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PoliticsRe: Top 10 Performing Governors In Nigeria by chuks190: 6:12pm On Apr 02, 2025
Mrfeel:
Peter MBA deserves a spot in the top 10
At least 3rd position
FamilyRe: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by chuks190: 2:47pm On May 26, 2022
Your wife has a spiritual problem seek for spiritual solution she isn't doing it intentional
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!
FamilyRe: At What Point Should A New Couple Get Worried Over Conception? by chuks190: 7:29am On May 24, 2021
Brother I believe you and your wife has no problem but what also contributes majorly in many women not taking in is worm. When last did she deworm herself? Make sure she deworms before her next ovulation and kindly do your work if possible on daily basis.
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Comes Down From His Brand New White C300 Benz And Runs Mad (video) by chuks190: 5:49am On Sep 09, 2020
Lesson learnt for some reasonable ones
PhonesRe: My Facebook Account Hacked! How Do I Retrieve It? by chuks190: 9:52pm On Feb 05, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Give me every details especially a picture of your face(a clear one)
And give me the full name of the account it was changed to

Make i finish work

Pls boss I need your help too my line is 07066794223
InvestmentRe: How Can One Recover Money From A Fraudster? by chuks190: 3:05pm On Jan 10, 2020
How to Get your MONEY BACK IF YOU WERE SCAMMED.

It’s very easy to get your money back if you were scammed especially if you were scammed in Naira.

This is easy because every VERIFIED NAIRA ACCOUNT has BVN.

Step 1. Report this incident to any Police Station of your choice

Step 2. Get a Court Order. Without Court order, The Bank will not release the data of whoever scammed you. But with Court Order, they MUST comply.

Step 3. With information released which includes: Photo of the Account Owner, Address of the Account Owner, Phone number and Guarantor. The Local Police can trace the scammer to his address. The Police might need little mobilization to act asap! Like N15K

DO NOT BE LAZY! DON'T GIVE UP YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY. YOU CAN GET IT BACK!
HealthRe: He Noticed Some Changes In His Body System (pics). by chuks190: 6:41am On Nov 19, 2019
brother sorry oh this may be as a result of drug reactions. it might be that your body reacts to sulphuric drugs
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: AFCON (3 - 2) Full Time by chuks190: 9:49am On Jul 06, 2019
Christmasdon:
AFCON 2019: SUPER EAGLES TO FACE CAMEROON IN THE ROUND OF 16.

To be played on July 06 . NIGERIA would have played against Congo DR or Kenya or South Africa had it been we defeated Madagascar.
Nigeria will beat Cameroon by one goal
correct score 1:0
up super eagles
TravelRe: 30-Year-Old Graduate Killed In Accident Caused By Security Men In Enugu. Photos by chuks190: 8:04pm On Mar 28, 2018
The only son Chai may his gentle soul rest in peace.
But it was one of the civil defense officer that shot the full tank in the process of blowing the tire. The driver saw the bus was on fire from the side mirror and jumped out of the moving bus before the bus entered the deadly pit
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Are Mistreated By Any Soldier, Call This Code - Army Releases Guidelines by chuks190: 9:22pm On Aug 16, 2017
Will it be available all the time
Nairaland GeneralRe: Phyno Just Murdered Hushpuppi In Timaya’s New Video Titled “telli Person” by chuks190: 9:19pm On Aug 16, 2017
Cool
Good for Mr Gucci
PoliticsRe: Fashola Angry With Enugu Legislators Action On Eedc by chuks190: 10:00pm On Jun 13, 2017
Mtcheew you guys are talking non sense how can only a government house be using light that's bills 2.6billion hmmm even if nah entire senatorial zone.... That's the problem not that they won't pay but what made it so
Christianity EtcRe: "The Mansion Apostle Suleman Bought For Daniella Okeke In Lagos Cost Him N160m" by chuks190: 8:54am On Mar 14, 2017
I have never commented on this apostle Suleiman vs Otobo but this witch hunting by sahara report and co is bad and it is a false accusation by the way they are propelling this matter. I only saw apostle Suleiman when he came to university of Nigeria NSUKKA where he performed wonders. I don't go to his church but honestly I can swear for him he is innocent. Don't know how much they have given you for this job but desist from it because what goes around comes around. [color=#990000][/color]
TravelRe: Bus Crash: How Woman Dived Out Of Window To Save Her Baby by chuks190: 3:42pm On Feb 18, 2017
Naughtytboy:
u mean
Hmmm see #AIk coming after you
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by chuks190: 10:54pm On Feb 10, 2017
Which betting site is that
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by chuks190: 10:53pm On Feb 10, 2017
slevin:
confam!!!! p.s: hope is a good thing
Which betting site is that
Christianity EtcRe: How The 12 Apostles Of Jesus Died by chuks190: 5:51pm On Feb 05, 2017
Car TalkRe: 15 Awesome Toyota Facts You Have To Know by chuks190: 8:08am On Jan 19, 2017
realomonile:
Sweet Honda Accord v4 engine available. Ride is first body with alloy rim. AC chilling and it's in perfect condition.

This ride is first body and it is top condition.

All documents available.

Location: Lagos
Price: 500k (Slightly Negotiable)

Call/WhatsApp Owolabi: 08117744394 or 08082862125
320k?
07066794223
PoliticsRe: 10 Most Developing States In Nigeria - Opinion by chuks190: 7:21am On Jan 13, 2017
Eastwalk:
3.Anambra State
You no call Enugu they mention Anambra
PhonesRe: Airtel Internet/apn Settings by chuks190: 7:51am On Dec 21, 2016
Pls go my gionee m5 has refuse to browse with airtel access point name and other settings pls what do I do.

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