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Well men let them

ubunja:
it's actually scary how totally and completely women have dominated Western society.

I’ve been seeing this phrase a lot these days and I love it...“let value match value”...nice one man

CaveAdullam:
DAY 338, REDPILL 2022

Don't relate or invest with people that have no plans and ambitions - the same for business and relationships.

Authority: Let value match value.

True tho women don’t like to be rejected especially the beautiful ones, the beautiful ones always believe you shouldn’t have the guts to reject them .
I’ve friend zoned some ladies that wanted something serious with me which maybe I don’t want but would like to keep them around.
But these ladies don’t stay in the friend zone they rather become enemies, bitter enemies.

SEGUE1:
I get choosen signals on a daily cause of my looks and personality (i look foreign and my hair is curly and brown)
The problem is that I can't have a conversation of any form with any girl without her avoiding me or cutting her eyes... Or behaving shy when we talk
The one thing i hate is a shy girl...(like just say something at least)
I get choosen signals from both old women to young women... Some men even say they wish i was a woman but almost every girl pretend like they hate me just cause they don't want me to find out that they like me... Or maybe they think playing HARD TO GET will get me to see their worth... IDC
My only saving grace is my behaviour ... I am amoral and non judgemental so the girls are always free with me... Telling me their dirty secrets and doing dirty things with me
Omo... If you see wetin i dey see... You go look sharp wan tym... You go dey wise by fire by thunder
I was born with Follow - come redpill...
I behave like a thug... i am a thug
I am certain that the thug - like behaviour gets women wett cus i get women both old and young drooling over me cus why... Don't know
The place i grew up was filled with cultist and bullies... Brigaders, Royal rangers and soldiers... You had to be a monster to live there... Besides the hottest chicks were fighting for the cultists And thugs
So i was redpilled without knowing what alpha fvcks and beta bucks was ... All the shii ubunja has been saying... I have experienced all that before and i fúck with all he has been saying... At a time i thought i was the one writing all that because i relate to everything
I have many stories to tell and i will dish them respectively as the days are going by.
But my main point is that women don't like to be rejected... They believe that they can get any man they want...
Even the girls that opened up to me about their feelings and i rejected them became my biggest haters... Gossiping and flaming me... Like these niggas were praying on my down fall and were flirting with my gees to make me jealous...
Life with women is thrilling...
Once you enter that hole, you can never come out...
Vawulence Takeover!

I will always support that anyone who have plans for women now, or maybe later in life should try to engage them. Sometimes they don’t correctly follow the pattern we preach here because the game improves everyday but how will you you know if you don’t engage them.

Calibrator:
What use is a loaded gun if you are not aiming it at a target?


To me, it would be a waste to be privy to all these knowledge and choose to avoid girls.



Heck, sometimes I act bluepill in an act of self sabotage to see things from majority other's perspective and thank heavens for the opportunity to be redpilled.

Start building projects with the knowledge you have gathered then, there are certain things you won’t understand until you put it into practice.
Don't spend too much time learning, practice more.

IwasNeverGone:
I have courses from Udemy, namely; Udemy-The Complete 2022 Web Development Bootcamp, Udemy - Modern JavaScript From The Beginning and Udemy - The Complete Web Developer Course 2.0.

The problem is not resources, the thing is, I do lose focus and tend not to complete each tutorial and thereby clustering everything and making it hard for me to understand, hence my need for mentorship and maybe a partner

Some days you might feel you’re getting nowhere
You might even be out of the vibe to code for a couple of days
You will feel you’re not making progress as if you’re just at the point you started
With the frustrations when you codes don’t work you’ll want to quit most times
I just want to tell you that this things are normal.
Don’t stop...
You talked about mentoring
Have you tried google and YouTube
The solutions to you problems might be there

IwasNeverGone:
I wish to remove shame and ask for some guidership from you sirs, I've been out of job and bought myself an HP folio 1040 laptop for programming, but lately I have been feeling all down and I honestly need a guru/amateur in programming that can guide/accompany me in this journey.

I honestly wish to be useful to myself and I really want to succeed in this journey.

My contact number is 090 2921 7538, that is also my whatsapp number, tho I might be offline due to the fact that I use an emulator via my laptop to access whatsapp, an SMS or phone call might draw my attention if you are interested in my offer.

Any monetary contribution will go a long way also, please my account details is UBA 2086 3945 21.

P.S. I really need a companionship/mentor in this programming journey.

Thanks and God bless

It’s a cheat code only women utilise

fattprince:
Exactly change of location is a real cheat code. It's something I've experienced. And I'm going to experience again. This time I want to optimize it like Optimus prime. I got there pvssies were thrown at me from left to right but only fvcked one hoping to come back home and continue from there but it's been so difficult. But now I've accepted fate until I change location again with my experience now I know how to go about it but with moderation sha.

Which female psychology books did you read please

AlphaTaikun:
Absolutely @Ubunja.

Most women are not prudes. That's why they are the main consumers of romance novels which they use to recreate their sexual fantasies.

With only words, a woman can be brought to the point where she violently reaches orgasm. Right from the very early 1990s I read an advanced book on female sexual psychology and I never looked at women the same way again. I was blown away.

Even more stunning is the fact that the clitoris is averagely 6 inches long
with the vast length being inside the female body, and the clitoris keeps growing for life! This is one of the reasons women desire more sex as they grow older.

Ubunja, I'm an OG here on NL since 2005, I visit this thread sometimes and YOU as a young man are doing very well to make men understand women! It's very important because the male-dominated society makes females to pretend a lot so as to avoid being called sluts or prostitutes. But if a man is able to hack into the primal female
psychology, she will not leave you alone or ask for a divorce. Worse case, maybe a temporary separation, but she'll always come back because of the advanced sexual imprint on her.


All the best!

https://www.nairaland.com/7395632/pure-water-seller-arrested-over

It is what it is

Jesus was also strong and sexy af, because I didn’t see any drawing or sculpture of him hanging on the cross where he didn’t have muscles, chiseled chest and nice abs

Pukkalolo:
Real talk brother.

Jesus wasn't a simp: women were spending huge on him NOT the other way round.

A woman rub a very expensive oil on his feet that even got his disciples pissed off. After she finishing washing Jesus feet with her hair, the woman began kissing his feet. The woman’s kissing of Jesus’ feet was a striking expression of affection.... and then she anointed his feet with the expensive perfume.

The woman’s actions could have put Jesus in a very bad light. Some might be stupid to think, "is there something going between Jesus and this woman behind the scene?"

Well, he doesn't give a shit about their opinion and thought. Jesus was a redpill fella.

The alpha guys get kissed and respected by women.... While the simps kiss women on their feet and chase after them and begging for pussy and affection.



Jesus was asked a “trick question” by some manipulative fellas.

Trick question is a kind of question that doesn't have a correct answer; which means you're automatically wrong no matter how you answer it.

They threw this trick question at him: "The Romans are occupying power. Should we, the good Jews submit to them by paying their taxes?"

Jesus instantly knew the game they were trying to play. They wanted to trap him.

He smartly asked, "whose image is on the coin of Roman money?"

They answered: “Caesar's”

Then Jesus said,

"Then give to ceasar what belongs to Caesar and give to God what belongs to God."

His answer confused, surprised and render them speechless. They never predicted that response. Jesus escaped their trap.

If you want to get together with attractive women, you've got exhibit "Unexpected” behavior NOT boring behavior.


Boring and Expected response:

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Man: "Hmm, hmm, what do you want. I'll give you anything you want.

Woman: "you are such a sweet heart and a darling."



Unexpected and Surprised response

Woman: "my birthday is next week, what gift are you giving me"

Pukkalolo: "I'll give you the best possible orgasm."

Woman: [playfully hit me on the shoulder] "I hate you. You are such an Asshole"




Once a woman can predict your behavior, she'll find you boring.

Always remember that women are attracted to unexpectedness and unpredictability. Use that to your advantage.



Jesus was teaching at temple, then some teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

Then threw a "trick question" at Jesus. They said, “Teacher this woman was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

Jesus instantly knew the game they are trying to play. They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him.

If he said they should stone her, they'd use that against him, accusing of encouraging murder and all. If he said they should free her, they'll accusing him of supporting adultery.

That was a tricky situation.

So Jesus smartly bent down and wrote in the dust with his finger. He use that to gathered time so he can think of how to respond to them.

But the mofos kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said,

“All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

Then he bent down again and wrote in the dust, waiting for their response.

When the accusers heard this, they walked away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.

Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

She said, “No, Lord.”

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Jesus was never judgmental. Although he never support adultery. But he believe that only God has the right to judge.

Like I always say, once a lady perceives that you are the kind of judgmental guy that label some women slut or whor_e and label some other woman good girl or proper woman, she will never want to give you the pussy easily. Because in her mind, if she give you the pussy easily, you'll assumes she's a slut.



Jesus wasn't a wimpy guy. When he went into the temple, he saw some marketers selling stuffs there. He has low tolerance for bullshit. He began to scatter and throw out their stuffs and he drove them.

He said, “It’s written in Scripture, My house is a house of prayer; You have turned it into a den of thieves.”

Those fella must have been really upset with him for doing that. Well, unfortunately, he didn't came to the world to please everyone. He had a purpose.

He takes lots of gut and confidence to do that. Jesus had fearless confidence.

I always say, "Fearless confidence' is #1 non-physical traits that makes a man appealing to a woman. And I always say, You CAN'T achieve fearless confidence if you are scared upsetting women.

You have to lose the battle to win the war: If you want to be admired by some people, then you must be willing to be disliked by some other people.

I had to learn the hard way that if I really wanted get attractive and fun women, then I was going to have to upset couple of women in the process. There are no two ways about it.

This is not just with women, but also life in general.

Stay blessed brothers

This is so true
Just what I was thinking about today...
Everything that has happened and is happening in our society today is what men allowed.
Women can’t plan and execute things on their own just like a man will do, they’ll always need men to allow them or execute it for them.
The society today is the result of the choices weak men made...

Herbworks:
Blame it on the guys who thinks a date should involve food. Most of them are scared of inviting girls to their houses because these same ladies have made it seem like it’s a crime for a guy to invite them to his house when they truly want to know where he lives in order to ascertain his wealth.

She’ll rather spend all day calling men names than actually advising younger women to make the right choices...
She’ll rather watch the younger women fail like she did than watch then make the right choice

akwesenana:
This one don reach here?
LmAo.
https://www.nairaland.com/7371446/men-most-wicked-being-earth

Smh...

I’m sure everyone knows that by now anything can happen when women are involved both young and old
I’m talking of reducing the risk, and being chosen reduces the risk

BigBashiru:
Women marry for security... if she "chooses you" - its for both psychological and financial security....moreover, if a better option presents even after they have chosen you, they will still explore....

I understand your point but I believe any young girl who chooses you will want to get married to you regardless of her age, where the problem lies mostly is in maybe arranged marriages or referrals or maybe cold approaching and convincing them into the marriage. Yes I’ve seen situations where when they get older they feel they were cheated but it’s always when the marriage was as a result of one of the reasons i wrote above.
Being chosen reduces that risk to the minimum...

BigBashiru:
Your thoughts are good and noble but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...

When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?

What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...

My dear evolve with the times or sink...

Women don’t like keeping weak men for long term, they just get as much benefits they can and leave them for other women to manipulate. The only time they keep weak men for long term is when they don’t have other options, even at that they’ll try to make him look very much unattractive so they won’t have to compete with other women as they themselves go out to Bleep attractive men.
That’s when they’ll come with things like.
“Working out is for small boys and lazy men”
“Who are you trying to look so good for, I love you the way you are”

It’s all a game
Bring a weak man to his lowest
Monopolise him
Go off to Bleep with the highest

atinga1:
Update your app

Thanks man

Please guys any ideas why binance earn is showing this since Tuesday

About that texting stuff we were discussing

No problems man
maybe I’ll create a GitHub repository and invite anyone who cares to join the development ?
I’ve always had that thing in mind before ubunja mentioned it

pillager:
Alright. Give me a few more days

Yeah with frameworks anyway, I know a bit of frontend.

pillager:
Can you do CSS at least small styling, i know backend devs do not like CSS.

Second paragraph is so true, I’ve not had sex for a long time now due to personal reasons... and I’ve realized that I’m attracted to girls that on a normal day I can’t even talk to.

ubunja:
just went and saw the video. and yes, it's about Hypergamy and how women are willing to share a single man if he's High Value enough. It's what we've been talking about. a woman will rather be number 10 to a top man than be the one and only of low value man. that's a red pill music video and shows female nature in its rawest.

the video also reminds me of something I've always wanted to touch on, now perhaps is the time...
One of the biggest reason why guys fail in getting a GF is because they're looking for a GF while they're SINGLE. it may sound confusing. But never look for love while you're not getting sex. Thats like going to buy clothes while nákéd, it's not going to be easy. cause for one you're hôrñy and desperate. The best way to get a GF is first to have a placeholder girl that you're dealing with sexually,, who's satisfying your physical needs on the regular. then, look for proper GF.
secure the sex first , then you can look for someone you can have something more permanent with. but always have that girl who's supplying sex so you won't deal with other women from a thirst position. you'll simp less, tolerate less and compromise less if you're dealing with a woman and you've options for sex that don't include her. cause the reason most girls themselves play hard to get and seem to have so much sexual discipline and self-control is not that they're morally superior or anything, but that they've options for sex that don't include you. so they're strong and poised around you only because they're literally coming from having sex with another guy just before visiting you. it's why a girl can say "No sex for 6 months" , as a way to see if you love her or not. so herself is she waiting for 6months too? no ways. every single day of that 6 month celibacy journey she's coming to you her pucc full of her own "placeholder guy's" sperm. she's getting heavily screwed on the daily. just not by you. as men this is a lesson we need to learn and practice.

Congratulations boy I’ve noticed you...

Fiscus105:
I like this ur achievement oOoOO. Hope u are awarded trophy, trophy you will show for children and great grandchildren.

It's just practice man
I was like this in secondary School until around when I wrote ssce then I started meeting guys older than me and we were placing bets on meeting girls, I don't want to fall hands so I joined that's what we did everyday after waec lessons. We did it for fun back then but it really helped my confidence. By the time I entered uni I was approaching every pretty girl like a mad man � without really having any intention or what to do with them.
So
Approach every lady you find attractive, make mistakes learn and keep repeating it it's fun

This is the kind of energy I always preach men should have in their marriage. Even at 120yrs and about to die always have that will power to leave the marriage.

Streak47:
**

I’ll work on the backend part of this when I’m free, what you said is true we need a backup

ubunja:
trolls are always sad miserable individuals longing for attention. No one who is happy with their life will feel the need to log into the internet and attack people. Happy people spread happiness, sad people spread sadness.

With that being said,, this thread is Legendary and will always attract all kinds of people. But it will never be derailed. And we're still waiting for our coders to make a plan and back up this thread somewhere online cause should Seu.n and his colleagues decide to delete it, all this gold will vanish.

The truth is women who like you genuinely
That’s women who chose you and not those you chose can do unimaginable things for you,
I’ve been in that situation severally... not that they did something as big or equivalent to Kidney but they sacrificed in their own little way.

Light999333:
Like I don't even expect a wife would that for me. The redpill has trained my mind to accept that a woman will leave you for another fellow when you need her the most. So, ever since I got to know about this dark side of a woman, I couldn't bring myself to fall in love comfortably with a woman. So that when she eventually leaves, I'm not shocked. My guard is always on. But this thing Eedris' wife did for her husband, challenges the theories of the redpill.

I’ll guess by saying this “I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice” you’re referring to your own advice ...

Babangidayaro:
These men are not lonely because they are not getting sex. Sex is so easy to get when you are a man with a decent job and some disposable cash. Worst case you go to a prostitute.

The truth is that these men are lonely because they do not have soulmates, spouses, wives, girlfriends and meaningful relationships. Please let’s get our facts right.

And I cannot believe you will advise men to just go and make babies with random women. That makes no sense. Do you know this is the beginning of financial ruin for many men? Do you know what this does to the children? Just imagine men going out and making babies all over the place in an already overpopulated world with very limited resources. And then tomorrow we complain about high crime rates, and increase in the number of armed robbers, kidnappers, hired killers, yahoo boys and prostitutes.

I honestly feel very sorry for anyone that listens to this kind of self destructing advice.

I’m glad men are enlightened these days, everyone is almost woke at the same time... can’t wait to see what the society looks like in like 5yrs time

Nasri100:
Women getting played by their own game and complaining

I just feel this whole thing has a lot to do with environment too cuzl in my finals in school I knew an igbo girl who was born and grew up in the north till she came to school down there at the South south. I noticed her character and behavior was just very much different from the rubbish we have here, she then introduced me to another igbo girl that grew up in the north, I just realized that they were just different...
But then as they spend time around here you know the environment started doing its work
Well I won't say they're now that rough
But then they're not the way they came something have changed

Reminderz:
good.. my boss who's a Yoruba man left Yoruba women to marry an Hausa woman because of these qualities I talked about... as time goes by, I see reasons why he made that decision... note I'm not saying they aren't in other tribes, but it varies, and more common in one than the other..

in fact, to marry more than one wife gan nor go be problem at all... she might even encourage you to do that because they are made to understand the religion perfectly and always respect their husband's decisions no matter what... I'm talking about the main Hausa gangan that spent most of their growing up days in the north.., not the one that's been brainwashed by modern society oo.. if you're also a Muslim, you go enjoy them the more... but if you as a Christian can get them, they might want to convert because of you if they like you.. we have good Christians among them... some of them are really practising the religion... not just some church girl or boy.. they are true Christian and Muslim, not churchy..

Exactly what I think, that’s why I’ll really go north. Among all my uncles the ones I admire their families the most all married northerners not necessarily Muslim
But I don’t mind marrying a Muslim tho

Reminderz:
it is not your duty to save any woman... if they can't give you their most fertile years, why do they deserve all what you've also worked or laboured for? they are turning you down because maybe you don't have what it takes...

the chances of meeting such person in places like school, offices, mall is slim.. ...but the irony is that, these type of women are mostly found in religious gatherings or schools.. as long as I hate to say this, the best women to get yourself wedded to and have a high chance of staying in marriage are Muslim women who hasn't been brainwashed by social media or society... if you're a well known in that community, you can easily be matched with these type of women.

the rate of immorality is low compared to the typical damaged modern women...

one of the reason I don't blame all these northern people about getting their kids married in early is that, it will curb the rate of immorality in the society to a greater extent.. what is the essence of sending your daughter to school for 5-6 years only to be ran through by dicks through all those periods or exposed to something that will change the way they think or perceive the world?? I don't hate the idea of getting women married off early, I only hate the way it's done.. some girls have hardly passed the puberty stage and some don't even have the necessary means available to carry it out... the women there are made to believe that it's family over everything else not chasing career and living the non challant lives which is why we still have women who came from this type of environment more reserved and respected in the society than the other areas...

the rate of divorce, single mothers, damaged women and infidelity is low in these type of society or areas compared to other parts of the world..