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Escabado:
This shows you girls are not ashamed of your selves. A human being with able hands and legs will derive joy in beging a man for money ? God forbid me coming across your type of woman. Mark my word by the time you get to 35 no man will spend dim on you again even for sex or anything. Your sexual value must have depreciated .since is sex you came to life to do

Unfortunately, I'm getting married soon.

So, gather your broke peeps and continue wailing together.

MrBrownJay1:
How can sharing a meal with a woman (you care for) drain you emotionally/financially?!?!?!?!
No it won't, because you wrongly assume that this man must give you money if/when you guys are in a relationship.



...and you know what? No matter how broke women (like you) think a man should take care of your needs, there are millions of good hardworking women out there who don't need to sell their bodies in order to survive. There are millions of women out there who have high respect for themselves and don't need/want to be used like cattle (because of money). Any woman who believes that only a man should spend in a r/ship, best accept that you are now that man's puppet, and when he says:"open your legs", your only reply SHOULD BE :"yes sa"

So they don't spend on Independent ladies too?

An independent lady wouldn't go for a guy below her class too you know.

MrBrownJay1:
Sadly, everything I wrote above can be done by a man with NO MONEY... So I don't know what you are talking about, but I guess in your world, physically being there for someone costs money.

Of course, in life everyone has to spend money for their life's needs...aka food/shelter etc but this is irrelevant in dating someone. If I only have money for my daily meals,I can just share it with my date without having to spend any extra money

If you have money to feed just yourself, you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place because it will drain you Emotionally and financially.

And you know what?

No matter how people like you wail and cry about not giving a lady money, some men will still spend on a girl today and every other day.

Make money Oga mi make you no dey Shalaye like this.

proclinician:
Define money: Noun; the answer to all things. I'm not sorry you're very unfortunate.

Ignored.

DaddyRochie1642:
Madam you can continue Wailing and Weeping

You should channel your energy to making more money.

Broke people shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.


All these guys that spend on their women aren't complaining so swerve

DaddyRochie1642:
Madam with this your Reasoning, to slap you dey hungry me

Unfortunately, you can't slap me even here and in real life because you no reach.

So, I will ignore.

MrBrownJay1:
- when you are sick and I am there with you, when having to go to hospital for treatment etc
- when you are cold/feverish and I offer my body so we can cuddle up, thus warm you up
- when you are going through a rough time in your life, and I offer my shoulder to cry on.
- when you just failed your exam and I am there to give you a warm hug and tell you it's gonna be ok
- when nobody believes in you, but I am there to support your project/plan etc
- when you are about to fall and I am there to catch you
- When you are bored and lonely watching Netfilxx on a good Saturday night, and I come over to keep you company
- when your car has a flat tyre and I tell you to :" hold on, I will be there in a minute to change your tyre"
- when we are home and we hear armed robber outside and you are shitting your pants, and I tell you that:" I am here, everything is ok babe, nothing is gonna happen to you"
- when you have a stressful day and wanna vent your frustration, I will be here to listen
- when Konji don scatter your brain, but you believe in "no sex before marriage", I will be there to caress/lick the proper area of your body to relieve you of that sexual tension.

Can you do all this without spending money?

There is no how you won't spend money in a relationship voluntary or Involuntary.


Btw, Stop watching Korean and Philippines movies..

MrBrownJay1:
- to be there for her emotionally, physically
- to care for her emotionally physically
- to give her all the trust and respect she deserves
- to be fully honest with her
- to be affectionate to her (even in public)
- to be out together as a couple (walking hand hand in a park, for example)
- to live with her (aka move her in my house)
- to make life plans with her
- to take time to make her a better person
- to introduce her to my family and close friends as my one and only
- to spend my valuable time with her (as a family)
- to make her a priority in my life (after my main priorities in life)
...and the list goes on

LOVE IS AN EMOTION THAT IS FREE.... anyone telling you otherwise should be deleted from your life, ASAP!

Sorry for asking this,

How can one be there for her Physically?

MrBrownJay1:
There are many ways to express love, without spending a dime because love is FREE.... The problem here is that many deluded women have changed the whole idea of love/care/affection, and now have made Nigerian men believe that you can only show care/love/affection with money. And sadly, brainless donkeys now believe it and have adapted their lives to these broke goldigging undercover oloshos, so men are now foolishly saying:"make money and women will flock".... Not realizing they are the reason why these women turn to undercover oloshos, selling themselves to the highest bidder.



Bro, have some respect for your damn self before expecting respect from money hungry broke people. Respect has nothing to do with being broke, as we all know that having money isn't the issue here, but GIVING these oloshos money is what they focus on. A man can be broke after paying the rent, taking care of the bills, car notes, buying his monthly food, clothing etc (aka taking care of business) and these undercover oloshos would still look down on him because he didn't give them any money. This has nothing to do with respect and all to do with deluded people who expect you to take care of their life responsibilities as soon as you date them.

Tells us 5 simple ways ↕️ you've expressed love to your girlfriend without giving her a gift or money.

Or 5 ways people can express love without giving a Dime

MrBrownJay1:
Bro respect yourself....PUNA IS FREE!!!

When a man and a woman have sex, they BOTH enjoy it. The only time a man should pay for sex is when Konji don catch you and you need to go with a prostitute.

If you want to enjoy free.

Goan and marry her at least that's what the Bible said.

MrBrownJay1:
Respect, trust, Love care and affection is all what is needed from both party... The minute anyone is demanding for money (in order to date someone) is the minute that person should be void and called exactly for what they are.....aka cheap olosho (whether male or female) that anyone with money can buy.

The fact that you even wrote BENEFIT (when talking about an r/ship) says a lot about your character.

You don't know me and you don't have any right to judge me by my write up.

My question to you now is, Why do guys like you come here to say GIRLS ONLY OFFER SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Yen yen yen.

One thing I noticed about topics like this is; BROKE PEOPLE LOVE TO SEE REASONS TO REMAIN BROKE.


BUT MY QUESTION IS, WHAT DOES A LADY BENEFIT FROM DATING A GUY.

WHAT DOES A GUY OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP APART FROM MONEY?

uzoexcel:
loool..70k monthly.. una no go kill person 4 this town

Lol..

I just tire

70,000 X 12 = 840,000

Phone accessories

Realshay:
please I beg you..
invest in snail farming and mushrooms.
I'm proud and happy to say this dear..
I started snail farming and mushrooms last year after attending a training..
I thought I wasted my 30,000 for training not until I made it!!
I bought 100 pieces of snails from the organization where I learnt it..
I started rearing them..
they started laying eggs..my snails multiplied to many pieces..
I waited till they grew and I went to the organization..
I told them and I sold it to them for 2million naira..
after that,they gave me a rank..
at the end of a year,I was given a generator and 250,000
if you need more enquiries..tell me..
but if you aren't interested.. it's well but invest the money well

What kind of rubbish lie is this?

PATAlolade:
Back again,
Please, Can anyone recommend TV series for me based on my fav list;
The King: Eternal Monarch,
Kang Chi,
W (Two World),
Wile you were sleeping,
Goblin,
Three gods
Mama Fairy and the woodcutter
Mystic pop up bar
Meow: the secret boy
Crowned clown

Descendant of the sun

IceColdVeins:
That’s not even my problem right now. My issue now is giving you 3k each time you take me to a slum you call an apartment. Already spent over 20k for nothing

Lol.

Sorry,

Are you new in lagos?

How can they be charging that

IceColdVeins:
Please if you are about to pack out of a room-self contain around surulere, yaba, shomolu axis.....Or you are willing to share a room in a flat. Kindly quote me and help a brother please . Its like lagos agents are bent on squeezing me dry

As in.

How will someone be charging a 50/50 agent and agreement? For a house of 70k per year

ShayGirl:
Pls remove Soma from that list. Nigga can't be broke after featuring in the TV series "My sibling's and I". Likewise Efe.

List compilation looks like u just picked some listed housemates who went on time in the bbn house and assumed they r broke since u heard nothing about them afterwards.

Please which somadina?


Regina's own?

hadewest0:
i know that and what i would tell you is that our work can never be the same

No dey whine yourself.

hadewest0:
I Understand Why You Would Call It Scam. But Lack Of Knowledge Makes U Think So, But What I Would Tell You Is That Its You To Choose If You Want To Partner With Me. All I Would Do Is Show You The Way For Free, But All Ur Investment At Ur Own Risk.

I don't intend to partner with you.

Tell me, what can 10k import?

Do you know the current exchange and shipping rates?

Most shipping companies don't ship goods under 1-3kg.
If you ship a goods lesser than 3kg, you will be charged for 3kg.

Please, tell him and tell yourself the truth.

Don't come here to tell me how some shipping companies charge less because I've used almost all shipping companies in Lagos.

antivirushop:
apart from lagos at times and for, some items, every other thing is cheaper in Onitsha here. so stop asking price or if it's cheaper. let's use it time to ask sth, more useful

With the small research, I've done,

Clothes are cheaper in Onitsha

Some Crepe and other materials are cheaper in Onitsha and Aba.

Hairs are a little bit cheaper in Onitsha
You can also get cheap human hair in the Tradefair market, Lagos.

Building material is almost the same as Lagos.

Electronics too is almost the same as that of Lagos. But I think Onitsha is slightly cheaper.

mosho2good:
wrist watch
Electronic gadget

Who is your target audience?

How do you intend to market this?

Do you have a buying market already?

See, my advice is this; if you're in Lagos, kindly go to the jankara market in Idumota.

You will get wristwatches at a cheaper rate and you can resell them.

If you're not buying 100pcs and above from China, forget it.
The shipping fee will eat all your profit.. You won't make gain from it.

Think again

mosho2good:
can u please teach me mini importation

What do you intend to import?

hadewest0:
look there are a lot you can do with 20k. but i recommend mini importation.
with as low as 10k you would make more than double of your investment
let's talk on WhatsApp +2349080787775

SCAM
Which 10k?

Brachaa:
Sorry dear.

Been trying to access my mail to no avail.

Please call me on 09024469715.

Thank you.

You don't have a WhatsApp number?

duchess854:
You can invest such an amount on plain and pattern materials and thank me later. Contact me if you need a supplier

Who Are his target audience?

Or you just want someone to buy goods from you?

How will he market it?

How many pieces can 20k get?

Snails:
send me a message, lemme help you with mini importation.

Which mini Importation?

What can 20k Import?

I cleared a goods of 35k with almost 50k + yesterday.

Brachaa:
Ok.
Seen.

Do reply

Brachaa:
Its around yaba area.

Ok. Good.

Thanks for this idea.

I sent you a PM

Amaechi9:
Am a data reseller I 've been into the business for the past 5 years now, I even have my own customized site I resell data. I can sell my e-book to you that not only gives u a guide on how to start the business but also teach you how to ensure that u make sales daily

How many Nairalanders have you sold data to?

Emmaxy9:
Wow, a medic, nice! You can start a blog, although you might not get money immediately but trust me after one year or more, you’ll be smiling to the bank if you do the right things. You can reach out to me

You're selfish