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 Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Circumcised! by chychy(f): 12:55pm On Mar 21, 2008 |
speechless is what i am  8) |
| Romance › Re: Is It Girl's Nature? by chychy(f): 12:40pm On Mar 21, 2008 |
[color=#006600]@ almond, u cldnt have explained it better. a girl most times just wans 2 be intimate with a guy she loves which isn't sex but 4 guys sex is evrything. most girls like almond said, indulge in sex just 2 keep d guy happy. a girl that truly loves a guy can do without sex but intimacy is sth every girl craves. really dont know how 2 describe intimacy but in a few words, i'd say it's just being with a guy she loves and loving evry bit of being with him. she cld wanna kiss, touc or just lie in ur arms bbut not sex, dunno if i mk any sense it aint easy 4 a chick in luv with a guy 2 cheat on him cos it takes more than just being Hot. a lot of things come in2 play.color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][i][/i] |
| Romance › Re: Boss And His Secretary Doing: In The Office by chychy(f): 12:27pm On Mar 21, 2008 |
efuah, u r so funny [color=#000099][/color]  |
| Culture › Re: Games You Played As A Child? by chychy(f): 12:15pm On Mar 21, 2008 |
ten-ten suwe hide n seek my brothers n i used 2 even act the mass we played voltron and so many others that do not even have names, \ this topic has got me reminiscing, childhood was sweet, no care in d world, mum and dad always there 2 provide  , unlike now when i'm thinkin of bf, work, and making a name 4 myself.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][b][/b] |
| Family › Re: A Small Touching Story For Professionals: by chychy(f): 11:41am On Mar 14, 2008 |
!!!!!!!!sad innit? how we lose sight of the little things that matter!!!!  |
| Romance › Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean? by chychy(f): 7:21pm On Mar 13, 2008 |
[color=#000099]baby, i think u have his heart like 70% it aint a guarantee but it's a good sign[/color] |
| Family › Re: Should A Working Couple Split The Bills? by chychy(f): 7:05pm On Mar 13, 2008 |
if u love ur partner, u'll help foot the bills esp if u r gainfully employed. this is d 21st century damn it. like almond said, nothing is ever 50-50. a man shd know it is his responsibility and a loving wife should know that she is supposed 2 help. c'est fini |
| Family › Re: Unbelievable: Woman Sat On Toilet For 2 Years by chychy(f): 1:42pm On Mar 13, 2008 |
MORBID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
| Family › Re: Thank You Dad! by chychy(f): 1:37pm On Mar 13, 2008 |
back when i was a child, before life removed all d innocence i remember how it used be when u travelled, i was always disturbin mum askin when u'd be back n when u came back i'd jump on u there r days i dont appreciate u enuff, there r days i aint thankful 4 u but God knows in my heart of hearts that i love u n pray 4 someone that will treat me as u treat mum. thank u 4 giving me life, education, discipline and so much love. i may not always show ir but i'm thankful 4 u and i hope God keeps u alive to reap d fruit of ur labour. I love u. |
| Romance › Re: Question For Guys: by chychy(f): 1:31pm On Mar 13, 2008 |
@ fredrika pls i hope u aint lookin @ datin already, u aint ready yet. in good time, it will all fall into place. |
| Romance › Re: Will You Marry A GIRL That Is Smarter Than You? by chychy(f): 11:41am On Mar 13, 2008 |
think of ur kids oh n like someone mentiond, as long as she does not use it against u. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 4:47pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
@ sam, Welcome 2 nairaland, trust me, there's always sth 2 laugh about. |
| Romance › Re: Husband Left Me. What Can I Do To Get Him Back? Or Should I? by chychy(f): 4:42pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
almond, u sure made a whole lotta sense. |
| Romance › Re: Husband Left Me. What Can I Do To Get Him Back? Or Should I? by chychy(f): 4:12pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
sad really. i do agree with reloaded but that mistake has been made. |
| Romance › Re: Husband Left Me. What Can I Do To Get Him Back? Or Should I? by chychy(f): 2:27pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
y does it hurt so bad? y does it leave some of us sad? Love!!! Love!!! Love!!! @ Fredrika, life is 2 short 2 dwell on what might have been. pls move on and draw ur strength 4rm God. |
| Romance › Re: Husband Left Me. What Can I Do To Get Him Back? Or Should I? by chychy(f): 1:54pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
u wore the shoes so u know where it hurts but i do agree with your decision even though i wld still say give him more time. u mean u've not met his mum in 6 frigging years? now that says a lot about him. but i think you should have insisted. all that is in d past now n i can imagine how betrayed u feel but God is ur strength. concentrate on urself n ur kids. i really am short of words. as 4 helping a total stranger, u have seun 2 thank. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 12:21pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
@ aisha spoken like a true woman n i second d part of taking an already over due vacation. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 7:34pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
@ sam wow, double wow u indeed r vereeeee pretty. thanx 4 sharin your email addy. u really r a nice person. u take ur time 2 reply everyone who has contributed or offered advice, i admire that n i've learnt 4rm u. |
| Romance › Re: Virgin Or Not? by chychy(f): 6:19pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
good girl. yeah maybe he thinks u're a good girl n i guess he knows u r good 2. but u've said it. congrats. let him live in his own world if he likes. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 6:07pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
@ efuah, the poem on your profile is sad n sweet. i like it. @ sam, funny enuff, i'm in love with an igbo man that does not love me too. y does love have 2 hurt? |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 4:58pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
@ sam i'm good. pls do be strong 4 ur child. have included u in my prayer list. |
| Romance › Re: hj by chychy(f): 2:07pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
diff strokes 4 diff folks. if u guys get married, what wld she ask 4? an orgy? like everyone said, na still girlfriend. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 12:53pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
@ jkpretty, thanx (blushing ) but i really dont c how this is different from all my other contributions on n/land. i just followed my heart. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 12:33pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
well, wat can i say? we all mistakes n it takes a gentleman 2 realise and apologise. i'm sure sam will take it in good stride, she is a nice person 4rm her posts so far. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 12:11pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
@ talk2sulta, now, that's a gentleman |
| Family › Re: A Boy Or Gurl ,which Would You Prefer As Your First Child ? by chychy(f): 10:59am On Mar 10, 2008 |
jkpretty:same here. |
| Family › Re: My Parent Rejected My Spouse by chychy(f): 10:01am On Mar 10, 2008 |
Right on nwando if the only condition is his disability. |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 9:46am On Mar 10, 2008 |
@ nwando, well said. @ whitelexi, i believe evryone is entitled 2 their opinion n if u feel that sam shd stay with a guy just cos he's d father of her child and who treats her like trash then u really need 2 be examined. u read her story as did every other person on this thread. u wanna tell me that if u were female, u'd put up with that kinda fiance? how she did it 4 10 whole years is bad enuff. if he was gonna change 4 d better and he did not within these 10 yrs when wld he change? Love has never been easy 4 some pple and i think sam has paid that sacrifice 4 her fiance long enuff. not many pple will stick around a guy 4 that long but she did and what did she get in return? emotional abuse, financial abuse, and plain being taken advantage of. like nwando said, it's not easy just putting it all behind u and moving on esp if u've invested so much of everything but by God she has tried. u know y i could relate 2 her story, i love like that so all it took me was 2 put myself in her shoes. Sam, how r u doing n how is ur child? U talked 2 God yet? |
| Romance › Re: South African Lady In Love With Igbo Man - Desperate For Advice Please by chychy(f): 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2008 |
that's good news. i agree with u and i truly support what u did. but now, it's time to think about u. leave ur son n ur fiance out of this. i can c y u fell 4 "him". it takes a man of worth not to have taken advantage of u. pls do get away from ur fiance 4 a while, like u mentioned, u're good enuff 2 do everything else 4 him except be his wife n my dear, u have tried. u have stood by him through thick n thin n he can't convince his folks that u're 4 him? i know u loved him @ a time but u've been his slave 4 too long. the guy needs some serious counseling. in fact, i think he shd go 2 hell - God 4give me. please dear, stop thinking about pleasing pple, human beings take advantage of that a lot, i've been there. ur fiancee aint worth u at all. it's natural 4 u 2 want ur son's happiness but who says u both cannot be happy? from what i c, u've lived a life of complacency and God made u 4 a lot more than that. take charge and i do hope u end up with "him" cos i c he's d sunshine in ur life. i dunno if u believe in God. if u do, now's d time 2 talk 2 Him n let him guide u. even if u don't, try Him n c. all d best. n pls be strong ok? |
