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LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here we go again ![]() U claim they r in love yet he can't 4give? Y did u have to play such a prank in d 1st place? If u think u r in love ask urself this question. Is there anything he/she will do that i cannot 4give? Let it guide u. |
Joey, i beg 2 differ. That i dont have a guy now doesn't mean i've never had. Trust me when i say these things ain't illusions but based on real happenings. @ kolinz, na wah 4 u oh. R u another oracle99 in d house? |
@ Kolinz, no time 4 wat? patience? love? 115. If he annoys or hurts u, bottling it up will not help, let it out, cry, scream, calmly talk 2 him, watever works 4 u but pls let it out cos resentment and anger eat away @ love as quickly as rust corrodes metal. 116. Give him his space, much as he loves u, it's only human 4 him 2 want 2 hang out with his friends or be alone. Please allow him 117. Try new sex moves (4 d married), wear sexy lingeries esp his favourite colour 118. Let him know and feel that he's d man. Sometimes, even if u can hang d picture frame urself, ask him (read it somewhere) and thank him. 119. Give, give, give, whatever it is, whatever u have, share with him and share his too. 120. Comfort him when he is sad n do NOT laugh when he cries, he is very vulnerable @ that point, support him, cry with him or just give him ur shoulder 2 cry on. |
111. Throw him a surprise birthday party (my married friend did that 4 his wife and she was so awed, works all d time) 112. Do not wait 4 valentine, anniversaries or celebratory days 2 remind him of how much he means 2 u 113. A kiss b4 leaving 4 work never hurt anybody. 114. Pray together |
Very rare qualities these day . . . . . IF you really practice the above . . . . .then you are 1 in a million. [quote][/quote]@ Nautillus, i don't have a lover yet but i'm getting ready 109. Patience is very necessary, this will definitely get tested. 110. "I'm Sorry", "Please"and "Thank u" should be part of your vocabulary. |
Resources:Very important. without trust absolutely nothing will work. |
Do i still go on? |
Nautillus:i agree with u but u have to know him 2 some certain degree before it applies. some guys like it while some do not, besides, too much of everything is bad innit? @ jiggyb, u've got 2 prove urself 104. Be his best friend and confidant. 105. Judge not no matter how tempting it is. 106. Truly 4give and forget and never bring up d issue again. 107. Defend him outside even if he is wrong and correct him (without being pushy) indoors. |
@ Poster, that sure brought tears 2 my eyes, i really dunno where 2 start but maybe i'll tell my story of heartbreak sometime soon. |
2 d poster that is asking 4 tutorial, isn't this enuff or u want practicals? i think that when kissing, u follow ur instincts but it sure gets better with practice. |
Wish i cld say i had a romantic valentine ![]() I spent the evening in church alone which turned out 2 be interesting. D whole day was spent @ work. |
101. Pray 4 him and thank God 4 bringing him ur way. 102. Love him unconditionally even when it is totally impossible 103. Hold his hands and touch him a lot. Should i go on? |
i totally agree with Frando29. No one is perfect and we all have to compromise @ some point. U love him, go 4 it girl or r u lookin 4 an xcuse 2 worry? |
By God's Grace. By becoming a good lover urself By imbibing good traits, habits and behaviour. No guarantees tho but with God everything is possible. |
Really, Snugle i think u're right about that. so y wld i wanna go thru r/ship after r/ship b4 i get married? but then again, some pple wld say how will u meet him if u don't date? As long as it's not marriage, i thnk it's just fun fun fun. |
I guess this is strictly 4 d married. What of d singles? |
D guy aint good 4 ur psyche. U practically have no life outside him. He's afraid 2 talk 2 u, maybe u shd talk 2 him n end it. Your self esteem is at stake here. It'll hurt as hell, letting go of a loved one aint a merry go round but sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. |
U know what? Ebiyehi (i hope i got it right). Ur post really did amaze me. I mean here i was getting all riled up @ oracle's post and u handle it most maturely!!!!!!!!!!!!! Geez girl, u're the best. May ur heart's deisres come to pass by God's grace. As 4 oracle, it seems 2 me, u're just seekin attention and getting every bit of it. Enjoy it while it lasts ok? But u really do not need 2 be chauvinistic and sexist about it. Everybody has problems - financial, emotional, psychological, but 2 mention a few but we all move on with our daily lives without looking for who 2 blame. U claim u've had ur way with sisters, best friends and d like, what does that make u? An angel? A man? or a very endearing guy? Or u think that if God were 2 mete out punishments u'd be left out? U 4get u came from a woman. Everyone has problems but not all of us wld sink so low as to pile insults on innocent pple. U work in a bank? i'm surprised. Thank God 4 the anonimousity nairaland creates cos if i were ur boss, i'd prolly get u fired on behalf of the female race. |
this is good I just luv the last line. |
@ bibibabe I also wrote d test. I was going thru the dailies one day, this yr when i saw an ad 4 mgt trainees but the name of the bank was not mentioned. I did as informed which was 2 send my resume to careersnigeria2008@yahoo.com, and d iv was sent thru this email add. It was when i got 2 d centre that i found out that it was ETB. Some other pple got mails from etb directly tho and i do not know their mode of applying. I hope i have answered ur question. |
yeah, r u simi's twin? @ babycool, u got it right. I have so missed Simibrazil's posts. |
I aint married tho! For more information i'd advice u 2 read Tim La Haye's "Why U Act d way u do" |
My dear, check his temperament carefully. No one person has one temperament, he shd be a mixture of both sanguine and one other temperament. While the sanguine temperament may be dominant, he will have one or two more temperaments that are not so dominant. Yeah, sanguines can be loud and can enjoy attention but they are the most caring and down to earth pple i know. I'm one so i know. My dear, if u love him, his temperament will mean nothing and with time u will be able 2 curb some of his excesses and vice versa. |
posted my cv but wasn't called. porquoi? ![]() |
@ Jesoul Very insightful of u and helpful 2. So you all must understand suffering, pain and death only makes sense when you know and understand God and that it is 100% of the time for your own good, and indeed a priviledge as long as you're a christian who is trusting and hoping in Christ. Philippians 1:29 |
U got it right good guy!!!!!!!!!!!!! Another dumb, dumb, even dumber thread. |
thanx a lot D-Chair. I'lll bear that in mind. |
What r u trying 2 get @ with this thread? |
dumb dumb dumb thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
