₦airaland Forum

Personally , I tink its a thin of choice , for instance , if I truly love my man and he isn't so financially stable and he is got potentials , ill marry him I for one don't ebven want the flambouyant wedding , we cud do a low key wedding , I know on my own am not a lazy woman , we both wd pt heads together , drink that garri together and see to it that we become made. Once a man is hardworking and smart success isn't far anymore . As a woman I also need to look at our financial capabilty before having babies , so far we can rent a house and feed and transport , 2 heads are always better dan one , so far the man and the woman work hard , if I can date a man why wnt I marry him ? ?? But den again sme men tend to forget in a hurry the woman who stood by them wen dey had nothing ...
My advice is , you don't have to be millionaire before u marry , at the same time don't be a lazy man that's wen I will not marry you .

SUNNY45: @Chlowi...Nice composition, but am sure u know guys have groomed so many girls and once they get a pinch of exposure, they bcome Boko Haram.

Thanks for the complement but that is wwhy I said wife her asap cos am duely aware of the point u just made

I personally tink you are d reason for the problem you are already having , ur not married to her yet and she is cheating generously distributing her kpomo , why set rules or list as you call it as regards whom u can date and marry ? Sometimes we might want smetin bt that's not wht we need . Most men always want d already made gals by already made I don't mean money , why not pick on a natural gal whom u can groom to become the woman u want and see if she wd cheat on you ? Am sure ur list must contain extremely beautiful lol .... Well dts ur concern bt ill add dis , that lady wd never stop cheating on u its like a man beating up a woman , once u hit a woman once u can never stop. Pls go out dere and get a girl whom u can nuture to complete ur list and dnt date her for too long wife her asap

Plsssss hold it , this story is everywhere and stale

OooH no not again !!!! Pls admin pls may I suggest that rather than this silly threat of ban , could u kindly include the deactivate button? Gussshhhhh too many ban threat !!!!!

Errrrmmm beautiful I must say buuuuuuuut why do u guys keep posting picture of her every week , does that solve any of the problems nigeria is facing currently ?

Can wee just go back to being colonized? But this time by americans nt Briticos ! Cos naija isn't getting any better since independence rather its vanishing ...every day one bloody menace or the other ... U might tink its a stupid idea but when we can't handle our issues properly den its better smeone else does. Look at Ghana , how many times do we get to hear of such scary tins ? Nigeria is like an infant who ought to be looked after by an adult or day care (america)

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

Nice ...but errrrrm Sir or madam what stops you or ur your children(if uv got any) from leading the protest ur campaigning for ?

Mudley313: abeg leave ur god out of this. if ur imaginary god will cure him why did he allow him to have the cancer in the 1st place? he's lucky he has the means to seek treatment with specialist abroad who are the ones that will try and "treat" his ailment, not ur god...

get well soon bro

Who is this ill_fated fellow spewing gabage from his decaying oral cavity? Well Jehovah GOD isn't a tyrant unlike urs , he is merciful and he shall show thee and thy generation mercy

@seun
First of all (go down low) ooops sorry , first and foremost I want to thank you for your reconsideration as regards rule 17. Wheather u strike it out or modify it to Religion only , however its fine by me ...Indeed you have proven a wise person as that rule probably wud have led to many abandoning this site myself inclusive .an enviable trait I must commend .
Secondly , in your adjustment pls reconsider rule 21, because the fun of having the site is to be able to express ourselves in our very own languages (nigerian) which to me is the spice of NAIRAland . NAIRA stands for every nigerian language /behaviour as well as our CURRY spice PIDGIN english... Dnt try to oyinbonise it else it wd smell sour... Like a famented egwusi soup...
You all so gbaguned tooo (STRIKE OFF instead of STRIKE OUT)
Once again , thanks

BY1434: Kudos to you Seun for instilling discipline in this polity,i dont know why some people are so averse to change and adhere to rules and regulation....some people who consider rule 17 as favouring the muslims are doing so out of sheer prejudice cos it is obvious that islam religion has been at the recieving end all the time..........its not compulsory you comment on islamic religion section if you can not be civil about it..I want to implore my fellow muslim to please not abuse other religion cos respect is reciprocal and its against islam to cast aspersion on other people believe.thanks

Why wnt u support? Bloodsuckers

I refuse to allow this topic sadden my day All ye children of ISHMEL ..

Vancouverplus: 1st

Disappointed

Ill forever stand in line with a Religion wit a God that fights for them rather dan d followers doing the whole work themselves , a religion that its followers can stand criticism without them taking to arms and mass murder . A religion that tells you its by WILL not by FORCE... CHRISTIANITY FOREVER

Seun: My Fellow Nairaland Members,


Rule 17 is the most controversial rule because it sounds unfair. My fellow moderators have debated this rule at length and it could not be changed. We cannot extend the prohibition against offence to other religions because that limits your freedom of speech, and we cannot remove that rule without jeopardizing security and the safety of lives. Sorry about this.

Best regards,
Seun Osewa.

YOU MUST REALLY THINK WE ARE STUPID !!!

U haven't even gained admission into any higher institution and u already have a boyfriend ? Am sure if u had devoted much time u to ur books other than this infatuation you call love , you wd have made ur jamb , from what I can deduce you have been failing jamb repeatedly that your x man decided to use that to condition you . My advice to you is , get back to your drawing board , what are your life aspirations ? When u realise them and work on them soon they become your drive , and watch how success in turn wd tune in ...by the way that dude wants d best for u , directly or indirectly ,

RULE 17
I didn't know this is a sharia site , I once thought all religion and faith ought to be treated with respect .... I am tottally DISAPPOINTED

@least its nt a sin ba? Neither illegal, and pls who made d ettiques of eating ? A naturally imperfect being called human ba ? Pls NLer however u want to eat you meal do as u so please , so far u do not inconvienience others

Hmmmm, firstly I want you to check urself properly, see ur flaws and reticfy it . secondly , ill recommend that you sit ur man down and have a heart to heart talk with him , if he is remorseful and ready to change and be d man u once loved deeply pls forgive and make ur marriage work ....see how that goes , BUT if after such heart to heart talks he still continues in it , and u feel u deserve better , well ma dear marriage no be do or die matter , its nt working its nt working get d hell out bfor one of u wd poison d other

Lmao , see as their mouth dey run because na woman naim beat d man , if it ws the other way round I bet if this thread wd even get as much critism as it has now , blaming the lady lol serves him right , he prolly tot he ws gonna beat her to pulp bt got the opposite reult instead. Women shud learn frm this lady , anyman who wants to dish out beating to u , turn arnd and take of a vital part of his body that wd reduce d rate at which men beat women . Lol

If kaffy can stand to swear an oath that she did not grace one or 2 beds before achieving the height she is at now , then she can castigate her mum , bt if she ever did may Thunder shut her mouth up for ever speaking against her mum in public ... No matter the crime a mum is a mum, dnt wash ur dirty clothes outside...that woman remains ur mum and sint nothing u can do abt it . Bad or good ill love and respect her

The rate at which evil is done in daylight dese days makes me wonder ... I pray God gives the bereaved d fortitude to bear the loss ...Jesus Christ should just come already

its a pity that muslims no longer consider d christians as brothers even though we are different faith. bt my advice goes to all christians still dwellin in the north to retrn hom or better still GET A GUN . COS THIS IS NO JOKE

does he realise that some fins are better left unsaid naaaaaaaaaa nwaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhooooooooooooo

Re: Slaps Giving! By Bishop David Oyedepo Dehumani
« #7 on: December 17, 2011, 03:18 PM »

@ all the angered posters.

Allow me transcribe this girls encounter with the MOG for you:

MOG:, is broken in the name of Jesus.
Congregation: Amen
MOG: (talking to the girl) you've been there how long?
Girl: am not a "winch", I am a "winch" for Jesus.
MOG: you are what?
Girl: am, my own "winch" is for Jesus. I don't use,
MOG: you are a foul devil! Do you know who you are talking to? Foul devil (gives girl slap). Where are you from?
Girl: Am from Imo state.
MOG: when did you join witchcraft?
Girl: Am not a "winch", I am a "winch" for Jesus.
MOG: Jesus has not witches, you are a devil. You are not set for deliverance, you are free to go to hell.

@ dare2think
Quote
So, she came out only to be told she is not fit for 'deliverance'.
yea she came out for deliverance but she was surely not ready for deliverance. No one can force you into deliverance, you must willingly accept it. Did you listen to what she said? All you cared about was the slap which was actually as a result of her utterance. She was not fit for deliverance meaning she was not ready for deliverance, thats the reason the MOG said she was free (i.e @ her own will) to go to hell.

Quote
What warranted slapping her?
Her blasphemous utterance associating Jesus with devils activity which is witchcraft! It is not acceptable and very demonic statement. She knew what she was doing by say that. Do you think she came out for deliverance? She came out to utter those words in order to confuse the congregation and perpetrate her evil schemes. She deserved more than the slap but the slap was a demonstration of Jesus' victory over the devil who is her master. She was uttering what the devil put on her lips because she was surely possessed. So live with it bro!!!

Quote
Is Christianity not meant to be the religion of love?
Christianity is NOT a religion of love rather Christianity is love and love is Christianity.

Finally, you poster is clearly ignorant of what transpires in the spiritual realm. The devil is at constant war and struggle with God for the souls of men, so he does not play fair. He will do anything and everything to get the souls of men. If you are aware of this spiritual struggle, you will not be surprised at that slap because the implication of the girls statement is deep but you are blind and all you could see was the slap!

The girl is an agent and she was very bold to utter those words right before the MOG of that calibre! So she received just a token of disrespecting the MOG. But mind you, the words uttered by the MOG is even more devastating than the slap cos the girl must genuinely repent and seek forgiveness from the MOG which she will get if she's genuinely repented.

Have you ever been attacked by demonically possessed before? If you do not know anything about this, please stop the shout about the slap before you are slapped yourself.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>You call this right ? a clear case of violence and abuse ? well am not surprised cos you have been brainwashed, probably it should have been your mum in that lady"s shoes am damn sure u wnt have to run your mouth like this in public concerninn such a trivial issue , even the bible clearly states that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and power , speaking the word of God alone would have moved more mountains rather than infringing on her human right, what right does he even have to to judge her telling her to go to hell that she aint ready to be delivered ooohhhhh gushhh God purnish des evil bastards who parade themselves as God calld pastors .