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DownChelsea:
at this point, I can surely say "the joke has told itself"

Nice line bro I feel you

Jessepaid:
hehehe....

Not sure if it's happened before..


If the myths are correct, there's is almost no chance of it happening again...

Women need men...

No put mind there it never happened na fiction

crazymommy:
She made a point but unreasonable....does that justify her act??is she the first lady to do period??even if the period made you act stu*pid,that do not mean the stupidity should be justified...

I wonder what that mumu Maria did again

BarristerAlarig:
His sexuality affected his game. Alot of people know he is gay, just as we knew Prince's sexuality. I expected him to play the game well, not this thing he is doing with a lesbo.

Really is Emmanuel gay

caandi:
I’ve told my ex’es a lot of hurtful words especially one that was obsessed with me.
Friends warned me that karma would deal with me in future cos Of the way I treated this guys but then I never believed it. To cut the long story short, I’m happy whr I am now and no karma no where. I dint force them to love me, it was a matter of choice.

Karma don’t give dates

DownChelsea:
Malaria parasite

this girl you Dey worry o

tolor:
E be like say Ogun dey kill all this Man u fans for this thread ni

Glory Glory man United

Dotez:
Those ones in his village bah?

Village or no village the boy is winning

Dotez:
You will think is all the 300k followers that will vote if na like that,Nengi for pass Dorathy nah

Incase you don’t know many people who are voting for him are not yet following him

Vlain:
Nonsense ur white money is playing laycon script.dude said he has never missed a season of bbn or BBA.

Hating won’t get you anywhere in life

God bless you

Dizzyish:
UPDATED LIST:
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:

1. Long nails
2. Fake hair (~long, bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Provocative clothing
5. Big earrings
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches" or claim to have "very high standards" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [snowball effect] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'-- "Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough.
Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests-- "used to 'determine your frame.' Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
28. Bisexual ("They have a propensity to get bored with whichever gender they're dating and move on to the next. This is why bi-girls go through phases of dating males then phases of dating females." )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always play the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15 , 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)

For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or sumn idk

These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.

I think observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'looks' or 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations and opinions.

ChristoBam:
Tell me how it works abeg? I'm curious.

Me too

siofra:
Check my profile

It’s not big enough so manage it, there’re people with bigger and not complaining

BigDick70inch:
She quit the relationship and went to be with a guy immediately I left for school.........

called me....... years later and narrated how the guy disflowered her,promised her marriage.....but he never did..........

I told her.......its okay,things happen and we could still be friends.......

But........since she wasn't ready for that and really desperate to be back with me........

This year........makes it the 5th year i have been fucking her with no plans to wife.........even tho she thought she had found a fiancé already...........

Honestly.......am just practising my karmasultra skilla on her........when she's tired she will leave!!!

This is wrong bro, tying her down with no intentions and she might have rejected other people hoping on you...it’s still early let her go abeg tell her the truth

amaniro:
I want to show her I can do without her


I want to show her how regularly I come online but don't even stalk or send a full stop to her

I want to show her how am enjoying, chatting with other girls

of recent i started uploading pictures of me flexing

lastly I want to show her am still alive, healthy and fine

lastly listen to Rihanna, take a bow it's an old song but it's good for things like this, do look for it and you'll be alright

This is legendary

Ayomide11111:
How would you feel if you were in my shoes about this my experience yesterday.?
I took this lady that I have been chatting with online to the eatery yesterday and that was also our first time to see. When we get to the eatery
she ordered for fried rice and chicken and a soft drink. But along the line while she was eating we were having some discussions and I was "systematically" observing her table manner, low and behold When this babe finished with the fried rice and it came to the turn to eat the chicken made me felt somehow. She ate the flesh and instead for her to leave the bone, because the chicken was big enough for two people to eat, she said she doesn't want my money to be wasted and she started breaking the bones to the extent that other customers around us were say "Madam surfree-surfree oo, No go injure yourself oo" because the sound of how she was using pressure to break the bones was making "PaaRaaPaaPaa-PauuPauu-Pooo". I was really embarrassed. I cautioned her to leave the bone that I would order for another for her, but she said she likes bones, haa! I was surprised. A fine girl like you. Eventually, I rounded every discussion and I discharged her.
Ladies pls have some courtesy if you are to be in public places with someone you have never met. I know some ladies are decent oo.... But this one choke me

Niggaz will want someone who’s real, but won’t handle it

Whatever choice you make in this life just be ready for the consequences, because rich or not rich nobody is a guarantee...

It’s a pity when I see people link salvation to a church...even when the Bible said that those who don’t know the law i.e non Christians will all be saved if they obey the law unknowingly...

Righteousness2:
That's scary!
I don't believe it. But if this is true, then Endtimes Famine has officially begun in the land...

Inflation and bad governance is very different from famine

Fashionista anytime
I can’t stand a girl who is not dope,classy or casual

Buy the standing one with freezer part on top
Deep freezer isn’t for you if you’re single or starting up a family or not doing business with it

In this life persistency, consistency and courage is all it takes. It’s not really easy for anybody...I understand fully what you’re going through. But you shouldn’t let you present situation define you or define your future...there’re people who have been in your situation and even worse situations that triumphed...your breakthrough might just be around who knows

I can relate with this your problem
First of all the only way to stop something is to actually stop...it’s not easy tho but it’s not impossible too

Consray:
I have always have a thing for Anambra guys cause there is something about them that is exceptional.

They can hustle
They're one intelligent and smart people i know
They're so romantic
and fun to be with

I'm actually from Rivers state precisely and i have actually been with three Anambra guys, but i have not really been in a seriously re/ship with any cause of things i have heard about them, like they don't get married out side there state and more

so, I'm just so scared falling for any


i just want to know �how true that is

Just say you like money you won’t die

Flowerystar:
Some ladies don't know what they want.

I’m starting to feel it’s all the ladies

SILENTandSMART2:
Speak for yourself sir

Please he should speak for all of us

My friend it’s hard everywhere

Nothing good comes easy even good women, but I always save my pride Incase things goes wrong

Aloe Vera gel works

I’m still alive and healthy that’s all

Casilan 90 or cretin