Thanks! What I will make is a bestseller writer, have so many things on my head to write but can't just find the lead to that excellent book yet, my little construction here was inspiring me and egging me on. I tell myself if you can put up a little stage drama then you can write that your book.

I will see how it goes, lots of things are on my mind and won't just let me write and do some great things I know I can do, thanks very much Luiz just say a prayer for me.

How can I contribute to the success of your club? You have the personality to make a success out of real life club business. Ever thought of that?

Hi Tayo, hi Ulsher. How are you doing sweethearts? Hope good?

While dancing with 190, I noticed that Pweety was looking at me one-kind,one-kind and quietly but fearfully went to chat her up.

Cindy: Hi Pweety? How are you doing?

Pweety: G-o-o-d, no thanks.

Cindy: (shaken by the intensity of her answer took some steps backward and another hesistant step forward)and began to say
"I know you are angry with me over yesterday dear but believe me I wasn't really trying to act funny. I was only bored at
home not having a BF so I came to you guys club to hang out and enjoy myself. I admire your luiz for his charisma and ability to draw
people to himself but it was just a chat we had okay Baby". I like your club very much and I truly enjoyed hanging out here.

Pweety: (smiles on hearing Luiz being complimented and immediately cheered up) It's alright now, you are welcome make yourself comfortable

And the club rolled on and on and on

On her way out, she heard Pweety's voice at the gate close to the bouncer's spot.

Nnaa men, make I double my step before nwanyi ibem go disengage all the joint wey dey my body meeeeeeeeen. Laughs

Lots of MJ stuff on the Telly!!! I gotta run along

Holds out hands to Luizworld and shakes him, I beg to take my leave from your awesome club.
You sure are the best maitre de(or should it be paitre de) in town and your club is the bomb. Do get me the platinum member card for when next I visit ya club, I think I worked for it in disbanding all those fight at the club. Cheers goodnight

Just seeing this new version of MJ's "I'm bad" performed by some awesome american kids. It's so cute

Why not, it's better danced the daddy showkey style but not with both legs spread out mumuishly. Just add a little style to it while carrying the body gracefully and just dance!!!

Wait They are showing Michael Jackson's songs in the TV and they are so nice, you know today is his memorial------poor talented Michael. Now they are singing "I'm bad, I'm bad real real bad-----------

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NF6YDFp62_A

This song Danfo kpolongo "Aromatic Schnapp(how do they write schnapp again?) was about to starting----
Everybody bent their waist while holding one hand on their knees and the other hand on their back( you know the way Igbo mothers while doing their community dance bend down while waiting for their song to start fully, it is called "iche egwu" in Igbo)

It's funny but when I listen to the beginning of this song I feel like doing that, once in a birthdayparty while in the university, my roommate asked everybody to chee egwu at the beginning of a song and we all bent like that until the song started and it was so much fun as we were all giggling while bent and waiting.

I love this kpolongo song because of a hidden tune underneath its beat which I am sure it's not everybody that pays attention to that but I just love that tune

@Tayo
What's the sealed lip about, I am wondering whether you guys are about to gang up on me (the nairaland style). I hope not, anyway sha welcome to this thread. My brother wetin you wan make we nigerian women do when culture don talk am say woman no fit go find man pay dowry for. I don tanda dey wait, the Mr Right kwanu go dey come,come no dey notice me, come dey pass. I no wan watch my fertile years pass me by my brother and loneliness come dey wire me too. Na im I come tire say make I come NL come look. Abeg make una no pour me sand abi throw me stone (words)

ULSHERLAN:

so wat continent,country r u 4rm and where u based

Africa,  Nigeria, around, somewhere in our world

190 went to the stage and did some Michael Jackson moon walking and the club went like wildfire singing MJ's  Come on(kimmon), don't stop till you get enough---come-on(kimmon)".

OMG where did you get that fresh-from-Naija video? That rocks!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Abk1jAONjw

While dancing " just dance, everything is gonna be okay d-du-du just dance, spin the record babe d-du-dum


And the club heats up and up-----

@ulsherlan

Watch me get my heart's desire here
Why lie on my bed and wish for him when I can look here?

Clapping   clap-clap-clap

Yeah Luizworld is back in da club
Everybody make some noise!!!!!!!!!!--------all clapping for Luizworld and Luizworld was shyingly taking humble bows saying "thank you pips"

Now Luizworld some fellas tried to start some uproar in the club when you stepped out but everything is cool now. Now get your club rolling, we were enjoying some very nice music. Better tell your Dejay that we want the best jams okay


And the party went on and on and on-----------


Called Luizworld aside and whispers to him " Can we have something like a dance competition to stir up the club" , luizworld agrees and went to the mic and began to say----------

Yeah, you read me right.
Responsible, has a heart for God, honest, mature, enlightened?
mail me at cindygotherwish@yahoo.com

Have nothing against a younger and mature compatible man but will prefer 33 years old upward. Sorry I have to come here to search but do bear with me. It is still better than dying in silence and in loneliness. I'd rather live and be happy that is why I am here looking for the one.

I forgot to add that you have to be open minded enough to still be able to hang out and chill in a club with me (even if both of us don become papa and mama iyabo) and won't mind me playing my music a bit loud when I am doing some chores like laundering cos I love my music. Can't wait to meet you, days and months shouldn't be passing us by cos life is too short and too sweet to waste away.

Stoops down to dodge the blow of words between 190 and Abygul and approaches the two to stop the fight.

@190
I don't understand what is making a well respected gentleman in NL like you to do this in a club like this. Pull yourself together sweetheart, I am sure you don't want our Mama-Gee to hear that you are fighting in a club of all places and dissing a lady. Now don't be too angry with Abygul, come baby. Have a sit.

Apologises to Abygul and sits 190 down and talks to him while he simmers down.

190 later joined the dance floor to the sound of "I've got a feeling, that tonight is gonna be a good nite-e-e-e-e-e-

And the party rolls on and on and on-------------------

Catwalks in while satchaying at the same time, dressed in a silver one-shoulder-cut- out top bold-belted on a white short tight pant and standing on a a high-heel silver shoes with a silver hand clutch(purse). Walks to the bar, smiles at the bar-man and was handed a glass of Baylis. Glides her waist to the left and in a sweet model pose looks around and waves at Luizworld and Pweety.

Went to the Dejay, chatted him up and secretly(hate to give away this secret between me and dejays) gave him a list of songs she wants to hear blasted, joined the crowd and started dancing as the sound of  Lady Gaga's "Just dance" came blasting out. Let the party roll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now don't be mad at me but I love my music especially blasting high in a club. Come on Babies, join in----we 've only got one life to live! She dances on and on "Just dance, gonna be okay--d-du-dum just dance, spin the record Babe---------du-du-dum---------------

Why you come dey vex now, you dey job hunt. I fit helep look around. It's alright dear. Just having fun and enjoying my evening Ojare.

@ Idowuogbo

That was funny and at the same time nasty. Haven't you heard
That nastiness doesn't suit sweet ladies like you

lol
Hey! ladies now go easy on Ysg.
Mr Ysg abeg no play partial, you have to make spicy baby feel good too. Nodody likes being neglected you know.

@Spicy honey
Sorry sweetheart, I am sure it escaped his mind. In case you don't know, I am his PA personal assistant which is why I am reminding him cos he gets real busy. Bear wt him

@poster

Hope you understand dear.

Be careful dear so you don't make the mistake again, you don't up and have babies just like that because you are having baby blues. It is a natural feeling every woman has, at 33 I am dying to have babies but is still waiting for a husband to come along. It's unfair on the femine gender as some of us wait and wait and only watch their fertile years pass them by. I have come across a 38 years old unmarried lady that is very very depressed because of this. I wish our society is structured better than that and a lady won't have to wait like that but it is not and what can we do dear? It is good to have one's children inside a legalized marriage and afford them the great opprtunity of being trained by both their mother and father okay so keep a lid on having another baby for now until things are fixed good between you and your man and you guys are properly married
Take good care of yourself and your Baby too and it is very very important that you get something doing if you don't have already so that you will not be very dependent on him. If you are dependent on him ,it will be difficult for you when you leave him that is if he gets on being irresponsible so you need to be able to care for yourself and your baby.
    Come to think of it, if he loves you enough to leave where he was and come be with you then your love is strong and I will advise that you fight hard for what you two have, women does the gathering together in a relationship most of the time so you need patience and wisdom to get his eyes off blingy looking women. Never stop taking good care of your look, it's not easy to care for a baby, cook for your man and maintain a spotless look but it's important you keep looking fashionable for him okay Baby and never cease making him happy okay. Roman 12 ending said When you reward a person that is offending you with good that you are heaping coals of shame on them which may give them a change of heart. Wishing you happiness dear.

@madukaele
Why are you being this hard on this lady, okay she has made the mistake. Nailing her to the cross will not make her feel better but worse. She is really worried and needs advice. There is no need crying over spilt milk and talking down on her like that.

@poster
You should have persuaded your man( I don't agree with nailing a man with pregnancy) for you two to get married when you were pregnant for his child for the babies sake so that it can be born into wedlock, I am still proud of you for having the courage to give birth to your child while unmarried in our Nigerian society where people castigate with mouth and eyes for that.

Sit him down and talk to him, You need to open your eyes very well and watch your BF to see how responsible he really is with other women. If he isn't and is always after women then save yourself more disgrace and leave him but if he is responsible, has severed ties with the other lady as he said then tell him that you need him to make a responsible woman out of you and that you two should get married even if in a marriage registry. If he has put you in the family way then he should be ready to take on his responsibility as a family man, be faithful to you in marriage and take good care of the child you two have.

How come scientifically the patch method of contraceptives work, if it does then the body can equally absorb such fibroid killing cream. I am not against the proponents nor the opponent of this post just being open minded.
God is still in the business of granting people their heart desires and nothing stops him when he wants to do that, we humans can only imagine and think like the humans we are so if he decided to bless the said mama iyabo abi mama wetin, Glory be to his name.
Men should take it easy when slamming down on women and cajoling and being careless in matters that are close to their heart like having babies and getting married. You cannot understand some of these natural desires women have and so should not get all judgemental and hard on women.

@ osama and Cenor
Thanks guys for your support but I persuaded him severally that it's wise we don't date until he saw reasons wth me and we had to let the relationship go.
I have nothing against people with much age difference, if the parties like themselves but here we are in different timeline in relationship, I want to settle down and have children like tomorrow but he still have years ahead to plan for that. I never discussed that aspect with him, makes me uncomfortable and i don't think it's nice to start scaring a man with marriage talk but I weighed our situations and used my brain here. My instinct asked me to make good decision and I think I just did. Thanks brothers.

Abeg my people, na stories like this dey give ladies like me hypertension as it dey remind us like me of the ever ticking biological clock. Abeg make una follow me pray, I no dey shame, me I dey find husband to marry. I dey 33 dey go 34, my birthday is approaching and when dat day comes, what will I do if not be shedding tears of unhappiness if I still never marry by that time. Abeg to have pickin dey hungry me no be small but I no come get person wey go put the thing now and our culture don talk am say woman go just tanda dey wait make Mr. Right pass, that is if she dey lucky and the Mr. Right come notice am as im dey pass. I dey joke with am but I serious o
  Abi umu nwanyi ibem wetin una dey tell me. This thing don pass me o, eziokwu. If no be for this culture sef wey dey partial me I go go get mmanya ngwo go begin look for One fine man wey go gree make I pay im dowry. I wan born son tomorrow morning, come born another son next tomorrow morning and come next next tomorrow, I wan born my baby girl. Abeg I no wan reach 40 come begin dey pray for miracles, I still get time now but tell me wetin person like me go do? This thing don tire me o as I dey talk am----smile------but true true smile no dey this thing-o as I dey serious. Which one una go help me do, na prayer abi na which one?
 
@ the topic here
Praise be to God if that really happened  and if the baby is adopted more praises to God(I hope Oga Chrisbegnor no go get mad at me and come refuse to help me find husband, abeg no vex sir).
If the baby is adopted, we should be an open people in Naija and accept certain things, it is still the way we condemn certain things that make it difficult for people to be honest when they are adopting.

Here I was in this thread  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=456881.msg6154028#msg6154028 looking for love and declaring that I i don't want to be a cougar and comes this tall and cute sweetheart that is 6 years younger than me wanting to be my man. I tried my best to talk sense into him telling him that I'm not suitable and that he should go for someone younger than me and he is refusing to bulge, he is sticking with me and had me tripping all over him. He is so cute, sophisticated and mature, you won't know I am older than him when you see us but I am still a bit worried that we have this huge age difference between us. What will you do if you are in my position? I like him too, Oh my God, I am really tripping, somebody catch me, smile.

Hormones Baby, hormones! I am not a doctor or a nurse but I am a voracious reader, my love of reading has exposed me to lots. I have only come across two women that have had ceasation of their period. One has hormonal imbalance that sometimes causes her period to cease for months and when it returns, runs for weeks too. In the medical field such women are placed on hormonal treatments.
The second person that I have seen was suffering from leukamia. Your wife need to visit a doctor to check and be able to cross out these if they are not the cause. She should first undergo two more pregnancy test to be able to rule out pregnancy entirely before checking out on the others okay. Seek the advice of qualified doctors too they may have other takes to it. Hey where are the doctors in the house? we need you here now. I will recommend that while these tests are ongoing that she be including more of spinach (akwukwo nri) and Ugu to her meals, they are great sources of folic acid, I try to include them in my meal and when I do that I notice a great boost in my blood and my overall vitality. Do give her much support and love, she sure needs them at this time.

@Femme, Ebonye, Tayo and Gbemyte
Thanks a million for your moral support, I am surprised I didn't get called names yet.
Sh-h-h-h-h-h-h Let's wait for the word-throwing nairalanders, I bet they are about alighting from their vehicles and will soon storm this place. I only hope you guys will be there for me when they begin the crucifixion. Smile

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