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blakky97: Yes- dem too dey beg me money!
I just told her I'm saving my money to build house next year, so if she loves me she should help me realize my dreams and not help me deplete my savings and later run away to a yahoo guy like toyin did to me. (Toyin I hope you are reading this- you know your self!). They make themselves like prostitutes. Parasitic relationship. Is it not their mates that pay school fees for their dudes? Beggy beggy! No self esteem! I need moni! I need moni! Na me be your papa?

provenus: no, we are our problem in this country. a friend of mine graduated from university after studying chemistry. we were trying our hands on job opportunities in our respective fields when her parents came up with the idea that she return to school and study medicine. i wont mention how much they spend yearly on "sorting" lecturers to ensure she dosent drop out. lol, in d end my friend will graduate and start wondering where all the money is to be made and start spitting venom on the govt.

drnoel: U are the one trading words with yasef. Ignorance is a disease.

drnoel: This one is anoda case of a fool trying to be smart. When adults are talking, small children will want to show their ignorance.

Solidarity for ever. Solidarity for colleagues walking in that shit hole called nigerian health system.

drnoel: Which brothers in diaspora? The one that currently earn 10x what ur Nigeria government pay or another one?

drnoel: Which brothers in diaspora? The one that currently earn 10x what ur Nigeria government pay or another one?

chidimmaaa: . Wonder how you would feel if u worked ur ass out day nd night and never got paid

borga112: Can you imagine?

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borga112: Can you imagine?

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EfemenaXY: That's no excuse. People who choose to play adult games should bear the very adult consequences.



Then you'd agree with me that such people have no business getting married in the first place. Marriage isn't child's play.




Why should she be the one to lecture him? Is he an ímbėcílė who cannot tell right from wrong? Stop looking for excuses for him. The more you do, the more your argument sounds lame. He didn't need a stranger to tell him to keep his third leg firmly in check. Would you be saying the same thing if it were his first wife that went in search of a second husband, and then brings back home HIV / STD? Please let's be reasonable here.

It's interesting to see how you'll readily claim the grown ärsėd promiscuous man whom Karma's finally caught up with, is suddenly immature and therefore needs the object of his lustful thoughts to preach the importance of martial fidelity. This is beyond lame. It's breathtakingly unbelievable.




That's why we need more of such agents plying the streets of Naija. Na only strong thing many Naija men dey understand. If death in skirts is what it'll take to reset their brains, then it's a good thing isn't it? Less orphans for starters.



You don't know that for sure. Stick to what the story says. Besides she's dead now. So fat chance of hearing her side of the story.




Sure. But it's just a matter of time before his CD count goes down. And it will go down eventually. In the meantime, if he can afford it (which I doubt he can anyway), he'll be popping an eye-popping cocktail of drugs on a daily basis, just to stay alive. He can't afford to miss a single dose as it would spell doom for him. He'll be haunted in his sleep and in his every waking hour that he has HIV, soon to progress into AIDs.

The dude knows he's finished anyway.




He had no right to take another life. She didn't force him to sleep with her. She didn't force him to adopt a lax attitude towards getting themselves tested before poking away. She didn't force him to have sex with her without a condom. He wanted it raw. He's gotten it raw.



Irrelevant to the discussion.

Don't make it personal. Stick to the topic at hand. Let this be a warning. A lesson to any promiscuous guys out there that they're dicing with death. You know the saying...everyday's for the thief but one day's for the owner. The murder has definitely met his waterloo and would spend the rest of his life wasting away, till he's mere skin and bones with nothing left.

EfemenaXY: There you go again. Shifting the blame and responsibility to the deceased woman.

She wasn't the one looking outside of her marriage. He was. If he was content with what he had with his first wife and kids, none of this would have happened.

Why should an outsider teach a supposedly adult, married man "the importance of fidelity and safe sex". Is he a mörön or what?

This man had no respect for his wife, no respect for his kids, and definitely no respect for the institution called married. So he should carry his cross squarely on his shoulders. He is anyway. He's life is a ticking time bomb and he's got an appointment pencilled in with his maker. His days on earth are numbered.

Serves him right.

EfemenaXY: There you go again. Shifting the blame and responsibility to the deceased woman.

She wasn't the one looking outside of her marriage. He was. If he was content with what he had with his first wife and kids, none of this would have happened.

Why should an outsider teach a supposedly adult, married man "the importance of fidelity and safe sex". Is he a mörön or what?

This man had no respect for his wife, no respect for his kids, and definitely no respect for the institution called married. So he should carry his cross squarely on his shoulders. He is anyway. He's life is a ticking time bomb and he's got an appointment pencilled in with his maker. His days on earth are numbered.

Serves him right.

EfemenaXY: There you go again. Shifting the blame and responsibility to the deceased woman.

She wasn't the one looking outside of her marriage. He was. If he was content with what he had with his first wife and kids, none of this would have happened.

Why should an outsider teach a supposedly adult, married man "the importance of fidelity and safe sex". Is he a mörön or what?

This man had no respect for his wife, no respect for his kids, and definitely no respect for the institution called married. So he should carry his cross squarely on his shoulders. He is anyway. He's life is a ticking time bomb and he's got an appointment pencilled in with his maker. His days on earth are numbered.

Serves him right.

EfemenaXY: There you go again. Shifting the blame and responsibility to the deceased woman.

She wasn't the one looking outside of her marriage. He was. If he was content with what he had with his first wife and kids, none of this would have happened.

Why should an outsider teach a supposedly adult, married man "the importance of fidelity and safe sex". Is he a mörön or what?

This man had no respect for his wife, no respect for his kids, and definitely no respect for the institution called married. So he should carry his cross squarely on his shoulders. He is anyway. He's life is a ticking time bomb and he's got an appointment pencilled in with his maker. His days on earth are numbered.

Serves him right.

EfemenaXY: How did the woman at the centre of this story get infected? Or did she infect herself?

And yes, I meant what I wrote in every single one of my posts on this thread. Women like her would greatly save lives en mass when philandering men...married men realise that HIV / AIDs is not something that happens to "others" not them.

Maybe when they realise how easy it is to contract that deadly disease and the far-reaching consequences it'll have not just on them alone but on their immediate family (for starters), then maybe, just maybe, they'll have a completely different view to promiscuity....and not cover it up as "culture".

Do you get my drift now?

EfemenaXY: Save it. I don't need your advice or reminder.

Preach this to other men out there like the guy in this story. Who knows, you might save a couple of lives.

EfemenaXY: Fortunately he's not promiscuous, neither has he got a wandering díck to put the life of his family at risk, thank you.

EfemenaXY: I don't see why the woman should be blamed at all.

If this greedy man had kept his wandering d!c.k securely in his pants and remained faithful to his first wife & marriage, he would have been HIV free today.

And as for the deceased lady, did she infect herself with HIV? Chances are, she got it from an ex. A man. So she was simply doing her bit of community service.

We need more women like her around to keep promiscuous men in check.

Shikena!

mcino: Not that doctors can't do it but it's simply not doctors' job? So doctors are now trained in pharmaceutics? In the minds of some of you, only doctors are intelligent. I am not in health profession, but I hate arrogance and grandstanding. For your information, many of us refused I study medicine just to avoid being limited, if you understand what I mean. It is not a haven for the extremely intelligent

eyeview: In other civilized parts of the world,the Laboratory scientists are the ones that ought to culture this virus and then forward their observations to the pharmacists who will dig deep to develop a vaccine for it. Doctors are just to administer it.
So they shouldn't call out the doctors if this other two haven't done their parts yet. Crises have emerged and they are calling on the doctors,but pay wise,they want the doctors salary!

henchamb: Even the commentator was crazy abt it but wasnt when one adeoye rep England in the same 400m.

Those guys ran very well.

bambostic: Actually, you'll see that Fraser-Pryce is No. 5 on the list, and she is not competing in the individual 100m at Commonwealth, only in the Relay - there are only 2 other Jamaicans ahead of her in the standings above, but she did not compete at the Jamaican Trials, and it is 1-2-3 at the Trials who are representing them in Glasgow - Campbell-Brown, Stewart and Calvert...

BuddahMonk: Waiting for some tigerclawed faces to converged...when you check the quality of people Anambra turn out every year you will know that its not a fluke and malpractise have nothing to contribute, Anambra dont produce certificated graduates, our education is of quality not quantity that is why for every Achebe that died 100 Chimamandas are born, for every Jerome Udoji and Okigbo that died 100 Soludos are there to fill the vaccum, for every Dike that died 100 Oby Ezekwesilis are born, so malpractise have nothing to contribute because those dumbass students that were aided by mechineries most of the times find it very difficult securing admission.

If you think miracle centres only exist in Anambra, just give me 24hrs let me walk down to Akute and Oko Aro, every 2poles you pass there is a miracle center begging you to enrol.

I thank the ANSG for trying to stamp out examination malpractices in our education sector, we dont want to be embarrased parading a minister who said Nigeria is blessed with plenty mineral resources like coke and fanta or giving the world a minister for education who bombarded our ears with "can be able".

My honourable commissioner God bless you, hide no evil.
Some deranged minds will think your washing your dirty linen in public but dont mind them, we are all Nigerian so we know how hypocritical we are.

Dosinspector: Truly Anambra is setting the pace,wonderful road network,good education system,tight security network and massive infrastructure,honestly peter Obi did wonders there and left the state in another Good hand

dumodust: its unfortunate you dont know your job description.., I just pushed it to your face... silly misinformer, be proud of your profession and what exactly u do

dumodust: Hahaha... here we go again, professor of orders, bottom line is that u are guided and take 'orders' whether directly or indirectly and whether you're a servant or not, working for free or paid...or do you go wandering about the hospital pouncing on patients?
and what exactly are u talking about? Know what better? Carry your complex comot abeg... I'm just making sure u dont tell people rubbish... misinformer forming like he is independent

dumodust: my friend, if you dont know anything and havent worked in a hospital... stop talking like u know better
Orders are written on paper on tabs kept near the pts bed... prescription s and how to be given, fluid, how much of what to take etc and it is the duty of the nurse to be guided by it in doing her work. There's transfusion order, post op order...
ok, i know what your problem is... nigerians smh... because it is called an order makes it demeaning shebi?
do you work in a hospital? ... if u dont... dont reply, someone else should

dumodust: Stop lying just to misinform the public who know better than you...do nurses just coast around in the hospital? Have u been to sny 'normal' country? The doctors write the orders down regard less of their level and the nurse, whether she's 100yrs in service,carries out the order. The thing they get away with in nigeria is called negligence, dont do it anywhere else (especially if u dont have a reason and havent conferred with the doc) or find yourself facing several panels and lawsuits

eaglechild: Not in the hospital setting.
They won't.

ziga: In normal countries, nurses that care about patient care and love their jobs carry out the orders of the Doctor.

But in Nigeria, things are upside down.

Imagine us arguing about what the duties of a Doc or Nurse or pharmacist is?

What will we teach our children for goodness sake.

Regardless of how much anybody hates anybody else, the truth should be the truth. It never changes.

Oduduwaboy: hmmm...the next point of agitation of JOHESU is for their members to also be addressed as 'Doctor '. Infact , the pharmacists have started it through their D.Pharm degree.lol.

Next will be the nurses & physiotherapists & other what-nots .
hmm...Nigeria is a wonderful country #everybodydeservestobecalledoctor