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BigBashiru:
Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....

tosaino95:
Pls and pls if you know you worship women in reality and get fvck by people but come here because here is faceless forum am highly disappointed in you.
Because the nonsense i see men do daily i always wonder.
Are we really make break with this bitter truth and reality we say here
but let hope we're getting there little by little

ProphetJeroboam:
READ
Unrelated and may seem like cliché advice but hit the gym whenever you get the chance and eat healthy. It might not be easy as hustlers aren’t really certain about tomorrow but trust me, when the hustle pays off, you’re gonna enjoy the fruits of your labor more when you have a banging healthy body.

sgtponzihater1:
Don't get married. A woman I married is living in a House I bought, has not said Good morning to me for nearly a week. She prepares food from the food stuff I bought, sits on the chair I bought and watch movies from morning to night. Probably waiting for me to break the ice and apologize.

Don't get married

Reminderz:
the thing is that, if things are still going well for you, or you haven't gotten burnt yet, you'll reject the redpill unless you were exposed early through upbringing, experience, or your environment.. you'll even defend the simping act with all your power. simping will seem rational to you.

getting unplugged from the matrix takes some special power.

sajmark:
Kante can easily pass as the Nicest guy in the world so I'm not surprised one bit.
secondly, that's what happens when a man focuses 100% on his career and hustle while paying zero attention to the game which Women happen to be masters of.
A typical example of "make money and women will come".

PstDapo:
The only time one would see a female in love is when said female is young (perhaps a teenager) and/or inexperienced (not in touch with her nature). As she grows older and interacts with more men, she sharpens her predatory blades and shuts out that inhibitor called "love"---and even this temporary susceptibility to love is a somewhat rare phenomenon.

Someoneschild2:
We have female siblings and daughters. That is why we'll teach them the consequences of certain decisions because only them can make their choices.




Guilt tripping is just another weapon in the arsenal

ubunja:
probably at the start of the coming week

ubunja:
if I'm Zimbabwean why would I care who South African women date?

mid 2017 is the year I discovered Nairaland and the simping was disgusting. It took me 4 years of personal hard work with my write-ups to change this. Now the Red Pill is trending. It was a job worth it.

Smartb0y:
That one cannot be saved.
He has accepted his cross as a genuine simp.

A relationship is not marriage.
It's only a fool that would bear the burden of a relationship.

Until both parties are joined before the eyes of Almighty God, you have no responsibility to provide for any woman that's not your wife,mother, sister or family relative.

All that rubbish talk are just modern feminist antics to keep fellas simping and hooked in the blue pilled society.

Be warned, don't invest in something with no guarantee aka no ring on her finger.

It is a recipe for great disaster and maximum simping,suicide, heart attack.

Amperes:
BRO, i sat down one day after being exposed to the red pill and recounted my past experiences with women. It dawned on me that green light is way better than cold approach. This is not to say that cold approach is not a successful strategy, If you put in enough work just like with any other endeavour in life, you are bound to come out relatively successful. The problem with cold approach is that it requires way too much effort and time that can be invested in achieving better things. Time is Money and a redpiller should always guard his M.E.A.T jealously. Another problem with cold approach is that it could easily lead to subconscious simping. During my simping days, i would cold approach a girl and take her out 3 - 4 times, yet no pu**y. i would spent long hours chatting and calling yet my success rate was roughly around 20%. But there was something i noticed then that was quite baffling, there were some girls i would meet and f**K same day. instant chemistry, zero stress. There were some that would even propose to come to my crib without me inviting them. There were even situations where married women were giving me excess greenlight, one whose husband was in South Africa was even bold to spell it out that she wanted to F**K me . i refused though because of my decision never to have anything to do with a married woman. these set of girls never stressed me, infact there were some of them i call whenever i am Hot and they always come. So it began to bother me why it seemed so easy with some and so difficult with others. Not until the redpill opened my eyes. Sexual attraction is not something you negotiate, its just there, open your inner eyes, notice all the little things, dress well, get a good cologne, a good haircut and look good. then strut your stuff and keep your eyes open. Afterall, thats what the females do, ever wondered why they are so successful in the mating game? Approach after the green light. Thats what we do at traffic stops. it helps to reduce accidents and hold-ups. Thank you.

ProphetJeroboam:
Not calling or texting regularly is a good way to show that your life does not revolve around women. Most girls these days are just bored anyways. They sit on their asses, watch Netflix, sleep, eat ,chat on social media and spend hours on tiktok and Instagram. I always tell my guys, NEVER ever be a woman’s text buddy, there is absolutely zero benefits only disrespect.

The girl below never stopped texting, they’re all the same.

ProphetJeroboam:
I wish I read all of this in my high school or Early university days lol. The only way you can mess with a woman’s mind by not fvcking her is when she see you fvck every other woman but her. Like when you’re standing in front of her, she can smell puccy all over you or you don’t text her for days and when you finally text, you tell her you’ve been busy and she’ll murmur under her breathe “busy fvcking other bitches” because she knows you get bitches thus she is frustrated because she is losing her bargaining power,rest assured this ch*ck will go to any lengths to fvck you because securing this player’s commitment and changing him is her goal. When a lady loves you, she wants you to fvck her, when you don’t then it becomes a matter of over investment on her part and from her POV so what she does is, she pulls back. When a man commits without getting sex, he is playing all his cards, when a woman fvcks without getting commitment, she has played all her cards. What people don’t understand is attraction naturally descends down a downward trajectory unless the particular object of attraction remains constant by finding new ways to impress, it peaks then diminishes. What this means when you haven’t fvcked her is you’ll have to keep coming up with new ways to keep her interested, good luck with that because at that point you’re just entertaining her while she searches for a real man that gets the job done. An orgasm remains ever fresh in her brain, each time you give her an orgasm, it’s like her first orgasm. It’s a sin to use possessive pronouns for a girl you’re yet to bed because such women always have one foot outside the door. Fvck her good then sit back and relax, let her fight tooth and nail to keep you.

ubunja:
true,,, fucc these hoes but love none of them!!
I don't know why guys think playing hard to get sexually increases attraction. A man is not "cheap" or "easy" for smashing a woman ASAP. That's a quality of the feminine. Cause the feminine controls sex. So restricting sex makes a woman valuable.

The masculine, in turn, controls COMMITMENT.

Meaning a guy plays hard to get by fuccing a woman BUT REFUSING TO COMMIT. That's the way of the masculine. A man's commitment is gold. Just like woman's puccy is gold. And For gold to retain its value it must be rare. The woman must close her legs, and the man must close his heart. Meaning a woman can commit to 20 men and love them all - but as long as SHE'S NOT SLEEPING with any of them, she's Valuable. And a man can sleep with 20 women - but as long as HE DOESN'T LOVE any of them, he's valuable. A man's body count is romantic, while a woman's body count is sexual. [/b

Really speaking, [b] a man's pussy is his heart. Keep it closed. Stay taliban. Stay cold. Keep that body count low. But make sure you're bedding these hoes.

To add to this playing hard to get thing: A real female player is that woman getting men's love, commitment and resources WITHOUT giving any sex: The virgin.
And a real male player is that man getting non stop puccy from different women WITHOUT giving any love.

A woman whose puccy can't be bought has the same value as a man whose heart can't be bought.

daharry:
who said there is no good in being chosen!. imagine a girl taking taking you outing and still thanking you for spending time with her.. jeez her atm was on me the who f***ing time ....
who talk say these girls no get money?
abeg,I no dy stress myself chyme banny again..
Shout out to ubunja and all the advoctes of the game of chosen..

heartofcity12:
Manipulations, never fall for it..

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram No my G but I school 4 NEKEDE..



LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram AMABOBI D MANCHI all Dis 1 Na Long matterz wey u TYPE 4 here and Na ENERGY DRINK u go GIVE me to READ DIS MATTERZ...



ASHAWOO na d BEST tin!



JAZZ in ASHAWOO house u go STILL see 18 to 24 wit STANDING BOBZ...



As u SEE me SO, I No de LIKE STRESS oooo..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram ALL DIS 1 Na long matterz..



ASHAWOO na d BEST tin!




abeg I JUST from ASHAWOO house de COME back now and de ASHAWOO BANI wey I NACK really do me justice..


she nearly CHOP off my PREEK..


abeg WAITING I need now Na to just LITE UP my WEED in peace.



WTF MAN!

i926:
Last Saturday, a married couple walked into the office, bought some stuffs. What pissed me off was when the man wanted to pick an expensive stuff too, the wife told him no...he is a man. He should pick something lesser than hers, which he did without arguing.

So after they left,I asked my co-workers. Why would she suggest something cheap for the man that she claims she loves? From their answers, I noticed how narcissistically fvcked the mentality of these women are built. I had a long and great talk with my co-workers (mostly females), and they totally hate my philosophy which is understandable. Two said they would shoot me, if I ever get close to their husbands, their sisters would never marry someone like me...the single ones were also shocked to know the kind of person that I am.

They shared how men simp(ed) for them which they called love. Those stories almost got me crying for men.

How can we save millions of single/married Nigerian men that have zero idea of what they really got into?