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[quote author=slim fit ]Let him try it you fools Nigeria is not in the same league as those countries idiot that is why obj is still not the president. Don't compare us with any of those countries fool.[/quote]n y re they not in d same league wit dose oda countries again?we were once dia no? Apart frm obj even durin yeradua's short tenure we were still there, pple dont open their mouth to spew such trash anyhow at d presidency/FG. So thats exactly his point GEJ brought true democracy to Nigeria at least acknowledge that.

lorretta u: even if you can't use a car to propose,we can forgive you if it's a pure Diamond ring.
At the very least,we can manage pure Gold Ain't no sister gon take aluminium or copper (GL) ring from you.
Can I get an amen sisters

20 Amens!!!! must b pure diamond tho!

[quote author=~ZN~]The ignorance making the rounds on this issue is just baffling.

There's a Child's Right Act in place (enforced in over 20states). The senators were not trying to set any law on Marriage Eligibility. [/quote]for ur small mind na, so wen there is a conflict b/w d child Rights Act n d constitution wch one prevails? ana ako ofu i ne me ITK

D problem wiv Nigeria everybody wants to force their opinion on others, A certain young Man wishes to marry only a V n pple castigate him for his "low mentality" d truth is virginity of a thing is a choice sm want to marry a v, sm don't care weda it's a v or not, others will marry only a non-v hu is xperienced,to each his/her choice, both a v n non-v will get married to pple out there lukin for them, dis is nt an issue n I don't see y a big deal is being made out of it

Let's continue wi the game.
A person who finds a gem...

To find yourself and...

Named Eric n Erica; wit whom i'm...

iebanehita: From the way you sound, you could encourage your daughter to enter into a relationship with already-made guys and shun guys who aren't wealthy, but got potentials because thats her choice and you see nothing morally wrong about her decision.

why not? Wat is wrong wit choosing an already made guy over one who is nt yet made? Morally wrong ke? Wat cld b morally wrong wit it, is d already made guy nt human or is it nt a person dt will marry him. I tire for hw pple fink abt already made guys lyk d only tin they hv to offer is money n any girl wit them is jst afta dt money; n if its only money he can offer so wat; if a girl blives only d money will mk her happy them its her decision n lyf, nuffin wrong or right abt it

IT is wat it is then,for both guys n gals so let's all stop whinin n PLAY DIS GAME eeh?

Babzilla: THE TRUTH IS THAT WHEN SOME GALS
SHOW INTEREST IN A GUY
IM BROKE AND NEED MONEY
IS THE IMPRESSION THEY CARRY ACROSS
VERY FEW GO INTO RELATIONSHIP
WITHOUT DESIRING MATERIAL THINGS

queeta: That is very true. The biggest problem women have are themselves. If women respected themselves more, men won't have a choice but to be comply.
It becomes a problem when a woman respects herself but because there are too many out there who won't, the men will always give her the "if you won't take the BS, there are many who would attitude"
This is from personal experience

nt surprised, it has alwayz been in d nature of men to blame women for their woes, wen questioned on y he ate d forbidden fruit, wat ws Adam's reply again?

Oooh please there are no right or wrong reasons, ur reason is ur reason, it cld b for financial,sexual, emotional, marital or social purposes; there is nuffin wrong or right abt it; d only wrong reason might actually b not havin a reason at all to enter it...

Can u imagine wat kanye just said to me, Gawd dt guy is fucking annoying!!!

pekelepekele: If either a man or a woman made the right choice while choosing his partner . He or she will surely become successful in life without having to struggle to pay bills and others like the op said but if you are very successful and you made the wrong choice you will definitely become unsuccessful in the long run

hw do u guys arrive at dis conclusion? I know of tens of pple who are happily married yet they are poor n broke n hv no hope of taking any vaction outsyd nig till they die, unless God intervenes, Riches is nt based on luv oo, it is based on hard work n determination, ask dangote

Love brings wealth ke, where? So Dangote n Adenuga's riches were built on love? Anyway sha i hp all those spouting dis ribbish sre just being idealistic. D omly thing dt brings wealth is hardwork n peserverance, so if i had togetting wealth on a platter of gold sure is d answer.
Bsyds in dis world there is really no luv 4 d sake of luv, is either because u re caring, gud looks n swag, lively n fun to b wit, money, or religion n background or admiration of ur kind of person, or just sex or a mixture of 2 or more of these factors bt it must b based on sth. MONEY makes d world go round, true love usually leads to death #TITANIC, #ROMEO N JULIET tins

because it is in d nature of gus to pursue n d ladies to form dy are uinterested, at least at first, d ladies need to b coaxed by d guys to drop dia pin or no... Dts just d way it is

Enegod: f***king five babes at d same time now

lol... concluding my marriage arrangement wit slim's son

This is how it goes; reply wit lies or serious wash claims, d best lie/wash wins d game.
I start... Chillin wit ma galz, J lo, Riri, Beyonce, Nicki at d Palms Casino Resort in Vegas...

diva8: my
boyfriend and i have been having issues for some months now, am tryin
very hard to make thinz work but it seem hes comftbl wit d way thinz
are, i love him so much and i really want thingz to go back to the way
they were, i call him text him but hes still being cold hmmmmm, i don
tire o!

oh babe sorry to say u re d cause of ur problem; u call n text him n he is unresponsive n u still do that. In dis kinda situation men re lyk shadows, u pursue dem dy runaway u turn ur back on dem dy begin to chase after u.
My Advice: give him his space dont call, dont text n if he stil values d relationship at all, he will be back; bt if he is truly fed up then at least u'll know where u stand...

Idowuogbo: Good for u! Public toilet! Tua! *spits*

y is she a public toilet because she has slept wit 2 guys? Hw many hve u slept wit? .... Sm pple n dia self righteous attitude.
@op pls wen nxt u want to post, get ur title well... Cos i dont see hw dis title conveys wat u finally wrote; again dont beat urself up abt it, u wouldnt hv married jude, dis sch thing rarely ever leads to it. As for ur friend, dont worry jude wil leave her soon, he is just revenging. As for u i suggest u better get on wit ur lyf n study hard if u luv money dt much; cos is really tough out here n no hon can take kia of ur needs permanetly, only U can do that.

plaetton: Though you are closer to the truth, I still disagree with you.
The bible itself tells us that the heart of man is very tricky and wicked.

Forgivness, if at all possible from god, would require complete penance(complete payback in this context) as a pre-requisite, otherwise it would make absolutely no sense.
Also, was it not Jesus that said,

Galatians 6:7 "Do not be deceived :GOD IS NOT MOCKED, for whatever a man sows, so shall he also reap" ?
Bingo!
Here , we see Jesus invoking the law of karma.

The idea of Forgiveness from god would contradict these very words from Jesus.

Although Jesus preached personal forgiveness, I do not remember him promising anyone of God's forgiveness.
In the lord's prayer, Jesus asked for a general blanket of forgiveness, he did not, I repeat, he did not assure or guarantee it.

Again, I am holding a bible here, and I am challenging anyone to show where in the bible that Yahweh actually forgave anyone without first exacting his punishment or system of measured justice.

Since yahweh is an unchanging god, according you guys, I am assuming that he has not repented from his old ways.

So, to me, christians are deceiving themselves and mocking their god when they delude themselves that they, by virtue of their faith , are not going to be held responsible for every transgression of their lives.

no my dear it wasnt Christ that said it, its a man lyk u n me either a disciple or a prophet. Christ only said sm things in d bible in d gospels n they re usually highlighted in red. My advice to u is nxt tym u read d bible rd it wit a view nt to fynd arguments to criticize n demonize God n d church bt wit a view to know d truth, pray to whatever u blieve in n if none, ur innermost spirit, cos man is a miniGod to help u out in ur search for d truth.

Reyginus: That is a nice one. In the same sense, can you also say that we cannot really talk about forgiving those who wronged us, so long they are not willing to accept the forgiveness?

u havent rily gotten it, forgivenesss of sins for all mankind is dia we only get our share of it wen we run to him, likewise u should forgive all those who wrong u, bt they will nt know of it until they have asked u or witness ur action towards them wen u hv d chance to repay; cos that is d test of forgiveness, paying evil wit good wen u hv d chance to pay back wit evil. Jst as God does nt withdraw good things frm us cos we hv sinned; d fact though is dt acc to d laws of d universe, every action has effects n u must get d effect of ur action wether good or bad, n wether u've been forgiven by both God n d person u offended.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING...

texanomaly: My opinion also. Make him never want to cheat.

God i dont understand dis thingy wit womem trying so hard to make dia partners stay, never leave or cheat on them; what will b will b n what wont b no matter hw hard u try will never b. Seriously ladies shld stop!

guy i'm in your shoes now, I suppose u have found by now, can u help me out wit topics on family n commercial law, or any interesting topic you have

Jenams: I can only imgaine how wide ur hole will be! Dirty tin

seriously? U re imagining my hole, well if u really wanna know; check out ur sister's, divide d width by 3 = my hole

[quote author=~Bluetooth]Treat your boyfriend nice else[/quote]else? U willwalk away? Sure dear there is a queue, some actually nid to leave for others to enter...

Y not? I'm guilty of allthese except no. 6 cuz i luv my life; but seriously these are all games girlz play n it makes relationships interesting... Bsyds taunting guyz is fun; if u dont play d game nw wen u wan play am?

[quote author=dannysteve99@ya]Girls are full of j locy[/quote]JEALOUSY ke; wat normally reasonable girl will jealous a woman who has 2 bastards? Wit lil or no hope of getting married to their father? Abi na her unverifiable independence dem dey jealous? Of course wat else will she say who will claim to b dependent on a man in an interview?