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RomanceRe: My Dilema by chychy(f): 11:23am On Jan 24, 2008
Joey, haven't seen ur posts in a while,

How about a lil hide n seek? huh

No one has 2 know or what do u think?

U wanna get serious with her? If no, then do not try it cos u'll end up hurting her n only make things difficult btw both of u n prolly lose ur job.
But if u really r serious abt dating her n ur attraction 2 her is strong, then u cld try d hide n seek thingy,
RomanceRe: My Dilema by chychy(f): 11:18am On Jan 24, 2008
Joey, haven't seen ur posts in a while,

How about a lil hide n seek? huh

No one has 2 know or what do u think?

U wanna get serious with her? If no, then do not try it cos u'll end up hurting her n only make things difficult btw both of u n prolly lose ur job.
But if u really r serious abt dating her n ur attraction 2 her is strong, then u cld try d hide n seek thingy,
TravelRe: Passengers Exchange Blows In Moving Airplane by chychy(f): 10:39am On Jan 24, 2008
If a crash happens now, we'll start looking 4 who 2 blame!!!!!!!!!!

Na wah oh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RomanceRe: I'm About To End My Relationship Because It Is "Too Perfect" by chychy(f): 8:06am On Jan 23, 2008
I agree with those that say u shd talk 2 her.

What else makes a r/ship sweet if u don't fight, quarrel, cry and make up?

Ask questions without judging her, no matter what answers she gives u as this will go a long way 2 determine if really she is scared of u.
RomanceRe: Affair With A Married Man by chychy(f): 4:13pm On Jan 22, 2008
U know d right thing to do. Do it.

A married man? what's d catch?
RomanceRe: When Its Missing by chychy(f): 2:11pm On Jan 22, 2008
I'll make him do it or better still teach him. These shows of affection cannot be underestimated.
RomanceRe: I Caught My Girl In Bed With My Brother by chychy(f): 1:06pm On Jan 22, 2008
This is so moving. She does love u n u love her 2.

The decision 2 take her back absolutely depends on u. Weigh your options, pray about it and ask 4 God's guidance.

Are u a xtian? if you're, u should read the book of Hosea in d Bible or better still, get a copy of "Redeeming Love" by Francine Rivers.

In forgiving her, i'm sure u know that this incident will never be mentioned again no matter what she does to provoke u.

But u know what i think? Life is too short to live by "what ifs". I f u r convinced beyond doubt that she'll never do it again n u really love her, then u'll take her back cos that's what unconditional love is all about. Love in joy, sorrow and in disappointment.
Good Luck
RomanceRe: My Friend Wife To Be Has Set Me On The Run, Pls Stop Me by chychy(f): 12:25pm On Jan 22, 2008
@ sexxxxxy, u're very funny.

@ Poster, just try 2 avoid her as much as possible.
RomanceRe: Secretly Competing Wit Another Girl Whom Your Man Seems To Fancy by chychy(f): 11:19am On Jan 22, 2008
Dearie, it hurts, trust me, i've been there.

Self esteem tells more than a lot abt u. There was a time i was really low on myself, i dint c myself as good enuff and trust me when i say guys detect it miles away and they will so take advantage of u, some will even put u down verbally.

Lukka ain't smarter than u, she ain't more beautiful than u are, u only just have to realise that God made u the way u are and He is so proud of u and hates 2 c u feeling inferior. Once u begin to think this way, u'll appreciate urself more.

This guy doesn't deserve u, however it might hurt. Or maybe u just let him be with this Lukka chick. Let him test waters.

Whatever the outcome is, know that both of u (u n Lukka) are not in any way comparable. U r beautiful, no matter what they say, u shd not let words bring u down.

Even if u guys never work it out, address ur self esteem issues cos pple c u d way u c urself. I'm talkin 4rm experience.
U c urself as a footmat, guys will c u as one, u c urself as an angel, they'll c u as one.

No chick likes 2 be compared with another chick, u really shdn't take it 4rm him or anybody,
Remember 2 ask God 4 help, He knows u better than u know urself.

All d best dear.
RomanceRe: Whats Wrong With My Relationship? Help Me! by chychy(f): 11:03am On Jan 22, 2008
omg, u r only 18. there's no way both of u know what u're doing.

My dear, get serious with school or whatever u have chosen 2 do in life, both of u r still way 2 young.

Meanwhile, it'll only be manly 2 tell her u ain't into her anymore. What's d worst that cld happen? she'd cry, trust me, most of us have had a share of that.
She'll move on. U guys shd be just friends.
RomanceRe: Is This Called Love? by chychy(f): 9:50am On Jan 22, 2008
opokonwa:
I call it sex slavery for the Green card.

The pics sucks. angry
Was gonna say just that.
RomanceRe: Do I Tell My Girlfriends Husband I Know About His Affair? by chychy(f): 8:55am On Jan 22, 2008
This is really a tricky question, should i or should i not?

U'd have gone across 2 say hi.

U know things about telling, they might have a big fight n when they settle, u'd become the enemy,

U said sth that struck me "u said they look similar". Usually, when men cheat on their wives with someone that looks just like her, it is either there is sth d wife ain't doing but he still loves her (y wld he commit adultery with someone that looks like wifey?)or he subconsciously wants something different and imagines that since she is so close to home, (look alike) he might as well be having an affair with his wife.

Hint her subtly and find out if there r things she used 2 do with and for him that she doesn't do anymore, that is without telling her oh.
RomanceRe: How Long Should You Date A Girl Before You Pop-up The Famouse Question? by chychy(f): 8:43am On Jan 22, 2008
I think 1-2 yrs is good enuff so that u don't spring each other with surprises,
Anything longer than that in my opinion most likely will not lead 2 marriage,
PoliticsRe: Fashola And His Ideas by chychy(op): 5:48pm On Jan 21, 2008
About the rail system, i aint sure ir's gonna work except of course he spends as much as he's spending on our roads. But then again, who'll board a train?
CareerRe: Human Resources Professionals Or Anyone That Can Help by chychy(op): 5:43pm On Jan 18, 2008
@ yemmight

Thank u very much, i'll take my time 2 read through.

Oh oh! Can't read through, or is it a vista thing?

Could u pls resend it as a microsoft 97-2003 document? I'm on vista or better still my email add -chychy1009@yahoo.com.
I apologise 4 whatever inconveniences this might cause.

Thank You
CrimeRe: Raped By Your Brother. by chychy(f): 1:57pm On Jan 18, 2008
almondjoy:
I am going to try as much as possible to stay away from all these abomination topics this year at all costs!!!!!
Amen 2 that oh!

4 chrissakes this thread is morbid.
but if it did happen, then that brother of urs needs therapy n deliverance.
Music/RadioRe: Whats Your Current Ringtone? by chychy(f): 1:20pm On Jan 18, 2008
It wasn't easy by Cece Winas
Fragile Heart - YOlanda Adams
If i was ur man - Joe
No One - Alicia Keys (can't get enuff of this song)
Torn - Latoya
How do i breathe - Mario
What i've done - Linkin Park
Take me as i am -Mary J BLige
Hate that i love u- Rihanna n Neyo (it always gets 2 me)
Do u - Neyo
Lie abt us - Avant n Nicole
Music/RadioRe: Beyonce vs Shakira: Who Can Dance Better? by chychy(f): 1:01pm On Jan 18, 2008
@ Lashesis

i agree with u

Shakira is beyonce's role model as far as i'm concerned. Where else did she get the moves in her "Baby Boy" video?

CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Celebrities Who Are They Dating by chychy(f): 12:46pm On Jan 18, 2008
News Flash

Celebrity News: Sex, drunk driving, DUIs, drugs, flashing, indecent exposure, erratic change of partners, the list is endless,

Let us not be associated with such or better still, let's set our own standards!!!!!!!!!!!!
PoliticsFashola And His Ideas by chychy(op): 12:27pm On Jan 18, 2008
[b]The other day, while preparing 4 work, i was listening to one of our local radio stations and the topic 4 d day was car "spooling" or "pooling", i ain't sure what d word is anymore.

U know what his next plan is? To place a levy on cars that drive only one person. It might not be effective asap but it is in the offing. He wants to "force" pple to hitch rides in order to ease the traffic in Lagos State. For instance, if i live in ur neighbourhood and our kids school in d same place or neighbourhood, we are supposed to take turns in driving all of them to school.

That is ok as far as i'm concerned but what happens when i'm going to work, market or school?

Yes the traffic situ in Lagos needs an overhaul, but is restricting the public the best way to tackle it?
Meanwhile, he (Fashloa) still drives around town with his entourage.

Couldn't he start by re-configuring the public transportation condition in Lagos?

Nairalanders, ur views r very welcome,
Let the opinions start rolling, [/b]
PoliticsFashola And His Ideas by chychy(op): 12:25pm On Jan 18, 2008
[b]The other day, while preparing 4 work, i was listening to one of our local radio stations and the topic 4 d day was car "spooling" or "pooling", i ain't sure what d word is anymore.

U know what his next plan is? To place a levy on cars that drive only one person. It might not be effective asap but it is in the offing. He wants to "force" pple to hitch rides in order to ease the traffic in Lagos State. For instance, if i live in ur neighbourhood and our kids school in d same place or neighbourhood, we are supposed to take turns in driving all of them to school.

That is ok as far as i'm concerned but what happens when i'm going to work, market or school?

Yes the traffic situ in Lagos needs an overhaul, but is restricting the public the best way to tackle it?
Meanwhile, he (Fashloa) still drives around town with his entourage.

Couldn't he start by re-configuring the public transportation condition in Lagos?

Nairalanders, ur views r very welcome,
Let the opinions start rolling, [/b]
CultureRe: Where Re U From? by chychy(f): 11:40am On Jan 18, 2008
I'm from Nnewi South LGA,
Unubi is my villa
Anambra State
CareerHuman Resources Professionals Or Anyone That Can Help by chychy(op): 11:06am On Jan 18, 2008
What is an appraisal letter?
What r d contents of an appraisal letter?
How do i get registered with a Professional HR Institute?


How does one come up with a leave plan for a company?

Your response is very much appreciated. Useful links too.

Thank you
RomanceRe: Help Me I`m Confused About This Chik by chychy(f): 11:01am On Jan 18, 2008
[color=#006600]Did i just leave one romance 4rum 4 another? Here i am thinking i'm in d careers forum huh huh

Hisses and zooms off[/color]
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Is The Most Important Quality That Men Look For In Women by chychy(f): 10:24am On Jan 18, 2008
Guys want a Mother Theresa in Public
A Madonna behind closed doors
A Bree Van DeKamp that will cook his meals
A Meredith (Disclosure: can't remember her real name) when she's going to work (stunning looks and dress sense 4 d office)
and an emotional side of u that tells him he's d man.

Se fini.
RomanceRe: Whats Wrong With My Relationship? Help Me! by chychy(f): 9:44am On Jan 18, 2008
I'm even surprised u put up with her attitude 4 so long.

It's obvious she aint in2 u, try hard to move on, cut ur losses. She even took u 4 a fool with all d lies n constant deceit.

If she respected u at all, she'd have come 2 u to tell u that she'd met someone else. Apparently, that ain't one of her strong points.

At least u've learnt, take consolation in that. She DOES NOT DESERVE U.

Nairaland GeneralRe: Can Blind People See Their Dreams? by chychy(f): 9:08am On Jan 18, 2008
I think a blind person shd be able to c in his/her dreams cos while dreaming, we really do not use our eyes but our mind's eye.

I stand to be corrected.
RomanceRe: My Ex Boyfriend Is Back Should I Date Him Back by chychy(f): 8:50am On Jan 18, 2008
[tr]While i'd agree with Seun, i'd also say u shd weigh ur options.

In ur heart of hearts, do u really wanna go back and y? Search deep within u dear because the answer to this thread lies in u.

How do u know he won't start asking 4 sex all over again?
[/tr]
Christianity EtcRe: Is The Roman Catholic Pope Born Again by chychy(f): 5:15pm On Jan 17, 2008
Ganjaseed:
Pope is not born again. Infact The Pope does not know what born again is. He is an anti Christ.
Thou shall not blaspheme

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