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shogsman:
Celebrating unintelligent mediocres who has nothing to offer the society than their uncladness is the height of stupidity.

Stupidity indeed... Showing cleavage to the world, doesn't make one beautiful.

Why this old woman dey worry toto now. Toto, i beg, no just reply this yeye woman.. she just dey call people name dey put them for the matter. Yeye dey smell.

Yeye man way no fit advise him wife well. Instead way he go knack the woman well make she happy, he say the woman dey feel bad because of one yeye rape way she enjoy with one man 20years ago... Dem come carry themselves come outside dey talk rubbish.. Yeye dey smell.

[quote author=OladimejiRufai post=84210194]Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.
I love you... You said it all.

Godsfavour78:
and you are sure it is his daughter?
How you take dey reason self? I like know. Nor be insult

The fact that he agreed to a DNA in the first place shows that he has something to do with the girl's mother.. As for the result,,Hmmmmmmmm,,This is Nigeria,and everyone is a **********

If you reject person,you reject him everything .Madam,which one be say you wan keep ring again?.... Wetin that one mean?.... Well sell am, take am compensate the forkery for nothing way you do with person way no regard you... Yeye dey smell,you destroyed your life because of man way no send you.... See am now....

Love indeed.. He fit swear say him never knack another babe since that time...

Davido go dey regret the one night stand way him do with this girl mama... Davido that i know loves children,and won't be happy that a child is not in school because of money,not to mention his own daughter...... Na shame shame of wetin people go talk dey make people deny their thing.... The future will tell.

Hunger never catch you .Must you eat chicken?

I love toto and bobrisky so very much.

Bobrisky and Toto love no be here oooooo..Hmmmmmmm!!!!

Becareful what you ask for because south Africans dey vex ooooooo,,people way kill the only star( lucky dube) way dem get. Dem no get joy oooooo... Hmmmmmmm!!!

If her kidney is affected,it would be better if she died. stupidity at it's peak.

Handsome boy, she has got.

Yeye girl way pursue the man way she for marry,sake of say she win one yeye show.... You never start to dey change man,yeye dey smell.

The mad man stand well well, the son come carry one foot to Lagos,carry the other foot go Abuja say na standing he stand. Yeye dey smell.

Mummy's pet.
R.I.P. mama charley.

Make Dem no take over being careful wound this baby ooooo.... May God be his guide, because human beings dey Fu*k up..

Misisimu ovuleria is alive.Thank God

Toke body too dey sweet am too much... showing off too much .Na wa oooo.

Na Ghana people dey like do this kind thing... Hmmmmmm!!!!

Genevieve oyinbo too much,just like pastor Chris... Dem no wan do African things at all.

Abomination of the highest order.

Kpako yansh

What is wrong in telling the world that her kitty is wide. Correct girl, cucumber go fall on you ,you hear.. no mind them.

Ifemide123:
Have you seen a picture of davido's second daughter? The one he had with his abroad based baby mama, you'd think the dancing senator(his uncle) is the dad. Such a striking resemblance. What am trying to say is davido didn't love this one, he just had a one night stand with her and it produced a child he didn't bargain for. That's why women need to be careful also, once some men are not mentally or emotionally connected to you, there's no way they'd bring themselves to love a child from you. Yoruba will say " it is the woman you love that you love her child"

Linda will know better... Carry yourself give man no mean say man go send you. Yeye dey smell.

Black and yellow.

They took him to mama... When trouble come dem go remember mama...when Dem agile na to dey pursue women up and down. No mind them femi,everybody gots him life to live.

Go and reduce weight and stop praising yourself,wetin attractive for excess fat..yeye dey smell.

derrydinny:
this evil woman that killed a peomising doctor and ruined the life of a family is roaming free and nobody sees anything wrong in it, anything goes in nigeria

The family of the deceased forgave,what is your problem?. To err is human, forgiveness is divine..