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FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by chlowi(f): 10:14pm On Oct 19, 2014
butanep:
sorry abt it... I check ur pic N ur hip is just so sexy... nice one
grin do not look at my hips oo, admire that of your woman.

By. The way I know a good wedding planner who works with client's pocket.
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by chlowi(f): 10:11pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
in life, people most have different opinoin plz leave me to my own opinoin & state urs.
Obviously, am not holding you! This is a forum!!! And the Quote button has got it's uses wink Hope you get that?
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by chlowi(f): 8:47pm On Oct 19, 2014
butanep:
you have a point bro..
Bro? shocked am female grin
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by chlowi(f): 8:44pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
lol you are really funny. Ok like I said its my own opinion. Bear in mind that there are people who can spend 2m on marriage & still have enough to invest in property & are still earning good income. For some it will be too much & some its just ok & some its not even enough.
You are even more funny, lmao, Op posted to be advised, from his post, u can tell he is just starting life and has decided to take a goodstep and 1.5m to 2m is what you could come up with? Jesu, do u want him to go back and tell his woman that she should wait when he is worth 50m before he can proceed with the marriage.?

Pls, do not discourage young men from knocking doors oooh . Hell yeah I know people can even use 10mill and above for a wedding but op ws specific so why give such an exorbitant price for an average guy, it wd only discourage the op from taking baby steps let alone further steps!!!.
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by chlowi(f): 6:58pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
My own opinion. You should have a stable job or a good source of income. You should be able to rent a good apartment for ur new family & at least give your wife #30k to #40k every month for the up keep of the house.

Then for the marriage plan form introduction to traditional to white wedding have a budget of 1.5m to 2m naira.
Are you for Real? Is that nt too much? Just for a celebration? Is he Dangote's son? If he spends such huge sum, what happens to cost of living etc when the family becomes large?

Haba, Bia Nwoke, someone said 200k, my take is 500 (intro,trad, court, white) as a young man who is starting life , I'd rather you invest that 1.5 or 2m into bizness /or open a good business for your wife if she ain't working.

I'd rather lavish such amount on my anniversary!!!
CelebritiesRe: Who Wore It Better? Funke Akindele Or Rita Dominic? by chlowi(f): 6:40pm On Oct 19, 2014
sexyseun:
At 39years the only thing Rita does is wear clothes and go to parties, i wonder how she sleeps alone at night without worrying about her getting a husband or even a child.

Funke rocks it better in my own view. Old Rita without a coomon sense of direction,,, mscheeeew
Young woman, are you married? Do you have a child? If No I suggest you ask God for forgiveness for spewing such dirts about another when you yet unsure what the future holds for you!..

By the way is that you on your pic? Lol how typical... Time awaits you smiley
EducationRe: Federal Unity Schools Strike Has Been Called Off by chlowi(f): 11:58pm On Oct 17, 2014
Better. smiley
FamilyRe: TWO Years In Marriage!!! The Feeling, The Realization And Surprise. by chlowi(f): 8:52pm On Oct 16, 2014
Effective Communication remains one of the key item in any relationship, you both should have a real talk, before you initiate the session, Ensure that you both are in good conversational mood!.

Try this severally, and if this doesn't work call on people she respects. When you've done these, you would knw the next line of action.

May God see you both through.
PoliticsRe: PDP Welcomes Buhari To Presidential Race: Faults His Claims On State Of The Nati by chlowi(f): 1:30pm On Oct 16, 2014
kasiem:
olisa metuh has been the best publicity sec pdp has produced since inception, he's got the words and the message.
Tru
FamilyRe: Facebook And Apple To Freeze Eggs For Their Female Employees by chlowi(f): 8:12pm On Oct 15, 2014
carefreewannabe:
It is not easy for some men to survive in the civilized world.
They are strong as long as women are weak.

The time women become strong, their weakness is fully displayed.
True
EducationRe: The Use Of 'i Was Like Ok' By Nigerian Students by chlowi(f): 4:20pm On Oct 15, 2014
The phrase ' I was like' isn't just a nigerian thing, I remember a song, sung by Mariah Carey titled "why you so obsessed with me"
And in the intro of the above mentioned song, Mariah said 'and I was like why you so. Obsessed with me"? cheesy

They must have picked it up somewhere! Do research OP
FamilyRe: Males Been Raped! by chlowi(f): 2:36pm On Oct 15, 2014
Masculinists ko, feminist ni!

@Topic I am yet to comprehend it, that's one question I haven't been able answer myself, that is, how it happens grin the adult male molestation I mean, given the structure and form of the male gender .
And how this process of Molestation takes place perfectly without the hardness of that organ! Without some form of interest that engineers arousal from his loins to effect a successful session of the molestation cheesy
FamilyRe: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by chlowi(f): 2:28pm On Oct 15, 2014
These are some of the issues that ought to be raised during courtship. I do not see anything wrong with it, however the man (husband) has to consent to this!

Both parties have to agree, and who says once your married you have nothing to do with your father? Huh? For real?

No one prays for. A failed marriage but. Hey it happens and in. This case where do you fall back to?

Usher recently demanded his ex wife. To drop his name ooooooo (food for thought)

*jumps out through the Window*
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Graduate Trainee Recruitment by chlowi(f): 8:23pm On Oct 14, 2014
Wish all applicants of these posts success grin, may you find favour in God's eyes.
CelebritiesRe: Actor Clems Onyeka Killed By Stray Bullet In Asaba This Afternoon by chlowi(f): 8:16pm On Oct 14, 2014
He seemed to be growing in his chosen career. , RIP
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 6:52pm On Oct 14, 2014
[quote author=Arty2014 post=27142528][/quote]Thank you, most especially for comprehending my intended message.
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 6:10pm On Oct 14, 2014
WoodcrestMayor:
Dat "K" reply dey vex me die.
If u won't chat,why add up?

How are guys suppose to break ice?Sum1 has to make d convo move into gear.

There was one like dat (in my BBM days cheesy).I go send am msg,she no go reply until nxt day or evening-forming busy yet she dey change DP undecided.
I gave her benefit of doubt(just to be sure itz her style).She did it abt 2 more times and I deleted faster dan Usain bolt woulda done.

D foundation for smooth convo has to be laid first but dey neva allow dat;dey keep giving one word answers.

If u don't like a guy,don't give your contacts and if u give and don't wannna chat,delete it.Having 100 BBM contacts won't get u money at any Zenith bank counter.A girl(on dis thread) put a screen shot of her fone's homescreen to show dat she's in demand.Instead of reading or deleting she kept it like itz a trophy-thatz wat dey do...stop seeing it as levelz.Grow up...time isn't on your side. angry
Your post is so realistic! Your last paragraph tho, I have seen male colleagues and friends who do that too(homescreen thingy) even to their fellow niccurs.... and LOL @time isn't on her side! reminds of beyonce's song featuring chimamanda Ngozi Adieche's words grin? What's the title again? grin
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:52pm On Oct 14, 2014
pansophist:
Ok, lets turn the table around. How will you feel if you message a guy and he didnt reply? he blatanly ignores you like you are worthless meanwhile deep in you, you might need an important info from him?

You owe no one apologies doesnt mean you should treat them bad. Why accept/add them if you know you wont talk to them? why stress it? In as much as I agree that its your choice to reply and talk to male folks, ignoring their message is rude, I wonder which society you grew up in that made you think its normal. Delete them instead and make it clear, let them know where they belong
Do you read to comprehend or you read to reply? Beacuse if you read to comprehend, you would realise from my reply to you that. I stated, I do not snub!!! As a matter of fact I reply you in a courteous manner until you make a diversion into sometime I do not and rather not discuss with you. Which I would state clearly (with hopes that you give up the topic) that I am not interested!!!

Now to ans your question, snubbing someone (male/female) is rude I do not deny that, now if I want info from you, I write you in a decent, respectful manner and state my intentions clear, if you ignore fine! Payback remains a biaaaatch.

You asked what society I grew up, I will oblige you smiley
I grew up in a society that teaches you that respect is earned!
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:32pm On Oct 14, 2014
CoCoLav:
That's why its important to have only your close friends on your BBM and not some random guys who chatted you up at a party or on the street corner because your friends know when you are busy and will forgive you when you read their chats and reply two days later.

They won't come ranting on NL about how much of a snob you are...
Am telling you!
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:30pm On Oct 14, 2014
pansophist:
Lol, and thats the best you can come up with? Infact to be more specific, Nigerian ladies have a stinky attitude and the OP post is a typical example of it.

So according to your book, complaining about the dirty attitudes of female ignoring a male friends is acceptable right? hence you tagged them as a victim.

You are a typical example of the girls he is referring to, I blame those boys that inflates your ego so high, that you lost common ethical skills in social communication.
It is simple! If someone ignores you, ignore them back, generalizing and using such demeaning words on the female folk was rather uncalled for. I bet you, it is not every girl you chat up with on social media, so why the mighty fuss about the ones who ignore you?
Personally, I do not snub people and that doesn't mean I entertain every convo from every male common, would you like your woman to be that kind of lady?
I do not know about the kind of ladies HE referred to, but I work for my own money and pay my own bills and I live a contented life and rely on no one! Whatever my man gives me is a plus.

Some guys can be really nasty, u give em an inch they wanna take inches.
If I do not find your messages reasonable enough or you ain't talking business ideas or innovations or politics am so ignoring you! Its my life my rules! I owe no one apologies!

Friendship is good yes.! But I refuse to respond to every dick and harry in the name of observing your so called ethical skills in communication.
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:03pm On Oct 14, 2014
kandiikane:
I'm confused here. So a woman should sleep with every man that has been chasing her for months? I mean if your situation with her doesn't change for months then it could be she just isn't into you. You make it seem like she is obligated to like or sleep with you because you have been sniffing her azz for months. The latter is why you get treated the way you do.
cheesy bros I tire, his post stinks of frustration and sheer bitterness of a victim of such cases!! I totally understand
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 4:56pm On Oct 14, 2014
Brymo:
dats way too harsh dude and d Voice of correction is way too wack a line.
I'd rather say childish...
CareerRe: 18 Things I Wish Someone Told Me When I Was 18 by chlowi(f): 1:00pm On Oct 14, 2014
Thank you so much for sharing!!!
InvestmentRe: What Investment Can I Do With 600k And Get Back Double By Decrmber by chlowi(f): 10:58am On Oct 14, 2014
OCTAVO:
@OP, pls run away from betonmarket, binary, forex etc. Invest in a physical business you can see. Dont gamble with your 600k. Good luck!
cheesy
PoliticsRe: Chief Diepreye Solomon Peters Alamieyeseigha (DSP) Son Dies In Dubia by chlowi(f): 9:38am On Oct 14, 2014
Avalani:
Life is not always about what you or anyone else wants. Life is, what life is.
I know wink that is why I began my statement with I WOULD NOT WANT!!! And we don't get to choose our fathers do we? smiley
PoliticsRe: Chief Diepreye Solomon Peters Alamieyeseigha (DSP) Son Dies In Dubia by chlowi(f): 9:34am On Oct 14, 2014
akeem0502:
If I was Alams son I would have come out openly and discredited my father, I won't go ahead and flaunt my father's ill gotten wealth. Screw him even in death, this would serve as deterant to other thieves
Often times people don't do what they say! smiley!!! Do you know him personally? How are you sure the wealth which you presume he flaunts is his father's?
RomanceRe: Who Do Ladies Dress To Impress? Men Or Other Ladies by chlowi(f): 12:02am On Oct 14, 2014
I dress to feel good
CelebritiesRe: TY Bello Delivers Twin Boys After 9 Years Of Marriage by chlowi(f): 11:18pm On Oct 13, 2014
Glory Glory Glory to God Almighty!!! Congratulations TY Bello
CelebritiesRe: TY Bello Delivers Twin Boys After 9 Years Of Marriage by chlowi(f): 11:17pm On Oct 13, 2014
msmon:
TY Bello, is she not the lady who sang the song titled 'the land is green'. Oh, congratulations to her and her family.

On a lighter mood, the kids probably waited for so long because the 'land isn't green' contrary to what their mum has said. Just kidding!
Lol

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