d

d

This is a word of encouragement to the virgins holding themselves especially the ladies. Do keep it up sweethearts, there's nothing like that clean feeling and not having to worry abt being pregnant. I held myself for 33 years,promised myself that I only want to know one man in my life and was bent on doing it wt the man I get married to, as years progressed though I started being afraid worrying how I am going to be able to deliver a child with the thing invisibly tight. 6 months ago, somebody came into my life talking marriage and babies and we ended up doing it but the relationship ended for some reason. Now don't go thinking that he deceived me into it because he didn't.
I was angry wt him for distracting me from my promise to myself to only do it wt my husband but at the same time I am happy that I am no more that too tight and that delivery won't be much of a hurdle anymore when I meet the person to marry. I am still holding myself, never liked sleeping with Okeke, Okafor and everybody.

All the same all I am doing here is encourage you sweethearts, keep it up okay.

d

You go girl!
What they mean by you not being desperate is for you to deny the fervent need of your heart and pretend.
For the first time in my life I chose to please myself and not others and searched for what my heart needs and I think I just found it( a good thing hidden amidst the pages of the threads in NL.

If loneliness drive you crazy they will not be there for you. Naijas only love it when people are unhappy and pretending to be happy. I wish you luck

Thanks for your good wishes Emiloba. It was a great honour that you responded to my post. God bless you my brother for your understanding and open mindedness. Take care okay.

Sings on and on with hands while leaving Girlfriend Adahbola's thread.

Bye Idowu Baby, Bye Mayflowa
Glances back at Mayflowa

Did you listen to the music I sent to you dear?    "Isn't Usher wonderful in that rendition?"
There goes my ba-b-y-yyyyyyyyy-------------Ooooh  Aaaah (with her two hands pointed leftward at the door while exiting) --------------Look at y-o-u-u-uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

d

Idowu sweetie, thanks for that prophesy of yours. Quadruplets!!!!-------Oooh Aaah Look at themmmmmmmmmmmmm

Somebody shout! Alleluiahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh -------there goes my Babies(my sweetie and the quadruplets inclusive)------Oooh Aaaah I gat themmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Mayflowa:

This Cindrella is not of the best attitude. I can never marry you with a hundred million takings!In my opinion, U r too forward, zealous and unwomanly(sorry i have to say this). Please poster do not hobnob with her. Of course, she will lead astray

@Mayflowa
My brother if you read my post well, I wasn't looking for a man to befriend, date, move around or sleep around with. I love children very much and needed to have a family of my own, now I can't have children lying on my bed shedding tears of loneliness all the days of my life---can I? I did the noble thing here my brother. I understand how you feel about it but if I have no child when I get real old----the much I can get from people here is pity if in the future I unhappily post a thread reading "Childless, please comfort me"(God forbid that).
Now my shoulders are held high enough to receive criticisms like yours, you even exercised the golden right only you men have saying that you will not marry an open person like me and I am happy for you for having such a right to go out there and marry when you need a family like I do. That right I do not have sweetheart and I only humbly came looking yet you are being mad at me. Don't be mad at me okay Baby.


All the same I am still singing my song, nothing can take my songs away from me---------there goes my baby-y-y-y-y-y,you don't know how good it feels to call you my Babe,there goes my baby-y-yyyyyyyy-------Ooooh Aaah Look at y-ou-u-u-u-u

Why don't you listen to it and let it make your evening


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2DqwOXDEFQ&feature=player_embedded

You will love it. Cindrella sings on and on ------ Oooh Aaahhhh---Look at you-u-u-u-uuuuuuu

Thanks Siena, I don't even know where the courage came from dear. Take care

Why don't you enjoy my music girlfriend

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNnn6W5esyE
Usher was sending me to another planet with that song of his

@pokerface and YSG
Thank you, thank you sweethearts,
Ysg how God no go give me my own after helping you get a sweet and classy sweetheart -----------I am still singing----------B-a-b-y come to me-e-e, Let me put my arms around you-u-u-u-u-u---------------------cause I can't go back to living without you-u-u-uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Who on earth is taking 190 serious, don't even know him but he makes me me laugh here in NL. He is such a baby and mischievous-----how can we do without his such here in NL, it will be too boring. No it's not him dear------there goes my baby---------there goes my baby------- You don't know how good it feels to call you my Babes---Oooh boy look at you-u-u-u-u-u-u-uuuuuuuuuuu

My people make una come-o-o-o-o. E be like say I don finally find him -o-o-o. Who said I should keep my mouth shut and die of loneliness? He was here all along in Nairaland looking too, if I did not look tell me how we would have found each other.Praise the Lord somebody!

I picked up courage and squared up my shoulder when I could not bear the loneliness and Baby blues (yes you heard me right!) and came looking for him here in Nairaland. I opened up threads inviting him to come to me(James Ingram) because I don't want to die waiting for him and----there goes my Baby(Usher))--------------------there he goes, there he goes-----

You can read the rest in the link below

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-472894.0.html

My people make una come-o-o-o-o. E be like say I don finally find him -o-o-o. Who said I should keep my mouth shut and die of loneliness? He was here all along in Nairaland looking too, if I did not look tell me how we would have found each other.Praise the Lord somebody!

I picked up courage and squared up my shoulder when I could not bear the loneliness and Baby blues (yes you heard me right!) and came looking for him here in Nairaland. I opened up threads inviting him to come to me(James Ingram) because I don't want to die waiting for him and----there goes my Baby(Usher))--------------------there he goes, there he goes-----

You can read the rest in the link below

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-472894.0.html

Sorry People but our Princecharming did turn into a toad and jumped into the forest, Whoops!

This 190 boy funny no be small.

Did I hear Mr. Luiz call his lady?

Now na waka be that--o-o-o---------------

@Saintp

Yes oo dear, is it not the union of two people(marriage) that made you yourself come into being? We humans don't really understand some mathematics that God worked to keep his creation intact. He knows that if we don't have these longings for partners and the baby blues that goes wt it that humans will not replenish his earth for him, so brother it is the handiwork of God. I have even come to realize lately that guys have baby blues too so let us ladies be ladies here. Come to think of it did you not read what adahbola said here? that if you have no sweet words of encouragement you should not comment. Now say something a little nice before you leave us ladies to chill and lime unless you want to lime with us------smile

@adahbola
Nice to meet you girlfriend, I gat your back. Will attend to some chores now and come online later for us to chat okay.

Girlfriend, I just talked to Mr. Hot dude for you send me your e-mail and I wl give him so that he can contact you okay. Gdnite, gotta sleep now

Adaybola, I talked to this other very hot Dude for you. I don't know whether he is hooked up, he will contact you if he hasn't. Come let me whisper something to you, He is heartbreakingly handsome and dashing, (don't tell anybody).
We only chatted once and went our separate ways. You two may start something tangible, who knows. I only hope he is not hooked yet so he can talk to you.

Here is his thread,

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-467126.0.html

Mr Ysg, talk to my friend Adaybola if you are yet to meet somebody okay. She is a great lady you can talk to her through this thread okay

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-460699.0.html

Emiloba please talk to my friend Adaybola, she is a great lady and is great looking too, you may like her okay. Contact her through her thread here and see how it goes okay.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-460699.64.html

Adaybola see whether you and Emiloba will hit it right, he seems to live in Lagos too. Check his thread out okay Baby,  I will talk to him now and ask him to contact you too.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-470005.0.html

I don't know whether Mr delagasky is making a move on you or something, I hope I am not spoiling his show by sending you another contact.

@delagasky
Abeg no vex for me my brother but if you dey make better move, stop playing sweetly shy and talk to Adaybola because if you no do so Emiloba go just come take the sweet lady. Dey there now!, smile

@all
Why curl up in bed and despair when each of us can meet wonderful people here in Nairaland and have companions and our heart's desire and be happy. Abeg let's start getting more realistic in this our Naija joo-----smileeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

@adaybola
Sweetheart, I understand what you are going through because I am going thru the same and I will advise that you get proactive, get in a searching mode and really search for the one God has for you. The tone of your thread sounds like we feel coiled up in bed, wishing and waiting----I don't want to be sad like that anymore, I'd rather look for him if I have waited years for the right person and he is yet to come to me.
I will advise you stop feeling down about it and change that your thread to another topic that can get him to you like I am doing in the threads below, a lot of people will make negative comment but let them do so what matters is that you get a companion or even a life partner. Loneliness is killing dear, you feel it the way I feel it and in my own opinion the greatest wrong a woman can do to herself is watch her fertile years pass her by. Yes I said it! I don't know about you, I love children so much that I can't bear not to have them, that is the primary objective why I am doing this in the first place, why wait and act good for a mal-structured society like ours and watch my fertile years pass me by. If I am considered as doing bad now being open about my heart's desire then let me be bad as long as I get the desires of my heart.
I called our society mal structured because we women are having it hard here, you are boxed into a position where you are expected to fold your hand and watch life pass you by. How can a society that does not allow a woman to go and pay dowry for a man, be the one to laugh and mock an unmarried mature lady (and if she gets so unfortunate to not marry at all way into her forties and have no child) still call her names, witch , wicked, bad, childless and will hold it against you for being unmarried and childless. You know how it's like, a younger female married colleague once snickered at me saying "How can I not be married at your age?". All these disrespect from the same society that expects me to keep waiting for him to come pay my dowry. It is even stranger that it is responsible, very domesticated and decent ones like us that find ourselves in this position. My sister I have decided to go look for him and I don't care who frowns at that. I know this way both of us will meet each other faster than shedding tears of loneliness on my bed.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-469154.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=456881.msg6148963#msg6148963

I like your personality though and will like to be your friend, I almost have no girlfriend as almost all are married off. We can only chat on the internet though because of distance,  my email is cindygotherwish@yahoo.com

@Papa Gee

Now I know that Eve was a man, Are you and Luiz trying to set me up to have the hottest chicks of Nairaland (Pweety and Mama-gee) deport me from the land of Naira?

All clapping for Pweety and Luiz while the two were ravishing each other and 190 was standing by the side fuming that they scared cindrella away.
190 immediately came to life on hearing Mama-Gee's voice at the door and started beaming all over the place and in a jiffy was all over Mama-Gee
calling her "baby" and hear him, "Mama -sweetie how much I've missed you,

Thank God 190 finally set eyes on Mama Gee sha,

Cindrella says to herself while soliloqizing
Nnaa meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen make I use style do as say I want go to the ladies begin to pick race get out of here meennnnnnnn. This Luiz boy want put me for trouble here. I no want broken head yet meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen. See as Pweety dey charge at me crazy right now.

Cindrella went to the ladies and sneaked out thru another door while 190 was looking for her all over the place


smillllllllllllllllllllllllllllllle

Thanks I will look at it now or tomorrow. Kind of very sleepy now, worked real hard at work today. Some other time okay

I am Nigerian, you must have heard me speak Igbo severally.

You know what's excellent tonight. GHANA! They did Africa proud.

Promise that when you do open that club, that it must be a decent one that is strictly for people to come and dance and be happy, a club that does not encourage any business dealing that does not augur well for the society. I am not alluding that you are a shady dealer, christians always say that if you support anything that you will bear the blunt of whatever comes out of it so you understand. I don't want to inspire you to start a business that on the last day God will be like "Where is Cindrella, come here. You are going to hell fire for making Luiz do this and may even tell you yourself. Come my son, you are going to heaven----smile