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Op, I will write from experience, 3years ago, I was working at a kitchen company, my pay W's btwn 50k to 70k, well I worked for the company as a sales person and made a lot of contact, as times past, the zeal of being my own boss continued to grow in me, I had a knack for hair making, during my stay at d company, I saved up to a million naira, because all I could think of was to start a beauty parlour of my own.
Well to cut the long story short, I resigned, against all words of advice I got from family and friends to keep my job then, start the business and keep it running for a year, before leaving finally.

I got a place, and all the equipment required for a standard unisex salon, boom, d salon was up and running but within three months, I started to see why I W's advised to keep my job and run the business for a year, the first year was very challenging, because it entailed. Building a strong loyal clientele who would have to get used to patronising and getting used to your location, the cash wasn't coming in as I anticipated.

I wasn't even making up to what I earned after deducting salaries, and paying bills monthly, as a matter of fact nothing, I also had some challenges that required extra finances to settle to boost my business up, but because at that initial stage, there wasn't any other source of income and I as d ceo W's making barely nothing a month, I became stuck , broke and didn't even know where my next rent (house and shop) was to come from.

Behold, after 6months, I was back to the market, hunting for job, I soon got another job! And it became much easier.

Where am I headed? All I am saying in a nutshell is, stay with Ur current job, kick strt ur business, run the 2, give your business 3 years to stabilise, before you finally resign. I only pray, you can jiggle through both.... all the best.

fowowe411:
Bros, bros, bros how many times I call you? Na money dy push music o... No leave that comfort zone o..... because jungle rough die..... I don yarn my own o

I swear down! Real Talk!

Pineapp:
You actually confirm they are following you when you're downloading something and it fails at 99%

Or when ur LIKES stop at 99. Lol

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cococandy:
Nobody is going after the men. They are going after the girls themselves. The way some married men deny their marital status, take off their rings and pursue young girls is alarming sometimes. If I didn't experience it, i'd have thought it was a lie.

As usual blame the west

Western men respect their wives. You don't mess with your wife like a fool around here or you will have grave consequences if she wants to drag your ass to court.

Pls blame who's to blame.
From blaming the girls, you've turned to blame the west. African men are no longer polygamous?

Will it hurt you for once to apportion blame where it belongs? Ugh! Jeez!

U nailed it. Let the men who defend themselves do so foolishly, we all knw they do the chasing nd entice these gals with material things .

Stillfire:
Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I am guided by certain rules and principles I have set a standard for myself to the extent I can never date, let alone marry a babypapa. I know my worth and my worth requires 100% dedication in my relationship, marriage. I do not do half, quarter love. Material wealth does not move me, I will be content in one room with a dedicated, faithful husband. Also with my capabilities, I can provide for myself. All I need from a man is his faithfulness, companionship, ardent respect for family.

What standards have you set for yourself?

Don't think women can't/wont cheat. Despite the stringent punishment society places on cheating women, women still cheat. Imagine if those rules don't exist.
It's best to stop looking at cheating as a man thing. I always say that the standards we hold women by regarding this subject, you need to hold men by it. Society needs to see cheating as anathema in men rather than condone it.

May the odds favour you ...... you spoke well

Tay16:
talk about wanting to have your cake and eating it. My opinion was very meaningful and God will surely make it come to pass. As a man sows, so shall he reap.

The Vendetta ...funny how what we wish others we reject , thank you for responding

0rex:
Google one manhood pic & send to him na.

Abi?

AllNaijaBlogger:
Applies to men too


Rude, BMF (blow money fast), dependent men are not marriage material...

True

dinachi:
Amaechi lost contact with the people...Dakuku is a good man but a very poor politician and very weak personality. I saw him a few times and I was sad that he wasn't bold and confident. On the other hand Wike love him or hate him was everywhere throwing everything at APC. He sounds very convincing and delivers his arguments with great confidence and boldness. Amaechi should have looked for a very strong character to match Wike... Wike completely outclassed Dakuku as a politician. As for the hand bill depicting Amaechi and Dakuku as betrayers, I still do not know why they couldn't counter it with their own that will depict Wike as a betrayer of rivers people and pursuing an Ikwerre agenda by insisting to replace amaechi. If I was in Amaechis shoes, I would have won the state elections hands down.

your smart

ogmask:
he decamped when he was lied to that buhari will be disqualified.

Ok. Thank you for the info, in a game like politics people are bound to decamp to any party of their choice, the or poster who spoke to him in that manner had no right whatsoever to! We must all learn to respect people's opinion or wishes whether they align with ours or not

bayulll01:
Bye kee,aint done with u whoreee,av u called ur maaamaa to ask who ur father is,it runs in the family,mother biatch,daughter leechh,LovePeddler hoe bag,I only pity ur unfortunate daughter,uselesss mofo

Ok kiddo, you had to call your mum to confirm how she went from door to door selling he kitten huh? Buhahahahah, , next time you wanna call a lady a. Whoree you shd. Remember your conjiled mum's kitten!!! Silly mofo!!!

bayulll01:
Ehn back hoo bag did u just call me a foool,I guess ur maamaa dint know ur papa a slutty mother given birth to a leech,awon oni ra nu,may ur slackky kitty wall never get back to its normal side,smelling biatch

Stale... esp coming frm a fagggot whose anuus drips live maggot as a result of excessive peniss entourage. Son of a whoree ok bye

bayulll01:
Wait I will be back I will shred you to the bin

Shred? Lmao! You mean word exchange? Na I'll deflate you with silence, because silence is the best ans for a FOOL and a Shameless gay! Go on now wiggle your tail for them... lmao, bye am out!!!

bayulll01:
Looser whoreee I don't talk to dummb person,especially the slutty one,run along gues u are hornyy I don't do leech

first and foremost you cant even spell properly you so dumb faggy
your a faggy because you exhibited a character commonly found amongst women (womanwrapper thingy you get ? this convo prooves it
as for you using the word whoree(ur own spelling ) what do u expect ONLY THE SON OF A WHOREE WOULD CALL A FEMALE A WHOREE (faggy, aint nobody gat time for that ) .... as for the hornyYY ..... mmmmmm BITCHH I JUST ATE(IN NICKI'S VOICE ) ...... so go get your anal hole filled up and keep calm ... lmao

bayulll01:
Leech everybody knows barcanista soul is deteriorating so madam slutty look for another person to ride on,I don't do hooo

on the contrary, your the hoo, because only a hoo would sound that way, you speaking for every body now because you'v had a long ride with them all i suppose ? how was it ? lmao your anal organ should be checked, cos without doubt that gutter hole must have lost it's elasticity .....

bayulll01:
Barcanista a clown don't worry it will be well I understand you are still bitter about gmb wining

i thought he has always been a pro GMB?

bayulll01:
And when apc applied first in edo and latter gave it to pdp it was not "first come first served abi"God will save your soul from deteriorating

how can you speak to someone in that manner, it goes a long way to show how much your own soul ha deteriorated. nonsense

ayusco85:
google is your friend. thanks

Pity!

ayusco85:
I think the Igbos should respect their host, and try and do what will bring peace and peaceful co-existence. No one will go to Aba or Onitsha and try to claim relevance or drag rights with the true indigenes of those areas. Lagos belongs to the Yoruba's, like it or not.

#VoteNotFight
#OneNigeria
#Peace

hi, your post caught my attention . i was amazed at your level of intelligence. could you kindly define the word CITY for me ? thank you

i Op,
Firstly, i want to assure you that the situation which you find yourself has been faced and conquered by a lot of people. Secondly you are not the only one facing this challenge. it can really demoralize and dampen one's spirit , many a times it leaves many with low self esteem . But in all you need to trust God and go the extra mile of hard work to change this.

i will be as short as possible in my write up as i am currently working on other stuff

1. please pray to God about it
2. you need to have the zeal to change the situation.
3. identify the problem (medical or otherwise ), if medical, please see a doctor. Otherwise ? continue reading
4. please do not eat or drink after 6pm, if you must, ensure you eat/ drink in small quantity/amount
5. Before bed , make every conscious effort to pee at least 3times every night, if you would require help, call on a relative to wake you up every one /two hours to go pee.
6. THE FAMOUS PEE DREAM: op you need to speak to your inner man to be alert even in sleep, because the bible also mentioned sleep as one of the times a christian can be vulnerable. tell yourself that what you see in that dream is not real (seeing yourself urinating in an exotic toilet in a dream only to be awakened to a stream of your own urine drenched in it , while sleeping ) train your unconsciousness to wake up when you experiencing the pee dream because psychologically , that is your brain telling you you need to go urinate , only that it plays a fast one on you (deceit), so the challenge here (which is not too hard if you really want to stop bed-wetting) is to wake up when you see that dream .
7. remember its not easy but it is doable , the reason i said pray about it .once you do all of these consistently for a period of 3months, if your condition is not a medically related one , then your problem is solved .

i wish you the best and ill say a prayer for you. cheers.

Demburrows:
Now the then reality of things are now begining to pan out.
Jonathan defeat was masterminded.

I did need further convincing when I heard GMB's campaign punchlines. They sounded so Obama like

mercato:
Victory in Defeat

Exactly

Huh? 7 gini? Now am disappointed! Choi

Yeah? Ma,you saying we shut our mouths about the money?

goodmorning40:
I look forward to the day we begin to have single father's too, the day our men will stop being cow brained and begin to live up to their responsibilities if u can't handle it then leave the girl alone ur life does not depend on konji

O My you blew my mind away with this comment! Thank you

The news recently is been so disheartening

Such perversion! Rip to that Little girl! I can imagine the horror she faced when she drew her last breath.

Lol, this got me!

delishpot:
Hmnnnn. This story get as e be oh. Since she started doing it(according to him), she did not kill herself. They did not argue, he did not accuse her after junior told him what he saw, she prolly did not even know junior told him anything. They never fought over her alleged infidelity, he was so sweet to even go to tell her he was leaving for work and since she was angry and refused to speak to him, he decided to go to her window to tell her? Howmany men will try to make sure they see their cheating wives to tell her they are leaving for work? Most men will just say it (if they care) at the room door and pick their keys and leave.
Then she decided to kill herself?
Abeg, they should make that mam talk.
He is a smooth cri........l.

Smart!

haibe:
This country is a joke honestly

Serious joke

PAGAN9JA:
Madame dont teach me hw to use my brain. U must be a member of this satanic cult. Hw can u worship this jewish man as a GOD?

The man-deity of the very same ppl who looted our nation and enslaved your forefathers.

Have some shame plz!

Lol,I only ask that you do not cause religious e_fight on the thread! looking at your Moniker I do understand. No need to oblige you.