What a coincedence .....

One4me:


The @Op said:

How many people cant figure out that once you are legally married in Court to someone, you are Husband and Wife.
Even if you do traditional and not Court Marriage, you are married but with a lot of "non-recognition".
People sef.

Oh absolutely they are married legally .... Op was coming from the spiritual angle, Prayers and his belief in God ... Now the only Marriage rite the bible mentioned was Traditional.... or Op isnt a christian ?

Oluromantic:

Your talk is out of line already

yet u still quoted ?

Oluromantic:

I don't see how the bolded is necessary. A point was made and that's what for better for worse is about.

@op what pleases you may not be what is right. Don't act out of anger, anguish or retaliation. I gave that advice cus I see from your write up that you believe in prayer. So my advice was simply commonsensical. Do what is right not what pleases you.

Actually , it doesnt have to be necessary to give me a good laugh .

on doing what is right ... A man who is yet to perform the traditional marriage right of his union? afyer 10 solid years of co-habiting ? ya all Holies ... That is the Only union btween a man and a woman that God recognizes ... so why dont you start with that as the right thing ? which one be pray about it ? Omo God dey try ooo

Nuel4:
she has spiritual husband who is fuccking her steady. I normally don't believe in this crap but last week, a girl in my compound told me about her spiritual husband, she said before she went for deliverance, she doesn't even enjoy physical sex at all. But once she is sleeping the demon will come and be fuccking her and she will be moaning, cum etc and once she wakes up she'll be very wet. These women have big big problems

women don suffer

Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

Oh my

Oluromantic:
The change in attitude of women once they cross the wedding border is scary. I actually don't know what to say. I don't support divorce and abortions so I'd advice you do the praying for her and hope that God changes her. You will triumph by God's grace

i dont know why i laughed out loud at the bolded. sounds like what Men usually advice women to do when faced with infidelity in their marriage

@Op... do what pleases you. i dont support adults acting incorrigable over issues they ought to act responsibly for. If all you said is true and madam has remained adamant , refusing to seek help ... pls by all means..... do what pleases you... But wait a minute ... u actually mean ur dick is bitten 3 times yearly ? this one loud gannnnnnnnnnnnnn

she was justb6years old

every governement parole for naija ...na so so slot slot slot ... at the end the deserving masses get little or nothing .....what is the point dishing out slots to law makers who have been empowered to assist their constituents ?

Bostin:
Dear NL family ,this is my bitter experience . She was a Deeper Life girl when I met her back then in 2014 but now a Devil in human form . She brought Pains and shame into my life and took the only daughter I suffered for away from me because I was broke and helpless., I never did anything wrong than being broke , I put in my best and treated her like a Queen with humility but she betrayed my trust.
Let me start from when I met this babe back then at National Open University when I just returned from the UK, we were both student back then. We started as a friend but later end up dating. She later knew I just came back and planning to go back soon .We do have Sex as she wishes being her addicts, though I'm not too sex freak but I always respect her demands. Soonest , She started begging me to impregnate her before I travel back but I refused , shortly she planned the pregnancy and succeeded. Initially , I felt bad and disappointed for what I have no plans for but later take my faith due to my late age.I told my parents about it and they agreed to a family introduction which we eventually did .Aftermath I told her to stay with her parents to have the baby to let me have time to work things out before we could live together as family but she refused and reigned her job and moved in with me with the pregnancy .
To God be the glory we had a baby girl though through CS because the she is asthmatic. We started living happily in a small rented apartment because I wouldn't want to use my savings to further my greener pastures journey on bigger rent and at the same time had an ongoing two bedroom bungalow project in my town. I tried applied for visas in six different attempt but to all avail, I told her about the last visa refusal and also told her I won't be process anything for now again but face life here in Naija for awhile. My NL Fam , that was the beginning of my sorrow. She changed totally and started disrespecting ,arguing and violence. She seized being my friend but gave me depression. Instead she returned all her attention to her Ex and her family. At last , She left with my daughter to her mum's house because her dad is late ..
She did not end it there as she go about telling people bad things about me and my family to justify her actions of leaving. She threatened she won't let me see my daughter again. Later I received letters from Welfare to come talk on child support ,then proceed to the Court where the judge grant her the custody of the child and instructed me to be paying monthly support . Many time she won't pick my calls to talk to my daughter unless I beg. I was thinking suicide but God saved me with his blood.
Recently , I saw a Facebook message a guy sent to her, whom happened to be her boyfriend and accused her of sleeping with his friend, the guy said " you were complaining about your ex daddy something not knowing you're the Demon, if you continue like this you won't have a home of yours " .
I showed my mum this message and we both cried heavily that why did God allowed this Demonic girl in our life . I also sent her the screenshot of the message, she did not deny but warn me to mind my business and let her enjoy her life and F*ck whomever she want .
I tried to chat the boyfriend to find out what was wrong to know if truly I was a bad person she told everyone. The guy was so angry and told me he has nothing to do with her and don't want to see her again. He said someone gave him my baby mama and he intended marrying her because he's a single Dad of two with late wife but he later find out that the guy that gave him my baby mama also has slept with her which they both lied but he find out himself. He said that reason and some other things make him to send her out of his house when he got another woman to marry . This boy is a Yahoo guy , his profile says it all and I heard about a deal of 2m naira they both did , him and my baby mama through my baby mama younger brother . I asked the guy , he said Yes , he had a deal and used her account and gave her her share . He advise me to focus on my daughter and forget about her for life .. Fam , you won't believe the boy that gave my baby mama to the yahoo boy is her ex which I know very well and stayed in the same city where we lives when together . This boy used to call her day and night back then but she always told me he's her brother calling nothing knowing that was the evil that destroyed my happiness ...
I am at the middle of a deadly ocean of life , my daughter is with her and She now said I shouldn't call her again but go to the welfare if I need to see my daughter , her younger brother threatened he would kill me if I do .. Please be my guides I'm confused and depressed .
Thank you and God bless

where una dey jam these coven women biko.... im sure u fell for the clove of deeper life she adorned herself with..... are there no legal actions u cud take too? .....

keko14:


haaaa poultry u well so

for even mentioning fishery... he definately not ok ooo

IduNaOba:
Only the heavens know the lashing this abike got after she tried to downplay the hushpuppi story the other time.
The lashing really went a long way to restore some parts of her brain yet she still mentioned an igbo name just to show off her tribalistic tendencies.
Yeye sombori

A very stupid move .... the igbo name calling was a turn off totally .... ... she is definately a tribal bigot ...

Truth is many Nigerian public figures wd rather celebrate Fraudsters for what they gain from them instead of speaking up against them or refusing their company.. Imagine the sum stolen

I am yet to read any article by Freeze in paricular , condemning fraudulent acts ...truth is the man is a clout chaser .... im indifferent about his preachings regarding tithes ...in my opinion, do what works for u.

MasterJayJay:

He made this statement.> "Hushpuppi pays his driver ₦700,000 per month. You people that are dragging him, you are doing houseboy work and they'd pay you ₦35,000. You'll go on Instagram and abuse Hushpuppi. Instead of you to beg Hushpuppi so he'd use your father as a driver"

Mumu was celebrating a stolen wealth. Mumu was insulting people's father because of Hushpuppi. Now that wind don blow and the nyash of the chicken can be seen. The mumu has FREEZED.

That Daddy freeze has always been a two-timing bastard (forgive me ) .... i recall when he was also hosted by OPM pastor in PortHarcourt. Those saying he had no idea what Hushy may have been into regarding his source of wealth.... Freeze looked like an ass licker in that video with Hush ... like he was scared to ask those hot seat questions he dishes out to others . He knew quite alright that there wasnt anything legit abt the now restrained PAPI abi PUppy ... yet he chose to keep that company......and even celebrated it publicly.....and mocked other well meaning nigerians who questioned Hush's source of wealth....

Bash92:
This life sha, God grant him his first wish, which is to reach 70.

Baba God na 95 i want o, in good health, happiness and wealth.

amen

tgis man no get chill....

Imagine the nerve... this guy has got guts ........ that amount is over 160Billion naira ..... my Goodness ..... im not sure he wd get less than a life sentence .......

Amazon gift card needed asap.... please come with your best price.

everyday ...it is one sad news or the other

i my heart goes out to her son.......

paulolee:
na e be things oo..all man de form saints and blaming thier ex bt for my own case am d one at fault..it was as a result of when a bea loves u too much, took her love, care and feelings for granted even if na she be the only bea wey i don date wey de wire me because she was working and i wasnt, still dnt kno why she sticked with the broke me, felt useless having nothing to affer to her than just sex and come still they cheat on her...long story short, got a new catch on f.b and lied to her dt i nid 30k to travel n go see my sick uncle in d village(lamba) she gave me 20k and i travelled to p.h to lodge d weekend with d new catch...came bk and saw breakup text on my table, bea knew all abt dt p.h lamba bt jus played along and still dnt kno how she knew about it, tried calling and texting and she said i should jus forget abt her dt she even planned poisoning me or sending street boys to attack me bt she jus pitied me....dt was wen i knew av lost a diamond...**stella if u are reading this, is Paul, its 3 yrs bk and pls am SORRY**

wow....

ProfDview1:


Rubbish... Women nags for senseless reasons

you sound like you had a good portiins of naggings ... that you are quick to generalize...

should i call this a miracle ?

[quote author=lefulefu post=90599716]few women nag for postive things .majority of the nagging is for material benefit .[/quote

am glad you agree about the minute number who do for positivity �

will telling him change the situation? or you just want to tell hin so he is aware ? ..... asking over the internet will not change the fact that you are drawn to sapios ..... if he ticks on everu other box except intelligence then let it be . how about you find an intelligent chronic cheat who at the long run doesnt show u an ounce of respect ? think abt it in several dimensiins and pick ur pot

lefulefu:
some women nag for very foolish reasons like u didnt buy that expensive wrapper last month u promised her or the 2019 prado jeep u promised her is enough to cause nagging and quarrelling amognst some ladies if u dont fulfill the promise.they dont care if u had a setback that made u not to fulfill the promise.as long as u dont give dem want they want they start nagging and sulking about the place.

mehnnnn the way i detest those ones who nag foolishly ehn ? i cant imagine being so inconsiderate to a hard working man. Truth is if she nags for a particular atritude the man has refused to change for ...id understand bt to nag for material things the man hasnt or is yet to get for her .... its a turn off

you never ready to marry

am just out here whistling

Age is just a number ... Happiness is paramount

Tajbol4splend:




My dear nagging kills relationship, kills love

truthfully it does .... what is worse is being with a man who refuses to see no wrong in his actions .... its all inter woven

why would i want to go swimming with another man ? when i have female friends and my man ?