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Politics / Re: EFCC Probes Aisha Buhari's N3.8billion Secret House by CICERO09(m): 4:34pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
I don't knw y buh dis sound like a joke tho 3 Likes |
Education / Re: Alexandra Shoneyin Recognised By Obama For Her Academic Excellence - Photos by CICERO09(m): 4:32pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Babe close dat armpit pls |
Sports / Re: Stephen Keshi's Son, Stephen Jnr (photos) by CICERO09(m): 4:31pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Everybody is cute to this nairaland girls sha ...shame |
Phones / Re: What Is Special About The Infinix Hot 3 ? by CICERO09(m): 10:29am On Jun 18, 2016 |
D phone is not different from hot 2 or hot 1 just d same bullshit |
Romance / Re: I Am Tired Of Play Boys I Need A Real Man.(photos) by CICERO09(m): 2:55pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
We only attract people who we want to attract 1 Like |
Crime / Re: 300L ANSU Student Commits Suicide As Alleged (pictured) by CICERO09(m): 4:34pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Am you ask me why am still single nd living healthy |
Phones / Re: Tecno Camon C8 Discussion Thread [HOT] by CICERO09(m): 8:49pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Please how much can i sell my camon like 6mnths old already |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: Should I Buy Tecno Boom J8 Now Or Wait For Camon C9? by CICERO09(m): 7:01pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
I would go for d j8 if iwere u |
Fashion / Re: Acne Face Kit by CICERO09(m): 12:04am On Jun 09, 2016 |
See this life is packaging u can package that soap better |
Health / Re: My Back/waste Hurt Soo Much Pls Epp by CICERO09(m): 11:54pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
Try dropping dat ur olosho free giver for a change |
Health / Re: My Back/waste Hurt Soo Much Pls Epp by CICERO09(m): 11:54pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
Try dropping dat ur olosho free giver for a cha |
Romance / Re: Most Girls Always Feel Proud When They Have Lots Of Suitors by CICERO09(m): 11:52pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
Why not just ask Google 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: JJC Proposed Marraige To FUNKE Akindele-see Prove by CICERO09(m): 11:52pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
Huhmm just in case 1 Like 1 Share |
Phones / Re: Tecno Camon C8 Discussion Thread [HOT] by CICERO09(m): 9:35am On May 23, 2016 |
Rilwayne001:yea das hw it happens after some time of usage like 3weeks ur own self will start |
Phones / Re: Tecno Camon C8 Discussion Thread [HOT] by CICERO09(m): 11:33pm On May 22, 2016 |
Too much bugs in d marshmallow haba some of my apps even force close by itself |
Phones / Re: Tecno Camon C8 Discussion Thread [HOT] by CICERO09(m): 9:23pm On May 22, 2016 |
Can someone please help my message keeps telling me "unfortunately message has stopped" i tried clearing the data and cache still same problem pls quick response |
Romance / Re: 7 Things Consummation Before Marriage Could Do To You by CICERO09(m): 4:45pm On May 15, 2016 |
cruzita:good choice |
Romance / 7 Things Consummation Before Marriage Could Do To You by CICERO09(m): 4:26pm On May 15, 2016 |
There have been series of talks and advises about premarital sex; whether to do it or abstain from it. The issue of sex in a relationship is a very delicate one. There are series of misconceptions about when sex should be introduced in a relationship and if at all it should be a major key in that relationship. It is pointless saying this but we would say it nevertheless; sex is binding and whether you like it or not, there are some spiritual implications attached to it. No one is here to preach, we would rather be weighing the advantages, ills and perhaps consequences that may arise from the abuse of sex in a relationship. At the end of this piece, it would be totally up to you to decide whether you want to do it or whether you would take a chill break. Either way, you would be the architect of your own fortune. Young ladies who are virgins are always under pressure and do not know if they should give in to the advances of the men they are in relationship with as most men challenge their love for them in the absence of sex. Find below some of the things that could happen to your relationship as soon as you start having sex: 1. YOU COULD BECOME CLOSER When couples who are in a relationship start to have sex, they become closer. They feel like they have seen all there is to see in each other and become more free. A part of you is given to your partner as soon as allow a man reach the deepest part of you; in the same light, a part of him is taken by you. It could be likened to the communing of spirits where both of your bodies have been merged as one in that moment of heat and sexual tension. 2. IT COULD PULL YOU A PART Another thing that could happen to you after having sex with your partner is gradual withdrawal. Now, no one is talking about the contraceptive method implored; what most people fail to consider is the fact that their partners may become irritated by them and lose interest in the affair. Many people are seemingly inspired by the freshness and innocence of a relationship that they lose the connection as soon as sex is involved. The adventure and chasing is what many people enjoy when they are in a relationship. 3. TOU COULD BECOME A WANTON With sex, it is very difficult to stop once you start. As a woman, once that thin hymen is broken in a wave of passion, it takes serious grace for you to hold on and not do it. This means you become Oliver Twist and you do not want to stop until you get more. What is the indication that you would marry your present partner? Is there any proof you would not sleep with someone else other than him since you are not married? 4. IT BECOMES A POINT OF PAIN In relationships, people break up and then move on. After talking to some people who have had bad relationships which led to them breaking up, it was discovered that sex becomes a point of pain after a while. To a man, it could be some sort of glory. But for many women, it is not a glory they prefer to bask in. They hate to remember how their bodies were touched with their inner treasure plundered by men who they now consider undeserving. Which would be your tale? 5. A DIFFERENT PHASE OF LOVE Many couples take their relationships to the next level through consummation. Having sex with your partner creates some sort of connection between couples. Sex is a form of promoting love to most couples and they do this to make their relationships get better. Some people have no regret doing this even when they break up but many get married to their partners even after the deed has been done. 6. A CONSCIOUSNESS OF SIN The very religious ones know that sex is a sin as the wedding bed should remain undefiled. Marriage is honorable and intending couples are expected to walk into holy matrimony with pure souls and bodies. Many people are left with a sense of guilt when they have sex or attempt consummation after the clause of marriage. Words like adultery and fornication come into play then with many dying inside. 7. THE RISK OF ALTERING YOUR DESTINY Having sex in a relationship would no doubt spice up the affair especially if there are material gains and trips attached to it. However, you may be at risk of ending up with the wrong partner or ruining your chance of the happily-ever-after dream. Unwanted pregnancy could lead you to marriage faster than you planned and for those who attempt abortion, the guilt may take forever to fade. Even if you play safe, have you also considered the risk of contracting viral diseases? Having said all these, which is your take? To steer clear do away with the fear! |
Celebrities / Re: Uju Stella: "I Am Pregnant For Burna Boy" - Lady Claims by CICERO09(m): 7:45pm On May 13, 2016 |
Naija celebrities re notin to write home about 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Kind Of Kissing Is This At A Traditional Wedding? by CICERO09(m): 3:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
PunkyV:haba fear God oh! U knw dem b4 |
Romance / Re: What Kind Of Kissing Is This At A Traditional Wedding? by CICERO09(m): 3:18pm On May 13, 2016 |
ONLY IF U KNEW HOW LONG IT TOOK HER TO GET THIS MAN LOCKED DOWN UNA CON SAY MAK SHE NO CHOOP HIM MOUTH ..Let her njoy jare |
Celebrities / Re: 10 Nigerian Rappers Who Should Quit Rapping And Go Into Trade. by CICERO09(m): 6:42am On May 12, 2016 |
MuhdG:Boogey is so underrated fah..den MI abaga is nxt bt English too much i avnt listen to jagz thou |
Celebrities / Re: 10 Nigerian Rappers Who Should Quit Rapping And Go Into Trade. by CICERO09(m): 6:41am On May 12, 2016 |
Deapexboy:buh u prefer if ur kid rap to my bitches love me...bros on a sincere note even does ppl do hav good lyrical contents..d only reason u hear all does kid of songs in nigeria is because fans re so eager for artist to b like dere foreign counterparts now lil kesh trying to copying this ppl has to say all does craps |
Celebrities / Re: 10 Nigerian Rappers Who Should Quit Rapping And Go Into Trade. by CICERO09(m): 9:57pm On May 11, 2016 |
Its so shameful that we expect our homebased rappers to sound like foreigners for Christ sakes even a french man wont rap in English.. If u re so interested in foreign raps i think u should listen to them nd stop ranting by the way wat d hell does LIL WAYNE ND DRAKE SAY ALL I HEAR IS CRAP....O.P GROW UP..OR USE D NXT TRANSFORMER 14 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: If Not For Money Or Sperm, Women Really Have No Need For Men - Charly Boy by CICERO09(m): 11:16am On May 10, 2016 |
delightf:u re just a bloated sadist |
Celebrities / Re: If Not For Money Or Sperm, Women Really Have No Need For Men - Charly Boy by CICERO09(m): 11:14am On May 10, 2016 |
nerodenero:and without d head d neck is useless we re interwoven |
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by CICERO09(m): 10:03pm On May 08, 2016 |
Gmajor:pls wat do u call a nights watch man who relates well with the wilderlens or so nd i remember wen it was mentioned in season 6 episode 2 ...listen dnt just watch 4 actions to appen |
TV/Movies / Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by CICERO09(m): 10:00pm On May 08, 2016 |
simi4me:it makes a bit sense dat series cant continue witout jon snow..bt pls y bring useless aleric back to life aww so disgusting |
TV/Movies / Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by CICERO09(m): 6:57pm On May 08, 2016 |
Dem just spoil this film everybody coming bck to life doesn't mak sense dey should take a cue from game of thrones d dead should stay dead..i loved this series b4 now it's total crap |
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by CICERO09(m): 6:55pm On May 08, 2016 |
Gmajor:you dey watch back of tv |
Celebrities / Re: Juliet Ibrahim, Her Mother And Her Sisters (Photo) by CICERO09(m): 6:35pm On May 08, 2016 |
optional1:you no fine abi wetin |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Blackberry Pin Exchange (bb Pin) by CICERO09(m): 6:31pm On May 08, 2016 |
Add dis number to join the real dudes nd divas lounges on WhatsApp 08161362892 |
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