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How does one even think let alone write about a generator worth $13b Did OP even try to do the conversion to naira before writing this? Haba

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hurthubby:
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Do you stay in Ibadan?

Sorry, I can't reveal my identity anyway.

I do not stay I'm Ibadan sire. Lagos or Abuja. I'm not one who concerns himself with people's personal issues especially if it involves the institution of marriage so the matter of your identity is secondary. I'm ONLY interested in business. Thanks

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hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

iCauseTrouble:
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Posts like these is one major reason professional fvck boys are still in the business. They do everything in your "good" books but end up doing the "needful". What ladies have refused to understand is that there are no rule(s) to these things. Just because he keeps to the rules in your book does not mean he's into you and cos he doesn't keep to them doesn't mean he's not

Lol maybe na stove or iron e dey use

trendymarseey:
This kain spaghetti wey wan pre-boil for 20mins and still cook for anoda 20-25mins na which brand abeg?

#20000 per sqm

When it's time for the next presidential election, we must not fail to scrutinize every aspirant to find out what they've spent the last decade doing before we decide on who to vote for. Ever since Buhari became president, the conversation has centered around cows, ranching, herdsmen, Fulani radio, myetti allah, imported grass, Ruga, you name it. The poverty capital of the world whose primary concern should be how to take it's citizens out of extreme poverty discussing about cattles everyday? What a shame

Same question I've been asking

Beremx:
OK noted.

I just want to ask one question. Is it possible for Timi Dakolo 's wife to have developed Stockholm syndrome for the randy pastor after the rape? Because me I don't understand why she continued going to the church after she was being raped.

Just asking

Hello Seun. How do I reach you. I'll like to place an ad.

Seun:
What's the temperature range of the device?

Update: Price is now #11M

Sold

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Iyajelili:
He might end up as one himself

The second best president Nigeria has ever had after Umaru Yara'dua

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Well, goodluck to him

Budline1:
Exactly, she knows he still likes her and she wants to take advantage of that. He would be nothing but a mugu to her.

LOOOOL

majamajic:
he is Arsena Wenger ,. bringing young players up for big buyers

majamajic:
he is Arsena Wenger ,. bringing young players up for big buyers

So you kept in touch for 4 years even after she turned you down? You do not need any advice because you're still into her. And you know what they say about a man in love....a new "mugu" is born

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Lol "magnificent duplex with extension"

sassysure:
With that amount,somebody can buy land and build a magnificent duplex with extension and still have millions remaining.