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omoilorin86:
hmm dont know what to even say after 7 years my wife just ending woke up and safe shes done . thast bher family said i am not good enough. hmm some i sent to school and did everything f

iammolahs:
so guys.. I've been dating this girl for 2 years now, she chose me at first, she approach me and asked me to be her bestfriend.. I told her that I don't keep female friends but we can vibe normal normal.
as time passes by feelings grew and we started dating, it's been two years with this young and pretty damsel but she started complaining that I'm too serious in the relationship that she's not ready for anything serious at the moment that she just want a normal relationship.
omoh, I can't come down to her level of thinking, her parent and grandparents know the both of us as a matter of fact everyone knows that we two are together..
I believed that if a lady chose u at first, things will be smooth but this one is a pain in the ass.. she's 19 BTW

I'm thinking of letting her go but I don't want her to tell everyone that I am the one that broke up with her

Antihypocrite:
Sorry to ask, but like how much transport?

Antihypocrite:
I just need somewhere close to thinkers corner

ourunivibes:

AndrewTate:
Well I don’t see a reason why a woman has to be controlled… please make me understand that part if you can!

zenithgroup:
I got all you've said brother.

1. To reply ur first question I naked her 3times to confirm her virginity.

I wasn't ready for any commitment just yet [ But she keep mentioning husband and seeing her family each time our rough play got to d fore...

She doesn't have any work or financial value as of date, neither does her parents has the cash to set her up business wise but she was domestically well trained.

I equally knew the risk of using my money to elevate a woman...

I will just play along as you've suggested, time will tell.

SeyiFargo:
Hope y'all are now happy for derailing this thread??
Smh,😞💔

OurTruth24:
What is the nature of these evil beings in control of the earth?

The beings in control of the earth are a race of reptilian humanoids known as the Alpha draconians. They are not like the other breed of reptilians that evolved on this planet alongside humans. Unlike the other race of reptilians that look more human, these Alpha Draconians have faces like crocodiles and long tails.

I have seen them before during a spiritual trip. I saw three of them in their space ship. I have never been so afraid in my life. I never want to see them again. They inspire so much fear and then feed off of that fear almost like a torture ritual. I had a serious fever after this trip that lasted the whole day.

This race of draconians don't even originate on this solar system. They are a race of warriors and thrive on conquering planets and enslaving them. That's why when they manipulate a certain race of humans, they make them do the same thing they love to do, which is to conquer, subjugate and enslave other groups of people.

emmaodet:
I didn't even noticed those points. I am just surprise at the way people do wedding, laughing, happy and after some years the woman can just walkout from it as if it is nothing.

To the husband, he has a good wife he is hustling to take care of while to the woman, she is looking for the slight opportunity to japa with the kids unknown to the man.

I wonder how this kind of people sleep on the same bed with the man with such thoughts in their mind.

2dice01:
What do you expect bro

We don't toast 21century women
it is waste of time

Same shít happen to me 8yrs ago
We were so fond of each other she literally beg me to come to her church 3days service even if it is a day
I couldn't go because of work
Then i invited her over to my place
She ask me what was on my mind that i wanted to tell her then mumu me 😄😁 started wooing her
Guess what she said

She: 2dice is not that i don't like you oo but anything a guy toast me all my feelings for the guy disappear but i will think about it and get back to you

That was the end the calls and text she use to bombard me with I was now doing the calling and texting but she was gone🤗

logicalhumour:
Nice post! Lol.

But bro, there are a few things I'll like to say about the bolded.

Firstly, I am not red pilled, and I'm definitely not blue pilled either. In fact, I don't do "pills" at all

But you see, my friend, you said "What we should be doing is how we can lead the women into the right direction..."
I think its time you know that Women choose/chose their path, and they know that they're definitely in the right direction.

Life is all about survival, and women are lightyears ahead of men when it comes to survival strategies. You can't, for example, teach a woman who wants to "whor.e" around not to. Actually, for such woman, whorin.g is actually the right direction for her.

A female author once said "Women do not laugh at men, at best, they're irritated." You can't guide them, what they do is hard-coded in their biology. It is the right thing. In the end, that's how they survive so well. That's how they'll get a man to do all the hard work and die for them and their offsprings.

One great advantage women have over men is that they have a choice — a choice between the life of a man and the life of a parasitic luxury item, of which they choose the later (the parasitic luxury item). There are too few women who would not select the latter. Who are men then to "guide" them? Lol.

The RP stuff you find in this thread are just guys who've realized the scientific fact that they can't "guide" women in the "right" path, and instead have chosen not to be in a relationship with women in a manner that would be detrimental to themselves ( unlike "Simps" )


Finally, as for your point that "What we've done in relating with women is to see women them as nothing more than sexual object...", with what I've said so far, you might realise that women deliberately choose to be "sexual objects", and for good reason: if you had a va.gina, opening it to a peni.s instead of going to toil under the sun would actually be the best option for you. Even women who have already achieved all they can with va.gina power would find it difficult to willingly close the vag. It becomes part of their nature, no wonder some say "Once a whor.e, always a whor.e" Have you ever tried quitting a habit? Let alone a habit passed on to you genetically? Lol. "Women are biological whor.es, and men are biological simps." - me.

See women and men? Just leave them alone. All of them know what they're doing—especially the women. From an evolutionary standpoint, the women are actually the LEAST confused of the pair (unlike what most guys think. Lol)

You can't help them. In fact, trying to "help" them is actually trying "kill" them. They know this, and that's why they won't even take your "help" in the first place. Lol. You either accept these facts, or continue to live in denial.

Agelastus:
ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

I used to be a simp...a nice guy. I found the red pill, my eyes were opened and I began the process of self-improvement. I imbibed the redpill philosophy and I began to see results. I am now more successful with women and my confidence grew.

However, a particular phrase in redpill always made me not so comfortable. The belief that "All women are the same". I always believed that the statement was exaggerated. Definitely, there should be some women who would be different.

So, I met this girl in 2021 and we hit it off with really good vibes and all. I vetted her to an extent and didn't see any red flags. Infact, she didn't have any social media presence. Neither Snapchat nor TikTok. Just basic WhatsApp and Facebook. Even her IG account was gathering cobwebs from neglect. She took lots of pics but they usually just end up in her phone gallery. I was a bit surprised. I thought to myself "this one is different". I'd found a Unicorn.

All the signs were good. Desire was genuine, wasn't a leech, was respectful and all that. Until I fvcked up.

I started treating her special, opened up to her, basically told her everything about myself.
There were two other girls on the side sha (one FWB and one ex that occasionally comes over) but I made aunty feel like she was the only girl in the world based on the signs. I thought I'd found a keeper. Surely, all those red pill theory about women won't apply to her, she's not like the others, I said to myself. She's different. MUMU ME!

I mentored her on how to put her talents to good use. I told her to go out more, network, meet new people. Aunty practically upgraded. Then it happened.
Fast forward to 2022. She started to change right before my eyes. Our chats were no longer interesting. Her visits reduced. She was no longer eager to have sex like before. Desire was definitely waning. I started seeing the signs but I ignored. Shebi she is special.

I got a rude awakening when she forgot my birthday in 2022 (someone that took me out on my birthday in 2021). Sex now practically stopped. Then she started leaving my messages on read. That was when my dead grandpa gave me a knock from heaven and brought me back to my senses.

I have done away with her sha (though she's still hanging around claiming repentance).

The mistakes I made.

1. I stayed away from red pill for too long. A pill a day keeps simpism away.
2. I thought she was different, so I let down my guard and gave her special treatment. MUMU BOY LIKE ME.
3. I was too open with her.
See ehn, MYSTERY MAKES YOU DESIRABLE TO WOMEN. I am a kinda mysterious person. I don't talk much about myself in real life. I realized one of the things that attracted her to me was my mysterious and detached nature. But I fvcked up by unraveling myself to her.
One day during a conversation (the week before we broke up) She said something that kept ringing in my head "I used to fear you that time o. You were so strange. I even thought you were a cultist. But now, I know you very well. I don't fear you again".

So, if you're reading this and you still think NAWALT. You'd better perish that thought comrade. Don't be a MUMU like me o.

Also, don't let a girl know too much about you. Remain mysterious.

Like one of our comrades here would say. "STAY TALIBAN".

Princeadebayo11:
Please guys, is it proper if I open up to a lady I want to date that I am not financially bouyant?
She knows I am a school teacher, but she is a big girl I met online, we've been chatting since and one way or the other we get attached to each other.

Pukkalolo:
You gain more romantic success when you understand this very core aspect of women I'm about to talk about.
Ladies who I go sexual with don't experience any guilt.. infact after they leave my place, I get messages like, "Yesterday, was fun." Or "Thanks dear, I enjoyed my time with you." These ladies are sexually comfortable with me: They don't feel deceived; they don't feel cheap or used. They feel comfortable showing me their naughty sexual side


Back to you and the lady.....See, she's saying, "I shouldn't have let it happen."

The reason she felt bad and guilty for going sexual with you is because she's not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

Yes, she's probably sexually attracted to you, but the major thing is she doesn't feel any sexually comfortableness with you.....and your alpha fronting and your stone-cold aura wasn't also helping matters. You ended up reviving her psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" and "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."


Anyways, I hope this was helpful.

heartofcity12:
Modern dating;
Calling vs texting

Ofejiro20:
GM Guys, I need your help in tackling this situation with my new gf. We started slowly and we had sex the first day she came to my place meanwhile I live alone. She insisted we use condom and that's what we've been using till this day. She says that if she won't abort any pregnancy for me so that's why she's careful to use condom and it was a nice Idea for me anyway. I'm not even ready to father a child at the moment.



Ignored her for almost 2 weeks and she texted me on Christmas day. I knew this was her method of apology so I called her and we talked, ever since then she has never refused my invitation sometimes she'll ask if I want her to come cook for me etc.

I don't know if she's sticking with me so I'll buy her a good phone. I don't know where I stand with this gal cos I know I'm not the only guy Wen dey knack her. I've stood my ground not minding her opinion but I need some advice from the house make I nor loseguard. Thanks Fam

charlesdprof:
Good day Redpill brothers.
I need some form of advice or word of encouragement from you.
I was in a relationship with a girl for 5 years with the intention of marrying her.
I decided to allow her keep her virginity all these years till the wedding night.
Last year December 2022, I had a dream that someone is seeking for her hand in marriage.
I decided to propose to her and she was very happy.
She opened up to me that someone is coming to marry her and that her aunt recommended the guy. He is based in Turkey.
She asked me to rush and see her parents before the guy comes.
I did as she said and the parents accepted because they know am already in a relationship with her.
They told me she has rejected many suitors including that guy claiming that she has someone she wants to marry.
Her Dad requested for a Genotype result which came out that we are both AS genotype after going to 3 different hospitals.
The marriage was canceled even though me and the girl insisted we want to go on with it.
The father threatened to disown her if she didn't marry the guy from Turkey.
It was a devastating experience for both of us.
She met the guy for the first time on 27th December and the traditional marriage took place yesterday.
When I saw the pre wedding pictures and the traditional marriage videos I cringed and developed cold shivers.
I felt depressed that I built a woman for another man.
I felt I just wasted 5 years on my life in an unproductive relationship.
I felt cheated that I allowed her keep her virginity only for another guy to enjoy it.
Am just stuck right now considering the effort, resources and time I wasted with her.
I need advice and encouragement.

JovialRPiller:

Gobengroup:
I get girls a lot but I alway end up not making a move 100% of the time... Some later hated me or see me as weak... It's really disheartening...

The only girls I ever had are the ones that make the first move after being tired of giving greenlight..

Gobengroup:
I've read ubunja thread on being the Choosen and waiting for greenlight but I'm confused on something...
After greenlights, I'm always confused or uninterested in approaching.. I may like a girl before and conceal it but the moment I noticed she want me back, my likeness for her will reduce drastically..
Is this normal or something is wrong with me??

I've lose a lot of girls that want me with this attitude..
I've got girls wanting something with me maybe because of my looks or general carriage but I always find it hard approaching them...
Pls how do I stop this...

Ubunja..
CaveAdullam..

IwasNeverGone:
Fatherless behaviors you shouldn’t take into 2023.

—Paying for private snaps.
—Sending women money to reply your DM.
—Commenting under every good looking woman’s picture you see on the internet.
—Sending women Tfare to come see you.

If you’re not loved at home, love yourself.

Credit: itsSh0la

Pukkalolo:
The less women know about you, the more they want to know. it's very essential not to give out personal information about yourself unless she asks you.

One reason why you shouldn't give much information about yourself in your early interactions with her is because if she has some interest in you, telling her too much about yourself will kill all the mystery and she will have nothing to be curious about.

heartofcity12:
Interesting..

Haydens:
Abeg still update us if anything sup. .

Hoard your attention. It's very costly for any girl to have your attention. Gold is most valuable cos it's scarce same should be your attention.