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Ogbunigwe2018:
Something in me, tells me the story isn't complete.

That's just exactly what happened, why would I hoard anything when seeking for advice

marshalldgreat:
. I have had similar experience... I was driving to get food that night and some F-SARS men stopped me at woji road in GRA, they searched my car and saw the card of septrin i was taking for cough, and that's it... I was taken to Ozuoba police station and i paid 20k just to bail myself

Cases like this makes you even feel safer with a thief than a police.

marshalldgreat:
Ehen go on

I was granted bail, but money was paid... I dint feel good about this, because my intentions was to help. And this was even in my area

So I asked the police, is this why I am under arrest? For bringing her here, when I thought I was assisting you, and besides this is a domestic issue, and the person involved is your sibling and not a kid. He's a full grown adult.. Not too long I was taken to the station I was refused permission to call a lawyer, they collected my phone. Forced me to write statements... The most annoying thing was I was out in a cell why the so called brother was still discussing with his sister and a man who may be her neighbour... The police was even tling me next time u don't help people u don't know...

I was able to be granted bail after certain money was paid, and asked to return on Thursday... Please I would need your legal advices on such issues?

The attitude of the police is what increases crimes even, and they were saying next time don't help people.. How rude that sounds..

The police asked me to provide the boy that asked for the assistance, so I made it clear that even if that person were to be waiting at the spot in front of my gate, he will abscond with the appearance of a man dragging me to his direction.. So far as I was concerned I saw him even minutes after moving a distance, but am sure he may had run away..

Please I permit anyone to say where am wrong, thank you...

So I took the phone out to locate the incoming family member, also called her with my phone to bring her to the clinic. She described her dress and I was able to meet her at the roundabout.. Immediately I identified myself I saw two men walked to me and held me by my waist identifying themselves as policemen, I wouldn't had been bothered except for the aggressive approach. So I asked the woman what's wrong, she said she has not seen her brother for 3 days, Then she showed me pieces of passports, which I could identify with, I told her that's the admitted guy I saw... When we went to the clinic, luckily the guy was even laying on the bed.. The sister was saying u, where have u been, so I asked her is he a kidnapper she said no, did he kill, or rape, she said no. She said her brother Was to pay nepa bill of N10, 000. But he has eaten the money and ran away... I was so upset.

Please I would like to ask those of us who are Lawyers in the house in such a case, what are my rights... I'd appreciate your responses God bless you...

In the afternoon hours of today, I was at my home in Odili Road, being a small estate, we have 4 houses and a clinic on same street, so it's easier to spot a stranger when we see one.
I came out and I noticed a young man on the phone in front of the health facility, and he excused me and ask for the name of the street, so I told him that the houses here don't have numbers, and the street is just identified off Peter Odili Road, so I asked him if there was a problem, he said a guy was rushed into the clinic and they want to get to the family, and the sister is on her way, but cant locate here.. I walked into the clinic and asked to see the patient and I was allowed to see him, I asked him how he feels, he spoke and asked if the little phone belonged to him. He said yes

Police no dey see these ones

The video couldn't play on my phone but I think the boy is wrong by beating his elder sis just because her mother chased his father away,and as for his uncle he shouldn't have slept with his landlord's daughter but I suggests the landlord should give him two weeks more then if he didn't pay his house rent,he should go and marry another wife before the igwe calls another village meeting, thank you.

Why them no dey help males, do for someone you won't get anything in return... Suspicious Help

Reservations

Just wandering, a closer look at this photo seems to speak differently...

It will only get worse, too many political holders are cultists too... They belong to the so called degbam and DE well

So you mean to say Amaechi is responsible for these boys who rob people on the street?

Please, for those of us living around Port Harcourt, I would like to get your opinions on why the state has been the headquarters of Cultism.. Very Little Kids around this state aged 16/17 can even Collect your phone at Gun point, No jokes.

Is there anyway this can stop, elections has come and gone, but this isn't electoral vices, The number of growing kids with affiliation to cult related activities is alarming.. Its been ages since we last heard skmek e was caught for stealing around Here, be cause they don't need night to attack you, Around Mile 3/and other Diobu areas someone can rob you in broad day lightandd no one will say a word, this will never happened. In Lagos or Aba, nor any of the Eastern states...


Please what can be done?

You question is suspicious, you want to know how they did itPsychologically, I strongly believe you have the intention to carry such acts, thereby you need a tip on how to withdraw in such situations....


Don't ask us
Ask your bank

I've been wondering, do we now have Buhari, or have we all adapted to life under Jubril.. For those of use who believe we're been ruled by Jubril, why blame Buhari for incompetence?

clearie02:
Please my people, help a starving brother. I have been pleading for help for some days now. I'm a student who returned to school last week because of the prospects of exams starting on Monday and also because I was opportuned to enter a free ride. my family isn't bouyant enough and my dad has severe high BP that's why I had to find my way so as not to make him to start thinking about where to get money to give me. I haven't eaten a decent food since I got back and am starving.


I am soliciting for help from well meaning people who will be touched enough to hear my plight and have mercy. I am not asking for much, no matter how little, it will go a long way. God bless you all

Bro, you have data, you have an Android phone, sell it and help yourself

Buhari has nothing to do with a personal selfish attitude... If your wicked you are wicked, nothing concern Buhari

Increase odds please

If you feel these politicians are your friends, try calling them after election... Be wise, their kids are In London

Must All your prophesies be relaxing to politics, senators, and Governors?

Am not saying send me money, am asking if you have been making money...

oyonu:
Op don't you know that the forex market is highly liquid and risky? It's profitable and at the same time, you can loss all your money. Before trading, you are always warned to only trade with what you can loss. forex like stock trading is a risky business that pays but takes time to understand and do well in. visit babypips.com to get more on how to trade forex

You sound successful, after visiting babypips, can we have a copy of your withdrwals..

That's not the point, the issue is not it's liquidity, have you, after visiting babypips.com made money out of it? If you have, I would like to see your withdrwals. Thanks

I want to share with you ally experience when I was fooled into the Forex market. I was made to believe that I could easily make $50 everyday, and Forex was just buying and selling of currencies. For those new, this may sound so true, but in reality it is not.

In buy and selling, you have you mind at peace and also can dictate the flow and peace ofind when doing business.. whereas in Forex immediately you open a trade, you BP level gets higher; this is because you're gambling.

For those who are on the marketing level, who introduce you to the Forex market, the question is: Are they making $50 per day? If they are, why are they coming to show you? The hard truth is, the fee you pay for learning is their main goal. They charge to teach you.

Now do this maths.
I Can earn $50 perday for a skill, why would I spend so much time going on the streets and holding too many seminars to bring students who would learn and pay me monthly for me to teach them how to earn with me...
An average Nigerian won't do that.

In order to be quite cautious, ask all those who had past experiences in Forex to show you their profit level. What they achieved through Forex.

Be warned!!!!

alfred007:
virgins mind not this op

virginity is the beat wedding gift u can give ur husband.

thank u

So if a woman isn't a virgin, there be no need paying na abi? cos she won't have a give to offer....

the sound of the word "virginity".
So why do (most) guys hate virgins?
Firstly, before we commense. We (especially girls) need to understand that men are visual in nature not emotional. Men are sexual beings and are sexually driven. The earlier women accept this the easier time they will have understanding men. They are attracted to girls with nice asses not nice personalities (at least at the beginning of a relationship, of course, we care about personality but I'm talking about initial attraction here).
Now that's our of the way, let's discuss the 7 reasons guys detest virgins:
1. The virgin stereotype
This stereotype says that virgins are naive, ignorant about sex, dull, prude, have to be handled carefully, care-less about a man's sexual needs, too emotional, extra careful, play too hard to get etc. Dating a virgin to many guys is a burden, someone you would have to encourage to kiss, someone you would have to beg to reach second base. Remember guys are physically aroused. Virgins come across as choosy, love conscious and will rebuff a guy's sexual advances. Most guys would ask, "why the stress?"
2. The icing on the cake
Most times a guy likes a girl and goes after her 'aggressively'. During the 'toasting' stage, he is all about love and isn't deterred when the girl tells him of her 'virgin' status. He is love-struck obviously. He tells her "I want you for who you are not for the sex". She's like "awwwww, that's so sweet of you Wilson". They start dating.
Did he mean it? Obviously.
Will he mean it in a few months time?
Hell no.
When his sexual genes begin to take effect, his eyes begin to wonder and his hands begin to feel some soft God made portions of her body, no one will tell Wilson that although this cake is sweet, icing will make it perfect. He begins to ask her for icing, she reminds him of his earlier "I don't care if you are virgin" stand. The sexual friction begins to take its toll. Three things would happen; she gives in and loses the virginity to him, she doesn't give in and he cheats on her to get the icing from somewhere else or they break up. Sad ending right?
Guys think this far and ask themselves, "why the stress?".Super glue nature: A few years back, a friend of mine.
3. Super glue nature
A few years back, a friend of mine. Let's call her Becky (not her real name). She is beautiful with a body to die. She asked me to disvirgin her. No joke. I liked her but being the man that disvirgined a girl I hardly felt anything for scared the hell out of me. I couldn't.
Are my alone in this school of thought? Nope. But why? Simple.
Most virgins are clingy 95% of the time. A girl kept her virginity for so long, the guy that takes it away has to be special to her and when he does, she never forgets him. A lot of girls get clingy and kinda devoted to the guy that takes her virginity.

To prove my point, no girl ever forgets the name of the guy that disvirgined her. Ask around.
So why would a guy in this economic recession be entangled with a girl that can't stay away from him because she lost her virginity to him?
He would ask himself, "why the stress?"
4. Opening the floodgates
Remember Becky from number 3? Yes the girl that begged me to disvirgin her. So she was finally disvigined by another guy and according to her was enjoying sex so much that she had had sex with about 5 guys as of last year. This was a girl that was a virgin for 25 years andin two yearshad done the nasty with 5 other guys. The floodgates have been opened.
I asked myself, so not only would I be the one she would forever remember as her first, I would now have the guilt of opening the door for other men to enter? No way.
Some guys would ask themselves,
"Why the stress?".
5. Impatience
Let's use John and James' story to understand this point. So John just started seeing Blessing who is not a virgin, after a few days of dating, they both do the nasty. She has done the nasty before and he also has experience. They both bring their external experiences together to make a mind blowing sexual adventure.
James on the other hand is seeing the shy, and reserved Kemi who is a virgin. Sex comes up and she shrugs him off. After sometimes, it comes up again, she agrees to try it but is scared. He has to "talk" her through it. Tell her it's going to be okay. Makes sure she doesn't hurt. Makes sure he takes it easy with her. Makes her feel comfortable. Tries it the first time, she cries and stops. Tries it a week after, same result. After a dozen trials, she finally gets comfortable but with her lack of experience, sex for James is boring and uneventful.
John is enjoying his love life and his sex life while James is struggling on both ends of the rope.
They meet and while discussing, John asks James, "why all all stress?"
6. Heartbreak
This part of the article really happened to me. I hope she doesn't get to read this but I just have to use the story to buttress this point. Growing up, I dated this beautiful girl. She was a virgin and I didn't mind. I was more or less a virgin too then. After a while, I causally made the "sex move", she gently rebuffed my advances. I locked up (became unbothered). She then gave me an ultimatum, let's date for a year and then we do the nasty. I said OKAY.
Getting to a year, we started having friction and I knew deep down I wasn't going to spend much time with her anymore. She was still a virgin mind you. A few weeks after our first year anniversary, we saw and as expected she came prepared to be disvigined but I ended up breaking up with her. Why? I could have taken her virginity and still broken up with her right?

We weren't working and I didn't want to dirvigin her and break up with her too. That would have been heartbreaking for her. So we parted ways. She cried but I felt in my heart that we did the right thing.
Fast forward about four years after our breakup, she wasn't a virgin any longer, one thing led to another we did the nasty as "just friends". Difference was I didn't have to break her heart to get in her pants. We still friends till now.
Good guys ask themselves, if it's sex I want, why deceive a virgin with love and end up breaking her heart, "why the stress?".
7. Fling
Lastly and the most glaring reason why most guys detest virgins is because they are interested in a quick fling and not a long term committed relationship. A guy that loves you would see beyond sex but in the same vein, will most girls that love a guy see beyond money?
It begs to ask the question,
"WHY THE STRESS?"

Nigeria has more churches than the entire Europe, yet they are dumb and wicked people....

chemystery:
Very biblical my brother. For it is written that the ways of god is not the ways of man. That's why god chooses to work only in mysterious ways.

God speaks to me always. You only need the holy spirit to guide you before you understand these things

God speaks to you, and don't speak to amputees? Don't you see a problem with this?

chemystery:
Priorities bro, it's called priorities.

God's priority is to give people job, promotion, make A's in your exam grade, etc
When he is done with all such prayer request above, maybe he will consider prayers of amputees

Bro are u speaking for God? is this biblical? or from your own understanding

Dear Christians, this jas bothered me so much, os it a personal dislike for them?

Don't want to talk about the Ebola case!!!!
None...

Now Monkey pox


Does God answer prayers? If so, then how do we explain this disconnection between God and amputees? What should we do with the piece of empirical data that amputees represent? We need to somehow explain why God would answer millions of prayers on earth, yet completely ignore prayers for amputated limbs.