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Kizzygentle:
What you fail to understand is that you can't cheat nature no matter the law. Once your body is not ready for something just let it be. So In a nut shell, u can force sex against ur wife's wish. All the best.

This reason is lame
So my body is tired from a vigil on Sunday night & I'm so weak to go to work on a Monday morning;
I'll just call my manager and tell him.i can't come to work cos I can't cheat nature no matter what?
Will you support a man who insists he isn't emotionally sound to pay his dues in the family when he has the funds?
Isn't that man stupid?

One4me:
Imagine o!
See farting through all orifices in the last two hours just because they told you there is nothing like rape in marriage?

In Oshiomole's voice: Go and Die.
Yeeye dey smell.

Bro, it hasn't come to this
I really learnt something from you here please don't spoil your wisdom with anger.
Though I still maintain that a man shouldn't force sex on his wife but seek other ways aside force to make his stand loud

MoodyQueen:
I hope your source is official.
And this isn't just a prejudice.
Give me a link to this as written in the law.

Hold on, are you serious?
That sexual consent is given in marriage?
Wooooah

anslem04:
Sex in marriage has almost all necessary laws & religion support, your answerable cos rape doesnt exist within the context of marriage .. from laws & religion there are no provisions that can justify rape applies in marriage.
The fact that husbands/boyfriends must alway make the move for sex aint helping matters .... marriage is all about sacrifices not when convenient ... it forcing my wife does not violate any laws or religion then it shuldnt be discussed as like a crime or sin.
On what grounds are you judging rape in marriage ??

No need forcing yourself on her
Use of strength is abuse.
Personally, if she begins to play with sex I'll resort to my own play too

sassysure:
All these Lagos Abuja people that don't go home.

In some part of anambra to be specific, your wife can divorce you traditionally because of constant marital rape. It's frowned upon. The ùmùada will descend on you if they knew u rape your wife.

Yes, if a man constantly complain that her husband forces himself on her and after several warnings by the elders, if the wife want to end that marriage, nobody can stop her. She has the sole right to end it.

Please I'm from Anambra
Where is this place in Anambra?
Never heard ofthis

One4me:
You see, the FOOLS here are those Feminnist who have their own agenda and the few spineless and thoughtless Men who follow them just to validate themselevs and get rid of their inferiorrity complex, as a Men.

RAPE is a Crime but every Crime has DEFINITION and BOUNDARIES.
For example, as bad as Stealing or Robbery is, there is a clear boundary and definition!

- If you steal, (Take what does not belong to you) you would end up in jail ............That is the DEFINITION of Stealing
- If you are dying from Hunger and you steal food say from a Store, just what yo need to eat to survive, in most 'sane places', you are warned and then assisted with more food to eat and survive[/b].
You are not sent to Jail, like someone who went to a Store and Stole Jewelry! [b]That is BOUNDARY.

Women generally see Rape Charges as a WEAPON against Men because PUBLIC Rape allegations are against Men, (even though we know that Women also Rape men but as man, all the society would do is ask you if you did not enjoy the rape or did you not have a hard on ).
So, Feminists are hell-bent on ensuring that there is NO BOUDARY to this rape of a thing so that they can have the Flexibility to use it to punish men.......extending it into the institutionof marriage is a a coup, for them.

I dont care too much about the level of punishment that is given out to Rapist, as long as it is a GUILTY PERSON that is being punished and ot some innocent Man roped into a rape allegation. Burn a Rapist, Slaughter the person like Boko Haram, Castrate them, bury them alive, l am happy with all those punishment but just dont do them to an innocent Man.
It has to be PROVEN BEYOND DOUBT, which is the legal standard for all Criminal Convictions and Crimes that carry Capital Punishment.

So, let me touch on the marriage angle.
A marriage is a Union between two individual adults who CONSCIOUSLY and WILLINGLY decide to come together to LIVE TOGETHER, under SAME ROOF, as HUSBAND and WIFE.
In doing so, they have decided to EXCHANGE their INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS for 'JOINT RIGHTS'.
For example, instead of filing INDIVIDUAL TAX at say 41%, they JOINTLY TAX them at a cheaper 21%! That is one of the ADVANTAGES of being in a marriage.

-In doing so (being married), they have decided BY MAKING A VOW before GOD (CHURCH/MOSQUE/TRADITIONAL or whatever religion) and MAN (REGISTRY/LAW COURT) that:
* TWO have become ONE.
*MY BODY is no longer just my BODY but YOUR BODY
*YOUR BODY is no longer just YOUR BODY but MY BODY
* IN LIFE and DEATH
*Till DEATH DO US APART!

These are VOWS BINDING on both partys because you SWORE to them.
So, whatever is from your body, including Sexual Parts, BELONG TO YOUR SPOUSE. FINITO!
By Right, a Wife has the authority to DEMAND and GET SEX from her Husband and by the same token, a Husband has the authority to DEMAND and GET SEX from his WIFE ebacuse each persons body belongs to the other, as indicated by THE VOW they took under GOD and MAN.

Your Body is no longer yours, if you decide to get married, but belongs to YOUR SPOUSE.
Some people dont like this and they have decided they wont get married, which is fine.
Even the Property of your Husband (something women have openly fought for!) belongs to you when he dies, irrespective whether he was the one who paid for such property out of his personal sweat/money...and not his family, because the Husband and WIfe has become just one Body.
Women insist on sharing the property of their Husband INTO HALF when the marriage breaks up, relying on the same concept of marriage where everything BELONGS TO ONE ANOTHER (they never say 'it is his property, he can go with it).

So, whenit comes to his J.T or her Kpekus, it belongs to the Other and he is AUTHORISED BY VOWS OF MARRIAGE, to demand and use it as he/she deems fit.
YOU CANNOT SUE YOUR HUSBAND FOR RAPE BECAUSE HE DEMANDED AND TOOK SEX WITH YOU, EVEN IF YOU DONT FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX THAT DAY. IT BELONGED TO HIM AND HE TOOK WHAT BELONGED TO HIM.
If you dont like that arrangement, please BY ALL MEANS, DONT GET MARRIED! THAT DECISON IS ODNE ON FREEWILL AND YOU CAN REFUSE TO PARTAKE IN SUCH 'STUPID' VOWS/ARRANGEMENT.
BUT YOU CANT EAT YOUR CAKE AND STILL WANT TO HAVE IT.

Now, to the ISSUE of where one of the PARTNERS in a MARRIAGE, for genuine reasons (as opposed to trying to use sex as a weapon of blackmail or entrapment in a marriage), cannot engage is sex with their LAWFUL SEX PARTNER, it calls for for ENGAGEMENT, DISCUSSION and UNDERSTANDING!

ENGAGEMENT - You cannot just say "No is No", to your Spouse, just like you cant say 'No" to the owner of a Car, for whatever reason, when he or she wants to drive it. You will have to engage in a discussion with them.

DISCUSSION: As the owner of your body, including the sexual part of it, (you are just the physical custodian of it), you must have an OPEN, CANDID, CONVINCING and HONEST discussion with "the owner" as to why you want them to deny themselves of the use of what belongs to them.
It is not only Men/Husband that demand for Sex in a marriage and the Wife is unwilling/unable to give it.
Many Wives also demand for Sex when the Husband is DOG-TIRED, unwilling to give it, does not consent to it but the Wives still insist on having it.and still have their way, anyway

We have heard stories of women who 'assualt' their Husband because he would not get a hard-on, when they demand to have sex!
Its not strange! if you are not married, you may not know what goes on in a marriage.
Some Wives would Climb the Husband forcefully , suck his JT, roll it around it until it begins to respond and gets hard and they will climb him like Okada and have their way, no matter his protestations (dont think just because a Husband has a hard-on, he must be enjoying the sex, NO!
He is just participating in the act with his physical body because IT BELONGS TO HIS WIFE who is using what belongs to her.
But Husbands dont shout Rape on such things because they know the person involves is the owner of the J.T...their wives!
I wonder what will be the reaction of Women, if such act is termed as Rape and all a man needs to do, to send his wife to the gallows, castration or death penalty is to say:"My Wife climed me yesterday night against my Will" and that is it!
His word is enough and she is killed? Nice uhh?

So, both spouses are expected to have this honest and candid DISCUSSION about how they feel, why they dont want to have sex at that moment, why they want to deny the owner his conjugal RIGHTS, in the most convincing manner such that the owner can say, okay, l will not drive my car today but will walk to work or take public transport! I will make this sacrifice, this time.

But we all know how ((most) women see and use sex in a marriage!
It is seen a s a reward for doing something they want or as bait to do what they want or a trap to snag the Husband.

Yet the same Husband would be accused of infidelity, if he decide to get his sexual satisfaction outside.
Let us be honest, one of the reasons for putting one's self in that thing called marriage, whether yo uare male or Female, is because you dont want to have sex with any other person or strangers, you want exclusive sex with your spouse.
Sex is part of adult life, it is a necessity of married life.

UNDERSTANDING:
Marriages should be governed by love, not threats, Violence or Conflicts. Where there is conflict, the "approach" should be CONFLICT RESOLUTION, MOT CRIMINALISATION.
If your Spouse is genuinely unable to give you what belongs to you (having sex with him or her) at that moment, as long as it does not become "a pattern of behaviour" OR BEING USED AS BLACKMAIL/PUNISHMENT", it is expected that such Spouse should show UNDERSTANDING.
The key element here is that you are convinced that your spouse is not just acting-up or trying to bait you or punish you or entrap you.
The convincing is to be done by the spouse that is doing the denial and the onus falls on such partner to convince the other spouse to the point of understanding.
If you love your spouse, you would understand that one night of denial of sex will not kill you, "Tomorrow" is always there.
As a married man, my wife at some time, had an Operation and we could not have sex for five good Months! Even when she was 'pitying me' and says 'honey come and try it gently', l will say 'Dont worry dear, let we still wait, your health is more important tome than this sex, when you are okay, we will make up for it (And l never strayed to another woman).
I could do that because l knew that 'the body l was protecting, belongs to me' and sensible people will normally protect their own body!

Where issues arise in when the spouse makes it a pattern of regular denial and the other spouse feels his/her right is been denied.
Under such situation, the Spouse has the RIGHT to take what belongs to her or him. You MUST surrender his/her body to him/her for sexual pleasure.
Its not your body because "Two have become ONE". In Health and even in Sickness! That is what the Vows you took says, right?

So, dont take that Vow, if you are the "My Body, My decision" type!
You have FULL RIGHT over your body and yoru DECISION of what to do with it.
Dont WILLINGLY throw away that RIGHT to use your body as you desire and decide, just for marriage or the benefits of marriage.
marriage is a SERIOUS CONTRACT and it is enforceable in Court as we all know.

What we must NOT ALLOW to happen is Women taking advantage of Marriage while at the same time, trying to not fulfill their Role in the marriage, according tio the Vows they took.
Nobody has the RIGHT over another's body (Woman or Man), until they WILLINGLY and CONCIOSLY GIVE UP that RIGHT by entering into a Marriage Contract.
Marriage has a lot of benefits as we all know but it also has a few SURRENDER OF RIGHTS, most important is the Right over my Body.
There is NOTHING LIKE RAPE IN A MARRIAGE, going by the DEFINITION and BOUNDARIES of Rape[/b].

"Feminist and Angry Wives" want to use Rape to cow Husbands (Men is general) and hang it as a threat on their neck in the Marriage but l am also certain that [b]they will not want it coded in law that once your Husband says "he did not consent to the sex you had last night, you the Wife is guilty of Rape and should be sentenced to death, castrated or buried alive.
If they allow such coding for Husbands as well, in the law, then we are good to go!
Source the Geese, Source the Gander.

Common Sense is not Common.

I wish I could see you tomorrow
I'd give you a treat
Mehn you are all shades of wisdom
I wish there were more of sensible people like you in this country
Mehn, you're worded
GOD BLESS YOU BRO

ezegenigbonine:
Afonja, wetin man go do una. Una thing no dey stay one place?

Guy stop this rubbish
Do you make sense to yourself?
Quit this filth, rape is everywhere

techmo:
Oyo State with landmass close to tiny Ibo 5 state, boost of infrastructures like an Airport, inland port, good road network, standard guarge rail, First and the Best University and college hospital rated high, 2 State University, over a dozen radio station, over 5 TV station, 5 malls in ibadan alone, with palms mall having the largest shoprite center in west africa, international research institute like IITA, Forest Research Institute, first tower in africa, atlest 5 sport complex and stadia, Airforce Base with a functional runway that can land any plane, Military cantonments


.

Let's dissect the infrastructures above
1. Airport & Inland port by FG?
2. Good roads?
3. "Standard guage rail"? by FG
4. Almost all based on FG's skewedness
Don't mistake it, I'm not saying this to spite Oyo.
You guys are good, thumbs up but be calm.when you brag. Do you know how many TV stations Anambra alone has?
Bros, Ibadan isn't better than Anambra as per real statistics on good roads

Salvador1:
Thunder fire oshiomole
Thunder fire obaseki
Thunder fire iyamu

Who them EPP

If u need agbo pls come forward.
Sharp sharp no time.

Thunder fire who?
But the disqualification reasons are appropriate naaa
Please stay away from emotions and face facts

richie240:
All ds are beer parlour talks nwanne!
1. If u have proof DT anyone stole ur collective destiny, present it to the relevant authorities biko.
2. Have u seen yorubas defending (convicted) criminals as u lots are wont to do all because d name starts with 'shuku-'?
3. Ok, so u saw bullion vans entering, so DTS a proof DT he stole?
Nwanne for real?

Now it has turned to a matter of proof?
Egbon e gbe'nu e soun
Name 1criminal of SW you didn't support?
How many have you prosecuted?
Did Igbos support Evans? NEVER, in fact I want him dead now.
Mention one criminal Igbos supported.
Lol! I saw bullion van on election eve and people were lined up collecting money and you've got the shame to even say it?
Tomorrow you'll say you don't support crime?
I'm done with this conversation

richie240:
Your kith and kin are the "still the same ppl" I'm talking about.
Did u see yorubas on d defensive of hushpuppy? Taa, criminality is not condooned in d sw.
If u have d ballz to do d crime, then be ready to do d time!
Yorubas don't celebrate/defend criminals!

From you don't commit crime to you don't defend it, liar Mohammed pikin
So, why did Abike not publish the news as she did for invictus?
Isn't that a tacit support?
How many of your corrupt leaders have been to jail
Lagos speaker printed IV with millions and he's still there.
Even the NASS of 1999 carried Ghana-must-go but never bullion van
Election Eve bullion van went in with people lined up taking cash and you're here speaking evasively
Oga

helinues:
Another wailing and gnashing of teeth in different dimensions.

Had average Yoruba's been celebrating Hushdog like the way you people celebrated Invictus, the case might have been different.

When we advised you people to stop celebrating corrupt people / people with no pure source of income, you go dey call us haters.

Let FBI, Interpol do their investigation, if found guilty, let him serve the time..

We don't celebrate criminals..

Proudly Omoluwabi

Invictus presented himself as an entrepreneur and not just the Igbos, the outside world saw him so; he was so deceptive but hushpuppi lives the lavish style quiet suspicious.
Lol
Go to his page and see whether he's been celebrated or not. Mompha isn't he Yoruba? Stands in firm support of hushpuppi.
Moreso Invictus was named Igbo by Abike, why is she silent now?
Did she wait for the court before her news?
One of the commentaries in a popular radio station in Lagos said,"why do we always have crime from our brothers from the other side of this country messing Nigeria's name"
I'm not into these online banters because no matter how the govt & its likes hits at the Igbos they'll always survive and the outside world knows exactly the truth.
Last week South Africans holes up on Nigerians being entertained by a naked lady asking Nigerians to leave their country.
Guess the language at the background? Omoluabi
Guy, the truth is clear at all times no matter what you present it to be
I wish hushpuppi well though but he should understand fraud is same as blood money and stay away from it

NGpatriot:
What do you care what ignorant and daft SA idiot said about your country?

Self-loathing and self-defeating ipobs with no sense of identity and belonging.

Keep living in self denial & making IPOB the center of your hate while the whole worlds knows how evil you're
Just yesterday over 80people died at the hands of BH
Nigeria is a heartless state which doesn't care about its own

pquaver:
. Did Peter Obi win under pdp? Okorocha was under 1st tenure Apga because of his philanthropy and Under APC because of his first term achievement.. It is simple as that.. Pdp has not won in Anambra because Apga is formidable and when the almost made a mistake to think pdp has conscience to thing we are against APC and both have Igbo supporting Jonathan pdp show them pepper and rig them shege.. Umeh had to go to court to reclaim his mandate after APC won since that time Apga has learnt to give pdp arms length

Yeah right, what's your point then?
I didn't get it

pquaver:
We based vote on emotions.. It is a fact you can deceive other people from other tribe but me that is Igbo and grew up in o town and lived in the east. You cannot convince me otherwise of what I have seen first hand..

2.. You seem not to differentiate the era of clear rigging and a little bit of decent electoral process we have had.. Ojukwu lost in the era of result writing.. He will never lose now in a senatorial contest but again Igbo will not vote him in a party they do not like but he come to pdp you will see story will change.. Bro leave that thing me and know the truth

So you saying Ojukwu will loose in party other than PDP? you're so pointless
Did Peter Obi & Obiano not win outside PDP?
Did Okorocha ever win under PDP?
Era of clear rigging? Rig election at ONUKWU's doormouth? With the will & authority he wielded then?
Oga Ngige also beat Dora hands down, that wasn't rigging or are you saying the APC rigged that too?
You're yet to prove to me votes based on emotions

pquaver:
Oga Peter obi is also a looters jare.. If not he will not be aligning with Atiku.. If you are removing him then you also have to agree Buhari is the most incorruptible man in Nigeria.. It as easy as that... Ngige is not loved my friend.. If you are thinking am yoruba u missed it cos I am Igbo.. It is about party stop lying.. If Ngige went back to pdp now the people will Bote massively for him for senate but under APC they refused to vote him.. So stop claiming he is loved.. It was what he achieved as Governor that speaks for him yet the people if he shares the money to doing laudable projects..

Why did PDP not win in Anambra since Obi's days?
Why did Okorocha win under APC in Imo?
Bros, Ngige is loved but he can never win again as Peter Obi has set a standard of all-round development. He did amazingly well but we're unto another level

pquaver:
I know that where I am from line.. If we talk about Bayelsa, you will still be from there.. So since I don't know, maybe you could tell us what happened when he contested for senate against Ekwunife before PMB made him minister.. Ogathis your talk of the might not align with him politically has finished our argument.. But they can align with fraudulent people with no track record over him.. So what is the difference because he is in APC.. It's exactly what I am saying. You have supported my argument.. Have a nice day

If youve got time, go through my posts I have always been from Anambra state & grew up in OSHA.
They can align with fraudulent people?
Who is the fraudulent person?
Even Ngige stole but he worked at least better than UBAH brothers.
As if the almighty Dora Akunyili whom was liked more didn't loose against Ngige?
Igbos don't vote based on likes/love
Do we love OJUKWU? YES
How many elections did he win in the East? None

pquaver:
Oga Peter obi is also a looters jare.. If not he will not be aligning with Atiku.. If you are removing him then you also have to agree Buhari is the most incorruptible man in Nigeria.. It as easy as that... Ngige is not loved my friend.. If you are thinking am yoruba u missed it cos I am Igbo.. It is about party stop lying.. If Ngige went back to pdp now the people will Bote massively for him for senate but under APC they refused to vote him.. So stop claiming he is loved.. It was what he achieved as Governor that speaks for him yet the people if he shares the money to doing laudable projects..

If you say Ngige isn't loved you don't know anything about Anambra where I'm from
That guy Ngige started what Peter Obi finished
That guy did over 95% of road spanning Nkpor to the whole idemili North & South
That man is truly loved by Anambra people.
They may not align with him politically always but he's a man of the people

Ezennwa:
hmm!

What is in skirt will not kill Yoruba men.

Yoruba men and infidelity are like 5&6.

Ain't you tired of all these tribal fights?
Nawaooooooo
What's the difference between what you're doing and that of bandits?

Officialgarri:
Well, you can keep listing their names , but we never asked that they shouldn't be probed just like you did when Allison Madueke escaped.
We don't scream tribal persecution when justice is about to be served.

Any proof that no one wanted her tried?
She even requested for trial, why did EFCC reject it?
Yeah she's a criminal

Officialgarri:
Disappointed that hush is Yoruba. Yorubas do not encourage fraud, cultism, murder, drugs and any other forms of crime.
Yorubas do not justify crime by claiming other tribes are worse at it.
They don't rejoice when a criminal evades justice just because he is Yoruba.
No, they expose criminals and let him face justice

Was hushpup exposed? The name goes endless
If your words were true, I wish it was

pquaver:
You were not against him for corruption.. You were against him for being in a party you don't support.. Ekweremmadu, Abaribe, Wike, Jonathan, Mama peace, Dzeani, ikpeazu, Peter obi are all looters yet you worship them and you are coming here to say you are against him.. Did you guys not support ihedioha? Is he not the o e telling court not to investigate LG fund he stole?

All the above are looters but please remove Peter Obi from there.
I was an undergraduate when Peter Obi first assumed office. Bros, that guy is the simplest man you'd ever know; passes my Bus-stop on his way to work, guy had no single escort just his driver on a Peugeot 406
Heard he started using escort after a certain rumour of attack.
Ngige is in APC but still loved, it's not about party but supporting evil cos you feed from the party.
So, who supports Jagaban & even made him a pillar of their politics?
Who supports Amosun (constituted authority), Gbaja, Aregbe, etc.?

Noerection:
Thrash
I never mentioned good people of Ndigbo

So whom did you refer to as Ebhoes?

ThatFairGuy:
Check this thread and see the real tribalist
https://www.nairaland.com/5917064/ondo-youths-commission-road-behalf

You wanna know real hate?
My guy read up threads on python dance in the SE & see how heartless Nigeria can be.
See some:
* https://www.nairaland.com/4118906/army-ends-operation-python-dance#61456552
* https://www.nairaland.com/5720688/hidden-video-nigerian-army-killing#87193757
* https://www.nairaland.com/4114448/how-army-free-vaccination-caused#61378476

Same people protesting here and calling the US names on Floyd were so happy and touting Igbos whom are being killed and humiliated by the NA
See pics below

Guy, if you'd have the patience to go through these threads, you'll understand the Igboman's pain with this country.
I'm not justifying anything ooo as I myself can't but love all & will never grudge against anyone.
Honestly, Nigeria is a zoo (I DON'T SUPPORT KANU but that guy seems to know somethings we don't).
Same soldiers are being massacred up North & even so called "repentant Boko boys are being freed"
https://www.nairaland.com/5919832/dhq-603-repentant-boko-haram

Omo, this is the height of it

Noerection:
Ebhoes are too corrupt yet they will still blame Hausa Fulani and Yoruba for their backwardness

You must be so sick
Same man almost every Igbo man was against but was glorified, protected and hailed by you all in APC including that "Okoroawusa" of a guy in here.
He stole and y'all still left him at the chambers?
Leave Igbos out of this cos I know that evil elders never survive in our communities
Okoroawusa where art thou?

ThatFairGuy:
Is it that serious? That's how we relate(AnambraIs.tson n I). IT'S JUST FOR FUN, NOTHING SPECIAL

But you've seen the vestige of that simple & maybe good-intended post.
Honestly, the tension is high between tribes in Nigeria & we should moderate on some things not to raise lots of ruckus

helinues:
Why should that be bloomberg headache?

Are they going to be affected?

Guy at least sound well naaaaa
Haba
Ain't you being affected?
Some of you here are just too .........
Kai! Ain't we ashamed of ourselves in this country?
If we refined oil, there'd never been this fraudulent cases in of subsidy from around 1999 till date and I bet you fuel could've been like N50 and may be power wouldn't have been an issue cos we'd have cheap alternatives to PHCN

ThatFairGuy:
Oga, you seems not to understand me. I'm actually referring to AnambraIst.son.

Still same thing
You really goofed & I guess people like you both Igbos & Yorubas alike are enjoying the embers of evil they're fanning?
Tomorrow you feel so bad for FLOYD but your likes are worst than Officer Chauvin

AFONJAPIG:
osu

What if I call you ABOBAKU?

Xclusivedaniel6:
hate apart, they all leave their hometown to thrive here in yoruba land because they know we have land full of riches a d wealth but there in their hometown, juju and wickedness have chased all of them away.
A girl even told me today she can never marry from her home town, she prefers to Mary a yoruba guy

WE DONT HATE YOU PEOPLE FROM THE EAST, STOP LIVING YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE IN HATRED AND TRIBALISM

See the first post here
Bro this thread has nothing to do with Yorubas but some of you just came in here to shout "chest beaters".
Now there's a brawl you turn it that Igbos are hateful?
Guy shun this your sentimental stereotype

TEDHorsePower:
Take your advise to your own state. It is what we need in Anambra at this time and we are getting it done.

Face your state and leave us to build what we need for the benefit of our people and friends.

Exactly, talking like a child
Life isn't about sentimental objections but managing ideas & opinions to better one's self
With a good rail network also, the good intra-state roads we have may survive a 10yr span at least, freeing up monies for other stuffs like a good healthcare plan
Grow up, not everything is a fight