MrBrownJay1:
In a poor country where women use dating as a poverty alleviation tool AND/OR in a country where women see sex as a gift to men.... YES, "many" deluded women will see dating as a financial transaction.

As for parents, marriage is indeed a way to cash out and get a benefit from raising/educating a (female) child.

Escabado:


Finally. is there daughters that will suffer it . that's why majority of the men beats there wife if they remembered how much it cost them to marry her and yet she is disobeys him. I thinks that's a very poor mentality on her parents side. Was another man supposed to train her daughter

loneprof:
I don't support incessant and unreasonable demands by women, but you have to admit that going into a relationship with a lady isn't usually free. Some ladies will make demands, not because they don't love you but because that's how they feel a man should express love and care.

In summary, if you don't want to be billed, go for ladies that earn their own money... But remember you can't be broke and expect a lady to respect you much, so make some money. Money is the oil that lubricates relationships.

Chrisbella24:
BUT MY QUESTION IS, WHAT DOES A LADY BENEFIT FROM DATING A GUY.

WHAT DOES A GUY OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP APART FROM MONEY?

GOFRONT:
Make we dey try give dem small money......So dat we go fit get mouth take request for their Puna.....

MrBrownJay1:


Respect, trust, Love care and affection is all what is needed from both party... The minute anyone is demanding for money (in order to date someone) is the minute that person should be void and called exactly for what they are.....aka cheap olosho (whether male or female) that anyone with money can buy.

The fact that you even wrote BENEFIT (when talking about an r/ship) says a lot about your character.

MrBrownJay1:


Bro respect yourself....PUNA IS FREE!!!

When a man and a woman have sex, they BOTH enjoy it. The only time a man should pay for sex is when Konji don catch you and you need to go with a prostitute.

MrBrownJay1:


There are many ways to express love, without spending a dime because love is FREE.... The problem here is that many deluded women have changed the whole idea of love/care/affection, and now have made Nigerian men believe that you can only show care/love/affection with money. And sadly, brainless donkeys now believe it and have adapted their lives to these broke goldigging undercover oloshos, so men are now foolishly saying:"make money and women will flock".... Not realizing they are the reason why these women turn to undercover oloshos, selling themselves to the highest bidder.



Bro, have some respect for your damn self before expecting respect from money hungry broke people. Respect has nothing to do with being broke, as we all know that having money isn't the issue here, but GIVING these oloshos money is what they focus on. A man can be broke after paying the rent, taking care of the bills, car notes, buying his monthly food, clothing etc (aka taking care of business) and these undercover oloshos would still look down on him because he didn't give them any money. This has nothing to do with respect and all to do with deluded people who expect you to take care of their life responsibilities as soon as you date them.

GOFRONT:
Make we dey try give dem small money......So dat we go fit get mouth take request for their Puna.....

Chrisbella24:
You don't know me and you don't have any right to judge me by my write up.

My question to you now is, Why do guys like you come here to say GIRLS ONLY OFFER SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Chrisbella24:

If you want to enjoy free.
Goan and marry her at least that's what the Bible said.

Chrisbella24:
Tells us 5 simple ways ↕️ you've expressed love to your girlfriend without giving her a gift or money.

Or 5 ways people can express love without giving a Dime

MrBrownJay1:


There are many ways to express love, without spending a dime because love is FREE.... The problem here is that many deluded women have changed the whole idea of love/care/affection, and now have made Nigerian men believe that you can only show care/love/affection with money. And sadly, brainless donkeys now believe it and have adapted their lives to these broke goldigging undercover oloshos, so men are now foolishly saying:"make money and women will flock".... Not realizing they are the reason why these women turn to undercover oloshos, selling themselves to the highest bidder.



Bro, have some respect for your damn self before expecting respect from money hungry broke people. Respect has nothing to do with being broke, as we all know that having money isn't the issue here, but GIVING these oloshos money is what they focus on. A man can be broke after paying the rent, taking care of the bills, car notes, buying his monthly food, clothing etc (aka taking care of business) and these undercover oloshos would still look down on him because he didn't give them any money. This has nothing to do with respect and all to do with deluded people who expect you to take care of their life responsibilities as soon as you date them.

loneprof:


Brown Jay, dey try make you dey cool down and see other people's point.

If you know my ID very well, you would realize that we both usually agree on the same thing most times. Check your mentions...

The point is that as a man, you must spend. Do I support leeches or gold diggers? No! Do I support trying to impress a woman with money? Heck No!

But if you must date a woman, you MUST spend at some point. Even Oyinbo women will demand from you at some point... That's life, let's not deceive ourselves.
Let's know where to draw the line cos it's not all ladies who demand that are gold diggers or "oloshos".

loneprof:


Brown Jay, dey try make you dey cool down and see other people's point.

If you know my ID very well, you would realize that we both usually agree on the same thing most times. Check your mentions...

The point is that as a man, you must spend. Do I support leeches or gold diggers? No! Do I support trying to impress a woman with money? Heck No!

But if you must date a woman, you MUST spend at some point. Even Oyinbo women will demand from you at some point... That's life, let's not deceive ourselves.
Let's know where to draw the line cos it's not all ladies who demand that are gold diggers or "oloshos".

Escabado:
Why does this Nigerian girls think that when a man says I love you or can we date means he want to be giving you money . Where on earth have you seen any body begging to have or Loving expenses. True Love doesn't cost a thing . This same thing apply to marriage ceremony. You said you love me and I love you too but when a man goes to meet the girls parents they will start asking him for money for this or that . Then my question remains where is the Love if I'm paying you to be in relationship with you or if I'm paying your parents to have you as a wife thats means this is pure business transaction because there is nothing wey concern Love in it. So when your husband or boyfriend cheats on you , he is 100% right because he paid to have you or paying to be sleeping with you indirectly.

Guys add yours . These things Tire person

MrBrownJay1:


- to be there for her emotionally, physically
- to care for her emotionally physically
- to give her all the trust and respect she deserves
- to be fully honest with her
- to be affectionate to her (even in public)
- to be out together as a couple (walking hand hand in a park, for example)
- to live with her (aka move her in my house)
- to make life plans with her
- to take time to make her a better person
- to introduce her to my family and close friends as my one and only
- to spend my valuable time with her (as a family)
- to make her a priority in my life (after my main priorities in life)
...and the list goes on

LOVE IS AN EMOTION THAT IS FREE.... anyone telling you otherwise should be deleted from your life, ASAP!

Chrisbella24:
Sorry for asking this,
How can one be there for her Physically?

MrBrownJay1:


- when you are sick and I am there with you, when having to go to hospital for treatment etc
- when you are cold/feverish and I offer my body so we can cuddle up, thus warm you up
- when you are going through a rough time in your life, and I offer my shoulder to cry on.
- when you just failed your exam and I am there to give you a warm hug and tell you it's gonna be ok
- when nobody believes in you, but I am there to support your project/plan etc
- when you are about to fall and I am there to catch you
- When you are bored and lonely watching Netfilxx on a good Saturday night, and I come over to keep you company
- when your car has a flat tyre and I tell you to :" hold on, I will be there in a minute to change your tyre"
- when we are home and we hear armed robber outside and you are shitting your pants, and I tell you that:" I am here, everything is ok babe, nothing is gonna happen to you"
- when you have a stressful day and wanna vent your frustration, I will be here to listen
- when Konji don scatter your brain, but you believe in "no sex before marriage", I will be there to caress/lick the proper area of your body to relieve you of that sexual tension.

Liposure:
Funny thing is money is not guarantee of a girl's affection. A girl can be collecting your money and you be thinking she loves you not knowing her heart is somewhere else

Zzor:
learn not to be stingy to your woman,all men should learn that as well