which one them in the picture is Sanchez?

The one in white shirt

gurunlocker:
Anyone who have seen the American series "House of cards" will understand the function of the Chief of staff

Exactly.

sylve11:
he wasn't referring to his predecessor or giving any negative connotation, rather he was only assuming that former athletes ought to be the ones running that office instead...

I was still very well confused until I read this your comment. Really, there are two sides to a coin...

davodyguy:
There's so much ambiguity in what the OP lifted and dumped here.

I'll simply as follows.

1. VAT is to be paid by the beneficiary of a service to the service provider. Good example. DSTV or Startimes subscription may actually be ₦1900. But they need to collect VAT on behalf of FIRS. Hence your subscription would then be ₦1900+(5% of ₦1900)= ₦1995 per month. But in most cases the companies round up the figure to ₦2000.

2. After DSTV collects the VAT from you the subscriber, they're not to include that ₦95 as part of their income, rather they must remit to FIRS(Federal Inland Revenue Services)

3. I'll use myself as an example. I'm a consultant in Real Estate and Legal Professions. Hence, when I charge for a service or court case, I must collect VAT from my client. Here's it. If I'm to charge ₦5,000,000 for a case/service, I'll simply ask the client to pay ₦5,000,000+(5% of ₦5,000,000)= ₦5,250,000.

At the end of the month, I must remit the extra ₦250,000 to FIRS.

4. All companies registered either Business Name, PLC or LTD, they must collect VAT from their clients or consumers of their services and remit same to FIRS.

5. The day you register your company, same day CAC send your details to FIRS and FIRS generates what's called TIN(Tax Identification Number). That number is like and accout. Hence, when you pay or you don't pay, FIRS will just go to your account to see your balance.

6. Can you lie to FIRS that you didn't make money? Yes you can, but you'll be caught. Cos FIRS will go to your bank to show them your Statement of Account, with that you can be sanctioned or jail for either tax avoidance or tax evasion

Explicit. Thanks!

LGDON:
The virus doesn't hide, if you have it. It will show whenever you conduct test. Just that it will be harmless if is inactive

Okay, thanks for the enlightenment. Has he done the test before now? Okay I see where he said he had.

Asquare84:
if possible i was infected from childhood, then how come it took almost 35 years to test positive to hepatitis

It is possible that the virus has been dormant all those years and only became active and detectable now. Different things trigger its activation...

SouthSouth1914:
Expository!!

Signs of blisters around the lips are pure signs of fever.. Don’t tell me nothing.

All these medics and their trial by error methods!

Yes they are signs of fever and are commonly called fever blisters. The information is that that isn't precisely malaria. It could be other health conditions...

shocks:
Did you read the verses before it? The Midwives LIED to Pharaoh. They got there and attended to the birth but claimed that the Hebrews gave birth before they got there. My point is that the Hebrew Women birth thing was a story made up by the midwives so they could save the babies. Kindly read it the whole chapter from beginning.

You've enlightened me. Thank you.

Jefferyhi86:
That was how I nearly lost my sister due to the fact she's married to a JEHOVAH witness because they don't accept blood transfusion. My pple na so u change am for the hospital and the husband until they finally agree, see my sister now de chop corn n pear every time, I de remind her say if say u foolishly died u for no de chop hot corn n pear

Lol literally. Thank God you guys were there to pressurize them...

LGDON:
I have already told him to meet a liver specialist or a knowledgable hapetitis b doctor for information. He can also get answer from the hepatitis b foundation facebook page.

But I dont think hepatitis b is spread through breast feeding.

Just as HIV, if the mother's viral load is high, it can be transmitted via breast milk. But if it is low and the mother is in treatment, the chances are minimal to none.

camobri:
even from sharing cutlery in buka.. God safe us o.

I am a victim from this cutlery sharing, although not HBV, but strep throat. Please as much as possible ensure you wash utensils with soap and water before using it to feed.

Asquare84:
Honestly if any one can tell how I managed to be infected till date is still a mirage to me

I can imagine your wonders. You may have gotten it at birth, maybe an unsterilized infected syringe was used on you at a certain time ( I read a comment from someone describing how a pharmacist nearly used one on a boy and the mother wasn't even aware of the possibly damage until he intervened...), unscreened blood transfusion, etc. Really, sometimes things happen to us and we can not seem to understand.

Asquare84:
I don't believe hepatitis can be transmitted through sex , I am a living witness last year I went for pre employment test and I was told I have hepatitis, to my surprise I am fine without any sign of sickness after many month of resistance I went for further test and was place on drugs the doctor equally advice me to bring my wife for test to my surprise she was discovered to be negative, so how come we have been having unprotected sex even have babies and my wife and child are negative and I am positive. So how come we have been having unprotected sex yet she is negative and have never taken the vaccine

You don't have to believe it to make it a fact that Hepatitis B is transmissible through unprotected sex. Good a thing you have commenced treatment, because just like HIV, HB takes years to manifest. Well, as to a possible reason your wife is negative, aside her having taken vaccine, if at all, it is possible that your hepatitis B viral load is still way below the benchmark at which you could infect another. Just continue with your medication to suppress it until you're good. Be good!

jaxxy:
There are many issues besides sex in the country bt I get ur point. What about greed and wickedness are those not serious issues.

Sure they are. You can write about them.