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netizenbuzz:
Okay guys, let us leave religion and culture out of this. On a personal level, let us know why respect or will I call it submission is so important to you as a man. My reason for this is because, whenever there is a case of marriage failure, the first assumption is that the woman was not submissive enough. Even when there it domestic violence, it is because the woman was not submissive enough. I personally don't have a problem with giving anybody respect, both male and female, young and old. Where I have is problem is men expecting women to be blindly submissive. I mean, you can't keep treating me wrongly, disrespecting me, taking advantage of me and expect me to still respect you. That is just common sense. Women have feelings too and we get tired of bullsh.it too.
Is it about ego? To me ego is as good as pride, and it saddens me when even Christian brethren emphasize on a man's ego as of it is a thing to be proud of. We all know what the Bible says about pride. I also believe submission should be from both parties just as the Bible clearly stated so why do we keep twisting the scriptures. There can still be a head even with equality. I love to liken marriage to the affairs of this country. Buhari is our president but he is still equal in the sight of the law. If he commits a crime against me as a citizen, I have every right to sue him. He has some veto powers but he is still held accountable for his actions. And he is still answerable to us the citizens. We criticizing him does not and will never make him less of a president. Do you get my drift now?
So guys, honestly on a personal level, why is submission/respect from a woman so important to you? Leave culture and religion or of this.
Note; this thread is for mature individuals and it will help me know how to understand & address guys I find chauvinistic & mysoginistic better.

ssoftappless:
I dedicate paul play to bumbae,cherlene,gurgle(i still miss our always arguing today and playing tommorow out of fondness and likeness 4 each oda), adanna86,rokiatu,prettythicksme(i just love looking 4 her trouble), rukkydelta(my ughelli sister in delta state), redgem(she loves fighting with me), dollyjoy(she loves stabbing me at d back), oyind17(just like dollyjoy), twaci(stylishly disses me), tohpahz(always telling me to keep shut though she now focus on diary session),idowuogbo(my E-mother), nubian113(always calls me batty boy) @op they are all my girlfriends and d only female romancelanders i keep in my brain, d rest female romancelanders are in my wastebin. no offence to sickstars,estharfabian,diddydiva and d rest.

Happy Sunday Softs

Cherlene

opeadura:
MAY:
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and
highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered.
Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings.
Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm
Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Easily consoled.
Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong
clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in
the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good
physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the
arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home.
Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking.
High spirited. Spendthrift.

Happy Sunday

At bolded! I am May born

Cherlene

EzePromoe:
[color=#DC143C]State what you desire to learn and we'll gladly tell it to you.[/color]

omanifrank:
How Girl snatches her best friend boyfriend and weds him secretly in Nigeria (Juicy Gist)

Read the full story...

Some ladies are cold blooded


http://www.omanifranklin.com/2016/02/how-girl-snatches-her-best-friend.html

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driand:
Try me

driand:
good, I could help you with that if you don't mind..

driand:
good morning, was just wowed be the intended quantity

driand:

chocolateme:
Some of the ladies and gentlemen here especially the guys must be having a cool imagination of what their future kids will look like. I observed that guys seems to be so in love with having babies even though they are not the ones that carries the pregnacy.
So how many do you wish to have with your spouse and what names do you intend for them? Don't name them Indomie though.
Chocolateme will have four by God's grace..
Names:
Chimamanda
Love Jnr
Hubby names the other 2.
What's yours?

Lazyreporta:
1) Black

https://www.kamdora.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_4259.jpg
Men loves black because it implies sexiness, sophistication and class
all rapped up in only one simple colour.


2) Red

https://www.kamdora.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/lendisi.jpg
Men probably doesn’t realize it but they do love red, it implies sex appeal, boldness, confidence and femininity. Wear it however you want but do not over kill it from head to toe because you might end up looking tacky. Always remember that a little red goes a long way.

3) White

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Men also love white because it is clean, classy and pure, sometimes that feels timeless to men. Tops are best with this since a stained white pants or skirt is definitely unattractive.

4) Bright Blue

Picture Below
One of men’s favorite colours is blue and they love it on women too, baby blue is okay but bright blue is the best. Navy blue is usually seen as more drab, so it should be left for the office.

5) Pink

https://www.kamdora.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/berbiedoll.jpg
Pink is soft, feminine and flirty, but like red it goes a long way in a little amount, too much can make you look like a girly-girl which men are not so fond of.

Share with us what you think about these beautiful colours.

http://yarnvibes.com/must-see-5-beautiful-colours-men-love-women-photos/

shugarken:
1. Quarrelsome attitude
some ladies can be so quarrelsome that they are always exchanging words with neighbours, market women, even siblings. This is so bad that sometimes whenever they go out with their guys, there is always a high probability of them picking quarrels over frivolities with the cabman or gateman. Some of the ladies don't hesitate to dish out a generous dose of verbal abuse to their guys even in the open. You can imagine winking at your girl to calm down and eventually dragging her away with her struggling and shouting on top of her voice.

2. Stinginess
Some ladies have never given a gift to their guys for once. You can use this coming valentine as case study. All the ladies are expecting gifts and some would frown, nag and complain if the gifts are not expensive enough and some go as far as ending the relationship if they get nothing. But when you examine them closely, you will discover some of them are planning to buy handkerchief and singlet. Ladies get a good gift for your man often, it won't kill you.

3. Chronic borrowers
some ladies virtually owe almost everybody they come across, from the hair dresser to the food vendor to the cloth seller. They borrow from friends, colleagues and neighbours with no intention of paying back. They keep giving excuses and dodging till the debtors lose hope. When you go through text messages of this ladies, you will see all manner of threats from different people. Some of the lenders trace their office or house and disgrace them or forcefully carry their properties while others approach their man and demand fro their money and often embarrass the man in the process.

4. Untidiness
some ladies are so unkempt that their rooms are unkempt. Come into their rooms and you will see their bra and panties of different colours scattered all over the house, strands of hair from their weavon littered everywhere, make-up and Nigerian films on the floor. Some of their hair nets smell so much that you can imagine how the hair itself smells. Imagine a scenario where a lady pulls her panties and a foul odour oozes out and keeps smelling hours after the lady had left.

5. Non-independent ladies
some ladies rarely do anything or buy anything for themselves unless a guy does that. It's nice to get attention and receive gifts or help but ladies should not make it a habit to depend on guys to do everything for them. You can imagine where a lady will never call her guy....always flashing. They manage to call only when they want to demand for something. You will see a lady that has never subscribed for data by herself ( I can remember those days a lady will update, "BIS about to expire" on her pm). I can understand the situation of someone being broke but I know most of these ladies have plenty money cooling in their account. Ladies surprise your guys by cooking with your own money for once. Don't wait for him to come back and give you N500 when you have thousands in your purse.

6. Incessant Lying
some ladies lie so often that you don't know when they are serious anymore. Some exaggerate their background and wealth of their parents, prices of their personal belongings just to feel among. Imagine a lady boasting she doesn't eat anyhow only for you to jam her in a local buka or she brags that she only shops in boutiques and wears just designers and you sight her at a popular bend down select. Some lie that they are virgins and some even lie that they are pregnant just to extort money from their guys. Ladies try and be real and natural and the guys will appreciate you for that.

7. Terrible cooks
I once heard a story of a newly married wife that would collect money from the husband in the pretext of cooking food only for her to buy a full pot of soup or stew from a restaurant and present to the husband when he returns from work. This went on for a while till her husband found out. This goes out to all this fastfood ladies that can barely prepare a decent jellof rice or even indomie noodles. Men will respect you more when you know your onions in the kitchen. Imagine when your guy refusing food on occasions or when he hangs out with friends because he knows you always prepare something special.

8. Poor dressers
To the ladies, you have to have at least an average dress sense. Some of you wonder why your guys don't take you out at all or take you out only at nights. A guy might love you for other qualities but detest the way you dress. Some ladies look like a masquerade after applying heavy and make-up. Some wear dirty clothes and cover up with heavy perfume. Some always wear one outfit or footwear because it looks fine on them while others don't mix colours well.
When you have a good dress sense, your guys will always show you off, go everywhere with you and introduce you to everybody. Even casual and female friends will be proud to be associated with you because you are always representing.

Aminat508:
Happy new month

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May this month have a successful start and a lot of great achievements in the end

saintloveren:
yes very true, good evening

esosuo:
BABE NOTHING OH,JUST THE SURPRISE COMING BACK OF THE HARMATTAN HERE

esosuo:
:I dey fine oh dear ,watin dey xup na?

tonygee88:
W-h-e-r-e i-s t-h-e r-e-s-e-m-b-l-a-n-c-e??

wisdomguy4u:
A guy posted this on facebook, a pix of him and his mom

What do you think guys?

esosuo:
Really ? Ok ,how are. You dear?

tonygee88:
Whr is d resemblance? mtcheew

saintloveren:
IM urging all romancelanders that post about sex, sex, sex to repent for the kingdom of GOD is at hand, GOD LOVES YOU ALL, he died on the cross for me and you, how would you feel when ure in a law court about to get sentence to death by stealing and your father insist to die for you, and he was sentence to death, after ure free from prison, you later went back to that crime for which your father died for you. "it means your dad died for nothing, how would your heart take it? thats the same with JESUS. "please you all should repent.

At bolded

Yes, God loves us ALL unconditionally.

Cherlene

kalu01:
I mean I can't send you a PM without you following back do you understand now?

DaVinci24:
Hello cherlene. Do you mind?

Evening



Cherlene

kalu01:
and I am enjoying the lovely cold weather down here, do you care if we talk more? kindly ff back.

darkenedrebel:
Yeah I am. lol, why?
Who do you think I'm crushing on?

kalu01:
waiting patiently dear.

kuuljay:
cherlene long time dear

darkenedrebel:
I got none.

esosuo:
Congrats to the newest couple ,cherlene similarities with the bride or the groom ,can't see it sha ?

ojuu4u:
men jelousy is far far outweight that of ladies. Every woman should know that the secret places of their body are meant 4 their hubbies alone hence they must be guided & protected jelously

kalu01:
in fact come and have the sun and give me MINUS CELSIUS DEGREES I'll be fine.