₦airaland Forum

Orlandoo:
Imagine what a rich old man is dragging himself with a teenage girl in public? A senator of the federal republic for that matter. A man that should be relaxing at home with his grandkids.

what as Age gat to do with marital issues, who no dey get issues, have we not seen older women drag there husband online

NED as an image to protect, he has to talk and being his wife he must be the one to respond ... just to clear the air maturely

Ned has about 5 wives none as ever accused him of abuse ... reginal cant be a saint

Orlandoo:
Imagine what a rich old man is dragging himself with a teenage girl in public? A senator of the federal republic for that matter. A man that should be relaxing at home with his grandkids.

what as Age gat to do with marital issues, who no dey get issues, have we not seen older women drag there husband online

NED as an image to protect, he has to talk and being his wife he must be the one to respond ... just to clear the air maturely

Ned has about 5 wives none as ever accused him of abuse ... reginal cant be a saint

Goodlady:
There's hell faya. Repent cos Jesus commeth sooneth.

you are not a chosen that why you no recognise me, we know ourselves

GenFunction:
Lol...eyya...na so u understand am?
Him saying doesn't make him sportmanlike.
Go back and read again,his energy wasn't a positive one towards 9ja and it was clear.
If u understood,u for no type all your lines

OGa, sport is not women supporting women fake life .... sport is rivalry, the manship there means no bad blood, in win or lose its all ❤️

you carry tester😀, how should he have say Nigeria will lose that it will be positive energy to us

pocohantas, ishilove, folake4u cumma hear about hellfire 🔥 i have tried

Dogalmighty17:
Seriously though, how brain dead does any officer of the Nigerian army have to be to think a coup would succeed in present day Nigeria? That will be the end of your country as we know it.

i think recent coups happenings across africa countries is what tempted the military ... they did it n got away with it even in this modern time

coup is not good for us as people Buh Buhari + Tinubu have finished Nigeria completely all in the name of politics, our military is now a joke, handicap in the hands of bandits/ boko haram becos some uselezz old fuuls are playing politics with people hand.
the military guyz are not happy, they are failing because govt in govt and the presidency is unserious about strengthening the military

The failed coup is a strong message to the presidency that the country is over-divided and governance is missing

[quote authpor=GenFunction post=137172981]Very unsportsmanlike speech.
Mans filled with hatred.
I assure u sir,SA would be knocked out almost immediately.[/quote]So if he had said i want Nigeria to qualify thats sportmanship to you .

knockout is part of football, its not racism or a threat, a tournament is not you win i win its exhibition of rivalry someone must win and someone lose

I am an arsenal fan most times i dont want man city to win cos they are my biggest threat on table ... doesnt mean i hate the players per say

Obiedun:
With what Nigeria has done for the south Africa , I don't expect this kind of hatred from them. We really tried to make sure apartheid was removed and also for the release of Mandella. Today instead of being friendly to us the south Africans are hostile in many ways.

Uncle rivalry in sport/football is not hatred, is just like how arsenal, n chelsea fans bant outside football we are friends ...
i dont want chelsea to qualify for champion leagues, sport is not a labour union were you support each other course its open rivalry

Dpsychologist:
Bro, I actually admire your passion. But let’s take emotion off the table and look at Nigeria the way it truly is not the way we wish it was.

1. On Water and “People Shouldn’t Pay for What They Don’t Get”
I completely agree: you shouldn’t pay for what you don’t get. But the reverse is also true, you can’t sustain what nobody pays for.

Look around: when PHCN brings appropriate estimated bills, people protest. When government increases tariffs to match cost of service, people reject it. Yet, we still want 24-hour light.

Even if water pipes in GRAs were prioritized (which is true), the collapse came when maintenance money stopped flowing and that happens when both government mismanages and citizens stop contributing.

The Fashola/BRT example you gave actually proves my point. Lagosians paid for those buses through taxes, fares, and enforcement. You can’t compare that civic discipline with how people treat government property in other states.

So it’s not just government incompetence, it’s also citizen compliance and culture.

2. On “If We Remove Corruption, Nigeria Will Prosper Instantly”
I wish that were true, bro. But facts disagree.

Nigeria’s total revenue in 2023 was around ₦10 trillion. Our annual budget was around ₦28 trillion. Even if nobody stole a single naira, we’d still be short ₦18 trillion.

That gap doesn’t disappear by “being honest” it disappears by producing more, exporting more, and taxing more people.
You mentioned Ajaokuta and the refineries, fair. But even if they worked, they’d cover maybe 20–30% of what we need, not everything.

Corruption is a symptom; low productivity is the disease. We import what we can make, and depend on oil whose value is dying. You can’t build a modern economy on hope and honesty alone — you build it on production and innovation.

3. On IMF and the West “Allowing” Our Looting,
You’re right. IMF knows our flaws. But remember: they’re lenders, not babysitters. Their job is to get their money back, not reform Nigeria.

It’s like a bank lending to a reckless businessman. The bank may monitor, but it won’t enter your office to stop you from stealing. That’s our job.

If the West is guilty of enabling, we’re guilty of supplying. That’s not IMF’s fault, that’s cultural rot.
Like i said earlier in regards to our leaders having properties abroad. No one forces our leaders to buy mansions in London.

4. On Ambode vs. Sanwo-Olu
The difference between both isn’t planning, it’s politics. Ambode was dropped because he stepped on wrong toes, not because he lacked performance. That right there proves that Nigeria’s problem isn’t policy, it’s power culture.

You said “development is mainly in the hands of government.” True, but governance isn’t magic. Government runs on taxes, taxes come from citizens, and citizens obey rules only when it favors them. Until people respect systems, leaders can’t sustain progress.

5. On “When the Head Is Straight, the Body Will Align”
You used Buhari/Idiagbon — great example. They tried to force discipline, but it collapsed because they didn’t build institutions.
That’s the point — fear-driven obedience isn’t progress; institutional discipline is.

Even Fashola succeeded because of law enforcement, civic education, and consistent funding — not fear. That’s governance + citizen compliance working hand in hand.


My bro,
We need to stop pretending it’s either government or people. It’s both. Our government has a lot of fault but we can't totally exonerate ourselves from this, we also played a part in it.

A corrupt leader can’t thrive without a complacent populace. A visionary governor can’t build anything without public cooperation.
We can’t fix Nigeria by blaming one side — we must rebuild both.

Until we learn that progress is a shared responsibility, we’ll keep repeating this same argument every decade — louder, angrier, but still stuck in the same place.

Nigeria doesn’t need angels in office; it needs citizens who stop waiting for angels.

Now its obviously you are playing clever by half,... most of the assumption you hold are baseless and holds no water and i will prove

1. First, trash "nobody pays" ... that is outrightly baseless , its not possible nobody will pay i know people that paid .. is no payment why Nitel no pay or why did Nitel fold, my papa no pay my friends i call did not pay
🤣🤣 did you just put Nepa, appropriate n estimated in same sentence '" appropriate estimated" 🤣

my Fashola instance was to buttress Once the head sit up the body will align ... try it now
In the history of Nig. two times Nigerians behaved and acted accordingly was
1. Buhari/idi agbon regime
2. Fashola govt ( lagos is mini Nig.) ...

if people aint acting accordingly is because our leader have not given the need


what you dont know you dont know, remove corruption nd Nigeria will be develop., yes !!

Maybe the total revenue is correct But everything in our annual budget is inflated cost plus padded .. our actual expenditures are less than whatever you see in those rogues budget i am very sure 100%

So it is wrong for you to posit we cant cater for ourselves when we don't have an actual expenditure

3. I guess you dont its primary essence of IMF dolimg out loans in to facilitate "development", uncle without " reform" can a Nigeria develop. No enabler No crime

4. Now this is clever by -0.5, i compared ambode n sanwo olu on pace of development ... what are you saying ?? whatever ambode was doing the masses were on his side, peoples houses were demolished they took it in good faith we all supported the transformation, APC want throttled growth
A govt that is cursed with embezzling public fund can't command Trust to get Taxes ...

So you know people complied under Fashola " what happened to culture and Nigerians dont want to change" dont you read what you write

Fashola n Buhari military regime is enough attestation that when the head is right the "body" will align, even your assertion it must be "Both" .. wont one person lead me n you, follower should lead reform nd Tinubu, head will follow ... smh

CaptainFM1:
What if Seyi says "Emi L'okan" too?

That phrase is a winning phrase as long as you can grab it and run away with it.

He won't, APC knew they escaped Nigerians by some grace 2023, after sanwo olu 2027 is not a time for APC to field an unknown, they dont trust lagos vote if Tinubu can lose in lagos

Peaching Ambode is a very Queen move, as a opposition how do you discredit ambode to lagosians ... empathy, sympathy are leverages on his side and his record is a stand out for re-election.

He has my automatic vote same way i must vote against Tinubu even if naa only me

Dpsychologist:
Bro, I get your points — and most are valid — but let’s be honest and factual here.

1. On Water:
Yes, we once had functional water corporations, but they died from both mismanagement and public attitude. People dodged bills, vandalized pipes, and waited for “free” supply. Developed nations didn’t build sustainable systems by emotions — they built them on payment, discipline, and accountability. We can’t expect 24/7 public service when no one wants to pay for it.

2. On Being Broke:
Corruption is real, but it’s not the only cause. Even if you stopped all looting today, Nigeria still can’t fund itself — because we produce almost nothing. We sell crude, import petrol ( Dangote looks promising to shake things up) , export raw cocoa, and buy back chocolate. That’s not corruption — that’s structural laziness.

3. On Blaming the West:
The West may be enablers, but the money starts here. We keep borrowing when no gun is been put to our heads. The IMF's primary mandate is global financial stability, not policing the internal corruption of sovereign nations. It is ultimately Nigeria's responsibility to negotiate loan terms with strict accountability clauses and to have the domestic institutions to enforce them. For example, If a father asks a neighbor for a loan to fix his roof and then spends it on a Mercedes, is the neighbor to blame for not following him to ensure he repairs the roof with the money ? The failure is first and foremost the father's.

Secondly If we stop stealing, there’ll be nothing to “hide” abroad. The thief is worse than the receiver. China and UAE had Western pressure too, yet they built, diversified, and progressed — we kept making excuses. Even a country like Rwanda were offered IMF loans — they refused dependency, developed internal mechanisms, and held their people accountable. That’s what we refuse to do

4. On Fast Development:
Copying templates doesn’t mean copying results. Ambode worked because Lagos had 20 years of steady planning and IGR. Most states don’t. Development can be fast, yes, but not when every government restarts from zero.
Ambode is the Exception, Not the Rule. Using one governor's performance as a benchmark ignores the systemic constraints.

In most cases, development cannot just be "Copied and Pasted" . Templates require a stable foundation—a functioning civil service, reliable power, a culture of rule of law, and political consensus. You can copy Singapore's housing policy, but without its meritocracy and ruthless anti-corruption enforcement, it will fail. The hard part isn't knowing what to do; it's building the institutional and social capacity to sustain it.
5. On Elections:
True — party delegates hijack options. But that’s why citizens must go beyond voting to participating in the process. If good people avoid politics, bad ones will always choose for us.

Bottom line:
Nigeria’s problem isn’t just corruption — it’s a culture that rejects discipline and romanticizes shortcuts.
The narrative that places all blame on a faceless "them"—the corrupt leaders, the complicit West—while portraying the populace as helpless victims of a predetermined selection process, is a comforting but ultimately paralyzing one.
Until we fix that mindset, even angels in Aso Rock will fail.

Once again i disagree with your Notion Nation building and correctiveness of the system is the prerrogative of the people

1. Water corporation pipes were most run into elites quarters/GRA, yes there were vandalism and debt issues But what killed water corporation was mainly"Mismanagement and very poor maintainance ... broken pipes & leakages hardly get fix on time.
once again your assumption nobody wants to pay is baseless nd unfounded, people shouldnt pay for what they dont get. see how BRT buses functioned under Fashola who dem born well to cause damage on board

2. Your Assumption Nigeria can't fund itself even without Corruption is also baseless .. cos we dont have a true statement of revenue and expenditure, however we would needs loans But with corruption out of the way Nigeria will be 5 times developed than it is now. imagine our refineries and ajaokuta are working please undermine the revenue

3. Please don't say "WE" most times govt collect this loans it without the people consent,. there is no law that forbids IMF from monitoring, imploring measures or adding clauses to there loan to guarantee designated use.
Yoy think they dont know our govt misappropriate those money, there remarks is enough proof they are watching You go to bank for loan n give them clauses, c'mon how low can you go

You are very good at undermining if Ambode success was because lagos had a steady plan with good IGR ... why is Sanwo olu not matching that pace

i purposely uses Ambode to juxatapose development is mainly in the hands of govt not people, i see your arguement is making excuses for govt incompetence ... when you copy n paste you can also "edit" in accordance to your pecularity .. note that

Nigerians have mindset issues esp. shortcut But using Buhari/idiagbon as a case study when the head is straight the body will align... incase you wan to say its because they are military, Fashola nkor i know what oshodi use to be b4 fashola even me to throw plastic bottle on the road cum hard, whoever knows oshodi very well who believe that place can be restructured n clean. My Oga if our leaders sit up Nigerians will align.

Dpsychologist:
Boss you want to flatter me.

Just a writer penning down reality.

Bro your write might be insightful But it is filled with tew many misconceptions

1. Nigerians want water but don't want to pay thats not True ... in the 80's we had running water corporation what killed that establish is mismanagement and poor maintainance ..if people can buy water to fetch why wont they pay for a better option


3. We are consistently broke not becos we are not generating enough, even by common sense that the tap is small is not why the basketnin the bathroom is not filled yet for you to bath. opulence lifestyle, misappropriation and corruption is every parastatal of govt is why we are always broke, More money wil be enough

4 . Corruption is the main problem, and we blame IMF because they grant easier loans without stringent measures to ensure the funds are judicious use.
why is it that as an entrepreneur i cant collect loan from any local bank without scrutiny to enforce the money is expended on the primary purpose But Govt from time to time get loans embezzle it
we are not wrong to blame the west, because they provided the save havens for our politicians to hide stolen funds, they see our politicians come over and buy massive properties with stolen fund and they condone it, so offshore accounts with red flags yet they enable it

Nigerian have never asked for a Magician and i don't get who is asking For a miracle ... what we ask for are leaders intentional about " real progress" not propaganda. check Tinubu policies so more many counterproductive

Maybe in the 70's 90's the progress you know is slow, Uncle we live in jet age, development have templates that can be copied, with commitment and being intentonal you will have ... what Ambode did in lagos within 4yrs is what normaly take our governors 8yrs to do half in the nigeria we grew up in


Before asking the people to vote builders, Do we have builders are Option is it not party delegates that decides options for the people, what we do is chose within there option so they have a leverage over us

The suriest way out is if We get lucky, the one they chose for us turns against them, we can't rely on our electoral process

CoronaVirusPro:
When Seyi talks, it’s always a comedy!

Who are those deceiving him that he is important in affairs?


This is just a kid who was opportune to have had access to Oyo state treasury, and feels he has become a force or gained relevancy.

Someone should tell this political minion the truth. As it stands today, VDM and Portable are still more politically potent than he will ever be.

if seyi comment is always a comedy @least that relief to the people for Apc inflicted pain nd hardship,

before you posit seyi is relevant in affairs why not check total vote Oyo gave Apc in the presidential election 2023 only a party toddler wil say he doesnt know seyi worked for Tinubu '23 in xchange for unhindered 2nd term
In all sense of reasoning, a two term governor in the biggest state in south can be packaged in box as a " minor" .... minus OYo vote from Tinubu south vote kii lo ku

Seyi makinde is not have the affluence or capacity for presidency BuT seyi is big enough to thwart your Almight Tinubu chances

dheolexaone:
Brother in Lord, I am never against a man that chose to marry a second wife. His choice.

But there is a big difference in marry second wife and a serial cheater.

My target is on serial cheaters based on OP context.
Hope u get.

broda david, nice to meet ya'

are you sure there is a difference between a cheater and a polygamous man, as a matter of logical reasoning

a man can be a serial cheater and not be polygamous till he dies BUT there is no Man polygamous that wont pass through " cheating" coastal road

apparently you dont like Men that serial cheat, buh can you marry a polygamous man

dheolexaone:
As men would say, that they are polygamous in nature, a definition used to scatter the system as if God gave Adam 2 wives from onset.

Any cheating man, I repeat! any cheating man that neglected his family while alive to follow the rule above especially in marriage to frolick up and down, dies and dies to meet his creator peacefully or sorrowfully.

His remains are nothing but regrets. Let the family mourn him. Respect is reciprocal.

Live responsible, they won't hear.

Since you bring God into the conversation we might as well get some clarity

The ideal of 2nd wife came from a " Woman" sarah i.e Abramham wife before that there was no Man that thought of it

If God was against the ideal of 2nd wife, he wont have blessed the maid with a child ahead of sarah

Yoruba will say ti a ba'n jaa bii ka ku kor i.e if we are fighting no be say make we wish death.. holding grudges against the dead violate logical reasoning n God

CoronaVirusPro:
😆😂😆😂😆

Even in the face of GLARING reality, Obidients still think they have a shot 😂😀😂😀😂

I am a strong believer of hoping, but also a strong believer of facing reality when it stares at you.

At this juncture, it is ABSOLUTE DELUSION to even hope that anything comes close to His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)

Haven’t you seen, heard or read about the current status quo, and how His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) is light years ahead of oppositions that currently do not exist.

How do you lots hope for impossibilities? Cant you be true and realistic to yourselves in the face of hardcore truth?

Anyone planning to contest against the demigod just wants his picture on the ballot papers, and it’s not about winning.

Are you an artist, can you also write romantic poem

Tinubu confidence ahead of 2027 election is just " Zoning" ... he knows anyone in south with two term can't displace him the ecosystem of election wont allow it

Check places jonathan tendencies to re run as being speculated, check reactions of the presidency read into onanuga rants then compare it with how presidency react to Atiku and Obi speculation to re -run

Tinubu strategy for 2023 was Religious card, coming 2027 will be ethnicity card, thats why he is making sure he locksdown all the south governors take there structure, so jonathan will have nothing to run with incase he comes out ....
North are very more committed to " zoning" they cant reneged, Tinubu is seriously banking on that,

with Jonathan, North have an option to vote against Tinubu and not breach the zoning commitment

Penguin2:
I’m not going to write long tales. Yeah, I will just go straight to the point.

With the wave of defections going on, very soon all Southern Governors might be in APC.

And if we check very well, almost all Southern governors who are yet to join APC seem amenable to Tinubu’s re-election.

Name them, Gov Adeleke of Osun is not in APC today because of the pushback of APC stalwarts in Osun.

Gov Otti of Abia has never hidden his friendship with Tinubu.

Gov Diri is touted to have resigned from PDP en route APC.

Gov Fubara is only a governor on paper that even if he doesn’t defect cannot do much to harm Tinubu’s gameplan for Rivers.

Only Makinde seems to be on his own and that’s because he wants to answer Presidential candidate in 2027.

My point is, with what is currently happening in the south, the ADC or any opposition coalition giving their ticket to a northerner will just make 2027 Presidential Election an easy ride for Tinubu as it will become a north vs south affair. And with vast of the Middle Belt amenable to Southern sentiments, and with whatever Tinubu would be able to muscle from the rest of the North, he’s sure to win in 2027.

So, if the opposition is truly interested in challenging Tinubu in 2027, their ONLY option is to willingly hand the ticket to Peter Obi.

Why? Because with Obi, the south will be broken; with Obi taking Southeast and Southsouth again.

Again, the Middle Belt and northern Christians are still sold out to Obi.

Then you add whatever influence Atiku and his men can bring for Obi from the core North and you will see Tinubu struggling, if not beaten silly.

This is the only practical, logical and realistic option left for the opposition.

If you think they have a better option, convince us otherwise.

Penguin is a bird of reason!

Your assertions would have made sense in an open minded society without some Factors

whether we like it or not we are till held bound by shackles " ethnicity and religion" along " zoning" informal arrangement
i have seen people combine oxford n harvard english to discredit " Zoning" doesnt exist, blah blah is not in our constitution its jus a coincidence south nd North are exchanging after every 8yrs ... whoever want to live in fuuls paradise can have the keys

Peter Obi best chance was 2023, and now that a southerner had done 4yrs Obi chances are thwarted cos its will disrupt North comeback 2031 via "zoning"

Obi suddenly promise of one term is him acknowledging " zoning" exist buh our harvard people say its concidences

Should Atiku contest, he cant win cos is still south turn, and Obi can't win cos North wont let him kill there 2031 comeback, even his platform LP sounds compromised

So the only candidate that can probably displace Tinubu is a southerner that fit one term and already has a wide popularity across Nigeria

Forget Grammar, Forget accent, we practice archaic politics

Mariangeles:
Is she on nairaland?

if she is not here would you have dropped advice for her

Mariangeles:
Do you know what I wrote there?

buh you think Tiwa savage will know .... dey play

Mariangeles:
Shaa make sure the first wife is in agreement.
Don't go and snatch someone's husband. 🙄

Unu gbachaa life, unu achowa di nwaanyi ibe unu unu ga anaghara.

as you advised Tiwa finish

Who the 2nd advice dey for

chloride6:
He is rushing....

What if the doctor asked him to leave he alone, what will he do?

Sometime people adopt the precautionary position even without knowing

Rushing ke inside marriage ... so whats the " word" outside Marriage ... " puma "

una no go kill me here, why should he live like the doctor ask him to leave her alone when the doctor no talk am
i can starve if i dont have money to eat, but which one be say make i starve myself when i have 2,690 inside my opay ... if i wan fast i no say i dey fast buh why will breakfast be in my front n i will praying for 4pm to quickly nack

Marriage is all about compromises and considerate, how can you justify no touch no cuddle, no " Hug" mon - fri , say is pregnancy hormone .. una wicked oooo !

vowiski:
Someone called the pregnancy, “so-called”.

People deh born sha ..

Leave the OP to be Fooling around, 2 weeks you are getting blessed with a baby , all he can whine about is Sex…

For someone that claims he waited 2 years.. I can tell you for free, he was sleeping around.

No way, you can wait 2 years and can’t wait 3 months for your wife to enter 2nd trimester.

He is a disgrace!

You don’t pamper such people, I can only pray he doesn’t become a disaster of a father!

No sex, and and he won’t take care of his kids

lolzz !! you are funny, lets imagine your boss at the office promise you Iphone 17, if you meet a target and you worked your ass out you achieve it,

your boss kept is word gave you the iphone 17 without " battery" ... oga were bat3 he ask you to be patience he is in a bad mood for time being

Bro will you really understand, how long can you look at that iphone 17 without see it On ??

Alol !! all this wait n get bloggers sef, Since when did Dangote own filling stations, how can dangote increase price at filling stations when he own or manage none

if you want to tarnish Dangote do it with $en$e, show us an increase in price right from Dangote, each time dangote changes price he publishes it ... just find one

Double0h7:
You’re proving my point. Y’all don’t like women and society won’t allow you to work through this so you take love and relationships as some battlefield. A man cooks and cleans in his own home because he wants sex. If it wasn’t sad it would be hilarious. Anyway, I’m done with this thread so ✌️

can i see your Picture i want to know why comprehension is a challenge

Do you even read anything the OP said or you are here to transfer aggression

He is not just washing plate nd cleaning the house cos of sex, he is also doing it becos he is a " considerate" man .. thats rare you deserve weyre like me i go stress you 4 night nd you go still do house chores as a wife cos you love me tew

In marriage, you must learn its not just about, considerate and compromises thats how we roll, sometimes you wont be in the mood but becos you consider your spouse you just give in thats love there are times i don chop outside, buh i make sure i eat her food gettin home even if naa 1am

Ozzyk:
i dey mind that one...
My wife does have very very mild symptoms
She goes about her normal day life as if it's nothing
U won't even notice that she's pregnant yet and she's about 7 weeks gone...
The last time we had anything together was first week of September
And that's like 2 weeks after our wedding
It's been 5 weeks of no sex no touching,no cuddling, no kiss no smooching nothing like intimacy no matter how small u can think of it

You tried ooo ! asides being a responsible man i can see you really love,. thats a problem you married a woman you love more, its best to be with a woman that loves you more you will know

however problems have solutions ... bro you need a 3rd party cos she wont tell you things directly, maybe a mummy G.o, best friend or someone you know she looks up to

i strongly believe your marriage can be fixed, its just communication glitch stay strong bro

Double0h7:
When you only view a woman’s worth as sex and babies then nothing I say will make sense to you. Two people have become one but as far as a man is concerned that only means sex! Her emotion, psychological, and physical needs don’t matter because you don’t view her as a human being.

The part that blows my mind is that women who enjoy sex and are willing to express their sexuality are tagged farm tools and denied marriage. You search out virgins and demand that they enjoy sex and are willing to preform sexual acts like corn stars. Do you see the pattern. Women are only seen through the lens of sex and are stripped of their humanity by most men.

None of this will make sense to you so enjoy your day.

Maybe if it was a dickhead like me that brought the case you might have small point, 2yrs no sex kuku kill me

buh i must say OP deserves better esp. in our time He waited 2yrs, not just that even in marriage,q he is responsible ... he washes the plate, cook, take care of the home so the woman doesnt stress when she comes back from work ... ki lobinrin tun fe ?

Na me you deserve , community preek i will show you responsible shege ... cos all that manipulating games you women play no go work

jrobbins:
You don't know this women. Very manipulative things but I don't even know why most men don't see it.

He should get side chick or threaten her with marrying second wife. I have two wives and I have ever experienced this kinda things.

i would have said same thing, but i discern OP is not the infidelity nd personally i dont push men that dont have it in them

Getting a mistress wont solve the problem @home OP is just bypassing, the problem will still be there, its best to fix it

There is no such thing as women dont like sex, the man around is not enough turn off nii, i believe there is an underlying issue that needs to be psychologically dealt with

chloride6:
leave that woman alone...

She feels very weird right now...

Just leave her alone

lolzz, ! he left her alone inside 2yrs of courtship, now inside marriage he should leave her alone ... so when and where will he enjoy her ... heaven ??

just leave her alone .... like she is some neighbour or office colleague abi

Lexusgs430:
Unfortunately, you married a lady that believes sex, is only for pregnancy..... Once pregnant, sex stops......

if thats her idealogy then why is it difficult to communicate to the man, however OP needs a 3rd party that can get into her head and resensitize