₦airaland Forum

chris51: As a Nairalander, I'll tell you the truth. Don't try Premier. I have a close friend who was on it & I was on Leadway Pensure. We both put in 30+ of service. When we retired the gratuity I got from Leadway doubles the one my friend got from Premier. My monthly pension is a lot more than that of my friend on Premier.
Another friend of ours on Sigma got almost what I got on Leadway. I have friends who had good returns on IBTC too. You can't go wrong with Leadway, Sigma or IBTC

chris51: Tell that story to the marine. Rubbish. You mean you don't know your husband's smell? Shame on you

chris51: Well done for striking off rule 17. It takes a considerate man to rescind his decision

chris51: I honestly sympathise with you & your husband. Your relationship before marriage was just infatuation and fun but this is the reality of marriage. We all go thru this stage. I'll be celebrating my 40th next month.
If you want to enjoy your sexual life, you must have an open mind. Remove suspicion from your mind. It takes two to tango.
Think of those good attributes of his that made you marry him. Count yourself lucky to have been the one he chose to marry out of the girls in his life.
Also thank God for the fruit of the womb. Many girls spend years looking for baby, these days.
Please forget your earnings. Don't let anybody deceive you. Make it a task that you must enjoy your relationship. Put yourself in the mood. Read relevant magazines,etc.
Relationship is reciprocal, pray about it, you will overcome.
Goodluck.

chris51: @Ighosagie.
Your article is a master piece. Very informative.
If Oba Erediauwa was born in 1923, he should be 90(ninety) this year & not 80.
WELLDONE

chris51: This is what is going on in these business centres called churches. They destroy people's homes in order to provide husbands for their desperate old maid single girls who have been warming their pastors bed over the years
If not, how can they wed a couple without proper investigation?
Imagine their spoke's man saying they stand by their church member.
They stand by her because she has paid the church so much, for her to get a husband by hook or crook.
Destruction is awaiting all these modern day pastors who are wrecking homes.
The man's wife did well by disrupting the ceremony.

chris51: Don't tell your sister because your relationship was before your sister met him
If you tell her, it will break your family. You could have told her immediately you knew about their relationship, too late now.
The man is not decent, otherwise he should have ended the relationship immediately he realised she is your sister.
My advice is, let them be & look for your own man.
Don't let it embarrass you, you did nothing wrong. You were both single & free when you had a fling with him.
If you are a catholic I'll say "go for confession" & get the burden off your chest