₦airaland Forum

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

ShawtCake:
Arrogant idiot! A complete mad man! No decorum whatsoever. Oloriburuku omo ale jatijati

IvarTheBoneless:
Biafra leader

elantraceey:
He only withdrew the word 'stupid' and I see no apology there.




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omenka:
On the other thread, you said he was right to have attacked the reporter. Now, you're still saying he's right to have apologised.

You're no different from FFK, concealing your hate under the cloak of religious garbage.

Imagine ffk on Head to Head on Aljazeera or HardTalk on BBC of facing off with Amanpour on CNN.

I don't blame him or those who support him, I blame the cowardly journalist who took such vicious dress down and went ahead to apologize to his attacker.

You pdp fanatics are way worse than the people you criticize.

NgeneUkwenu:
He should send the useless apology to the IPob vandals who lick his urine on Facebook and Twitter...

bro4u:
As a preacher that you claim to be I think you shouldn't be involved in political issues as sensitive as this. You're making yourself seen as Pst. Tunde Bakare

techmo:





Atleast El Rufai would stop selling himself as a Jihadist fanatic and ethnic supremacist and start showing his Intelligence like he did as FCT minister in Abuja

People especially Nigerians are quick to forgive and forget.... El Rufai might have a bad temperament, but he has some of the best policies as FCT Minister and Kaduna Governor


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Oladipo1166:
Have you ever wondered why your lineage never achieved anything in life?

Oladipo1166:
where are the vehicles

Nah Only 3 Containers I see here....

Azmanaty:
They should invite Hell Rufai and Bubu the lifeless vegetable.

Mannabbqgrillz can supply them rotten suya at the meeting.

tfash96:
Go and admit yourself didirin

tfash96:
Ipobians masturbating on this as if they've been given republic

laiperi:
Chei, see me see trouble o. I say I like de guy except for de international theif theif wey dey im blood. Why im nor grace de invitation abi na you be de lawyer? Anofia.

Na im pain you so?

Nyamuriflathead:
Keep Quiet and Reason like a normal human being.

1. El Rufia did not Ask NBA to invite him for a conference, they invited him on their own accord after reaching a decision.

2. The basis of the revokement of his invitation is sketchy, selective and reeks of profound hypocrisy since it bothers on profound ignorance & mere allegations

3. NBA ought to have rescinded the invitations of corrupt political spokespersons like obj and wike to serve the purpose of fairness & inclusiveness

4 El Rufai is not the cause of the chaos in NBA

5. Only hypocrites wouldn't blame the MBA for inviting politicians to address them at a conference when there are technocrats & professors who can serve such purpose.

6. NBA made their decision look like war against a particular region, tribe and religion

Nyamuriflathead:
It is appalling that those who cheered on the NBA at its resolve to renege on its invitation of Mr Elrufai at the NBA conference over mere assumptions are the same bloody sucking demons questioning RAMINBA'S factual permutations about Obj and wike. If you're out there denigrating and criticising this body's recommendation at extension of disengagement to undemocratic Tyrants like obj and wike, you're a mentally deranged psychopath.

Golan007:
Very good.

Is it not Wike that has been sponsoring massive killings in Rivers state?

Demolishing private property despite court orders against such.


Obasanjo ordered the mowing down of Odi.

Kestolove:
All this igbos dat move to the north in the 70s..

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Sorry, that is the best name for people who vote for APC and PDP.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
When you finish shouting 4+4, like you did for Buhari, go and start drinking gari!
I have NEVER in my life voted for APC or PDP cos both are Oliriburuku parties that the stupid followers are supposed to vote out but they are proud of their stupidity.
APC was a good party to the zombies while PDP was a thief party. Now, the 2 thieves swap parties, then PDP becomes a saint party while APC is now the thief.
All these are possible because of stupid people like you.

Go and compile, I am waiting. Carry my matter for head

Ijawwomaninoyo:
I get you or anybody shoe size!
Go and compile my comments on Edo and bring them here.
All of una wen no fit sleep because of my comments, una never see anything.
Ready to activate LAGOON MODE!

Once again, let's see if will take him to Sharia court!

walozanga:
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My dear educate him more. Na every thing them see for nairaland them must comment on the one them know and on the one them no know. The Jews they hate are still same people America don't joke with

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Let's see if they will take him to Sharia court.

Farki:
Isreal's mistake is thinking America is their friend, America has no friends only interests as soon as they have no need for you they will throw you to the wayside.

bakynes:
You are just a fool nothing more, if you can't read my first statement saying it is commendable but we need to question the source of that funds, if she is representing her husband the governor or using her own personal money made out of Government. You guys just flow with the usual bad practise. The abnormal has turned to normal for you idiots.